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Post by grammadee on Jan 21, 2023 19:37:58 GMT
We have talked about how to get us OUT of the doldrums...
But what puts you INTO them? What are the creativity dampening activities, circumstances, scrappy tasks that suck the mojo right out of you? Inquiring mids want to know... I will start.
I need to be happy to scrap. So if I am stressed or worried or sad or angry I should stay out of the scraproom. It does not make me happier or more relaxed; in fact it leaves me feeling even more down on myself and the world.
I love options and I love starting projects. So as a project comes to an end and the options start to shrink in number, my energy level starts to drain away. I find myself gluing down photos anywhere just to get this last page D.O.N.E. Even worse if I had promised myself or someone else that this would be finished by a certain time. Deadlines deaden the creative mood.
I don't mind a mess. In fact if everything I might need is literally within reach of my crafty fingers, I am a happy crafter. I put things away, and then forget where they are. My fingers remember right where they used to be on my desk. Cleaning my scraproom also opens the door to that judgy side of my brain. That side can't see the possibilities; it sees only what won't work. So the first few pages I put together afterward tend to be stilted. They look okay. But they are not fun to create.
Setting a time and a place to scrap does not always go well for me. My best ideas pop into my head when I am keeping my left brain busy doing other things--driving somewhere, washing the kitchen floor, grandparenting little ones... When I have tons of time and supplies on my hands, those bright ideas seem few and far between.
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Post by FurryP on Jan 21, 2023 20:01:10 GMT
High stress. It makes me sort of depressed and I lose the love for the stuff I love. Going to my craft room makes me sad instead of happy. Good thing it doesn't happen often.
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Post by Ryann on Jan 21, 2023 20:08:45 GMT
I like have reasons to craft, like for a swap, a sketch or (back in the day) publications - but I really hate deadlines!! I struggle terribly with any self-imposed deadlines, which a lot of my crafting ones are, so those can be a huge buzz kill.
I find I get momentum when I see measured results of my efforts. I have an Etsy store where I sell handmade embellishments. When I get lots of sales in a short time frame, it tends to motivate me to put more effort into creating more for the store. When my sales are slower, the motivation wanes and my attention is easily pulled elsewhere.
Messiness and visual clutter is another thing that kills my mojo. The way my desk is arranged, the entire right side of my desk needs to be relatively cleaned off so when I look out into the house I have an unobstructed view (my craft room is what should be the dining room in an open concept floor plan). If things are piled up around me I feel overwhelmed. I also prefer to have supplies "hidden" for the same reason.
Stress, anxiety, sadness - all the "negative" emotions will do it, too!
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Post by Linda on Jan 21, 2023 20:14:24 GMT
a messy desk and/or too many choices is overwhelming and stifles my creativity (I think we're the opposite that way grammadee). Also projects were there are just SO many photos...especially if they are especially exciting to scrap...I have gotten better at letting Dh know that I'm just picking a layout or two worth of his photos of ...a museum, a ship, a car show...to scrap and to let me know if there is a favourite he really wants me to include. He easily takes hundreds of photos at even a small museum. Christmas - particularly present opening - always has a ton of photos also esp. now when everyone has a cell phone out. too much going on - whether being out and about or just a ton on my mind or my to-do list isn't helpful either
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Post by lindas on Jan 21, 2023 20:44:36 GMT
A timely question since I finally figured out why I had no motivation to make all the birthday cards I need. It was a clean room! Every time I walked in there I remembered all the time I had spent cleaning, organizing and purging and the thought of having supplies and paper scattered everywhere made me turn around and walk out.
I picked up DGS from school yesterday and he wanted to make valentine cards for his little friends so I dug out a large heart die and did 17 heart shaped cards for him. Now my room is a mess of pink and red scraps, stamps, markers and stickers all over the place and Iām itching to get in there as soon as he goes home to get my cards started.
I canāt stand a messy house but itās obvious I need a messy craft room to motivate me. Good thing I can just close the door and walk away when Iām done for the day.
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Post by 950nancy on Jan 21, 2023 21:09:24 GMT
Right now I am in my organizing phase. I go through it every few months. Things that go in things brings me a lot of happiness. I've met a few other people like me and they crack me up, so I imagine others see me that same way too. When I get like this, all scrapping usually goes out the window. That would be fine, but I have set myself a big goal that needs me to stay focused.
I have enough time to do both though. Maybe that is what I need to do.
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Post by jediannie on Jan 21, 2023 21:28:33 GMT
a messy desk and/or too many choices is overwhelming and stifles my creativity Also projects were there are just SO many photos...especially if they are especially exciting to scrap Linda - we are the same person! Right now my desk is messy and I have way too much stuff to choose from plus the amount of photos I want to scrap makes it so difficult for me to start. I know what I need to do to get started (clean my desk, make a kit to use so I don't overwhelm myself with options and print only 1 week's worth of photos) but I cannot seem to start!
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Post by Chinagirl828 on Jan 22, 2023 0:00:43 GMT
Being unwell definitely kills my mojo. Not knowing what to work on next can make it difficult for me to get going. Too many choices also impede my creativity, I do better with smaller groups of supplies to choose from, knowing I can always go into the rest of my stash if I can't find what I'm looking for.
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Post by kmage on Jan 22, 2023 0:50:18 GMT
Feeling overloaded with life makes is so hard for me to scrap. Like others have said, scrapping or card making doesn't "relax me" or get me into a better mood, I have to already be kind of relaxed and happy to scrap. So spending literal months (since October) dealing with family things, trying to work on cleaning out my MIL's home, inlaws, kids' needs, spouse needs, high stress at work, etc...I don't recharge from scrapbooking. I need to be full of charge to get there. I am just now finding some time to scrap.
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Post by cacs on Jan 22, 2023 1:30:27 GMT
The #1 thing that kills my mojo is being overwhelmed with life and just not having that right frame of mind to scrap. I've been in this state for the past 6 years and it stinks. I tried at first to continue my project life album I started but then it felt like the only thing I was scrapping were sad since that was what was happening at the time. So I stopped. Tried to pick it up again when things started to get better, but then Covid happened and I was right back there feeling blah. Tried to pick it back up again at the beginning of 2022, but then life struck again and this time was a whammy and I just didn't even want to look at my photos let alone scrap them. It feels like such a catch 22 cause I know scrapping was my favorite hobby and my scrap room was my happy place. Hopefully I will get back to scrapping one day.
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Post by PaperAngel on Jan 22, 2023 3:36:18 GMT
We have talked about how to get us OUT of the doldrums...
But what puts you INTO them? What are the creativity dampening activities, circumstances, scrappy tasks that suck the mojo right out of you? ... It's often self-inflicted, since scrapping is my hobby (ie I don't participate in design teams/crops/retreats/conventions, create gift albums, or have any actual deadlines). However, I have perfectionist tendencies that make me a painstakingly S-L-O-W scrapper who will rework/quit & restart as much as necessary to be completely satisfied with each step in the process. Frustratingly, it takes a ridiculous amount of time to complete a layout (& I'm woefully "behind"). UGH...
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Post by papersilly on Jan 22, 2023 4:40:18 GMT
Messy house. I can't craft if the house isn't straightened up or dishes unwashed. Good incentive to keep a tidy house.
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Post by mikklynn on Jan 22, 2023 12:59:59 GMT
Messy house. I can't craft if the house isn't straightened up or dishes unwashed. Good incentive to keep a tidy house. I'm the same. I have to have other things in order first. I'm going to attempt to break that rule this morning, since I am home alone until at least noon.
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Post by artbabe on Jan 22, 2023 14:59:10 GMT
I don't really have one. I can scrap at any time and I really enjoy it. Even in the middle of chaos I love to sit down and scrap. It is my happy activity.
The only time I can think of is when I am sick. I called off work Thursday and Friday because I was sick and I kept thinking I could get some scrapping done but I spent the whole day lying on the couch- sitting up to scrap just seemed like way too much work.
I think the major thing for me scrapping stress free is that I don't have any deadlines and I don't scrap in chronological order. I just scrap any old photo that makes me happy- some from last month, some from 20 years ago. Absolutely no stress.
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Post by breetheflea on Jan 22, 2023 15:46:29 GMT
Time limits, because if I only have until XXX before I have to be somewhere, I don't want to stop while I'm in the middle of something, and I do this with all my hobbies not just scrapbooking... Bigger sets of photos that need to be sorted into several pages which requires thinking and planning. I have our vacation from last summer, and Christmas to scrap and I keep avoiding both in favor of one photo, single layouts. Not being able to find the thing I know I own because I "organized" it somewhere. Like I can't find that roll of washi because I put it in a page kit, or that paper with red stars on it, because it got filed under red instead of in the 4th of July stuff, that kind of thing. It will drive me nuts until I stop everything to find it. I am my own buzzkill Life... I don't scrapbook when I'm super busy but if the house is a mess it doesn't bother me (although I'll usually start a load of laundry or run the dishwasher before I get started.)
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Post by pantsonfire on Jan 22, 2023 15:57:44 GMT
Stress. It's pretty much my only creative buzz kill.
So when a lot of medical stuff is going on with the kids, that is when I don't create much.
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Post by scrappyrabbit on Jan 22, 2023 16:49:44 GMT
When Iām not feeling well, Iām not likely to scrap. If Iām stressed or busy at work, I just want to veg on the couch and not scrap. Also when I feel forced to scrap something.
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Post by sarahsprettypapers on Jan 22, 2023 18:13:18 GMT
Stress, for sure, kills my scrappy buzz. I barely did anything the last half of 2022 because so much was going on in my life. Being an adult stinks sometimes. š
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Post by sarahsprettypapers on Jan 22, 2023 18:15:43 GMT
I find I get momentum when I see measured results of my efforts. I have an Etsy store where I sell handmade embellishments. When I get lots of sales in a short time frame, it tends to motivate me to put more effort into creating more for the store. When my sales are slower, the motivation wanes and my attention is easily pulled elsewhere. You gain momentum while processing orders... I gain momentum when I recieve happy mail... if we work together, we can be perpetually motivated! š
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Post by Ryann on Jan 22, 2023 19:49:21 GMT
I find I get momentum when I see measured results of my efforts. I have an Etsy store where I sell handmade embellishments. When I get lots of sales in a short time frame, it tends to motivate me to put more effort into creating more for the store. When my sales are slower, the motivation wanes and my attention is easily pulled elsewhere. You gain momentum while processing orders... I gain momentum when I recieve happy mail... if we work together, we can be perpetually motivated! š Lol. I love your thinking!!
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Post by myboysnme on Jan 22, 2023 22:49:22 GMT
I only scrap at crops, but they are really the worst place for me to work because of what bugs me. Noise. I hate noise. Loud talkers, constant talkers, phones, videos and music from tinny cell phone speakers, die cut machines, especially the old ones. On the list but a bit more tolerable is visitors, the people that cruise around looking at your stuff, comment, get into discussions, socialize.
Every one of those things cramps my mojo. Without them I am incredibly productive. I can't scrap at home. My house is chaotic and if I was at home I would be compelled to deal with it.
A small space to scrap is also on the list. I scrapped yesterday at a 4 foot table, but only a few of us attended so there was some spread room. I remember the olden days of paying for 2 feet of table space, 3 of us on a 6 ft table or 6 on a round table. Now if there is less than 6 feet for free I have to have space around me for chairs to hold my stuff. And I hardly bring anything, but I have to be able to access it.
I know I sound like a real drag, but I am great to scrap with. I keep to myself, am very productive, take phone calls away from the crop area, am friendly but do not visit around. The only thing I will do is ask the music to be turned down or to take a speaker phone call outside.
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Post by papersilly on Jan 23, 2023 1:52:08 GMT
Messy house. I can't craft if the house isn't straightened up or dishes unwashed. Good incentive to keep a tidy house. I'm the same. I have to have other things in order first. I'm going to attempt to break that rule this morning, since I am home alone until at least noon. I've tried breaking the rule but can't. š
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Post by mikklynn on Jan 23, 2023 12:24:14 GMT
I'm the same. I have to have other things in order first. I'm going to attempt to break that rule this morning, since I am home alone until at least noon. I've tried breaking the rule but can't. š It's hard! I did do 3 loads of laundry at the same time. Is that cheating?
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Post by christinec68 on Jan 23, 2023 13:27:55 GMT
My energy level. If there's something else taking up mental or emotional energy, I generally don't craft.
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Post by papersilly on Jan 23, 2023 15:00:26 GMT
I've tried breaking the rule but can't. š It's hard! I did do 3 loads of laundry at the same time. Is that cheating? Nope. I do it too.
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Post by grammadee on Jan 23, 2023 16:07:30 GMT
Stress, for sure, kills my scrappy buzz. I barely did anything the last half of 2022 because so much was going on in my life. Being an adult stinks sometimes. š (((((HUGS))))) to you and everyone else who is feeling stressed out, frazzled &/or exhausted right now. Here is hoping that life eases up on you this year. cacs and kmage, I hope you can see the light at the end of the tunnel soon.
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Post by infochick on Jan 23, 2023 18:43:21 GMT
Sadness or anger really kill my mojo. I can scrap when I am a bit stressed, but if I am overly stressed then it just doesn't happen. I feel like scrapbooking or other creative activities help to pull me out of moderately negative spaces and can help to calm me, but if I am really upset about something then it is the last thing I feel like doing.
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