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Post by Lexica on Feb 20, 2023 0:59:31 GMT
I have two sibling cats that are coming up on 16 years of age. The female is doing okay, but the male has had health issues for several months now. Last summer, before I left California, he was having a few seizures or syncope episodes. The vet said he would have to do numerous tests to determine which it was. And when I asked what the treatment would be, he said at his age, there wasn’t a great deal they would do. He could be put on medication which may or may not help. He seemed to be hinting that I put him down. I asked if he was in pain and he said no. He is eating very well and purring when held still. I bought some of the medication, but stopped giving it to him because it was causing diarrhea. He had enough problems without adding diarrhea to them. Other than walking stiff, he seems much better. I will not put him down unless the quality of life isn’t there. He just requires more work and attention now, and I’m fine with that.
Ever since we moved up to Oregon, he has stopped the seizures! I had warned the place they were being boarded to be aware that he was having them and to be very careful handling him. I got my hand too close to his mouth when he had a seizure as I was picking him up and got bit. I won’t go into what animal control wanted me to do with him. I refused. The lady at the boarding place said she hadn’t seen a single seizure while he was with them.
Because of his advanced age and weak back legs, he isn’t grooming any longer. His sister grooms his head, but his back looks greasy and clumpy. I want to give him a bath. I have been soaking his paws in warm water often because with his balance being off, he keeps stepping into damp litter and getting it wedged up into his paw. I have been scooping the boxes three or four times a dayadded another big box, and I check his paws several times a day. He doesn’t love me holding him with his paw in warm water, but he doesn’t fight me either. That’s why I think he will allow me to give him a bath.
I don’t know where to do it though. I have a deep sink in the laundry room and I installed a hand wand on the spigot which would make rinsing him easier. But there are glass doors on the bathtub to keep him contained, and there is also a hand-held wand in there too. For me, I think it would be easier to bathe him in the sink so I don’t have to bend over, which is hard for me to do due to spinal fusing. But the glass enclosure on the tub would allow me to let go of him if I need to and he can’t jump out. Not that he can jump much anymore, but he I think he could get out of the laundry room sink if I let go of him. I bathe the dog in the bathtub, but he loves loves loves his bath and doesn’t want to get out. I don’t think the cat is going to feel the same way.
Have you ever bathed an adult cat, and if so, do you have any tips for me? I just don’t want him to be all dirty anymore. His fur used to be beautiful and now it is dingy and feels gross. .
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Post by Zee on Feb 20, 2023 1:12:29 GMT
Yes, when my old man cat was too ill to really clean his backside properly I started bathing him in the kitchen sink as needed. He actually liked it after the first time or two because of the warm water and the fresh from the dryer warm towel (he was very thin and generally cold I guess, I'd dry him and put him in his heated cat bed). He even got used to the blow dryer on low/warm. But, he would pretty much let me do anything to him, especially after he got sick. He very much trusted me. I could easily medicate him, give him shots, mess with his teeth and backside, etc.
Bathing our tuxedo kitty was a terror; he was the sweetest cat normally but was terrified of water and became a whirling dervish of claws. It took two people, one to hold his scruff and front legs and the other to quickly wash and rinse and blot.
My daughter's asshole cat, king of the neighborhood and the only one allowed outside, had to be bathed every now and then due to things he got into or getting skunked. He generally did ok with one person if you scruffed him and worked quickly.
So it really depends on your cat. Maybe he doesn't need a full bath, just a quick soap and spray of the hindquarters and then a brushing. If he does need a full bath and it's easier on your back, I'd put some warm water in the sink and have a large cup in there to rinse him along with a towel ready to go. They don't like scrabbling on a slippery surface so it might help to have a dishtowel or other liner in the bottom of the sink, but it generally gets kicked into a ball anyway.
You might be best off taking kitty to your vet for grooming and you could do touchups as needed with a cup of water and a little foaming soap.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Feb 20, 2023 1:14:14 GMT
I would use a warm wet washcloth to wipe him down and a soft brush if he’s getting matted. We had this same issue with our last two cats as they approached the end of life. My concern would be causing unneeded stress with a bath.
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Post by katlady on Feb 20, 2023 1:27:28 GMT
We had a cat that lived to be 16. We only had to bathe her twice. Once was a butt wash. We did it in the bathroom sink, partly running the water over her butt and then using a towel to scrub the area. The second time, we had to do a full body wash. For that one, I got in the shower with her and used the removable shower head. I put a collar and leash on her to help keep her still. I worked fast! I think the sink is probably your best option. Use a collar and leash to help hold him still. If you want to do it in the shower, con you get a small chair/table that can get wet? Put the cat on top of that, then you won’t have to bend over so much.
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Post by busy on Feb 20, 2023 1:32:15 GMT
I have always routinely bathed my cats but I wouldn't start bathing a cat for the first time at 16. I think that's a lot of stress - the drying especially, but you'd have to dry him thoroughly with a blowdryer because I wouldn't want to risk a senior cat getting chilled. I'd get some waterless shampoo and use that. I used this shoplocal.mudbay.com/cat/accessories/grooming/earthbath-hypo-allergenic-grooming-foam-for-cats-4-oz/1214420.html with our 21 year old cat for her last couple years. I'd bathed her regularly all her life but she became difficult about it when she was about 18 and so I stopped and looked at alternatives. It wasn't perfect, but it helped and didn't stress her.
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Post by librarylady on Feb 20, 2023 3:49:06 GMT
I have never tried to bathe a cat.
I cannot even imagine how my arms would be shredded by the claws.
In your case, ask the vet and/or the technicians to help clean your cat.
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Post by callmenutz on Feb 20, 2023 4:12:28 GMT
I gave my long haired Tuxedo one bath and that was it. He was looking dingy and getting matted. Giving him a bath totally matted his hair and it took forever to cut them off. As it turns out, he was hypothyroid and once he started on meds his coat became shiny black and silky once again. He hated the bath!
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Post by seaexplore on Feb 20, 2023 4:27:29 GMT
We have 3. I don’t dare bathe any of them. I’d lose an arm.
Good luck. Maybe try a wet cloth first?
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Post by fruitysuet on Feb 20, 2023 10:36:26 GMT
I've not had to do it for many years, but back when I did, I would wrap a small towel around the front of the cat to restrain the front legs, hold very tightly against my body holding above the sink and then wash the bottom with a smaller cloth, then using another towel to dry the bottom end as much as possible before setting them down in front of the fire to finish the dry off. I tried not to soak them.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Feb 20, 2023 12:38:43 GMT
I've inherited my late mother's elderly cats.
No, I don't bathe them.
One is still pretty frisky and grooms herself well.
The other has slacked on grooming herself. I've given her a sanitary trim (to keep hair away from her anus and back legs where it meets the tail area), and when/if she's poopy butt, I use warm washclothes (old human clothes that are only used for kitty purposes now) to clean her.
I'm afraid the stress of a bath would give her a heart attack.
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Post by ellen on Feb 20, 2023 14:00:07 GMT
When my daughter was about 2 she squeezed a bottle of baby bath soap all over our cat. The cat‘s fur looked weird and upon closer inspection I immediately figured it out. I could not just brush it out. I filled up our kitchen sink with water and it was awful. The cat went crazy and it just kept bubbling. My daughter was in her high chair yelling, “Mommy stop it! Leo crying!” She is having a baby in a couple months and has a cat. I kind of hope something similar happens.
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Post by tenakee on Feb 20, 2023 17:18:54 GMT
We too have an old man cat that can’t groom properly any more. I use the nice thick disposable wipes from Costco for bathing him.
Maestro loves drinking from my bathroom sink, so he’s comfortable being on that counter. Once a week or so, I turn it into a grooming session. I have 5-6 of the wipes ready to go. I get them warm and a bit more moist (but not sopping wet) one at a time. First cloth is around his face, neck and ears. Next cloth is his shoulders and front legs (including the paws if I can get them that day.). Then another cloth for his mid-section, then one for the hips and back legs, then last the back end and tail.
I try not to just pull his fur backwards, but if you think about how a kitty grooms themselves, they do lick the fur in the “wrong” direction to get to the skin underneath. I try to do this some, very very gently, by using sort of circular motions and kind of massaging as we go.
Once he’s all clean, I brush him until he’s dry, following the same pattern of nose to tail.
ETA: Maestro is short-haired, but it’s very, very dense (he feels like a lovely soft velvet) so this method works well for him. Might need a different approach for a long-haired fur baby of course.
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Post by Lexica on Feb 20, 2023 18:18:09 GMT
Well, I bathed him in the laundry room sink and we are both fine. I filled the sink with about 4 inches of warm water, put a heavy rubber doormat with those little rubber fingers that stand up to catch the dirt off shoes on the bottom of the sink to give him something to grasp, and just gently stood him in there, talking to him all the while. I was able to do a terrific bath and rinse him fully. It was awkward to move the mat aside to pull the sink plug to let the dirty water start draining before I turned the faucet on and used the wand thing to go over him to give him a thorough rinsing. He is a gentle old man, and other than expressing his upset verbally, he didn’t hiss or try to scratch me once!
He did seem to like the warm water from the wand and I used it in a petting motion on him. He stopped crying when I started that. I had a large thick bath towel ready and wrapped him up in that and we just walked around a bit, me talking and him just content to be held. When the towel (and my shirt) had soaked the bulk of the water off, I sat him on this new sisal scratching mat that I had just velcrowed onto the countertop earlier in the day and used a couple of microfiber towels on him to get off any remaining water.
I had forgotten to plug my dryer in, so I had to let him go while I set that up and he didn’t jump off the counter at all. My hair dryer is mounted on a stand so that I can use both hands to work on my hair, or the dog, and now the cat. I wonder if he is now deaf too because when I turned it on, he came over to me because he saw me pick up the soft brush I always brush him with. He just sat on the sisal mat and let me brush him with the warm air blowing on him and purred up a storm. Typically when I pick that brush up, all three cats swarm all over me, gently pushing each other out of the way to get under the brush movements. This time, the other two cats just sat on top of the washer and dryer and watched the show. I think they were nervous that they might be next for the sink.
So it was a very successful bath experience for us both, and I think I will make it a regular thing when he starts looking grubby again. I did notice that the other male cat was grooming him later in the evening. The two males get along very well and the female, the sibling to the cat that I bathed, gets along very well with him too, but the female does not take to the second male and never has. The new male is younger and likes to play, and she likes to play with strings and hanging toys too, but she gets upset if he butts into her play time. I have to separate them to have play time with each of them. The male that I bathed, Mr. Tucker, no longer likes to chase string toys. He does like to bite the toy off the string, so I have had to switch out all the strings with a metal fishing leader so that he can’t bite them off.
He can have a new toy/string separated in less than a minute if he gets to it before I remove the string and put the fishing leader on. I have to be very careful with any string-like objects anywhere in the house because I’m afraid he will swallow them. I have had to tackle him and dig many strings out of his mouth and part of the way down his throat over his 16 years. And I have to tie up the string from any window blind or he will chew those off too. He ruined the wood blinds that I had just had installed in my bedroom window years ago before I realized he would go after it. I opened the blind and left the room for a few minutes, and when I returned, there he was, sitting on the skinny little window ledge munching away on the remains of the string pulls. I am pretty sure he did swallow some of that while I was out of the room because it looked a lot shorter when I got it away from him.
So, successful bath, and I am going to start using some of the suggestions to give him a daily wipe down with a damp cloth and will check out the suggested products. Maybe if I keep up with daily wipe downs, his fur won’t need a sink bath again. Oh, and after he was nice and dry, I was washing the fur out of the brush when the other male came up to me for his brushing. The brush was still damp, but he didn’t seem to mind at all. Same with the little female. And the damp brush seemed to remove more loose fur than when it is dry, so I am going to start using it damp on them now. I can’t stand finding hacked up furballs, and have to get to them before the dog does or he will eat them. So gross. Regular brushing helps to cut down on those so maybe damp brushing and damp fine-toothed combing will eliminate them all together.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Feb 20, 2023 20:09:06 GMT
So glad it was a successful bath. He sounds like a sweet, gentle kitty.
Here's a thought,,, you could groom him yourself,,, ![](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/thumbnailer/Bm0jBuysvlLfBOinBGbk.png)
Just kidding! I can't believe they make a product like that. That is some true love and dedication to a cat!
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Post by Lexica on Feb 20, 2023 22:17:56 GMT
So glad it was a successful bath. He sounds like a sweet, gentle kitty.
Just kidding! I can't believe they make a product like that. That is some true love and dedication to a cat! I truly love my kitties. But not that much!
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Post by maryannscraps on Feb 20, 2023 22:52:24 GMT
I’m glad it worked out! My male cat has had to be groomed due to being skunked a couple times. But not before he ran around inside the house and wiped his face on everything in sight. My house stunk for months.
Once we had to bathe our female cat when she got into pine pitch. I had to get it off with oil, then bathe the oil off her. When we finished, her sibling the male cat attacked her and hissed at her for a day until she started smelling like herself again.
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Post by Basket1lady on Feb 20, 2023 23:25:06 GMT
I think that you were smart to use the mat in the bottom of the sink. Our lab never liked baths until I used a rubber bath mat in the tub for her to stand on. This is a dog who loves to be out in the rain, will walk through every puddle, and loves to swim. I think the stability (or lack there of) was a big cause of her dislike of the tub. I also use a mat like this when bathing Emma. I add peanut butter and freeze it and she will lick it while we bathe her. If your kitty is treat motivated, it may make a bath actually enjoyable.
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