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Post by scrapmaven on May 30, 2023 15:53:23 GMT
What or who influenced you to read? I'm a bookworm and have been since childhood. My grandfather was a voracious reader. My parents instilled a love of books, as well. As a child I could hide from my troubles by jumping into the world of whichever book I was reading. My grandfather had vast bookshelves and as a teen I would raid those shelves. Unfortunately, that meant seeing him, but that's a story for my own book. When I got my first high school job at a book store I was in my glory.
Books were abundant in my house, too. I wanted my children to appreciate the importance of reading. Now I read on my tablet, because books take up a lot of room.
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Post by lindas on May 30, 2023 16:02:27 GMT
My grandmother was a voracious reader too. She read everything, encyclopedias, cookbooks cover to cover, anything she could get her hands on. There weren’t a lot of kids my age in the neighborhood when I was growing up so the library became my favorite place. It was a short bike ride away and I was there at least twice a week. Like you most of my reading now is done on my IPad since there isn’t a spare shelf left for anymore books.
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Post by katiescarlett on May 30, 2023 16:09:35 GMT
My love of reading started in the 3rd grade when my teacher said I talked too much and put a copy of Charlotte's Web on my desk and told me to read! My mom was a reader as well. Now I'm an audio book lover and listen during my 2.5 hour daily work commute.
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Post by ntsf on May 30, 2023 16:15:15 GMT
my parents were both big readers. though we had a tv, it was never on in the evening.. and we all read. I read before kindergarten, cause my brothers brought home their dick and jane books. I always read well and fast... I was reading the wizard of oz in first grade and the hobbit in 2nd. we were always going to the library, and i read 10-20 books a week through elementary school. so it was always a passion and 60 yrs later, I still like big fat books.. esp 19th century classics and history/biography. I do like fluff reading too.
I am of the generation of reading our home encyclopedia.. and anything else around the house. I also married someone who reads all the time. we like different stuff.. my husband hung out constantly at the library as a kid. it was 1 block away.
I feel very lucky that I raised three readers. my son kids about how he has his books.. his wife has her shoes..
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Post by katlady on May 30, 2023 16:16:53 GMT
We always had books in the house when I was growing up. My parents would always let me buy books. One of our Saturday night outings after dinner would be to a local book/magazine stand. I would usually get a book or comic. Every other week we would go the local library after dinner. I loved those days. And my parents didn’t censor what I would read. By junior high I was reading the bodice ripper romance novels or books on the top 10 list. Yikes! Lol!! Before smart phones and social media I would read 1-2 books a week as an adult. Unfortunately, my time has now been sucked up by the internet. I need to start reading more again.
ETA - I loved Scholastic book time, when we would get those flyers and could order books! And I prefer to read a physical book over an e-book.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on May 30, 2023 16:18:08 GMT
I've always been a big reader and was that kid who would rather sit on the steps and read at recess than play. My parents encouraged reading, but my great aunt was a big influence. She taught 1st and 2nd grade for nearly 40 years and was a huge proponent of reading to your babies and providing opportunities for them to read. Whenever I would take DD to visit her she would always make sure we were reading to her!
While I read lots of fiction growing up, it is rare for me to read fiction now. Even in grade school I was reading the daily newspaper! In the past our house was overflowing with books, but in the past 10 years we have donated hundreds of books. DH and I both prefer to read on the iPad because it is easier with old eyes. The bonus is it takes a lot less space. He also enjoys audiobooks, although I do not.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 30, 2023 16:20:18 GMT
Mrs. Galloway, my kindergarten teacher. I don't ever remember my parents reading anything other than the newspaper (dad) and celeb trash mags (mom). I don't remember my house growing up having anything other than a couple of Golden Books and I don't remember anyone ever reading them to us. My kindergarten teacher taught me how to read and I loved her story time. First, she was like the perfect grandma sort of lady with silver hair and slightly plump. Putting my head down on my table while she read stories out loud was my favorite part of the day. It was safe. It was just pleasant to relax and listen to a story. And she gave me the gift of teaching me to read too.
I got lucky when we moved from Chicago to small town Michigan. I had a library in my small town and I was able to ride my bike to it. I was 7 years old and I finally had access to books. My dad was a tornado, controlling, unpredictable, violent. When dad was around, you had to walk on eggshells, there was nothing calm about the environment in which I was raised. And reading seemed like a very calm way to relax. I think my dad thought so too because he didn't really support that. I think he thought that pausing to read was lazy. And if he was going to work 60 hours of hard labor a week, then everyone else around him was going to too. As long as my chores were done (I had way too many chores), I was forced to go outside and play all day. So I would ride my bike to the library, check out a book, and go sit down by the big pond and read all day. Sometimes, I'd just return the book to the library on my way home unless I thought I could sneak it into my house without him knowing. This was possible at times because he worked rotating shifts each week. When he was on afternoon shift during the school year, we didn't see him at all during the week and my mom would let me read to my heart's content. She was much more permissive when he wasn't around.
So maybe I just enjoyed reading because it seemed like it was something unknown/taboo. Like I was having to be so clandestine to even be able to partake in that kind of behavior. I really enjoy learning, though. So in my adult years, I mostly read to learn. If I really want to get lost in a story, I read a memoir. I prefer real life stories over fiction.
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Post by Rainy_Day_Woman on May 30, 2023 16:26:35 GMT
I'm a reader, in my heart, but not in practice these days. My mom is a reader, so I came by it honestly. I was so introverted and lonely as a child- books filled a lot of that. I'm a voracious reader too, and I need to just sit and devour books- unfortunately neither my attention span or schedule allow for it in the last few years. I'm not good at pecking away at them. I do still read poetry- it is more bite sized! I spent some time reflecting this morning on all the poets over my life, how they have shaped and held me over the years. How lucky that the right books always seemed to find me when I needed them, and it did just feel lucky. I'm in a Mary Oliver phase of life right now
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Post by sueg on May 30, 2023 16:30:22 GMT
I don’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t read - my mum told me I was really into books from infancy, and reading before I started school. That tells me there were always kids books in our house. I also remember loving to visit the library when I was young - we’d walk down every Saturday morning and I’d get the max number of books I could on my card.
Both of my boys were also reading before they started school and the older one is still an avid reader, though his taste tends to non-fiction. My older granddaughter loves books and is always asking someone to read her a story. Little one just loves looking at pictures so far, but I am sure she will continue the tradition.
I still read every day, even if it is just a few pages before bed and have many books waiting on bookshelves and my kindle for me to get to. I saw something on Instagram earlier today that said ‘ You will die with books unread. It’s not morbid, just a fact. So buy what you want, get to what you like when you can. This isn’t a school project, a book report isn’t due. You’ve supported an author and collected art you love. A library of unread books is a beautiful thing’ This is now my reading philosophy!
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Post by scrapmaven on May 30, 2023 16:30:38 GMT
((((HUGS)))) jeremysgirl. That is such a sad, but truthful post and was written by someone who could easily write a book. It's a blessing that you had such a nurturing kindergarten teacher to teach you the joys of reading. Mine used to beat me over the head and scream in my ear. Reading shouldn't be a guilty pleasure. Instead it should be something that is fostered and encouraged.
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Post by chaosisapony on May 30, 2023 16:31:50 GMT
Mostly my dad. My mom worked night shift so my dad was it for bedtime. Every night me, my sister, and my dad all piled in his bed and read for an hour or so before going to sleep. At least once every couple of weeks the three of us would go to the library to exchange books. On nights when my mom was home she would read to us before bed. If you looked into my parent's room it was normal to see the both of them laying side by side reading their books.
Slowly as my sister got older she gave up reading and it became just my dad and I every night reading together. Several years later my mom married a man with a huge book collection and he introduced me to sci fi and fantasy books and gave me free reign over his library. Weekend trips were to the used bookstore.
It all culminated in me at 39 reading about 1-2 books per week still of all different genres. It's rare I don't finish a book, even if I'm not particularly enjoying it.
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Post by Jamie on May 30, 2023 16:40:30 GMT
My mom has been a big reader all my life and in elementary I was required to sit and read for at least 30 min a day. Through middle and high school I don't know that I picked up a book for fun. Now, it's a big part of my life. My way of escaping real life honestly. Earlier this year I was reading physical books only, even though I've had a kindle for 12+ years. When I came across booksatrillion.com and for a one time fee of $50 you can send all the books you want to your kindle, I switched to that. I had just spent close to $200 on physical books the week before. Within the first few days I had downloaded over 120 books through Books-a-trillion. I still have a good stack of physical books, and outside of what books I have coming through the library, I think most of my reading will be done on my kindle now.
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Post by scrapmaven on May 30, 2023 16:43:01 GMT
Off to surf booksatrillion. Thank you Jamie.
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Post by flanz on May 30, 2023 16:53:13 GMT
Hello scrapmaven ! I loved reading at an early age as well. I grew up in a home with immigrant parents who didn't speak English well, but our dad took me and my sister to the local library every Friday after school. I came home with mountains of picture books and couldn't wait to get my hands on more. Definitely used as an escape from some very challenging situations as well. ((( hugs ))) I read almost exclusively on my Kindle now. I love just how very many books I can take along with me on a trip... as well as how I can "magically" get new ones with barely any effort. I'm traveling home from Canada today and will be reading for much of the day. And then, when my eyes are tired, I'll probably make the font huge and keep reading! xo ETA: I actually read WHILE walking to elementary school and back most days, always nose in a book!
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Post by Anita on May 30, 2023 16:56:05 GMT
I grew up way out in the country, poor as dirt. I was allergic to almost everything outside, and we only got two channels on our little black and white TV, so reading was pretty much it in the way of entertainment.
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Post by Linda on May 30, 2023 17:01:01 GMT
Books have always been a part of my life. My dad was mostly self-educated (forced to drop out at 14) from books, my mum was a school teacher. I'm not sure my paternal grandparents were readers but my maternal ones certainly were and I grew up hearing the story about how my great grandmother taught my great grandfather to read and how proud he was of being able to. (they were both Irish immigrants and I suspect he might have been the first in his family to read)
we didn't have a TV when I was child until I was 10 and living with my grandparents so books were the family entertainment and we all read. Weekly library visits were the norm. And once we moved to the States and I could walk to the library? I was there almost every day.
Our house is full of books and I read aloud to my kids into middle school...they are all readers now and DS's house has a dedicated library room.
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Post by breetheflea on May 30, 2023 17:01:34 GMT
I get it from my mom's side of the family. My grandma was a reader, my aunt was a librarian and my mom worked in a bookstore. My best memories were used bookstore hopping (going to all the stores one after the other), spending hours at the library, and the Scholastic Book Fair at school.
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Post by lisae on May 30, 2023 17:05:25 GMT
My mother read to me when I was young. She bought all the Little Golden Books she could find in our town. She claimed I learned to read them early but I probably just had them memorized. As an only child, reading was one of many solitary activities. My paternal grandmother loved to read also. When I started reading Nancy Drew books, I shared them with her.
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Post by milocat on May 30, 2023 17:09:48 GMT
My mom read to me a lot in the evenings. My dad was a away working and my younger sister wasn't born yet. My mom usually had a romance novel on the go, and a stack waiting on the bottom of her nightstand. She would pass them around with her mom, sister and a few friends. My dad didn't read books but has always read the big farming newspapers.
I loved library time at school. I'dcheck out some chapter books then spend the rest of the time reading some quick books like the Little Miss series.
I remember checking books out of the library in the summer as a teen and having a Danielle Steel and some Garfield comics, lol. I always remember reading, only time I didn't read was when my girls were babies & toddlers, no attention span for this sleep deprived mama.
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Post by disneypal on May 30, 2023 17:47:58 GMT
When I was in elementary school, library day and going to the bookmobile (any one remember those) were my favorite days. I just loved everything about books, the illustrations, the smell, the feel of the books - everything. When I got to high school, of course we were forced to read books and some I didn't like and I think that kind of made me stop enjoying reading a bit. Plus the busy life of a teen, I didn't enjoy spending my leisure time reading. I just kind of lost my love for recreational reading.
One day, I was in a class a college and a fellow student handed me a paper back and said "Have you read this? It's a new author" He then gave the book to me and said "You have to read it" I hadn't read a novel since required high school reading and said "ok" and a little reluctantly took the book. It was "The Firm" by John Grisham. Since I knew the guy would ask me about it, I thought...I better read this book to at least tell him I read it. Well...I couldn't put it down and have read every single John Grisham book since. The fellow student that gave me that book had no idea that he renewed my love of reading.
I still don't have time to read as much as I would like (I average 1-2 books a month) but I do enjoy it when I have the time.
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Post by scrapmaven on May 30, 2023 17:52:24 GMT
My mom read to me a lot in the evenings. My dad was a away working and my younger sister wasn't born yet. My mom usually had a romance novel on the go, and a stack waiting on the bottom of her nightstand. She would pass them around with her mom, sister and a few friends. My dad didn't read books but has always read the big farming newspapers. I loved library time at school. I'dcheck out some chapter books then spend the rest of the time reading some quick books like the Little Miss series. I remember checking books out of the library in the summer as a teen and having a Danielle Steel and some Garfield comics, lol. I always remember reading, only time I didn't read was when my girls were babies & toddlers, no attention span for this sleep deprived mama. When my kids were also that age I would crave the times that their auntie took them on a field trip to grandma's house (my mil), because I'd get to sit for hours w/a good book. Otherwise, books consisted of Goodnight Moon and Pat the Bunny.
disneypal, I went to the bookmobile every single week. It was better than the ice cream truck. I also enjoy John Grisham novels.
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Post by Zee on May 30, 2023 18:19:09 GMT
We've always been a family of readers. I would get "in trouble" for reading in bed with a flashlight way after bedtime. I loved trips to the bookstore, and we lived a couple blocks from the library so we went there all the time. I still like to read but I mostly only read as I'm going to sleep, on my Kindle so I don't have to leave a light on. Plus I can enlarge the type! Old people problems, lol.
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Post by Lexica on May 30, 2023 18:20:40 GMT
I was a shy kid and I found that books opened up whole new worlds for me without risking any of the things I feared with live people. No one else in my family read much. As a child, my mother never read us a single book. I watched movies where the kids cuddled up on the mother’s lap and she would read to them. I wanted that so very badly! But it wasn’t to be.
I vowed to be very different with my own children. I did read to my son, but he didn’t end up loving books like I do. He loved the stories I read to him, and would barter for extra reading time, but just didn’t end up with a love of reading like I have.
My reading now is done on my Kindle. I prefer it for multiple reasons, not having to kill trees to print on being one of those reasons. There are still a few things that I will only buy in paper book format because it makes using the book much easier. That would be cookbooks, anything with detailed instructions, plant books, and some skill-related books where I need to look at a picture multiple times.
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Post by librarylady on May 30, 2023 18:30:06 GMT
My family was a family that read. I watched the older siblings read and I wanted to do that also.
I read now to learn things or to enjoy a good story.
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Post by hutchfan on May 30, 2023 18:35:13 GMT
I grew up in a family of book readers. Mostly from my mom though who always encouraged our love of books. I too loved getting those Scholastic paper orders forms in school and getting to order books, loved book fair time in school. My 7th and 8th grade English teacher Mrs. Farley who always was encouraging and my 9th and 10th grade English teacher Miss Allen who never let the other students make fun of my romance book that I loved reading.
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Post by cadoodlebug on May 30, 2023 18:44:08 GMT
I've always loved to read. When we were living in Navy housing near Pearl Harbor when I was in 7th grade, we had a library a few blocks away. I would check out a stack of Nancy Drew mysteries, Sue Barton and Cherry Ames nurse books. I read them so fast that the librarian didn't believe me when I went back for stacks more a few days later. Although my mom liked that I wanted to read so much, she also encouraged me to go outside and play.
As an adult, I have to have a book to read every night while I wind down. I still get my books from the library ~ both real books and Kindle.
ETA: DH is a big reader too. DS was when he was younger but, now in his 30's, doesn't seem to have the time. When we would take family trips in the summer, we would always have one suitcase full of books!
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Post by Basket1lady on May 30, 2023 18:47:38 GMT
My aunt gave me several Little House books for Christmas when I was in kindergarten. I knew how to read, but not well. I improved my reading sounding out words in The Little House In The Big Woods and never looked back.
I liked the escapism and the imagination that reading gives you. I grew up in a small Minnesotan town and could travel anywhere with a book. I was an English Lit major mostly because of my love for books. For one of our moves, I counted over 100 boxes of books. I knew we had a problem then! I got rid of a lot of the kids’ books after that, but we still move a lot.
My grandmother read a lot and so did mom. It’s just part of who I am!
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Post by auntkelly on May 30, 2023 19:06:33 GMT
I came from a family of readers who taught me a love of reading, and I also had a lot of wonderful teachers who encouraged my love of reading.
I've always been interested in people's life experiences-famous people, ordinary people, rich people, poor people, etc. Therefore I've always loved to read autobiographies, biographies and memoirs. I think books really help you view the world from other people's perspectives.
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Post by workingclassdog on May 30, 2023 19:25:48 GMT
Probably a couple of things. We were not really allowed to play with friends after school and couldn't watch TV.. so my escape was books. Took me to different places. My escape from a strict father. My mom also likes to read and we share books all the time. After that when I moved to California with no money, again, books were my escape. I took one of my mom's books (still have it) to start out with and loved it so much I started buying paperbacks from the same author. I have always been a fluff reader so nothing heavy.. I like my escape time. I have branched out a bit but still love my fluff reading.
Edited to add: Most of my books during elementary school came from the Bookmobile. It came about once every other week to my small school. I would leave with as many as I could get. Those were the best days to find Nancy Drew and so forth.. loved them!
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Post by gottapeanow on May 30, 2023 19:39:45 GMT
My love of reading started in the 3rd grade when my teacher said I talked too much and put a copy of Charlotte's Web on my desk and told me to read! My mom was a reader as well. Now I'm an audio book lover and listen during my 2.5 hour daily work commute. I fell in love with reading in the third grade too. My teacher was reading Charlotte's Web to the class every day after lunch. I couldn't wait to find out what happened, so I went to the school library and checked out a copy and read it all. (I still loved listening to her read.) At first, she was bugged, but then she figured out that I was now a reader for life. LOL. Currently, I edit and (sometimes) write for work. I adore my job. I call reading a necessary job hazard and love words. Most of what I edit is nonfiction in a specific genre. So I read lots of fiction for variety and to keep my finger on the pulse of the industry. I'm more than halfway done with my reading goal for the year. If I stay on this pace, I will read between 90 and 100 books this year. (I work from home and don't do audio, but that's just me. I don't even really like e-books or Kindle and just love holding a physical book (paperback or hardback) in my hand.) Lisa
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