MerryMom
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Post by MerryMom on Jun 13, 2023 0:16:08 GMT
If she hates drama, she just leaves. Announcing it creates drama. ^^^^^^^^^This^^^^^^^^^^ |
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cycworker
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Post by cycworker on Jun 18, 2023 2:05:39 GMT
Her siblings are in the group? And they either were horrible to her or didn't stick up for her when someone in the group was terrible to her? Not ok. I would be calling out my siblings privately and I'd leave the group.
The problem is she may well have to see some of these folks at in person family events.
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 18, 2023 2:53:50 GMT
I got a text today from one of the moms in a gymnastics group I’m in. My dd (11) was planning to move to the gym with her friends (the moms are the group) when the gym they were all competing at closed out their program. Anyway, my dd didn’t go to the gym with the friends (a few others didn’t go either) and today one of the moms messaged me asking me privately to leave the group since my dd isn’t going to that gym. Um… ok. I just replied that I would do that and left the group. Didn’t say goodbye or anything, just removed myself. I’m regretting not saying bye to the rest of the moms. I was so taken aback by the request. They talked about stuff other than gym in the group too. It doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things but it is just not sitting right with me. What harm was it to leave me in? Whatever.
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Post by 950nancy on Jun 18, 2023 3:22:34 GMT
I got a text today from one of the moms in a gymnastics group I’m in. My dd (11) was planning to move to the gym with her friends (the moms are the group) when the gym they were all competing at closed out their program. Anyway, my dd didn’t go to the gym with the friends (a few others didn’t go either) and today one of the moms messaged me asking me privately to leave the group since my dd isn’t going to that gym. Um… ok. I just replied that I would do that and left the group. Didn’t say goodbye or anything, just removed myself. I’m regretting not saying bye to the rest of the moms. I was so taken aback by the request. They talked about stuff other than gym in the group too. It doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things but it is just not sitting right with me. What harm was it to leave me in? Whatever. Yikes! She's got some balls. Hope you have the opportunity to explain why you left to the other moms in the future. |
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seaexplore
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Apr 25, 2015 23:57:30 GMT
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 18, 2023 3:33:02 GMT
I got a text today from one of the moms in a gymnastics group I’m in. My dd (11) was planning to move to the gym with her friends (the moms are the group) when the gym they were all competing at closed out their program. Anyway, my dd didn’t go to the gym with the friends (a few others didn’t go either) and today one of the moms messaged me asking me privately to leave the group since my dd isn’t going to that gym. Um… ok. I just replied that I would do that and left the group. Didn’t say goodbye or anything, just removed myself. I’m regretting not saying bye to the rest of the moms. I was so taken aback by the request. They talked about stuff other than gym in the group too. It doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things but it is just not sitting right with me. What harm was it to leave me in? Whatever. Yikes! She's got some balls. Hope you have the opportunity to explain why you left to the other moms in the future. Tell me about it! Today I was at our old gym and I told 2 of the other moms who weren’t in the group to start with (their girls went to a different gym straight off) that I was asked to leave. They just shrugged it off. |
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