artbabe
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Post by artbabe on Jul 4, 2023 13:30:47 GMT
My cat is in kidney failure and is nearing the end. Last night he just lay down on the floor, not moving, and I petted him for a long time, telling him it was okay to go. I selfishly picked him up to hug him and he ended up walking away and getting a drink of water.
Last night he slept with me like old times. He hasn't been doing that lately. I woke up this morning and I couldn't find him. I searched the house over 3 times and was sure I was going to eventually find a body. I turned around and he was sitting on the floor staring at me. I have no idea where he was hiding while I was looking.
So maybe today is the day he dies. I really want him to die at home because the vet stresses him out so much. If he looks uncomfortable I'll take him in, but I'm hoping he will go peacefully here.
I've been through this with other cats and with my mom. Waiting for inevitable death sucks.
I'll miss him so much.
Update: He died yesterday morning while I was taking Dad to a doctor's appointment. I miss him already.
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Post by lainey on Jul 4, 2023 13:41:32 GMT
I'm so sorry, losing a beloved pet is so hard. Hugs to you  |
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Post by epeanymous on Jul 4, 2023 13:48:41 GMT
I am really sorry. I hope for a peaceful passing.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jul 4, 2023 13:58:08 GMT
I am so, so sorry.
Any chance your vet will make a house call if your cat becomes uncomfortable?
Big ((((hugs))))
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jul 4, 2023 14:30:27 GMT
Such a horrible time. I'm so sorry. I hope he crosses the rainbow bridge peacefully. Hugs to you and to him.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Jul 4, 2023 14:40:18 GMT
I am so sorry. I hope he passes away at home, peacefully.
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Post by Linda on Jul 4, 2023 14:44:20 GMT
((((Hugs)))) I'm so sorry.
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peasquared
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Post by peasquared on Jul 4, 2023 15:28:20 GMT
😢. I’m so sorry!!!!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jul 4, 2023 15:28:57 GMT
There are no easy words.
((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))
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Post by Merge on Jul 4, 2023 15:30:17 GMT
I’m so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is the worst.
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Post by librarylady on Jul 4, 2023 15:33:24 GMT
I’m so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is the worst. This ^^
I hope your cat passes with as little discomfort for the cat (and you) as possible.
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Post by Jen in NCal on Jul 4, 2023 15:39:25 GMT
My cat is in kidney failure and is nearing the end. Last night he just lay down on the floor, not moving, and I petted him for a long time, telling him it was okay to go. I selfishly picked him up to hug him and he ended up walking away and getting a drink of water. Last night he slept with me like old times. He hasn't been doing that lately. I woke up this morning and I couldn't find him. I searched the house over 3 times and was sure I was going to eventually find a body. I turned around and he was sitting on the floor staring at me. I have no idea where he was hiding while I was looking. So maybe today is the day he dies. I really want him to die at home because the vet stresses him out so much. If he looks uncomfortable I'll take him in, but I'm hoping he will go peacefully here. I've been through this with other cats and with my mom. Waiting for inevitable death sucks. I'll miss him so much. I am so, so sorry. I've had two cats with kidney failure and it's hard. Maybe call your vet and see if there is a vet that will come to the house. We have one in our area and I will definitely be calling them when the time comes. At least then you can be with him and tell him goodbye. |
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buttercup
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Post by buttercup on Jul 4, 2023 15:49:47 GMT
De-lurking to say I’m so very sorry.
I empathize so much with what you’re going through. My cat would get so stressed out when I would take him to his regular vet. He had had lifelong health issues, so unfortunately we went to the vet a lot. When it got to the end with him in 2019 (and he went downhill pretty fast in just a couple of days), I was able to arrange in-home euthanasia with a vet from Lap of Love. I had heard about them from a friend who had used them with her dog. They had a few different vets in my area, so I was able choose one to come out. It was so hard, but I’m very thankful for their service. When the vet came, she was so patient and gentle with both me and my cat. I was able to have him in my lap. After, she took his body for cremation. They sent his ashes to regular vet about a week later, and I was able to pick them up..
Again, I’m so sorry.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 4, 2023 15:52:48 GMT
I've been in your shoes and it's very sad stuff. Clearly your kitty wants to spend time w/you and I think that you're being reassured that he'll be OK on the other side. You're giving kitty love, compassion and a safe place to pass. My thoughts are w/you and your precious cat. ((((HUGS)))).
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Post by KikiPea on Jul 4, 2023 16:05:32 GMT
I’m so sorry. Having a pet die is one thing, but watching it is a while other story. I’m hugging you big today.
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Post by katlady on Jul 4, 2023 16:15:59 GMT
Hugs to you!! It is so hard to lose a loved pet.
Our cat died of kidney failure. We had been taking her to the vet about once a month for treatment. She passed at home. On a Sunday, we thought she looked pretty bad and decided that on Monday we’ll take her to the vet. She was lying in a hallway, and I heard this loud stomping, and it was the cat walking with purpose into the room I was in. She laid on the floor, and I picked her up. She passed while on my lap. I heard that animals usually like to pass in private, but I guess she wanted to be near me. I still tear up thinking about her.
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Post by hop2 on Jul 4, 2023 16:22:48 GMT
I’m so sorry
Hugs
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Post by valincal on Jul 4, 2023 16:36:33 GMT
I’m so sorry. 😢
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Post by magoosangel on Jul 4, 2023 16:39:31 GMT
I’m so sorry. I can relate as my dog is 19 years old and just an old man. He keeps going but it’s sad to see the decline and wonder when it will happen.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jul 4, 2023 17:09:33 GMT
I’m so sorry. I too would suggest checking to see if there is a vet that could come to you. I wish I would have done that with my old man Jack Russell. Sending you and your kitty wishes for comfort and peace.
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mimima
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Post by mimima on Jul 4, 2023 17:59:52 GMT
I'm so sorry, it is such a rough loss.
We lost a cat earlier this year and had a mobile vet come do in-home euthanasia, which was a true blessing.
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Post by lisae on Jul 4, 2023 18:09:49 GMT
I'm so sorry. We had to say goodbye to our kitty a couple of months ago. It's very hard. I hope he goes at home peacefully.
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Post by peaname on Jul 4, 2023 19:03:09 GMT
I’m so sorry. It’s so hard to say goodbye and the uncertainty of knowing it’s coming is just awful. I wish you peace.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jul 4, 2023 19:03:52 GMT
It's so hard, when a beloved pet is nearing the end of their life.
Wishing you strength during this difficult time. Hugs.
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Post by busy on Jul 4, 2023 19:08:45 GMT
I’m so sorry. Echoing those who suggested finding a local service that can do at-home euthanasia so he doesn’t suffer.
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paget
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Post by paget on Jul 4, 2023 19:15:17 GMT
I’m so sorry. Wishing you strength to help him pass peacefully however that ends up looking like and then so much comfort and love.
I am dreading this with my two Dogs. I think they still have a while (12 & 10) but you never know.
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Post by KelleeM on Jul 4, 2023 19:27:43 GMT
I’m so sorry. Hugs.
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tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on Jul 4, 2023 20:00:02 GMT
I am so sorry you are going through this. We lost our dog last month and I know how heartbreaking it is. My thoughts go out to you!
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RosieKat
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Post by RosieKat on Jul 4, 2023 20:14:46 GMT
I'm just really sorry. Losing our sweet pet family members just sucks.
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Post by chaosisapony on Jul 4, 2023 21:08:25 GMT
I'm sorry, going through this is just so hard. My cat died in December and watching those last few days was horrible. She always slept under the covers with me and I was convinced that I was going to wake up one morning and she would be under the covers and not wake up.
Do you have any vets that do in home euthanasia where you are? It's becoming a popular service where I live since the final trip to the vet is so traumatic for everyone involved. One vet's entire business is at home euthanasia. She comes out, will take a paw print if you want, she'll explain the process and allow you to take as much time as you need. When you're ready she'll administer the shot and if needed she will take the body away too. I haven't personally used her services but a friend has and said it was the best possible experience.
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