Do you ever wonder if…

I don't wonder but I know two guys who think I was.

I caught the one that I wanted and he will never get away. 😂🤣

I had one who called me that but he never had me in the first place so it was pretty amusing.

I was told this at our HS reunion. 🤭
Still, mildly flattering, I guess.

there was a very wealthy, very wonderful guy I dated in my 20's. I could have stuck around and we would have probably married. but I decided I didn't love him enough to stay on the east coast, so I must not have loved him enough. friends were saying.. marry him ,and even if you get divorced, you will be made for life.

so I went back to the west coast and met my dh 6 months later. we went out to lunch on our honeymoon with this former boyfriend, also went to lunch with dh's former girlfriend. all was good.

I kept the one I wanted and he’ll tell you himself he’s never leaving. There are probably a couple who are sorry I got away but I’m definitely not sorry I did. They turned out to be losers. See ya, wouldn’t wanna be ya!

There is one guy that I think of as the one that got away. I sometimes wonder if he thinks about me, but I don’t think he would consider me the one that got away.

However, there is another guy that probably does consider me the one that got away. But, I don’t think of him that way at all.

I don’t think I’m the one who got away for anyone. There are certainly none that I think of that way. 

I’m a heart breaker 😂. I think a couple of guys would say that.

Ha ha ha. No. I was a hot mess until I was in my late 30s.

DH and I met at 18 and started dating at 19. Pretty sure none of my short term boyfriends before DH think of me that way. I definitely do not have one that got away.

Hmmm I doubt it.

I have had three guys ask me to marry them, besides the two I did marry, one even asked while I was married to ex-dh. I doubt any of them think I was the one who got away and I have no idea if they have thought of me since - it was a long time ago.

There was someone I had wished I stuck around with for a bit longer to see how things would have panned out. We were just really good friends, nothing romantic had happened, when I met the now ex. I thought about him a few times while I was married, just in general, like "I wonder if he would have turned out to be a giant ass too".

At my 10-year reunion, my high school boyfriend introduced me to his wife as *This is Joy, she broke my heart.* Who does that when introducing an ex to a wife? My date (I was still single) told me that all night the ex couldn't keep his eyes off me. When I saw him at the 45th reunion, I wish I hadn't. I wanted to remember the sweet boy from high school, not the chain-smoking, overweight, gold necklace laden 3-times married person he became.

I dated another guy after college whose dad had died by suicide (after his mom died) and he was a mess. I built up his self-esteem to the point he decided he was too good for me and we broke up. He proceeded to get married 3 times and called me after each divorce begging to get back together because I *was the one*. Sorry, sweetie, you were never MY one!

I know of two.

And I thought of one of them that way for a while (we had terrible timing), but later realized we never would have been good life partners. We probably would have lasted to our early 30s, max.