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Post by Mary_K on Dec 11, 2023 19:25:12 GMT
Give me some motivation!
My closet is the size of a small bedroom and it is in desperate need of a purge/re-organizing/cleaning!
I have been putting it off for quite a while.
Can you tell me how you felt when it was done? Any unexpected things/advantages you found?
Any affects on your psyche that you experienced?
I'm hoping your success stories can spur me on!
Thanks so much!
Mary K
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Post by Delta Dawn on Dec 11, 2023 19:34:58 GMT
Yes I got rid of 4 garbage bags of clothing that went to my dad’s service club’s garage sale. I gave me a lot of anxiety but I did it. Not easy though. I went from a size 14 to a 6. I had clothes in every size. I did it and always can re-buy later if I remember what I got rid of.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Dec 11, 2023 19:35:07 GMT
The last time I did it I made it a goal to get rid of 50 items. You can set a goal and then go for it! It was nice to see so much less in my closet and it made it so much easier to see what was there. I'm constantly getting rid of clothes, an item or two at a time, but it was fun to get rid of a big haul all at once.
eta: Because I had a goal to reach, it "forced" me to finally get rid of some things that I liked but hadn't worn in years. I needed the push of reaching the goal to finally let go of those things.
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Post by lurker on Dec 11, 2023 19:36:48 GMT
So much satisfaction when the chore is done. In addition, extra space for new things!
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Dec 11, 2023 19:47:59 GMT
This is an ongoing project for me. I go through my clothes with the change of seasons (so basically spring/summer and fall/winter) and always get rid of things that I no longer love. I try most things on and try to be ruthless about the fit, but there are always things that I keep that I could have gotten rid of. I will never be a minimalist but I don't have a lot of space and don't want the drawers or closet to be any more packed than they are. This year I purged a lot of cardigans as I just don't wear them much anymore now that I am working more from home. So, my suggestion would be to turn on some decluttering youtube videos and decide on some questions to ask yourself when trying to decide what to keep or not. For me, that is 1) does this fit well? 2) how often will I wear it? 3) does it still fit my lifestyle? 4) If I do still like it, but don't have much opportunity for that type of clothing, would I choose that one when it is time or would I choose a different shirt instead? Good luck! It will feel good when you are done!
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Post by Lexica on Dec 11, 2023 20:05:07 GMT
The new house I just moved to has got closets that are less than a third of the space that I had in my old master bedroom. I suppose I could transfer off-season clothing to the guest room closet, but I would ideally like to leave that empty for guests. There is a coat closet in this place, something my prior home didn’t have. But I also only had two warm coats in California so I didn’t need a coat closet. I have already picked up too many here.
My current plan is to put the summer clothing into one of the big plastic zippered bags that I used in moving to store until warm weather comes back.
I gained weight during the pandemic and have several sizes of clothing. I plan to sort into size piles and then determine if anything that is currently too small is something I want to hang onto to wear when this weight is off. I know I will be keeping things like good jeans and a few higher end pieces of clothing but there is no need to have them hanging in my closet. I will be boxing these up with the size marked on the box, ready and waiting for when I achieve each size goal. There is a huge attic in this house so the smaller sized things will probably end up at the top of the stairs in the attic. I really don’t want to start using that attic space because I need to purge, but a few bags of clothing won’t guilt me out.
I think by separating out the seasons and sizes I will be left with an amount of clothing that can comfortably fit into this little closet. I no longer work, so there is no need to have so many outfits. I got rid of tons of shoes before I moved and should have sorted my work suits and dresses out to donate before the move, but I didn’t. Surely there will be an organization here in Oregon like the one that I always donated to in California. My preference is one that offers good-quality office appropriate clothing, free of charge, to women entering the workforce. The place I used before helped women that had been abused or homeless get on their feet and find jobs. They have someone volunteering with haircuts and makeup and a personal shopper that helps put together a working wardrobe. If I can’t find one like that here, I guess the clothes will go to a local thrift store. I just prefer they go for free to a woman in need.
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Post by peasapie on Dec 11, 2023 20:05:18 GMT
I posted about this a few months ago. I sort and purge twice a year, spring and fall. Even though it's a fairly large walk-in, I don't like to see winter sweaters in the summer and vice versa. Plus if I haven't worn it in a while, out it goes.
I start small and tell myself I will devote 30 minutes to it. Usually I go longer than that because once I get going I start feeling motivated, but if I'm not feeling it, I continue the next day.
I'm always really happy when it's done, and I know what accessories or clothes I need to buy to go with what I have, so it's a win/win for me.
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Post by Mary_K on Dec 11, 2023 20:24:09 GMT
I start small and tell myself I will devote 30 minutes to it. Usually I go longer than that because once I get going I start feeling motivated, This is what I hope happens to me!
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Post by monklady123 on Dec 11, 2023 20:27:51 GMT
If your closet is the size of a small bedroom then you have some work ahead of you! I do this task every year or so when my dh travels. But my closet is ordinary. I pull everything out of it and pile it up on the floor and on his side of the bed. Because he's out of the country I can take my time sorting and putting stuff back. This ensures that I won't just give up at the end of the day and stuff what's undone back into the closet before he gets home from work (since I know he would like to be able to walk and sleep on his side of the room and bed, lol). I LOVE doing this because it forces me to really see what I wear and what I don't. The only things I keep that are rarely worn are two skirts, one dress, and a black velvety-glitter threads type thing that goes to holiday parties. I never ever wear skirts or dresses but I figure I should have a couple just in case. lol. The last time I wore a skirt was in Israel when we went into the Dome of the Rock and Al Aqsa Mosque. For certain things I will put one on. lol. That was in 2018 (or 2019?) and I have not worn a skirt or dress since then. hahahaha But I still keep a couple. It is very satisfying to see the bags filling up with stuff to donate.
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Post by Lexica on Dec 11, 2023 20:28:59 GMT
I posted about this a few months ago. I sort and purge twice a year, spring and fall. Even though it's a fairly large walk-in, I don't like to see winter sweaters in the summer and vice versa. Plus if I haven't worn it in a while, out it goes. I start small and tell myself I will devote 30 minutes to it. Usually I go longer than that because once I get going I start feeling motivated, but if I'm not feeling it, I continue the next day.
I'm always really happy when it's done, and I know what accessories or clothes I need to buy to go with what I have, so it's a win/win for me. This is how I get through so many things these days when the couch is calling my name, yet there are boxes to unpack and the normal household things to be done like laundry, cooking, and cleaning. If I can accomplish something by dragging the components to the coffee table so that I can watch a movie at the same time, I have a better chance of finishing something.
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Post by lisae on Dec 11, 2023 20:32:14 GMT
I did this a few weeks ago. I took everything on my side out (I did DH's on a different weekend). I counted all the items - tops, bottoms, dresses and shoes. I did not count scarves, gloves and jewelry as I wasn't going through those items. I didn't really set a specific goal but was proud of myself for getting rid of 10% of the counted items.
I also tagged more than 10% of the remainder with tags on the hangers that said 24 or 25. This meant that the item needed to be worn sometime by the end of 2024 or 2025 or it had to go. I've already worn a couple of these items but have left the tags in place as I'm still unsure if I want to keep them for the long term.
My surprise was that some of the things I kept from my mother's clothes were different than I remembered them from 2 years ago. I'd worn the everyday stuff I had of hers but the dressy things were a mixed bag. Some stuff went out immediately. One outfit looked better on me than I remembered, and I finally realized why. I've let my hair grow out some and it is now more flattering with the neckline of that outfit. I still haven't worn it though. I have my everyday stuff more accessible. I also figured out what I needed to buy and what I definitely did not need anymore of.
I love how organized it all is. So it was a good experience that I did over 2 days. Good luck and happy shopping!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Dec 11, 2023 20:44:34 GMT
I really need to do this. I did my t-shirts a while ago but need to go through them again because they are my weakness. I really need to just sort through, get rid of the really ratty old ones, take the medium ratty ones to the lake cabin and leave them there to wear when we are working outside on landscaping or painting or whatever, and then there will be room for the newer, nicer ones.
Then there’s the rest of the closet, ugh. I have a whole shelf full of crew neck sweaters and sweatshirts that I doubt I’ll ever wear again because I just get too hot in anything heavier that can’t be unzipped, even in the winter. I can give DD first crack at them and any she doesn’t want could really go.
And I don’t really want to talk about the shelf my pants are on. I think I’ve only put on a pair of actual jeans once in the last six months, and likely not even a handful of times since Covid. Probably half of them are brand new and don’t fit. 🫤
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Post by katlady on Dec 11, 2023 20:51:13 GMT
I do it once a year. I pull everything out and pile it on the bed. After I dust and wipe down the shelves, I vacuum. Then I start putting things back. I put things back one by one so that I can really look at the item and decide if I want to keep it. My initial purge is when I am pulling them out of the closet. I love having a clean closet at the end. I like seeing how many empty hangers I now have. And I love seeing one or two bags of clothes to donate/trash. It usually takes me two days because I tire out half way through. But seeing the mess on the bed and floor gives me motivation to finish the job.
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Post by MZF on Dec 11, 2023 21:29:46 GMT
I did a major purge when I retired. Most of my work attire went to the local unemployment office that takes interview appropriate clothing. I included shoes and hosiery that was not opened, and some purses. It felt great, and motivated me to go through all my drawers--I threw out u/w that wasn't my favorite kind, socks, even my 'painting' clothing and most 'yard work' clothing and shoes. I haven't missed anything, and I'm happier that my clothing is organized and pared down. One thing I've become aware of--I have a thing for coats of various weights and uses--gotta stop that and keep it under control:)
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Post by papersilly on Dec 11, 2023 21:31:53 GMT
things are easier if you pull as much stuff out at once as you can. then you can decide what you truly want or need back in your closet. i piled everything back on top of the bed to go through it all. i was able to get rid of bags and bags of stuff. it felt great! getting rid of physical clutter left me feeling mentally uncluttered too. no more wasting time telling myself i have to go through my closet or feeling bad about having all that stuff i'll never use. advantages? more closet space and uncluttered enviornment.
you also have to be honest of with yourself as to why you are hanging on to stuff. is it for the memories? or you will fit into it again someday? or because you are saving it to give to whoever? or because you paid so much and it would be wasteful to get rid of it?
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Post by Mary_K on Dec 11, 2023 22:22:21 GMT
you also have to be honest of with yourself as to why you are hanging on to stuff. is it for the memories? or you will fit into it again someday? or because you are saving it to give to whoever? or because you paid so much and it would be wasteful to get rid of it? This stuff bothers me too!
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Post by dewryce on Dec 11, 2023 22:29:05 GMT
If you are completely truthful with yourself, really go in with intention, everything in your closet can be something you feel and look great in. Have a friend over whose opinion you trust and who will tell you like it is. And try on everything, and keep only the best of the best. If your closet is that big you will have plenty of clothes left. But can’t you imagine never having a bad outfit day? Knowing that every time you open those doors you’ll come out wearing clothing/shoes/bags/jewelry that are comfortable, flattering, and in excellent shape?
That’s not even considering the organizational aspect of it. It will be so much easier to put together an outfit. You’ll never have to “look for” something in your closet because it will be right where it belongs. And with a lot less in there, super easy to see, super easy to keep up.
If you come across quality items that you love but don’t fit just right, or a heel needs to be repaired, a hem fixed, a stain removed keep a bag to add things to and commit to dropping them off immediately when you complete your closet. Eta: And take your donations at the same time. Don’t leave the task half finished.
If you have enough space and travel frequently, may I suggest keep a small section to put outfits you’re planning on packing. I often will gather things in stages “oh yeah I wanted to wear this for dinner out” and would love to have space set aside where I could add to it as things occur to me without getting in the way of anything else.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Dec 11, 2023 23:49:39 GMT
I always feel good when I complete a task. My personal operating system works best with rewards. So I usually tell myself, once "whatever the task is" is done, then I can reward myself. Usually it's something little (a bundtlet cake, a scrapbook goody, a milkshake, etc...). It's silly, but having something to work for, motivates me. I usually do my closets(I have four....one clothes, three storage), as well as kitchen and bathroom cupboards and drawers, and car trunk....twice a year. I'm not one to keep things, if it doesn't serve a purpose or occasionally get used.....except, of course for my scrapbook product stash.
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Post by angel97701 on Dec 12, 2023 0:54:19 GMT
I started the big purge about this time last year, maybe in November. I had clothing that had memories, but really didn't need to hang on to items from 35 years ago . . . . ! I donated items that could be used as formals to a local HS "winter dance closet", other items went to a store that would also ship items out of the US to be re-used or repurposed. Did this with shoes as well. Then I finally moved. I also purged once I unpacked.
It was very freeing. I've gotten rid of clothing that is slightly worn and have replaced a few items with warmer versions.
It is very satisfying to par down to clothing I like wearing.
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Post by candleangie on Dec 12, 2023 2:26:44 GMT
Oh, SO worth it.
Just start with purging one thing. Shoes/sweaters/whatever.
If that’s all the mojo you can muster, at least you e started. But it’s usually all I need to get moving.
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 12, 2023 4:46:29 GMT
When I retired, I got rid of an entire's closet worth of stuff. It felt so good to be done with the packed closet. I did keep some of the nicer pieces that fit well. There is just something about being able to have all of your stuff in one closet and you can get to it all. Then we moved and my husband and I share a giant walk in and have added shoe racks, the ironing board, my dresser, towels and just things that would never have fit in my old closet. I watched a closet clean out a few weeks ago on youTube and the creator just kept like things together and she'd count out 52 dress shirts and her goal was to cut everything in half. She did it and the closet looked a lot better. For me, getting everything out of the closet makes me purge a little bit better. Found the video if you need visual inspiration. www.youtube.com/watch?v=41VHfG-zrbI
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Post by tampascrapper on Dec 12, 2023 14:09:26 GMT
I have done a purge of my clothes. I struggled at first but then loved seeing the pile of clothes to donate. I felt much better after seeing more room in my closet which allowed me to really see what I have. Now when I buy something new, I have to get rid of something. That forces me to really think before I buy something.
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 12, 2023 18:33:23 GMT
If it doesn't make me feel good in it, out it goes. It's so much nicer to walk into your closet and know everything fits and feels good to wear.
I've gotten much better at purging. I need to do shoes again.
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Post by ~summer~ on Dec 12, 2023 18:40:29 GMT
Ugh I feel for you. It’s hard to know sometimes what to get rid of and what to save. I’m overwhelmed- I have an entire house to clean out!
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Post by hopechest on Dec 12, 2023 18:50:49 GMT
I do mine in piles --
I have 1 pile straight to trash. Rips, stains, worn out etc. Realize you are never going to "sew that up quick". I have 1 pile that is a go-for sure. Goodwill and never look back. I have 1 pile of clothes that are good quality but don't fit. I try to keep this to a minimum, but I will put these in labeled totes according to size. I have 1 pile of good quality clothes (work suits and such) that I will run by the consignment store. If they don't take them - goodwill they go. I have 1 pile of clothes that sit for 30 days. If I haven't gone looking for the "blue sweater" that whole pile follows its friends to the Goodwill.
I try to be pretty honest. If I haven't worn it in a season it probably needs to go.
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Post by katlady on Dec 12, 2023 19:26:23 GMT
For those of you that retired and had specific clothes for work, how long did you hold on to those? I have clothes that I pretty much only wear for work. One friend who retired kept it all, another friend purged it all right away.
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Post by sharlag on Dec 12, 2023 19:59:34 GMT
It’s the only room in my house that’s well organized. Sometimes I go in there and just gaze around smugly.
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Post by Jamie on Dec 13, 2023 14:48:19 GMT
We just have a small closet in our room. 2-3 weeks ago hubby was gone and I was just tired of the shoes thrown all over instead of being put back in their spot, sand from his shoes he just doesn't bother to brush off etc. I went through all my clothes/shoes/extra purses etc and got rid of a little over a garbage bag full. I know I should probably do it again and get rid of more stuff. I really don't have much honestly. Have basically been working from home since 2020. And prior to that only had so many work clothes. I think I am going to get some new items as we will be back in the office 3 times a week starting in January and think it's some time for some new items.
Felt great when I was done to have it nice and clean. Hubby actually came home that weekend and the following week straightened up all his clothes.
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Post by MZF on Dec 13, 2023 17:11:23 GMT
For those of you that retired and had specific clothes for work, how long did you hold on to those? I have clothes that I pretty much only wear for work. One friend who retired kept it all, another friend purged it all right away. I kept 2 pairs of black slacks (appropriate for most occasions),2 tops, and a couple of dresses that I wear most often. I donated within a week or two of retiring. I haven't missed anything I got rid of. I just took a look in my closet, thanks to this post, and think it's time to pare down a little more. I knit, and my sweater stash is getting too big, and I'm going to get rid of some jackets/coats. I live in California, so really, do need all these?
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Post by katlady on Dec 13, 2023 17:35:47 GMT
For those of you that retired and had specific clothes for work, how long did you hold on to those? I have clothes that I pretty much only wear for work. One friend who retired kept it all, another friend purged it all right away. I kept 2 pairs of black slacks (appropriate for most occasions),2 tops, and a couple of dresses that I wear most often. I donated within a week or two of retiring. I haven't missed anything I got rid of. I just took a look in my closet, thanks to this post, and think it's time to pare down a little more. I knit, and my sweater stash is getting too big, and I'm going to get rid of some jackets/coats. I live in California, so really, do need all these? Thanks! I have way too many jackets/coats/hoodies. One of my weaknesses, and I live in So. Cal.
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