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Post by Merge on Feb 20, 2024 20:38:04 GMT
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Post by hop2 on Feb 20, 2024 20:47:28 GMT
I did see that.
And even more disturbing is that the staff did not call ems and just waited until the parent came.
I’m also confused as to why the hospital sent them home the first time.
I think a lot of people let this child down.
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 20, 2024 22:26:34 GMT
Oh no, that is so heartbreaking. The details are a bit sketchy at the moment, I hope that charges are laid against the person/s who assaulted Nex. I am stunned that the school not only failed to call for medical help, they also suspended the victim! WTF?
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Post by dawnnikol on Feb 20, 2024 22:45:36 GMT
We have been telling them that their hatred and policies would result in children dying. They don't fucking care. As long as it's not their child, they don't fucking care. I hope they all burn.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Feb 20, 2024 22:53:03 GMT
I hope that every single adult that failed that poor child virus in hell and gets what is coming to them.
And I hope the girls in the bathroom also face harsh reality and penalties.
May they rest in peace.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 20, 2024 23:03:18 GMT
This makes me profoundly sad.
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Post by lesley on Feb 20, 2024 23:03:29 GMT
Who was this child hurting? Whose life was being affected by the choices they made? I guarantee it was absolutely nobody, and yet somehow people thought they had a right to judge them, and hurt them, because they were "different". This breaks my heart. Sometimes I hate people so much.
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Post by lucyg on Feb 20, 2024 23:09:58 GMT
What a heartbreaking story. Things are not OK in Oklahoma … and in many parts of the United States.
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Post by katlady on Feb 20, 2024 23:13:18 GMT
Who was this child hurting? Whose life was being affected by the choices they made? I guarantee it was absolutely nobody, and yet somehow people thought they had a right to judge them, and hurt them, because they were "different". This breaks my heart. Sometimes I hate people so much. Love what you said. Nex was hurting absolutely no one! 😢
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Post by purplebee on Feb 20, 2024 23:28:39 GMT
Horrifying and shocking. This, in the United States, not some third world, dictator run country.
I truly hope that justice is served, and that this murder stays in the headlines for more than just one news cycle. That poor child….
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Post by pantsonfire on Feb 20, 2024 23:52:40 GMT
The only kids we need to worry about are the ones being raised by hateful, vile, anti (fill in the blank) "adults".
The ones being bombarded with hateful messages by MAGA idiots, their parents, social media influencer, etc.
Even with proper laws in place and proper supportive measures, kids who are not white, straight, Christian will continue to be harmed and killed.
This nation needs a whole lot of healing and it starts at home with how the adults talk.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Feb 21, 2024 0:50:50 GMT
This makes me profoundly sad. Me too. That poor child.
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Post by sideways on Feb 21, 2024 0:51:34 GMT
The only kids we need to worry about are the ones being raised by hateful, vile, anti (fill in the blank) "adults". The ones being bombarded with hateful messages by MAGA idiots, their parents, social media influencer, etc. Even with proper laws in place and proper supportive measures, kids who are not white, straight, Christian will continue to be harmed and killed. This nation needs a whole lot of healing and it starts at home with how the adults talk. It’s exactly this that makes me fervently hope that a certain pea here never reproduced. That poor child in Oklahoma.
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Post by Merge on Feb 21, 2024 0:53:34 GMT
The only kids we need to worry about are the ones being raised by hateful, vile, anti (fill in the blank) "adults". The ones being bombarded with hateful messages by MAGA idiots, their parents, social media influencer, etc. Even with proper laws in place and proper supportive measures, kids who are not white, straight, Christian will continue to be harmed and killed. This nation needs a whole lot of healing and it starts at home with how the adults talk. And frankly how our elected leaders talk. When our leaders accuse teachers of “grooming” and sexualizing kids if they mention trans individuals, it sends a strong message that trans kids are dangerous and must be eliminated. Kids hear this message from some elected leaders and even from the pulpit, in addition to from their parents. And this is what happens.
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Post by busy on Feb 21, 2024 1:34:54 GMT
This makes me sick to my stomach. My brother's son is trans. They moved to Oregon from St Louis because they no longer felt it was safe to raise their son in that community. The political discourse made things like this feel possible, perhaps even likely, there.
ETA: Make no mistake, things like this could happen here too. Maybe less likely, but I’m sure the rhetoric of recent years has stirred up hate everywhere.
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Post by peasapie on Feb 21, 2024 1:50:32 GMT
I’m so sad reading about this. So many kids suffering. For what? When I was in HS, my friend committed suicide due to gender issues. 50 years later, you’d think things would have changed…
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Post by laurasw on Feb 21, 2024 2:20:44 GMT
So heartbreaking.
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Post by jackietex on Feb 21, 2024 2:56:09 GMT
My daughter, who is gay, will never move back to Texas because she doesn't feel it would be safe. It makes me spitting mad! I posted about Nex on FB earlier today, and felt like the one response I got completely missed the point. I'm sick of the stupid arguments like, "God doesn't make mistakes." I don't blame God for illness or genetic abnormalities, why would I blame Him because something happened with gender? How can there be any argument that makes it okay to say something that endangers the lives of other people?
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Post by busy on Feb 21, 2024 3:14:09 GMT
I’m so sad reading about this. So many kids suffering. For what? When I was in HS, my friend committed suicide due to gender issues. 50 years later, you’d think things would have changed… While there is still far far too much hate, I do think things have changed for the better. Just looking at my own family… though my trans nephew’s family felt they needed to move because of the climate where they lived, he was still out and was mostly accepted by classmates. One of my son’s best friends is trans - they were friends before and after their transition and it’s just a nonissue to DS and others. He hasn’t experienced any bullying, according to DS. Meanwhile, my brother, who is gay, was not out until after college because the climate in our liberal, Pacific Northwest, affluent suburb in the 1980s was virulently unaccepting of anyone who wasn’t straight. The schools and cities were very similar demographically but separated by about four decades and the attitudes toward LGBTQIA+ issues and people are completely different. Progress has definitely been made. Unfortunately it hasn’t been universal.
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Post by Merge on Feb 21, 2024 15:18:35 GMT
I’m so sad reading about this. So many kids suffering. For what? When I was in HS, my friend committed suicide due to gender issues. 50 years later, you’d think things would have changed… While there is still far far too much hate, I do think things have changed for the better. Just looking at my own family… though my trans nephew’s family felt they needed to move because of the climate where they lived, he was still out and was mostly accepted by classmates. One of my son’s best friends is trans - they were friends before and after their transition and it’s just a nonissue to DS and others. He hasn’t experienced any bullying, according to DS. Meanwhile, my brother, who is gay, was not out until after college because the climate in our liberal, Pacific Northwest, affluent suburb in the 1980s was virulently unaccepting of anyone who wasn’t straight. The schools and cities were very similar demographically but separated by about four decades and the attitudes toward LGBTQIA+ issues and people are completely different. Progress has definitely been made. Unfortunately it hasn’t been universal. We are regressing, I think. Trump made it OK to voice hate and act on it.
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Post by 3boysnme on Feb 21, 2024 15:51:49 GMT
I have a nephew who was born my niece. So this really hurts my heart. I know when they came out to our family, they were really worried about everyone's reactions. I am so proud of my family. They know that they are loved and respected still. If someone outside of the family said anything negative to them, they might be hurt, but they know they have their family's love and support. My sister said for the most part, they are accepted.
I cannot fathom a child having to endure abuse from a place they trusted and should be safe - school. I really hope those girls AND their parents are brought to justice. Not sure how old they are, but I'm thinking old enough to know right from wrong, and still chose to act wrongly and criminally. And should be treated as adults who act wrongly and criminally.
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Post by cakediva on Feb 21, 2024 16:48:02 GMT
It's all just so freaking sad. When our oldest came out to us, our son was in the room - I don't think he even looked up from his phone. It wasn't even a blip on his radar. And nobody in the family has not been accepting of her. And yet I still fear for her out there in the world. She has the love and support of the family around her, but the world out there is a scary place!
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Post by busy on Feb 21, 2024 17:31:51 GMT
While there is still far far too much hate, I do think things have changed for the better. Just looking at my own family… though my trans nephew’s family felt they needed to move because of the climate where they lived, he was still out and was mostly accepted by classmates. One of my son’s best friends is trans - they were friends before and after their transition and it’s just a nonissue to DS and others. He hasn’t experienced any bullying, according to DS. Meanwhile, my brother, who is gay, was not out until after college because the climate in our liberal, Pacific Northwest, affluent suburb in the 1980s was virulently unaccepting of anyone who wasn’t straight. The schools and cities were very similar demographically but separated by about four decades and the attitudes toward LGBTQIA+ issues and people are completely different. Progress has definitely been made. Unfortunately it hasn’t been universal. We are regressing, I think. Trump made it OK to voice hate and act on it. Agreed But I still see far more acceptance and love than hate in my son’s generation and we’re still ahead of where we were when we were kids. But we have to fight this regression tooth and nail.
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Post by pantsonfire on Feb 21, 2024 17:33:19 GMT
There are 2 large vigils I am aware of in southern Ca if anyone wants to attend.
One in Long Beach at the pier and one in Downtown Redlands. Free Mom Hugs I believe will be a part of the Redlands one.
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Post by Hayjaker on Feb 21, 2024 19:17:24 GMT
Although we cannot teach kindness and empathy at school I believe it is our responsibility to DEMONSTRATE kindness and empathy. this is what confuses me and disheartens me most about this hate crime.
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