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Post by Zee on Apr 1, 2024 3:47:00 GMT
Wisconsin from GA? And starting over my career again, right when I'm at the pinnacle but also kind of over it?
Head Hunter contacted DH about a job in "middle WI" did not say exactly where. He can expect to get paid much more than here.
I undoubtedly could NOT expect to get paid much more than here, which makes it not a particularly wise move financially, but I could just work part time and enjoy life.
I love Wisconsin, always have. I could be back among my people, plump Midwesterners who drink beer and eat cheese curds.
I've been starting to get the itch to move across the country again though I would prefer out west. That doesn't work so well with DH's industry, most plants/factories for packaging food are nearer to the east coast or middle of the country.
There is now something kind of appealing about starting all over after 5-6 years. I better start getting little scratches on the walls filled in and that kind of thing.
I want an old farm house on an acreage with a spring house and a horse pasture. Though I will definitely miss this modern house with 3 heat/AC zones! And no snowblower!
Would you even consider it? We are very happy here, but I have decided I like the adventure of starting over in a new place.
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Post by gsquaredmom on Apr 1, 2024 3:50:27 GMT
Go visit. Look at houses. Sounds like you are already halfway there. Welcome back to the Midwest.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 1, 2024 3:54:18 GMT
The heat in Georgia would probably kill me, but Wisconsin winters would be cold! If you like an adventure, go for it.
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Post by ~summer~ on Apr 1, 2024 4:02:59 GMT
No not crazy. Change is good.
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Post by katiekaty on Apr 1, 2024 4:13:46 GMT
Middle of Wisconsin not so bad. I have a daughter up in the Northwest. Itâs still pretty cold ther. Itâs beautiful all year round. If I didnât love my hot days so much in the south, I would really entertain the idea. Plus being from Louisiana, and loving seafood so much , I would probably miss it too much. However I could probably get used to freshwater fish all the time. From the way she and her family goes about life, you just bundle up and warm up by the fire and some sort of heating system in place. She actually has central heat and air. Roads are well kept plowed and she has a guy she pays to plow her driveway. Nothing much keeps her from living life just because it get below zero some days! I have visits on some on those crazy cold days and lived to tell about so if the hot weather southern gal who temps over a hundred degrees 3/4 of the can handle it, so can you! When I visit I stand at the window for hours looking at that beautiful snow and spend a bit of the time hiking around her propert and nearby trails. Then I forget and just love being there. I donât mind the huge selection of cheese and small cheese factories everywhere, but I canât do cheese curdsâjust nope! But my sons can pack them in. And the football is good. And you are close to Duluth/superior and Minneapolis and Mall of Americaâs for shopping and of course Maddison, the capitol and other larger cities. Itâs a fun state. I visit 3 or times a year!
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Post by lucyg on Apr 1, 2024 4:34:38 GMT
I love Wisconsin. Go! Iâd go if I had some reason to.
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Post by Lexica on Apr 1, 2024 4:39:10 GMT
Your desire for an old farmhouse on an acreage with a spring house and a horse pasture sounds perfectly lovely to me!đ
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Post by mom on Apr 1, 2024 4:45:23 GMT
I would do it!
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Post by quinlove on Apr 1, 2024 5:39:08 GMT
Please do this. You really want to, and you deserve to drink beer and eat cheese curds on the porch of your charming farm house. Success will follow you wherever you choose to go. Sounds like Wisconsin is the answer.
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Post by pantsonfire on Apr 1, 2024 5:43:28 GMT
You had me at horses. I vote for going.
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Post by Zee on Apr 1, 2024 6:01:31 GMT
You are all enablers in the BEST WAY! He sent off his resume. He really likes it here though, so we'll see.
Just the idea of it is pretty exciting! I won't at all be disappointed to stay here, but adventure is calling.
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Post by dawnnikol on Apr 1, 2024 10:01:55 GMT
Best of luck on the interview process! It helps that you could go either way, but as a Southern girl turned Midwesterner, I'd go and never look back.
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Post by hop2 on Apr 1, 2024 10:35:11 GMT
I would not. But thatâs me. Iâm not big on change or moving. I hate redoing my resume, and I suck at interviews. I donât like snow or shoveling it. But Iâd never do the Ga heat either. To me it does sound like an anxiety ridden & stress inducing option. But thatâs all me and my fears & preferences.
It sounds like you actually want all the things that make me cringe. Explore open mindedly what the headhunter has to offer & see where it goes. Best of luck whatever you decide.
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Post by lisae on Apr 1, 2024 11:52:10 GMT
It very much sounds like you want to go. Each state has its advantages but you have to decide what works best for you.
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Post by CeeScraps on Apr 1, 2024 12:11:11 GMT
Sounds like an adventure to go on!!
Keep us updated with where the location is in WI and what you decide to do!!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 1, 2024 12:17:25 GMT
I would think hard about it. Just last week you said (I swear it was you) that you'd never leave the south for a Midwestern winter again. So give some weighted consideration to that perspective.
I also don't know where your kids live. I am all about having an adventure, would not mind one right now actually, but I'd be hard-pressed to move away from my kids which is most likely why I'll never leave here. But if my Chloe moved, then I'd have no trouble leaving myself.
It sounds so exciting though. I would love even this kind of opportunity to come along for me. Even to consider something like this gets your blood flowing. So all the above considered, if I still wanted to go, I would.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 1, 2024 12:52:55 GMT
Go for it. There are no fences keeping you in, should you and your DH decide Wisconsin is not for you.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 1, 2024 12:54:29 GMT
We have friends whose parents did that very thing, moved from GA to WI to be closer to their kids and their lake cabin on the western edge of the state. They started out here but they ended up in GA after their kids were grown. They would spend winters in GA and summers at their cabin in WI. After the mom/grandma passed away, the dad/grandpa moved back up here permanently be be closer to his daughter and grandkids.
The only thing I would shy away from is the âoldâ farmhouse. They can be an expensive nightmare of old electrical and plumbing, crappy insulation, asbestos flooring and lead paint. No thanks to that. Iâd rather have a new construction farmhouse built to look like an old one but the rest of it sounds nice.
ETA: The winters now arenât nearly as bad as they used to be even 10-15 years ago thanks to climate change. We did have a ton of snow a year ago but the temps werenât too bad. Last winter was a total nothingburger, it was the warmest recorded winter on record. If the article that Jeremysgirl posted about recently comes to pass with a mass exodus of people moving from down south up to the northern states, I think it would be better to be on the front end of that stampede.
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Post by ihaveonly1l on Apr 1, 2024 13:08:22 GMT
I was born and raised in Wisconsin. I lived most of my life there (northern and southeastern). I, coincidently, now live in GA.
If you have questions, please reach out.
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Post by librarylady on Apr 1, 2024 13:35:52 GMT
Your desire for an old farmhouse on an acreage with a spring house and a horse pasture sounds perfectly lovely to me!đ I don't understand why that is not possible in GA. I am biased against cold weather, I admit.
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Post by RosieKat on Apr 1, 2024 13:56:54 GMT
You know, there's never anything wrong with applying. They may say no, and you guys can always say no. An offer doesn't mean you have to take it!
I saw he sent in the resume, I think that's a good move and y'all can still consider in the meantime. But based on what you say here, I don't think moving would be a bad idea. There are always pros and cons about any move, but it sounds like you're pretty OK with the move, so why not?
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 1, 2024 14:20:56 GMT
Not at all. Some people like moving, and some people like Wisconsin. If that is where youâd like to be, why not?
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Post by Katie on Apr 1, 2024 14:21:17 GMT
Iâm a little biased because I live in WI, born and raised here. But you sound really excited about the idea, so I say heck yes, go for it. If he gets an offer, take the leap!! đ
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Post by workingclassdog on Apr 1, 2024 14:46:51 GMT
I have been wanting to do the same.. move. Somewhere less expensive. And I don't mind changes like that.. it's an adventure...something new. I can't seem to really commit to it though. My grandson is here and that is the main reason I stay put. I just get sick and tired of the rat race in my state. I'm a Midwest girl myself and would love to be back where I loved. (except the politics, but I don't care about that, as long as I stay true to myself.)
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Post by scrappert on Apr 1, 2024 14:54:42 GMT
Iâm a little biased because I live in WI, born and raised here. But you sound really excited about the idea, so I say heck yes, go for it. If he gets an offer, take the leap!! đ Same and agreed!
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Post by mrsp on Apr 1, 2024 15:13:53 GMT
I live in Wisconsin, but I am from another state in the Midwest. Nine months out of the year, I love Wisconsin! But Jan-Feb-March can be tough (some years more than others). It is the cold, but more than that, it is the grey skies. The last few years we have been able to plan a vacation to somewhere sunny. This year we went to Savanna/Charleston! Last year we went to Mexico. A week in the sun does wonders!
Snow isnât the issue for us right now because my husband is still okay to use the plow. Also we have a lot of snow plows so getting around in the worst snow is usually not a big issue. However we live near a big city with great medical, sports, music, shopping, etc. The cost of living is better than a lot of places and people are very nice. Where we live itâs a great mix of local businesses and chains.
And in order to be fair and balanced, out of three couples we are really good friends with⊠one moved to Florida two years ago and the others are planning on moving to Savannah! lol. The Florida friends love it but it is a lot more expensive down there (housing, food, insurance).
Good luck! Following your dreams is wonderful, but do your due diligence:-)
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Post by Basket1lady on Apr 1, 2024 15:54:50 GMT
It would depend on where âmiddle WIâ is exactly. Iâd maybe consider Eau Claire, but any more âmiddleâ than that and you have some pretty rural areas. How far is it to a decent grocery store? To Target? To a hard ware store? And the biggestâwould you be in the middle of Trump Territory?
And Iâd explore what your career options are. It sounds like you work in a pretty big hospital now. Youâre not going to see that in a rural area. There would probably be a medical center, but anything major would be done at a hospital in a large city. Would you commute in the snow?
Weâve lived in some major cities in our adult livesâLA, Seoul, Boston, Washington DC and the like. We just moved to Minneapolis last year. Even in the city, itâs definitely a different mindset. Itâs not necessarily bad, but it is different. But Iâm always on edge at family stuff in the more rural areas because of the Trump issues.
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Post by needmysanity on Apr 1, 2024 16:33:14 GMT
We moved from CA to TN 3 years ago (we were 50 and 51) and it was the best decision ever.
DH totally changed careers, I got what I would call "my dream job". Sometimes you just got to take the leap and do it.
Keep us posted on what you decide.
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Post by Zee on Apr 1, 2024 16:36:54 GMT
Your desire for an old farmhouse on an acreage with a spring house and a horse pasture sounds perfectly lovely to me!đ I don't understand why that is not possible in GA. I am biased against cold weather, I admit. They're just not readily available in this area where we could both easily commute to work. Very few and far between. It's very built up in the Metro Atlanta area and doubtful I could sensibly afford an acreage here with all the things I want.
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Post by Zee on Apr 1, 2024 16:42:29 GMT
It would depend on where âmiddle WIâ is exactly. Iâd maybe consider Eau Claire, but any more âmiddleâ than that and you have some pretty rural areas. How far is it to a decent grocery store? To Target? To a hard ware store? And the biggestâwould you be in the middle of Trump Territory? And Iâd explore what your career options are. It sounds like you work in a pretty big hospital now. Youâre not going to see that in a rural area. There would probably be a medical center, but anything major would be done at a hospital in a large city. Would you commute in the snow? Weâve lived in some major cities in our adult livesâLA, Seoul, Boston, Washington DC and the like. We just moved to Minneapolis last year. Even in the city, itâs definitely a different mindset. Itâs not necessarily bad, but it is different. But Iâm always on edge at family stuff in the more rural areas because of the Trump issues. Well, to be honest, I drove in the snow to work for over 25 years and did say I never wanted to do that again. So, fair point. I also lived in a rural area and drove to a bigger hospital with a good cardiac program. I don't know where I would be exactly so it's hard to say if I could find something comparable, but there is also the chance that I could be a big fish in a small pond instead. Who knows! After living 6 years in GA I can say with confidence that at least on the surface, the Trumpers and I can coexist as long as we don't talk politics.
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