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Post by lg on Jun 21, 2024 2:13:28 GMT
Oh I’m sorry freecharlie I didn’t realise you were both married with kids and still in high school… Oh no, wait, that’s just their behaviour level still waiting for their frontal cortex to develop 😂 Seriously, some people never grow up. Glad you have! |
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Post by MichyM on Jun 21, 2024 2:23:08 GMT
Holy cow. She's just a piece of work, isn't she? WOW
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Post by Laurie on Jun 21, 2024 2:36:39 GMT
I am sure that reality has hit him with his girlfriend and everything he hoped things would be with her are not. He's just trying to make you feel like he is most likely feeling. You stayed in the house, have your kids respect you, and are doing just fine. Was it easy? Hell no, but you do what you have to get through it. I hope in five years he is just a distant memory and the girlfriend is dealing with a cheating spouse/boyfriend. She gets what she deserves. Happy you are on your way to living your best life. I would prefer that the homewrecker cheats on him so he can see what it feels like. Also for him to know he threw away a great family for a short lived fling. |
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Post by 950nancy on Jun 21, 2024 3:00:37 GMT
I am sure that reality has hit him with his girlfriend and everything he hoped things would be with her are not. He's just trying to make you feel like he is most likely feeling. You stayed in the house, have your kids respect you, and are doing just fine. Was it easy? Hell no, but you do what you have to get through it. I hope in five years he is just a distant memory and the girlfriend is dealing with a cheating spouse/boyfriend. She gets what she deserves. Happy you are on your way to living your best life. I would prefer that the homewrecker cheats on him so he can see what it feels like. Also for him to know he threw away a great family for a short lived fling. I can work with either. I'm flexible.  |
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Post by freecharlie on Jun 21, 2024 3:16:33 GMT
I am sure that reality has hit him with his girlfriend and everything he hoped things would be with her are not. He's just trying to make you feel like he is most likely feeling. You stayed in the house, have your kids respect you, and are doing just fine. Was it easy? Hell no, but you do what you have to get through it. I hope in five years he is just a distant memory and the girlfriend is dealing with a cheating spouse/boyfriend. She gets what she deserves. Happy you are on your way to living your best life. I would prefer that the homewrecker cheats on him so he can see what it feels like. Also for him to know he threw away a great family for a short lived fling. Honestly, I just want him to pay the damn taxes and be a decent father to our kids. They can ride off happily ever after for all I care...I like my life better now than the end of our marriage (I realize he was cheating at the time). That's why I call her the hhww- helpful home wrecking whore...she's still a home wrecker (mine and hers) but she helped me out. I'm trying to find another one from her. She was ranting that all I did when I told her husband was hurt her kids because she had already told him she wanted out and that I was selfish... |
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pantsonfire
Drama Llama
Take a step back, evaluate what is important, and enjoy your life with those who you love.
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Post by pantsonfire on Jun 21, 2024 3:24:16 GMT
WTF?! What sort of things did she used to send you? I was going to ask why on earth she would hate you, because you are the woman scorned, so to speak. But then I realised that of course she hates you, you're trying to steal " her" money and assets. How is she going to be able to go on so many overseas trips if her man, ahem, douchebag, has to pay you a lot of money?
Get over your need for revenge and let him get on with his life, you have been able to get on with yours thanks to him. He gave you the world while you were married and worked his ass off so you and the kids could live the lifestyle you wanted to. You mistreated him and took advantage of him every chance you got and now you want to keep doing so.
Make sure when you go crying to John about what a bitch I am, you let him know what a bitch you are Holy crap. She's a delight isn't she?? I am sorry you have to not only deal with your dead beat spouse but her as well. If you haven't already, I would make sure your lawyer has seen this and you take screen shots for records. |
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Post by AussieMeg on Jun 21, 2024 3:43:37 GMT
Oh wow, she's really something, isn't she?! I admire your restraint in not responding to her. I would have had to get someone to tie my hands behind my back to stop me from responding. You definitely did the right thing in ignoring her.
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