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Post by malibou on May 29, 2024 17:52:44 GMT
Thank you for checking in. I am sorry that you are in this position, it all feels very unfair.
Please keep yourself safe.
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Post by hop2 on May 29, 2024 18:03:00 GMT
Stay safe.
Hugs
I wish you the best and will think of you at trial time.
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Post by tinydogmafia on May 29, 2024 18:52:07 GMT
PLEASE stay vigilant and safe. The closer to trial, the more unhinged he could become.
Do you have security cameras? Please consider installing ASAP if you don't.
I am concerned for your safety. Sending nothing but positive energy your way.
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Post by Lurkingpea on May 29, 2024 20:13:45 GMT
Also, Op, make sure you have your phone with you at ALL times and charged in case you need to call 911.
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Post by kate on May 29, 2024 20:40:31 GMT
Thanks for checking in. Sending lots of positive energy your way.
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Post by disneypal on May 29, 2024 20:45:00 GMT
Just T - I just hate it so much for you that you are dealing with this, I can only imagine how hard this whole thing has been. You shouldn't have to go through this, no one should. ((HUGS))
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Post by snyder on May 29, 2024 20:49:27 GMT
Sorry this is such a shit show for you. I will say a prayer for your safety and that the judge will see through him and give you every dime you so deserve. {{{Hugs}}}
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Post by Rhondito on May 29, 2024 21:06:30 GMT
It's pretty serious when your attorney thinks your safety is at risk.
Please poke your head in here every so often, not to talk about your divorce but just so we know you're safe. <3
Hang in there, it's almost over!
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Post by Scrapper100 on May 29, 2024 21:38:29 GMT
It's pretty serious when your attorney thinks your safety is at risk. Please poke your head in here every so often, not to talk about your divorce but just so we know you're safe. <3 Hang in there, it's almost over! This. For your attorney to say that he must have acted very badly. I hope you stay safe and that this is over soon and he had to pay his fair share. Seriously including all the money he has spent in these trips. I hope you have someone on here that you can contact even if you don’t want to check in so we know you are safe. We are all pulling for you and thinking about you. |
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Post by ILoveToScrapPea on May 29, 2024 22:18:41 GMT
I pray this whole thing is over with soon.
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Post by quietgirl on May 29, 2024 23:36:42 GMT
Im so sorry you are going through so much. Im hoping this ends quickly for you and someone can get through to this idiot. Please be safe. Don't settle. You're in my thoughts.
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Post by AussieMeg on May 29, 2024 23:45:38 GMT
Ugh, I'm sorry that this is still dragging on. I hope you are able to get a trial date soon, so this can all be over, and you can start living your life again. Stay safe, and please check in every now and then.
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Post by janeinbama on May 30, 2024 0:24:21 GMT
We are all team Just T. So sorry ex is acting like a jerk, as he is showing the legal system his true colors.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on May 30, 2024 0:47:33 GMT
Sorry you're having to go through this. Hugs.
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Post by chaosisapony on May 30, 2024 1:42:34 GMT
Thanks for posting and letting us know that you are ok. What an ordeal. I'm glad you have a safe place to stay. Please try not to be alone too much, I know that's easier said than done, but there's safety in numbers. Good for you for sticking to your guns and not taking the low ball offer.
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Post by PLurker on May 30, 2024 4:33:57 GMT
Wishing you well, and a quick end to his legal nonsense. Stay safe!! ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻that☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 Here's to a quick wellness without him. |
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Post by lesserknownpea on May 30, 2024 9:07:37 GMT
Eventually this will be over. But your safety is the most important thing. I’m so sorry he is dragging this out and has been so unfair to you. It steams me up so much.
but it will be over. It will.
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Post by freecharlie on May 30, 2024 11:55:57 GMT
Ugh. I'm sorry this keeps being dragged out.
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Post by Just T on May 30, 2024 15:33:34 GMT
Make sure somebody knows where you are at all times. Maybe share your location at all times on your phone with someone I have been keeping my daughter and a few friends informed about everything. I have one friend who we have a code so if something goes awry, I can text her quickly and she will know I need help or a place to go. You and Freecharlie should meet for drinks one day and swap stories when you guys are ready! I would love that.  I am hoping to make a trip to visit my son in Denver later this summer. Does your lawyer think a restraining order would be beneficial? Maybe then he would have to find a place to stay and wouldn't he have to relinquish the firearm? Unfortunately, she said she has no real grounds for asking for an order of protection. He has never threatened me, now or ever. Never been violent. She said the judge will not issue an OOP based on her feeling that I am unsafe around him. I have a friend who is going through a divorce and has the same attorney and same judge I do. She has two minor children, and their guardian ad litum told this judge that her kids are afraid of their dad, and she didn't even get an order of protection against him. I still remember an article I read from a divorce attorney that talked about their biggest frustration being women just wanted it to be done and agreed to egregious terms. You know, sad to say, if I was younger, I may have been tempted, just to get this over with and be rid of him. But I will be 61 in a couple of weeks, and I don't make that much money, and I need to at least get enough to start over with. What he offered wouldn't even come close to doing anything to help me out, and honestly, with what I have put up with, and the large amounts of money he has spent and still does, along with other things I have discovered, I deserve way more. The closer to trial, the more unhinged he could become. I do worry about that, for sure! Also, Op, make sure you have your phone with you at ALL times and charged in case you need to call 911. I am definitely doing that. Thank you so much, peas. I know the end is in sight, and I also know it's probably going to get worse before it gets better. I really can't imagine he would do anything to me, but my attorney said the walls or closing in on him, and that is why she worries about what he might do. I will try to check in more. |
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Post by MichyM on May 30, 2024 17:42:31 GMT
I really really hope that the trial marks the beginning of the end of all of this for you. I am so sorry about everything he has put you though these past few years. Sending hugs and warm thoughts...
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Post by tanya2 on Jun 1, 2024 2:09:18 GMT
I am so sorry you're going through all of this
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Post by NanaKate on Jun 1, 2024 2:52:40 GMT
I’m so sorry. Please be careful.
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