Women can do everything men can seems to be toxic to men

Compete in men’s professional sports is the only thing that comes to mind. Generally we don’t have the physical strength to compete with men at that level.

We are physically weaker than men, so jobs that require strenght and stamina beyond what we are capable of, should be left to men (I’m all for gender preferential treatment, but not if that puts someone else at risk, for instance most, if not all, special forces jobs should be left to the guys. I know my country opened up for women to go through the same selection process as men, and they use women as operators since in some theaters they need females to talk to other females. But to my (albeit limited) knowledge, no woman has so far met the same criteria as the men. And as long as they don’t, they shouldn’t be allowed. I’m all for women in combat roles, but not when they can’t meet the same physical criteria).

Yeah, we all wish we could be home vacuuming and making bread instead of having to think about all these silly work things or getting advanced degrees and all. Besides, we're so emotional at certain times of the month, maybe the important stuff is best left to the fellas. Like this Instagram guy says, we should "create the most powerful synergy that exists in this entire world," you know, like the 50s where Dad sat in his chair reading while Mom cooked and brought him beer. All these lady astronauts, lady doctors, lady athletes, lady pilots are making it hard for guys, although I can't think how.

The guy in your Instagram post, like many guys, doesn't understand that "toxic masculinity" doesn't mean all masculinity. I had to enlighten DH about the difference when he started spewing nonsense. Our three daughters have been raised to be strong and independent so they chimed in, too. He gets it.

Contact sports from the safety standpoint, would make it unwise to compete head to head.

My grandson started playing hockey at 3-4 yrs of age. There were always girls on his team. It wasn’t until they were allowed to check (USA Hockey 12 and under could not check) that the separation was mandatory. I understand from the safety point. The AAA league he currently plays is in has some wonderful successful all girl teams. They are every bit as skilled as the boys.

Just my personal thoughts:

I think, based on the situation.... it is both competitiveness AND-OR superiority complex.

I think there are both men and women that *have to* win. They get pissed if they are beat, bested, don't win, someone else is better at "whatever it is".
I think there are both men and women, that like to feel superior to others. They seek out people who *they* believe are inferior to them.
A family member, a friend, a colleague, a neighbor, etc...
My ex-Husband was one of them. ...he couldn't stand anyone besting him at anything.
I have an acquaintance that is that way. He especially can't stand, if a women is better than him at anything. He is a classic case male chauvinist.
I have a female colleague, that hates if I do as much work as them. They like to be known as *the one* who does the most. 

Honestly, I think it all comes down to ego, pride and a persons character. 
Some have humbleness and grace, some don't.

Plenty of men out there who want women to do all the childcare and housework but also think a woman who wants to stay home with the kids is a lazy gold digger. Or the man resents or gets nervous about being the only one bringing in an income. Seems women can't win.

It isn't lost on me that the tradwife influencers are, in fact, taking time away from their home and family to produce content, post photos and videos, and interact with followers. They're working from home just like so many others do. Is that really the tradwife model? 

Disagree. While the average man is stronger than the average woman, those are just averages. Many women are plenty strong and can hang with average or stronger men just fine. I'm one of them, and I'm a 51 year old women who has lifted weights 3-4 times a week for 10-15 years. I'm not some kind of hardcore lifter with crazy genetics but I'm easily as strong as an average man. I know plenty of women who are stronger than me. 

And what exactly is "strength?" Just the ability to lift/move weight? There's a good body of research that shows women are better at ultra-endurance sports than men. Is that not a form of strength? On average, women are more flexible and agile than men as well. 

From my experience there’s a difference between a man and masculinity. Just like there’s a difference between a woman and femininity.

Everyone has a masculine and feminine side to them no matter what their gender or sexual preference is.

We need both because they work as a team but not both as in 2 people but both as in 1.

Pee with their pants still on. That's all I can think of.

If we are getting technical we can also do this 

My mom raised us as a single woman until I was 10, and she was so strong and so pro independence for women. My favorite shirt growing up was “anything boys can do girls can do better.”  (Yes, I can see how that could be taken as a problematic anti-male thought, but that’s not how it was presented to us). She really instilled in us that our gender should not hold us back, that we were just as capable, and we were fierce. 

As for the rest, I think that as far as size and strength go, the average man will be bigger and stronger than the average woman and that gives them (the gender) an advantage in those areas overall. But that absolutely does not mean that some women won’t be able to compete with them in sports and for anything requiring strength. Also, you can make the stereotype that women (as a gender) are better in caregiver and homemaker roles; but that’s simply because that’s how the majority of us were raised.  That’s changing and I am so glad to see it. Men can be just as caring and women can be just as strong and fierce as men can. 

I feel like all of the men I see fighting this fight are insecure and threatened in their place in the world and need something to feel superior. Because the only thing I think one sex can do that the other absolutely can’t is carry a baby. And I’m pretty sure that’s changing as well. 

This is satire from Gloria Steinem that was published in 1978, but if does ring true that if men had periods, they'd do it bigger and better than women.

If Men Could Menstruate

So, they genuinely ARE better at extending their own childhoods for a repulsive duration? Let's give them big trophies for it; they'll be so excited!