pinklady
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Post by pinklady on Jun 21, 2024 18:33:49 GMT
I have waaaaaaay too much paper crafting stash. I have more stamps and dies than I’ll ever need but you know what, I have zero guilt about it and it makes me happy. As I said in a thread the other day, my motto is "at least it's not drugs, alcohol or cigarettes".
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 18:34:01 GMT
I swear anaterra I'm going to try it for a little while. See if it motivates me.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 18:37:35 GMT
I have waaaaaaay too much paper crafting stash. I have more stamps and dies than I’ll ever need but you know what, I have zero guilt about it and it makes me happy. As I said in a thread the other day, my motto is "at least it's not drugs, alcohol or cigarettes". Would you like to see something really gross? I quit smoking 64 days ago. The first month I did not smoke, I bought hobby stuff with my smoke money. This is what I would have smoked in dollars the first month I quit. Be very, very shocked 😳😳😳 It's gross, isn't it?
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Jun 21, 2024 18:39:35 GMT
I have waaaaaaay too much paper crafting stash. I have more stamps and dies than I’ll ever need but you know what, I have zero guilt about it and it makes me happy. As I said in a thread the other day, my motto is "at least it's not drugs, alcohol or cigarettes". I used to always complain about DH because he has a tshirt collection that rivals my scrapbook stash.. and I would get so mad that he would come home with more tshirts.. and every run or every concert or every sporting event.. he had to buy at least 1 if not more.. seriously the man could wear a different tshirt every single day for a year and still have more for next year... 1 day at lunch a co-worker said.. you know at least it isnt alcohol drugs gambling or other women.. and that stopped me in my tracks... I dont complain about his tshirts anymore... but I agree it is the same with my hobby stash.. I am spending money and time on things that make me happy...
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Jun 21, 2024 18:41:37 GMT
{{{{ jeremysgirl }}}}} huge big hugs!!!! that is amazing... good for you... see all the more reason you should feel no guilt over the supplies you do have... you couldve put that all in your lungs and YOU MADE THE CHOICE NOT TOO!!!! I am proud of you
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Post by grammadee on Jun 21, 2024 18:43:23 GMT
I just bought a new embroidery set...I have never embroidered. But I had to have it. Caught myself just in time before I ordered a complete fabric painting set from one of the scrapbook sites!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 18:43:27 GMT
{{{{ jeremysgirl }}}}} huge big hugs!!!! that is amazing... good for you... see all the more reason you should feel no guilt over the supplies you do have... you couldve put that all in your lungs and YOU MADE THE CHOICE NOT TOO!!!! I am proud of you Thank you. I am finally at the point where it is getting easier.
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paget
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Post by paget on Jun 21, 2024 18:49:38 GMT
I wouldn’t say I get overwhelmed. Sometimes I feel a little…sickish? Guilty? About the amount of money spent knowing can’t possibly use it all. I really Like to have choices but I am also getting to (ok I am there) the point where I don’t want to have as much. I just prefer not a massive amount as it takes some of the joy out of it for me. So I canceled one of my 2 Ali subs for this month - and then promptly bought some travel release. 🤣 I enjoy my hobby- the buying, planning, organizing, creating- so I am Ok with a good amount (crap ton) of stuff but am Also conscious to limit my buying to some degree.
Interestingly, when I listen to other people or see videos with people with a big stash or having big leftovers from kits with no particular plans to use the rest it makes me feel uncomfortable about the waste- not judging them- but just… uncomfortable. Probably because it makes me look at myself more and see the ways I am similar.
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Jun 21, 2024 18:50:53 GMT
jeremysgirl what is the grinch fabric thing? Like a quilt or wall hanging?? Its cute.. I dont sew and I refuse to start.. lol.. i will say i have been tempted by the punch needle thing that is starting to trend...
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 18:58:05 GMT
paget said: it makes me feel uncomfortable about the waste- not judging them- but just… uncomfortable. Probably because it makes me look at myself more and see the ways I am similar. This is where I am too. And I think some of it has to do with the fact that I am very waste conscious about everything else in my life. Recycling, repurposing, reusing, sustainability. These are all part of my ethical framework. And I feel like my crafting just completely tips the seesaw to excess when I'm trying for balance or tipping in favor of the environment. I know I shouldn't feel that way. I know I should feel like life is a series of compromises and where someone else might be strong I might be weaker and vice versa. As long as we are all doing the best we can, I should feel like that is good enough with me.
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paget
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Post by paget on Jun 21, 2024 18:58:24 GMT
jeremysgirl what is the grinch fabric thing? Like a quilt or wall hanging?? Its cute.. I dont sew and I refuse to start.. lol.. i will say i have been tempted by the punch needle thing that is starting to trend... Haha. I bought punch needle stuff- it was going to be great!!! I gave it a go… and it ain’t turning out like a thought. And all the stuff sits. Do I need a more expensive needle, better canvas…. Or just need it to let that dream go. Sigh. I also don’t sew or quilt. But damn it, I have four boxes of baby/toddler clothes all three girls wore (cough cough 26-30 years ago) that I am just sure I’ll turn into a quilt someday. I even KNOW it’s not true but I can’t part with that dream. 🤣
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 18:58:35 GMT
jeremysgirl what is the grinch fabric thing? Like a quilt or wall hanging?? Its cute.. I dont sew and I refuse to start.. lol.. i will say i have been tempted by the punch needle thing that is starting to trend... It's a Grinch quilt kit. The paper shows what the finished quilt will look like.
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pinklady
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Post by pinklady on Jun 21, 2024 18:59:26 GMT
I have waaaaaaay too much paper crafting stash. I have more stamps and dies than I’ll ever need but you know what, I have zero guilt about it and it makes me happy. As I said in a thread the other day, my motto is "at least it's not drugs, alcohol or cigarettes". Would you like to see something really gross? I quit smoking 64 days ago. The first month I did not smoke, I bought hobby stuff with my smoke money. This is what I would have smoked in dollars the first month I quit. Be very, very shocked 😳😳😳 It's gross, isn't it? Congrats on the not smoking. I know it is really difficult to stop. However, that pic is not gross, that pic is heavenly! I see positive, your reward for doing something really hard!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 19:06:44 GMT
Would you like to see something really gross? I quit smoking 64 days ago. The first month I did not smoke, I bought hobby stuff with my smoke money. This is what I would have smoked in dollars the first month I quit. Be very, very shocked 😳😳😳 It's gross, isn't it? Congrats on the not smoking. I know it is really difficult to stop. However, that pic is not gross, that pic is heavenly! I see positive, your reward for doing something really hard! Thank you! It feels gross to me to see the money aspect of it laid out in front of me like that. I mean you think a few bucks here and a few bucks there and it's like a person who has a couple of Starbucks a day doesn't even realize or should say does not want to think about just how much that adds up to. Seeing it like that just makes me feel ill about all that money wasted.
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Post by flanz on Jun 21, 2024 19:22:30 GMT
with other things in my life that cause me to shut down and sometimes lose my "stitchy bug" for a short while. Maybe this is why this is hitting me hard today. I've had a big disturbance this past week that was so very upsetting after a relatively consistent period of calm. So I feel like all I've done is scroll the internet the past week and it feels like yuck. So that could be why this feeling was so intense this morning. Sending love and jumbo hugs to you Becki! xox
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Post by Zee on Jun 21, 2024 19:24:29 GMT
I don't feel guilty about it as long as I have a place to neatly store it that's not out in the open.
So many times, while making a project, I've thought "I have just the thing!" and then I complete the project feeling all smug when I point out to my husband that while I collected this random thing on a walk in 2013, it DEFINITELY needed to move across the country with us because Look, it's just what this project needed!
And he smiles and agrees because he's an enabler but also because yes, I DID need that rusty railroad spike.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Jun 21, 2024 21:05:00 GMT
I am a multi-craft SABLE crafter, sitting right there on that bench with you, jeremysgirl . I have (some) guilt, but not much. I haven't made a SB page or a card in at least 3 years, so all those purchases / supplies are just sitting there, staring me in the face. I am going to box them up and set them aside for at least another year or so, before I decide if I want to keep or donate them. Yes, there was an obscene amount of $$ paid for all of it. But it's spent now, and we had it to spend when I bought it, so... Since I stopped paper-crafting, I've gotten back into cross-stitching, so I have accumulated a pretty sizeable collection of charts, fabrics including hand-dyed linens, etc., hand-dyed flosses, some silk floss... you get the idea. AND I have two huge multi-year cross-stitch projects in process. When I buy the chart / fabric / etc., it's because I like it and I do have every intention of stitching it, someday. Right now I have at least 15-20 projects in-process (probably more), from large 19th century reproduction samplers, to small ornaments. I get distracted easily, lol. I've also recently gotten back into sewing with a machine (and quilting, specifically), so I'm now collecting / accumulating fabric and quilt related patterns. I started with my mom's fabric, which I got after she passed away, and I've bought more supplies and fabric from estate sales, thrift stores, JoAnn's, and specialty quilt stores, to buying cotton shirts from Goodwill specifically to cut them apart for fabric. Since I started the 'quilting' kick, I've made a total of TWO quilt blocks- one 6x6 inches, and one 10.5 x 10.5 inches. HAHA. So, in a nutshell, my thinking is this: - I see 'collecting' and 'creating' as two separate things; they trip different places in my brain, for different reasons.
The collecting is a treasure hunt, and I get a high from finding things I like / want. The 'creating' process is like meditation, putting me in a flow state while I'm doing it. I like looking through my cross-stitch pattern collection, or looking through my growing collection of books and magazines about quilting. - I am totally FINE with being a 'process' person. It's not so much about the finished product for me as it is the flow state / zen feeling I get while I'm in the process of doing the activity. (Although my intention for the quilts I hope to make is for them to go to the quilt guild program for finishing / donating to whatever organization needs them. And I do hope to complete a number of cross-stitch samplers and get them framed to display in our house.) Not every activity has to have a 'purpose' or an 'end' goal... sometimes the activity IS the purpose.
- I'm starting to think more about retirement... I'd love to retire within the next 10 years, and I will have plenty of things to do with my time, lol. (that's kind of in jest, but also sort of serious- we have the $$ now, so I'm buying things now. If they wait till I'm retired to get worked on, that's fine with me.)
and, in a bit of a different light... I live in the St Louis area, and see SOOOO many motor homes, RVs, and campers of all sizes sitting around in storage lots. MULTIPLE tens of thousands of dollars, just sitting there. Waiting for their owners to go on vacation with them... maybe 2-3 weeks out of the year, at best. Do you think those owners all have huge amounts of guilt over that 'stash' of camper? Probably not. They probably think: "It's there so I can use it when I want to; what's the big deal?"
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bethany102399
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Post by bethany102399 on Jun 21, 2024 21:20:44 GMT
I am both thrilled that you have quit smoking - I have watched my own parents and DH's parents struggle to quit, fail, start again then struggle to quit again so many times. I know it's hard and I applaud the tremendous effort it takes.
I'm also JEALOUS that you have an oliso! it's on my list of things I'm saving for when I start working again.
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Post by melanell on Jun 21, 2024 21:27:29 GMT
I've always had space constraints for my belongings, so that keeps my hobby purchases a bit more manageable. Now, my MIL, oh the other hand, is in her 80s and has an entire walk-in-closet---maybe 4' by 6'---that is floor to ceiling yarn. And she keeps buying more yarn. So yeah, that seems more than she will likely ever use. But, she can afford it, and she does have the space to keep shoving in more, LOL, and it makes her happy and there's no real harm. She tends to buy most of it second-hand, too, so that helps out in the face of any environmental concerns from consuming, kwim? And then she donates the items she makes. But even my own hobbies, for which I do buy new product, and for which I don't donate anything, still makes me happy. We all deserve something that makes us happy in life.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 21:34:01 GMT
First of all crimsoncat05 I am loving your cross stitch on Instagram. You are doing some beautiful things with that and if you need 1000 skeins? Of hand dyed floss, I say you deserve it. Your work is art. I also have the camper and we own a 4 wheeler too which seems to get less action than the camper. I do feel a little guilty about the money. I'm still not sure that my craft supplies have equaled the cost of Jeremy's 4 wheeler. But it's a lot about waste for me, both money and just flat out adding more crap to the environment. It feels wasteful to me to buy something, hold onto it for three years, and then feel like I'm drowning and never going to use it only to donate it. And maybe I need to change my brain on that. Because maybe it is no different than the money we are putting into our camper. For basically 3 camping trips a year. That somehow feels more worthwhile and justified than too many craft supplies. I need to think about this longer. Sort this thinking out. I'm also going to say that part of this too, and this is going to be a real mind bender that all of you are going to handslap me for. The camper is for *both* of us. The crafting supplies are just for me and me alone. I am a mother who raised two kids, three step kids (part time) and literally for years after everything was paid and food was bought we might have $5 in the bank. I have significantly more money now. I still don't have a ton, but all my needs are met and I luckily have relatively inexpensive wants. But there's still in the back of my mind the idea that I had it good before and lost literally everything and had to start over. That's a hard mindset to break.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 21, 2024 21:35:38 GMT
I am both thrilled that you have quit smoking - I have watched my own parents and DH's parents struggle to quit, fail, start again then struggle to quit again so many times. I know it's hard and I applaud the tremendous effort it takes. I'm also JEALOUS that you have an oliso! it's on my list of things I'm saving for when I start working again. This is the mini which Joann's sells for $60. I had walked past it many times not indulging. When this buy a month's worth of hobby stuff equal to cigarette spending came up I decided I was finally going to buy the thing.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jun 21, 2024 22:17:15 GMT
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Post by nightnurse on Jun 21, 2024 22:55:13 GMT
My over stuffed scrap room was the first thing I thought of when reading the thread about elderly parents and hanging on to stuff. I do not want my daughter to be stuck with a room full of paper and stamps and glitter that she will have to get rid of. Someone remind me in 20 years or so to downsize it all!
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 22, 2024 0:08:07 GMT
I have an inventory of scrapbook products (more than some, less than others). I continue to buy scrapbook products, because I have learned in the beginning years.....if I don't buy it when it comes out, then I might miss out on it (when it's sold out, there's no more...unless I can find it on a re-sale website). Though some(but not all) companies do more than one printing?, re-print?, re-release?, etc? (not sure what's called....multiple releases of the same line?) of popular collections and lines.
I love my scrapbook stash. I feel no guilt at all, I feel no overwhelm at all.....about my scrapbook stash and inventory of products.
Long ago, in the past....I did feel overwhelmed when I got behind and wasn't keeping up (ebb and flow of scrapbook productivity and get scrapbooks completed). Then along the way, I changed my life, and a part of that change was....not worrying (especially about what any one else thinks). I am still really behind, but I don't worry about it at all and I don't feel overwhelmed by it at all. It will get done, when it gets done.....and I am very okay with that.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 22, 2024 0:10:33 GMT
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Jun 22, 2024 0:14:48 GMT
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Post by ellen on Jun 22, 2024 2:12:44 GMT
Yes! I decided to hit the pause button on my crochet projects. I have a scrap project that I will pick up again in the fall. Then I think I need to work on using up my stash of leftover yarn for practical things like blankets to keep in the car during winter months. I made a bunch of little dog cowls to give to my friends’ dogs this past winter, but I barely made a dent in it.
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Post by ntsf on Jun 22, 2024 2:42:26 GMT
my dh just went and bought a hugely expensive suv.. lost all guilt on my part about whatever I have --scrapbooking and sewing...
(he consulted me about it.. but not a choice I would make and we can afford it).
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Post by lesserknownpea on Jun 22, 2024 9:56:04 GMT
I have stamps, scrapbook stuff and other art supplies , beads and other jewelry making stuff, cameras and lenses, sewing machines, and tons of watercolor paints and paper. I would have no problem with the amount if I had room for it all. But I have one bedroom in my son and DIL’s house, for my bed, clothes, everything. I’m always trying to make room.
But DIL and my granddaughter love that I have so many fun things for crafts and art projects.
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Post by peasapie on Jun 22, 2024 12:32:38 GMT
I can only say how I feel about my hobby of acquiring craft product. I look at it as a good thing. I enjoy shopping for it. I enjoy knowing that I have it here when/if I need it. Just having it brings me joy. Like having a stack of books on a table to read at my leisure. I might not get around to using any of this stuff waiting for me. And that’s ok with me. This is exactly how I feel. I’m happy to have some of this and that to create when I’m in the mood. I keep most on shelves in a large closet and a small amount on garage shelves. I’m pretty regular about purging - at least twice a year. I have a friend, however, who buys an outrageous amount of rubber stamps and paper every month through a website. Besides costing a lot of money, she needs two rooms in her home to store it all. She might use 10% of what she buys, if that. That feels kind of crazy to me but whatever floats your boat. She doesn’t have much else in her life and it makes her happy just to unbox this stuff. When my mom passed, my sister and I spent a couple of days going through her fabric stash and gifting to various groups. It was work, but not too bad considering the lifetime of happiness it gave her to create her projects. I’ve never heard of SABLE but I sure hope I die with a stash - that would mean I was creating til the end.
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