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Post by leannec on Aug 3, 2024 14:57:15 GMT
Hi everyone! Full disclosure here ... I was seriously contemplating leaving the dinner thread indefinitely ... I just don't feel like I am getting the support from the group that many other "popular" members are ... and then I realized that was completely "junior high" of me. I won't be posting the remainder of the photos of my best friend's visit because, frankly, no one seemed interested ... fair enough ... I will leave it at that and move on ... Today is a beautiful hot sunny one where I have absolutely no plans at all ... it is a long weekend and all of my friends who could afford to do things are busy ... my dd's return from their two week vacation to British Columbia tonight so I'm excited about that! I ordered a super cozy cat bed for my mum's cat from Amazon so if it arrives at a reasonable time I will take it over to her place and teach him how to use it ... it has a lid and he might not understand that you need to go inside ... seriously, he is not that bright - he gets by on his looks! Normally I watch a lot of the Olympics even though I am not athletic at all but this time around I have watched nothing ... this is what I posted on Facebook the other day: Dinner is undecided ... as per usual How is your dh doing today **GypsyGirl**? Re: the Thundershirt for dogs ... I have friends who have them and they say they are excellent! What are your plans today? What is on your menu tonight? Have a great Saturday everybody!
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 3, 2024 15:14:58 GMT
leannec , your post made me sad. I've enjoyed your photos and was looking forward to seeing if you went to the dinosaur museum. We went on our trip to the Canadian Rockies. Please continue to post your photos. Instead of walking this morning, DH and I are going to the pool. I'll do my water aerobics while DH swims laps then reads his book. Dinner is to be determined.
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sueg
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Post by sueg on Aug 3, 2024 15:16:47 GMT
leannec - I am sorry you don’t feel supported here. I love reading your posts, but I don’t know if I commented on your photos - as I usually post early, due to my time zone, I don’t always read everything or have time to respond before bed, and then by morning the thread has gotten away from me. Boring Saturday here. Normal grocery shop, then home for sport on TV and knitting. Some Olympics and some football - my team is currently on a preseason trip to Korea and played their first game against a decent opponent since our new coach started. In between sports I’ve been collecting things I’ll need for my hospital stay and stacking them on the guest room sofa ready to pack. Dinner tonight is going to be steak on the grill and fried potatoes. DH will have to brave the weather to cook, as our hot spell has been broken by a massive thunderstorm in the past few minutes.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 3, 2024 15:18:02 GMT
I am currently watching the vault finals as I clean. Does anyone here have a small pantry that they’d be willing to post pictures of I’m trying to re-organize mine and it’s not very big. All the ones on Pinterest are huge. leannec what holiday is it?
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bklyngal62
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Post by bklyngal62 on Aug 3, 2024 15:24:50 GMT
Hi everyone! Full disclosure here ... I was seriously contemplating leaving the dinner thread indefinitely ... I just don't feel like I am getting the support from the group that many other "popular" members are ... and then I realized that was completely "junior high" of me. You're not alone on this. I've stayed because even though I'm not "popular" I like the ladies here, including you. I live a boring life and sometimes have nothing going on (unless it's drama) and find I have nothing to post about. I'm glad you decided to stay. It's another hot day but did make time to spend some time working outside on my plants. Other the that I'll be working on my planner. No idea what's for dinner yet.
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Post by taylortroop on Aug 3, 2024 15:29:16 GMT
leannec: You’re certainly entitled to your feelings but just know that I consider you one of the “popular” peas on this thread. I love hearing about everyone’s day and seeing photos. Even if I don’t comment (I pea on my phone so I can’t see the thread when I’m responding and often forget who posted what), I also read and look forward to your posts. Thanks for the response about the Thundershirt. I’m still considering the purchase. The humidity has dropped somewhat here today but now the mosquitoes have taken up residence and it’s difficult to sit outside without getting eaten alive. DH and I went out for supper last night. I had a delicious meal consisting of pulled pork with mac and cheese covering a bed of mashed potatoes. I have enough left over to use as a side with my grilled steak tonight. I’m going for a bike ride with my best friend this afternoon.
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 3, 2024 15:42:53 GMT
leannec , you're my partner in crime. I never see anyone as popular or more important. bklyngal62, you are also a vital part of the tribe. Please don't feel that you're not welcome or wanted on the thread. You're both very integral parts of this tribe. Each one of you brings joy to the tribe. I would miss you both if you weren't here. leannec , I was enjoying the photos. It was great to see you out there have a great time. That truly made me happy to see. I love that you are a teacher who has raised 2 teachers. I don't want anyone to feel or think that they're not important here. Everyone is important. Please bring up topics that you want to discuss or ask fun questions. Everyone is a friend here. We're all equal and wanted. I wish some people would return who left during the great dinner thread migration. This isn't my thread. This is everyone's thread. Make it what you want it to be. I just host it M-F.
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quiltz
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Post by quiltz on Aug 3, 2024 15:47:06 GMT
leannec ~~ I do enjoy reading your posts and seeing the pictures of the different places you visited but, in true honesty, seeing women sticking out their tongues is a bit juvenile. I would like to see photos of the other places that you mentioned, but not necessarily the people, as I don't know them. This weekend is called "Civic" weekend in Ontario and probably in other provinces in Canada. This is not a Federal Statutory Holiday. The weather isn't great so staying home. Cleaning out the freezer & will see what is in there to eat.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Aug 3, 2024 16:03:12 GMT
Happy Hot & Humid as Blazes Saturday! August has arrived in full force. My two least favorite months here are Aug/Sept. Thank goodness for central a/c and a well stocked sewing/craft room! Sorry to read you considered stepping away leannec . Honestly, I think most of us have that feeling at one point or another. However, after 20 years here I've come to realize there are really no "popular" peas, just ones who are more vocal. The ones we view as 'popular' tend to post a whole lot as well as post all across the board, not just on a few threads here or there. In the past I've had the left out feelings but over time I realized that I am more of a wall flower and prefer to just read and focus on the threads that have meaning to me. The board is what you make of it! Hope you are feeling more up soon! This morning I'm going to make a grocery store run then go up to the hospital after lunch. I've become sick of fast food and am craving healthier food so dinner will be a fresh salad. Hope everyone has a good weekend! Thanks for checking! He's doing well, especially now that he knows he'll be released to the rehab facility early next week. It's been a bit difficult to keep his spirits up as he has been frustrated with how little PT time he is getting on the regular floor. But yesterday our first choice of rehab facilities called and will take him! We are just waiting on the insurance approval and the doctors to release him. They are ranked #2 in the nation and have the best program of the ones we looked at. His doctor would have preferred a different one but it didn't offer the amount of daily PT or reputation of TIRR. I've also had it with a couple of his doctors and I'm pushing back. Also, DH has worked with TIRR on an outpatient basis after Covid so we are comfortable. I will spend the afternoon with him and DD plans to have dinner with him. The two of us together tend to be a bit much for him at this point!
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paget
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Post by paget on Aug 3, 2024 16:22:34 GMT
Morning all! I wanted to pop in today as it’s the weekend (so I have more time) and say hi. leannec I think we all feel like that sometimes - here on other threads, in life. I’m glad you are staying. I enjoy your posts and pics and you sharing your life. I want to echo what taylortroop said- I pea on my phone and can only quote one person at a time. And I often (mostly) can’t remember anyone’s pea name and then can’t tag them. It’s frustrating! To comment I would have to take notes about names, who said, what etc and since I don’t do that, I feel like I am ignoring most of you and in my head I’m not!! As for popular I think it’s about who posts a lot, really. I am not “popular” but I think it’s a lot by choice - I keep to myself and don’t really share that many details here so others don’t get the chance to really know me on a personal level. I’m actually quite fun!! lol Besides my new (over a year now) job being kind of overwhelming, another reason I haven’t posted as much lately is due to absolute crap like someone said (not tagging them) to Leanne. Someone was just vulnerable about her feelings and they said they found her pictures juvenile? Just shut up. Seriously. How incredibly rude -now THAT’s immature. Why do you even say things like that? How is that helping? Did it make you feel better to maybe make Leanne feel worse? I am having a long weekend. Hannah’s birthday was Thursday. She would have been 28. I was going to post some things about her here but it was too hard. I’m feeling better today, though. I’ve eaten a lot of chocolate “for her” this weekend. I took a long weekend just to care for myself and take it easy. Thank you everyone that posts and gives me something to read- I appreciate everyone who is kind and thoughtful and encouraging here!
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Post by christine58 on Aug 3, 2024 16:29:23 GMT
**GypsyGirl** so glad your husband is making progress. So I’m in the process of looking at new living room furniture or rather great room furniture because I don’t really have a living room. My downstairs is wide open.the problem has always been the furniture you currently have and how do you get rid of it etc. etc. We found a place nearby, a county ministry that will take furniture and some other items but they won’t take TVs or electronics and they give them to people in need in my county and one other county. We found them after our neighbor passed away, and they came and took a lot of his furniture. So my dilemma is they’re coming on Tuesday to get my loveseat and possibly my couch that has one of those small chaise things. The lady that is in charge wasn’t sure they could take it until they look at it because of the size and the weight. And it’s not a huge one. It’s a smaller one. My dilemma is I don’t have new furniture yet. I’m contemplating if I find something that can’t be delivered until after they come, which is most likely what will happen, I may have them leave the couch. I hate looking for furniture. It’s so overpriced.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Aug 3, 2024 16:29:30 GMT
leannec there are only 3 of us Canadians in here. I love finding out stuff about you and western Canada. Who here is a bigger loser than me? I think everyone would rather I leave the thread. (If scrapmaven asked me to I would). I love your posts!
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Post by Tearisci on Aug 3, 2024 16:29:35 GMT
leannec I missed seeing your posts and always like what you post because you seem a lot like me- single and divorced and navigating life on your own. I probably feel more kinship with you than other peas so I would be sad if you left. I don't comment a lot on posts but I do try to like them. I'm watching the Olympics this morning before heading out to see Trap at the movie theater. It's going to be 100+ again today so hiding in a dark theater sounds heavenly. I'll probably head over to my sister's after that for a swim or just to hang out. I haven't really seen her since our trip last weekend so it will be good to hang. I think the parents are coming over too. Have a great Saturday everyone!
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paget
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Post by paget on Aug 3, 2024 16:31:00 GMT
leannec there are only 3 of us Canadians in here. I love finding out stuff about you and western Canada. Who here is a bigger loser than me? I think everyone would rather I leave the thread. (If scrapmaven asked me to I would). I love your posts! I really don’t think this is the case!!! You are always a kind Pea.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Aug 3, 2024 16:32:02 GMT
leannec do you have cool plans for Monday? I think we might go out to Sidney (near the ferries for those who haven’t visited). Maybe bbq some ribs.
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Judy26
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Post by Judy26 on Aug 3, 2024 16:40:37 GMT
paget Hugs and chocolate and more hugs to you as you remember lovely times spent with Hannah. Your post is one reason why this thread is so important each day. While little things can irritate and even infuriate us, when we truly need support it can always be found here. I am not a prolific poster but I am ever so grateful for the kindness and thoughtfulness and joy that is abundant on this sight.
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Post by paget on Aug 3, 2024 16:56:06 GMT
paget Hugs and chocolate and more hugs to you as you remember lovely times spent with Hannah. Your post is one reason why this thread is so important each day. While little things can irritate and even infuriate us, when we truly need support it can always be found here. I am not a prolific poster but I am ever so grateful for the kindness and thoughtfulness and joy that is abundant on this sight. Thank you, Judy26 <3
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 3, 2024 17:01:10 GMT
Delta Dawn, I would never ask you to leave. You're a really compassionate and friendly pea. It's always nice to see you here. paget, if you want to share stories about Hannah I would love to hear them. I know that you're a fun pea, based upon what you have said on previous posts. I was very happy when you returned to us. leannec, it sounded like you needed a pick-me-up from your tribe. I enjoyed your photo w/your friend. It's not just about what you saw, but it's also about how it made you feel. That you were having fun was the point and you felt comfortable sharing w/the rest of us. I love it anytime anyone is having fun. We need that on the thread. **GypsyGirl**, you are a strong woman, but I'm sure this is way past old. When your dh is in rehab I think you need to do a super duper pampering-yourself day. FTR-I'm not the boss of this thread. I'm just trying to do the good work of our beloved akathy. Anytime anyone thinks that I should be replaced, just say so. This isn't about me. This is just a place to call home each day. We just got back from the farmers market. I bought a fresh crusty baguette. So, I'll be making bruschetta this weekend from fresh tomatoes in the backyard. Today I'm just gonna putter. I'm still mega sleepy. Enjoy this weekend, my lovelies and remember that all are welcome here.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 3, 2024 17:16:57 GMT
paget . I’d love to hear stories about your daughter and you’re right it doesn’t get easier. My niece was alive. She would be turning 39 in September said she’ll only lived 30 months. She is missed and loved every single day.
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 3, 2024 17:19:41 GMT
christine58, you must have sweet stories about your niece, too.
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quiltz
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Post by quiltz on Aug 3, 2024 17:36:13 GMT
Hannah’s birthday was Thursday. She would have been 28. I was going to post some things about her here but it was too hard. I’m feeling better today, though. I’ve eaten a lot of chocolate “for her” this weekend. I took a long weekend just to care for myself and take it easy. The earthly reminders of our beloved dd's who are no longer with us are really difficult. It's been more than 20 years since my dd has passed. Just on the cusp of her becoming a young adult. Hugs and I'm glad that you are doing some self-care.
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 3, 2024 17:44:10 GMT
My heart goes out to you quiltz. ((((HUGS)))).
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Post by Linda on Aug 3, 2024 17:49:51 GMT
leannec - thank you for starting the thread. I was enjoying your photos but as someone who usually peas on a desktop but was on my phone most of the week, posting is harder so I've mainly been reading. (((Hugs))) paget - (((Hugs))) I'm glad you're taking time for yourself. Happy Birthday to your Hannah. **GypsyGirl** - I'm so glad that your dh is doing better and he'll able to go to the rehab of his choice. quiltz - (((Hugs))) Hi to all the dinner peas! DD17 is still on cooking duty and for the second week in a row, has gone to do the grocery shopping for me (DH is with her since she's still on a learners). I think she's making orange chicken and stir fry veg tonight. I'm feeling much better but still super exhausted from the Covid. And my taste buds are making eating a bit of a chore instead of a pleasure.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Aug 3, 2024 17:52:16 GMT
Well I've been offline pretty much all of the time I've been here. But it's a rainy day, I've had too much family time and so I am sitting in the camper right now reading the dinner thread. With my dog. Who we brought. Was carsick the whole way down and has been like babysitting a toddler all weekend. 🙄 They are having a hibachi person come out to the house in just a bit to make food and do the show. I can't eat that. Meat, butter, eggs. So I'll be making a big bowl of corn and beans salad. Which I love with tortilla chips. But I'm sure everyone will want to eat it. 🙄 This is a hazard of being a good cook. I tried to bring food for myself but everyone else wants to eat it. I'm practically starving here. But this thread is very weird today. leannec I care about you. I care about you so much that I was thrilled your friend was coming for a fun filled week because I tend to worry you don't have enough fun in your life. ❤️ Delta Dawn you are one of my absolute favorites. You have been a very good friend to me. 😘 scrapmaven you are the hostess with the mostest. Please don't stop being our weekday leader. And leannec I hope you keep being our weekend leader. But if you need to step back, then step back. I've had my moments with the dinner thread. Like any family really there are ups and downs. I like to talk to all of you, but even I feel bad sometimes because after dinner, I'm done with online usually so I miss the evening posters most of the time. If I had the chance, I'd talk to every single one of you! paget I'm sorry. I know it doesn't help to even hear that really. If chocolate is what you need to both mourn and celebrate, reflect and remember, then have all the chocolate you'd like. ❤️ I've been through 2 birthdays now and it is difficult. In a way a person who hasn't lost a child just does not understand. So we say we're sorry, and we are. 😘
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Post by karenlou on Aug 3, 2024 17:59:18 GMT
You're not alone on this. I've stayed because even though I'm not "popular" I like the ladies here, including you. I live a boring life and sometimes have nothing going on (unless it's drama) and find I have nothing to post about. I'm glad you decided to stay. This...absolutely...I often post late in the day and by that time there are so many posts with so much information, I just post my dinner plans and move on...unless there are words of encouragement/prayer request then I try to mention those. I do enjoy the commaradie of the group, however being a "newbie" I often feel left out. On that note, dinner will be what we didn't have last night, as there was torrential rains at dinner time so I didn't ask DH to grill, gave him $$ to get pizza!!! Tonight will be the ribs and salad.
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Post by ntsf on Aug 3, 2024 18:03:11 GMT
I am one who loves the pictures--and can't seem to figure out how to do it myself (yes, have looked at directions) and I actually enjoy reports on "boring daily life".. cause that is how it seems in many of our lives.. boring maybe but in totally different ways!! (odd fact.. can't remember who.. but one of the olympic usa team members is from Boring Oregon).
the air quality is not good today and lots of smoke, so sitting on the couch, reading and watching olympics. and working on putting away stuff I bought for our condo kitchen. it is tiny.. and storage is limited, so trying to make the most of every inch and dh's need to have it cleared always of all clutter. I did find room for most of the new dishes from his mom's kitchen. and I can store extra in storage unit. have two big boxes of the old dishes ready to go to my fav thrift store. it supports the private community library.
dinner will be salad and baked salmon.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 3, 2024 18:08:43 GMT
christine58 , you must have sweet stories about your niece, too. Actually, other than I loved spending time with her they really aren’t any stories. She was born brain damage due to lack of oxygen at birth. She never walked. She never crawled. She never cried. She never talked, but she sure was loved
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 3, 2024 20:29:30 GMT
I am so humbled to hear the stories of our group who have lost children/nieces. It breaks my heart to think of the pain you suffer every year on the anniversary. And please, don't anyone think they are a less valuable member of our group than anyone else. I treasure every one of you and look forward to interacting and/or reading about your days. Big group hugs to everyone.
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Post by stormsts on Aug 3, 2024 21:29:07 GMT
leannec I am so sorry you are feeling that way. I enjoyed your pictures with your friend. ALL of them. I don't look at anyone as more popular or less popular. Some of you have been on this board so much longer than myself. I do not post much. This is the only thread that I am a regular on. I enjoy each and every one of you. **GypsyGirl** that is great that your DH is getting to go to his facility of choice! I have felt like absolute crud the past 2 days. I have done nothing but just sit around the house. I guess it's a good thing the Olympics are on. I did finish a book that I had been reading forever. No clue what is for dinner and it is already 5:30. DH said he would go to town and get us something.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 3, 2024 21:45:07 GMT
I have decided to fix our favorite summer salad with the strawberries, grilled chicken, greens, sugar snaps, bleu cheese crumbles and sugared pecans. I could literally eat it every day! We also realized the dealership washed my car when I had it in on Thursday for new front brakes.
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