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Post by gar on Aug 11, 2024 19:45:31 GMT
I assume she removed it as suggested earlier in the thread because it contained his name etc etc. |
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 11, 2024 20:20:50 GMT
I assume she removed it as suggested earlier in the thread because it contained his name etc etc. Good as I thought I was crazy. I'd be asking for half of them in the divorce or half the race entry fees for as many as I could track.  |
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Post by chaosisapony on Aug 11, 2024 20:21:40 GMT
Those pictures are pretty crazy, it would drive me nuts to have to see that stuff every day knowing what was really going on while he was collecting his precious medals. Honestly I'd probably take great delight in selecting a few at random and chucking them while he was gone.
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Post by rickmer on Aug 12, 2024 3:13:31 GMT
dang, I look forward to you never having to see any of it again, when that finally happens.
I can't see pic either, but from your description and the p's observations, I assume it's excessive.
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 14:32:38 GMT
I just posted some pics in the original post that don't contain things that show his name. Sorry for the confusion, but it was pointed out to me that some of the other pics I posted did, so I deleted them all until I had a chance to look at them more carefully to find pics that didn't show his shadow boxes, which have his race bibs with his name on them.
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 14:34:28 GMT
I'd be asking for half of them in the divorce or half the race entry fees for as many as I could track. My attorney told me that one of the things the forensic accountant is doing is figuring out how much money he has spent on his fun trips since I filed for divorce so she can ask for half of that for me. |
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Post by wezee on Aug 12, 2024 14:52:08 GMT
I assume she removed it as suggested earlier in the thread because it contained his name etc etc. Thank you lol |
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 12, 2024 15:11:17 GMT
Holy Sh*t.. good riddance to him!
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Post by littlemama on Aug 12, 2024 15:43:29 GMT
I wonder what the value of those would be as scrap metal...
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Post by twinks on Aug 12, 2024 15:54:22 GMT
He is the cause to the demise of your marriage.
But holy sh*t that is a lot of medals and a sh*t load of money spent. RunDisney is not cheap. Most races are not cheap, especially if you are going out of town. For example, my DD is running a 10k in Disneyland. Registration fee was $175. Airfare for her only was $270. Hotel is $229 a night. Then food/nutrition. Just picked up some nutrition, socks and new shoes for her and it was over $250. Because she will be training in the Winter, when it is actively snowing she will need to train at the indoor track at $5 a time. Furthermore, he is a compulsive liar. No one who is traveling for a race is sleeping on the floor with a bunch of runners. Sorry dude!
While it sounds tempting and you are certainly justified, I would not mess with his medals or his stuff. He is taunting you and has been for years. It will backfire and make you out to be mean and vindictive. That said, I would quietly get a 5x7 photo of his “friend” and him at the race in Kenya and put it with all his stuff. No comment necessary. I maybe inclined to put a note in the frame and say something like “who is the dumb one now?” Photos and documentation. That is the most you can and should do.
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Post by twinks on Aug 12, 2024 15:55:56 GMT
Sorry I forgot to add that you need to get your stuff out of his space. For you!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 12, 2024 17:30:42 GMT
As much as I thought it would great to put out a framed photo of him and her, do NOT do it. He does not need to know what you might know!! Just T |
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Post by YooHoot on Aug 12, 2024 17:35:27 GMT
I’d be on Etsy so fast making him a “shitbag husband” medal…
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 17:57:58 GMT
As much as I thought it would great to put out a framed photo of him and her, do NOT do it. He does not need to know what you might know!! Just T I definitely won't. It sounds fun, but yeah, I try hard to keep from telling him what I know.  He thinks I am stupid, and I am okay with him thinking that. LOL |
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 17:58:23 GMT
I’d be on Etsy so fast making him a “shitbag husband” medal…  |
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 18:00:14 GMT
Sorry I forgot to add that you need to get your stuff out of his space. For you! I have for the most part. I only go in there to get clothes out of the closet, and I don't even do that very often. |
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 18:03:38 GMT
He is the cause to the demise of your marriage. But holy sh*t that is a lot of medals and a sh*t load of money spent. RunDisney is not cheap. Most races are not cheap, especially if you are going out of town. For example, my DD is running a 10k in Disneyland. Registration fee was $175. Airfare for her only was $270. Hotel is $229 a night. Then food/nutrition. Just picked up some nutrition, socks and new shoes for her and it was over $250. Because she will be training in the Winter, when it is actively snowing she will need to train at the indoor track at $5 a time. Furthermore, he is a compulsive liar. No one who is traveling for a race is sleeping on the floor with a bunch of runners. Sorry dude! While it sounds tempting and you are certainly justified, I would not mess with his medals or his stuff. He is taunting you and has been for years. It will backfire and make you out to be mean and vindictive. That said, I would quietly get a 5x7 photo of his “friend” and him at the race in Kenya and put it with all his stuff. No comment necessary. I maybe inclined to put a note in the frame and say something like “who is the dumb one now?” Photos and documentation. That is the most you can and should do. I've thought for years that was BS. Especially the times that he told me there were so many of them sharing a room that he slept in the bathtub. Yeah, right. You are going to run a marathon, then sleep in a bathtub. LMAO I won't mess with his stuff. I don't want to give him and his attorney any reason for bringing up something crappy that *I* did. It's so tempting, believe me. I do hope that someday, I will have the satisfaction of him realizing I'm not as dumb as he thinks I am, though. |
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Post by wezee on Aug 12, 2024 18:24:20 GMT
Holy crap! I’d be tempted to take one a day I don’t know what I’d do with them lol. just the time spent running those was abandonment. Not to mention the cost! Based on money alone you are entitled half of them lol
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Post by MichyM on Aug 12, 2024 19:26:10 GMT
He is the cause to the demise of your marriage. But holy sh*t that is a lot of medals and a sh*t load of money spent. RunDisney is not cheap. Most races are not cheap, especially if you are going out of town. For example, my DD is running a 10k in Disneyland. Registration fee was $175. Airfare for her only was $270. Hotel is $229 a night. Then food/nutrition. Just picked up some nutrition, socks and new shoes for her and it was over $250. Because she will be training in the Winter, when it is actively snowing she will need to train at the indoor track at $5 a time. Furthermore, he is a compulsive liar. No one who is traveling for a race is sleeping on the floor with a bunch of runners. Sorry dude! While it sounds tempting and you are certainly justified, I would not mess with his medals or his stuff. He is taunting you and has been for years. It will backfire and make you out to be mean and vindictive. That said, I would quietly get a 5x7 photo of his “friend” and him at the race in Kenya and put it with all his stuff. No comment necessary. I maybe inclined to put a note in the frame and say something like “who is the dumb one now?” Photos and documentation. That is the most you can and should do. I've thought for years that was BS. Especially the times that he told me there were so many of them sharing a room that he slept in the bathtub. Yeah, right. You are going to run a marathon, then sleep in a bathtub. LMAO I won't mess with his stuff. I don't want to give him and his attorney any reason for bringing up something crappy that *I* did. It's so tempting, believe me. I do hope that someday, I will have the satisfaction of him realizing I'm not as dumb as he thinks I am, though. Honestly, I want to be you when I grow up. Your self-restraint is HIGHLY commendable! |
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 12, 2024 20:02:37 GMT
Wow! All of that in your bedroom? Just those photos could be evidence in all of the trips/$$$ he spends.
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 12, 2024 20:05:03 GMT
I won't mess with his stuff. I don't want to give him and his attorney any reason for bringing up something crappy that *I* did. It's so tempting, believe me. I do hope that someday, I will have the satisfaction of him realizing I'm not as dumb as he thinks I am, though. Play the long game, my friend. |
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Post by Just T on Aug 12, 2024 20:08:40 GMT
Wow! All of that in your bedroom? Just those photos could be evidence in all of the trips/$$$ he spends. My attorney has all the pics. And honestly that is only a fraction of them. All the other pics I took have shadow boxes in them with stuff that identifies his name, so I took those down. I've thought about actually counting them, but I don't know if I have the stomach for it.  |
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Post by Zee on Aug 12, 2024 20:49:24 GMT
I won't mess with his stuff. I don't want to give him and his attorney any reason for bringing up something crappy that *I* did. It's so tempting, believe me. I do hope that someday, I will have the satisfaction of him realizing I'm not as dumb as he thinks I am, though. Play the long game, my friend. Revenge is a dish best served cold! |
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 12, 2024 20:49:52 GMT
At a minimum each medal costs $1000-$2000, and for sure Kenya thousands...
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Aug 12, 2024 21:36:18 GMT
Remember “Toddlers and Tiaras” and how parents would display the sashes and trophies their kids would win? These medal displays are giving off that same vibe.😂😂
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 12, 2024 22:43:18 GMT
I'd be asking for half of them in the divorce or half the race entry fees for as many as I could track. My attorney told me that one of the things the forensic accountant is doing is figuring out how much money he has spent on his fun trips since I filed for divorce so she can ask for half of that for me. Is that likely to be granted? I bloody well hope so! OMG, can you imagine how pissed off he would be! |
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Post by bethany102399 on Aug 12, 2024 23:01:36 GMT
Then food/nutrition. Just picked up some nutrition, socks and new shoes for her and it was over $250. So I read that too fast and got nutrition socks for $250 bucks. I then wondered what the heck a "nutrition sock" was, like a sock that lets you take in nutrition through your feet? I then went back and read it with the comma inserted and now it makes more sense. |
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Post by Scrapper100 on Aug 12, 2024 23:36:38 GMT
Wow. That’s insane. That’s an insane amount of medals. I missed the first photos but wow. Just wow. I hate that he is still living in the house snd that he gets the master especially knowing how often he is not even using it. I mean it’s good that you don’t have to see him as often but that shrine of medals is insane.
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Post by shamrock on Aug 13, 2024 1:49:11 GMT
Wow. That is a lot of medals. A lot of money went into all the race fees, gear & travel costs to get all those medals. I’m gels to read that there is a forensic accountant involved to detail the cost of it all. I’m sorry you are having to go through all the headache and trouble you are in dealing with this. But good for you for fighting for what you deserve!
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 13, 2024 12:04:50 GMT
I'd be asking for half of them in the divorce or half the race entry fees for as many as I could track. My ex demanded half of my scrapbooking supplies… in a separate letter from his attorney that I had to pay my attorney to respond to. Don’t lose sight of the goal. The big picture is a divorce with a fair and equitable financial outcome. Petty games can pay petty prizes. |
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He thinks I am stupid, and I am okay with him thinking that. LOL 
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