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Post by freecharlie on Aug 11, 2024 18:12:39 GMT
I thought it was today, but it was yesterday.
2 years since my divorce was granted and I can honestly say that I am grateful he is gone.
I've come a long way since the day I caught him cheating. I'm stronger, wiser, more confident, and happier.
Thank you for all the support and advice you all have given. I was prepared because of the Peas.
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Post by librarylady on Aug 11, 2024 18:38:12 GMT
Have a celebratory dinner tonight!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 11, 2024 18:45:15 GMT
Glad you have come so far!!
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Post by Merge on Aug 11, 2024 18:58:53 GMT
So happy for and proud of you! I really admire how you've gone out there and created the life you want.
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Tearisci
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Post by Tearisci on Aug 11, 2024 19:05:42 GMT
Congratulations! I know I'm overall happy that we're divorced and I'm in a much better place now!
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Aug 11, 2024 19:06:53 GMT
WOOOT! Raising a glass to you! Do something special just for you today. <3
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Aug 11, 2024 19:48:34 GMT
I am so glad you are living your life on your terms. You are a trooper!!
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Post by pinklady on Aug 11, 2024 19:49:07 GMT
I thought it was today, but it was yesterday. 2 years since my divorce was granted and I can honestly say that I am grateful he is gone. I've come a long way since the day I caught him cheating. I'm stronger, wiser, more confident, and happier.Thank you for all the support and advice you all have given. I was prepared because of the Peas. Oh wow, I didn't realize it had been that long. No joke, not too long ago I was reading a post of yours and thought wow freecharlie must be in such a better place. The bolded above honestly comes thru in your posting. |
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Post by pilcas on Aug 11, 2024 20:05:51 GMT
Congrats! So happy for you. A hard move to make but you made it through to the other side.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 11, 2024 20:20:31 GMT
I'm stronger, wiser, more confident, and happier. That's the important part. You did it. We're proud of you. |
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Post by cakediva on Aug 11, 2024 20:34:29 GMT
I'm happy for you. You did this and came out the other side all the better. Yay!
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Post by gillyp on Aug 11, 2024 21:12:14 GMT
So pleased you have reclaimed yourself and grown and blossomed.
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Post by malibou on Aug 11, 2024 21:22:27 GMT
Happy Divorciversary! That's a fun word to say! I'm proud of you for standing against him. You've done a super job of moving on and reclaiming your life. Please continue to live exactly as you please.
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 11, 2024 22:52:42 GMT
Woot! Love that you even forgot the exact date as well. Good riddance. Hope he had to pay the house taxes and that he's enjoying his "upgraded" life.
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moodyblue
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Post by moodyblue on Aug 12, 2024 0:03:57 GMT
I am truly happy for you. And very glad you built the life you want now.
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Post by mom on Aug 12, 2024 1:21:48 GMT
Im proud of you!
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Post by quietgirl on Aug 12, 2024 2:21:18 GMT
Im really happy for you!
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rickmer
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Post by rickmer on Aug 12, 2024 3:07:45 GMT
well that is certainly something to celebrate!! congrats to moving on and putting it behind you.
made me wonder what my divorce-aversary is and actually, it's TOMORROW. it's only been 1 year for me, although we technically separated in Dec 17, I moved out in Jul 2019 and our separation agreement was finally signed Dec of that year. took til last year to finalize as he started court proceedings, had to go thru that process in courts, but covid hit and then post-covid backup.
we actually get along *fairly* well finally (he decided earlier this year to let go of his anger after 6 years apart) but I wouldn't go back FOR ANYTHING. hope life continues to be positive!!!
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Post by snyder on Aug 12, 2024 3:10:58 GMT
Congratulations! Glad you were brave enough to go for it with full force. You deserved so much better and I'm happy for you.
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Post by scrapmaven on Aug 12, 2024 3:24:25 GMT
I remember when you came to the board and told us about it. My my. You've come so far. You've stood up for yourself and grown in ways you new imagined. Enjoy the heck out of your new life.
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Post by KikiPea on Aug 12, 2024 11:20:23 GMT
So glad that you are living a happier life. Good for you!
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Post by melanell on Aug 12, 2024 11:46:58 GMT
I'm so happy for you that so much of this is now behind you, but also, hugs because I know sometimes looking back at a difficult time in life can leave one feeling a bit emotional, too.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 12, 2024 13:16:53 GMT
Two years! I can't believe it's been that long. I'm so pleased for you that you're happy with your new life. You deserve to be happy!
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teddyw
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Post by teddyw on Aug 12, 2024 16:24:15 GMT
So happy for you.
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Post by AngieandSnoopy on Aug 12, 2024 16:31:25 GMT
Mine was 33 years ago sometime this month but I don't count that, I count packing up and moving to a new state the middle of June of the previous year. Except I frame it is when my life finally started after leaving that lying, cheating, abusive and verbally abusive POS. Sometimes, divorce is the only solution. Glad you are doing well.
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Post by peasapie on Aug 12, 2024 16:49:47 GMT
Congratulations to you! So glad you are on a new path now and enjoying life!
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ddly
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Post by ddly on Aug 12, 2024 18:28:21 GMT
Congrats!! So glad you’re happy and doing well!
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Post by compeateropeator on Aug 12, 2024 18:38:29 GMT
Congratulations and happy celebrating your accomplishments and happiness. I am sure it was a long hard road but now you get to reap the rewards. Enjoy it all and be so proud for all that you have achieved and overcome.
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Post by woodysbetty on Aug 12, 2024 18:39:13 GMT
Glad life is going well!! Such a wonderful feeling after such a difficult time.
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huskergal
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Post by huskergal on Aug 12, 2024 19:50:20 GMT
Congratulations! Celebrate you!
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