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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2024 14:27:30 GMT
Just found out this morning that I have to have a partial hysterectomy and a bladder sling and mesh (2 prolapses) and bladder issues when I laugh, cough, squat, sneeze, etc.
Questions I have are: how was recovery? How long were you off work (I'm a sub teacher so stand almost all day)? Were you able to clean, cook, vacuum, laundry, etc. or what were your restrictions???
Just wondering if anyone had any of these 3 surgeries or all together (which is what I'm having) and has experience to share. Thanks!
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Aug 21, 2024 14:46:12 GMT
Several friends have had hysterectomies and 2 had bladder surgeries as well.
They all had different healing times. They all had varying pain. One has complications.
I know going in for my full hysterectomy that it will go how it goes.
They said to plan for 6-8 weeks off. No driving. No lifting. No stairs for 2 weeks.
The most fit friend of the group (she runs marathons) was knocked down for 10 weeks. It took her almost a year to get back to her regular running.
Your doctor will have the best info for you.
The peas experiences in the past have always varried as well.
Prayers it all goes well and you have minimal pain and no complications!!
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Post by emptyskullz on Aug 21, 2024 15:06:24 GMT
I had that surgery, recovery was fine. However, the bladder sling part failed. So I still have issues there when I get colds and cough/ sneeze. But the hysterectomy part was the best decision ever! Cynthia
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 22, 2024 5:19:27 GMT
Please make sure you look into the mesh bladder sling carefully. Not that I need one (yet!!), but after reading the horror stories from women and the huge class action here in Australia against a US company, I have been scared off them. I'm sure there are thousands of women whose surgery was successful, but still...
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Post by wellway on Aug 22, 2024 6:40:00 GMT
I'll echo what AussieMeg posted as the mesh was a story here in the UK just a couple of days ago. BBC More than 100 women who experienced pain and complications from transvaginal mesh implants have received payouts from three manufacturers of the products. The financial settlement offered by companies Bard, Boston Scientific, and Johnson & Johnson has not been disclosed. This is the first successful group claim in England after some 10,000 women were injured by mesh implants, which treat incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse. Some women were left in permanent pain, unable to walk, work or have sex. More in link www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clylng1dqx2o
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Post by mommaho on Aug 22, 2024 9:28:21 GMT
I had a complete hysterectomy 23 years ago, the only complications I had was I couldn't use the hormone patch because I was allergic to the adhesive! I was out of work for 4 weeks. A friend had the sling and it worked for about 4 years until it didn't.
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Post by KiwiJo on Aug 22, 2024 9:33:48 GMT
I worked for many years before I retired a few years ago, for a company that imported mesh and bladder sling products, and distributed them to hospitals nationwide. Yes, there is certainly very real concern about the use of mesh and bladder slings in SOME situations, and many/most of the products available have been banned in NZ and Australia for use in those particular situations. However there are still some types of mesh products that are appropriate and helpful in certain situations. I was involved in providing the information about our products to NZ’s regulatory agency, but it was some years ago now, and I no longer have access to up-to-date information.
There are different mesh products available - all “mesh products” are not equal to each other. There are also different procedures, with mesh products being excellent for some, and not advised for others.
Please don’t be alarmed when you read of the warnings from others, who have heard about the well-documented and proven terrible results many women have experienced - we don’t know the details of your procedures, whereas your medical team will have all the latest information about the products and will know whether the products currently available will be suitable for you. Perhaps you might like to mention the concerns you’re hearing, and have them explain to you how they relate to your situation. You can be certain that your physicians are aware of the problems mentioned - information about all medical adverse events worldwide are available to all regulatory bodies worldwide - and I’m sure you can have confidence in the recommendations.
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Post by underwatermama on Aug 23, 2024 4:48:21 GMT
I had a bladder sling surgery 10+ years ago. I am not sure if there was mesh involved or not, but I'm assuming there was. It was done by a gyno-urlogist and and it was one of the best things ever for me. It's still in place. The recuperation reminded me of after having a baby. You are sore and have a weight limit on lifting, like a gallon of milk or something.
Good luck!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 23, 2024 22:07:45 GMT
We live in a home built in the 60's so the toilets are the shorter ones. Will it be hard to get up and down (sorry, tmi) from those?
Did you have to sleep on your back or were you able to sleep on your side? I'm a side sleeper.
Do I need to buy some bladder pads for the first little bit?
Thanks!
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Post by KiwiJo on Aug 23, 2024 22:18:14 GMT
Based on my own total hysterectomy, but no bladder surgery - the toilets should be fine. Strengthen the muscles in advance by doing lots of sit-to-stand exercise. I did find it more comfortable to sleep on my back - be creative when finding ways to be comfortable eg pillow under your knees is more comfortable for me than flat on my back. Even sleep the first few nights in a recliner chair if you have one. Probably a good idea to have some continence pads on hand, it can’t hurt.
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Post by bc2ca on Aug 24, 2024 2:12:07 GMT
Did you have to sleep on your back or were you able to sleep on your side? I'm a side sleeper. Do I need to buy some bladder pads for the first little bit? I had a major abdominal surgery in May that included a full hysterectomy (but not the bladder sling and mesh). I had to sleep on my back for 6-7 weeks. It was up to me to transition to side sleeping when it felt comfortable again. As a side sleeper, this was definitely a challenge. I found it most comfortable to back sleep with a pillow under my knees. I wore bladder pads for the first week or so as extra insurance/comfort. The combination of weak/sore muscles and slow post-surgery getting up and walking to the bathroom as quickly as needed could be challenging. The hospital OT/PT signed-off on whether I needed the help of a walker or could take care of using the bathroom on my own. You should be assessed and taught how to transition comfortably before being discharged. When DH had his hip replacement he loved his walker for bathroom transitions but I didn't need it. The PT also cleared me to use stairs before leaving the hospital so I was able to sleep in my own bed. As someone else mentioned, lifting is limited to about 10 lbs (gallon of milk as mentioned above is a good benchmark) so you might need help getting groceries (including pushing the cart, moving bags to the trunk and from the trunk to house). You should not do any cleaning that requires lifting, lunging and bending over for several weeks, so I didn't do any vacuuming, mopping or bathrooms. We set up a table near the laundry room because I usually work from baskets on the floor. I only needed help moving full baskets around the house. I was fine cooking, but needed help with things like moving a big pot full of water for pasta or heavy Dutch ovens. I could walk the neighborhood, but couldn't walk our pup. Another restrictions was no water immersion (bath, pool, etc.). I was cleared to drive after 4 weeks but didn't have other restrictions lifted until 11 weeks post surgery.
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Post by lily on Aug 26, 2024 18:13:58 GMT
I went in for a vaginal hysterectomy and bladder sling. WELL. They could not get my uterus out via the vagina so they had to do an incision across the abdomen...it was very low and about 8" long. Even then they had a hard time getting it out .. doctor said it was really held in there well. They left the ovaries and tubes (which I really wish they had taken at least the tubes too). Anyway because it ended up being so much more invasive they skipped the bladder sling part as they didn't want to add to my discomfort.
Frankly it was a hellish couple weeks at first. My husband did almost everything for me. We have high toilets and he had to help me on and off. He had to help me in and out of bed even. Getting off the couch was a nightmare. My husband took care of changing the incision bandage everyday too because I could not bend over enough to see it and could not stand long enough to try and do it in a mirror.
SO....sorry to be a downer but I hope yours is easier!! But yeah those low toilets will be hard. I suggest getting a toilet riser from the medical supply store. Frankly a walker probably would have been helpful too. Oh and an abdominal binder was very helpful.
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Post by iowgirl on Aug 26, 2024 19:03:19 GMT
We live in a home built in the 60's so the toilets are the shorter ones. Will it be hard to get up and down (sorry, tmi) from those? Do yourself a favor. Replace with the tall potties. You will question why you ever waited to do it. We had to replace a toilet about 10 years ago. Our plumber brought the tall one, and I questioned that... boy he was right. He said unless you are full time potty training a bus load of kids - get the tall pottie.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2024 21:37:41 GMT
We are planning on a remodel of the upstairs bathroom in the next few months and definitely plan to buy the taller toilets!!! Going to get one for the lower bath as well. Surgery aside, my knees are starting to make climbing steps and sitting on the floor difficult, as well as getting up from the low toilets, so I'm looking forward to that. I'm thinking I'm going to have to get one of those raised seats for the surgery as my DH will have to go back to work after a few days and I don't want to struggle to get up and down of the toilet! Ugh! The joys of getting older!
Thanks all for your advice!
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Post by stacyscrapper on Aug 30, 2024 11:13:45 GMT
I had a partial hysterectomy with pelvic floor and bladder repair. No mesh, the dr somehow corrected the prolapse issues without mesh. I agree with The pea who compared it to childbirth recovery. Similar fatigue, sitting on one side to avoid hurting the stitches, fear of going to the bathroom, etc. One of the worst parts for me was going home with a catheter. Once that was removed(maybe 2-3 days after being home?) recovery was much better. I believe I was home from work for a couple of weeks. I had little kids and it was awhile before I could drive them around and be really useful, I remember. One thing I will share is that I almost immediately felt better than I did pre-surgery. The prolapse had been hurting my back and leaving me constantly winded and tired from the downward pull. Even as I recovered, there was a serious feeling of relief. Good luck! Wishing you a smooth process.
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