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Post by deekaye on Aug 31, 2024 16:17:43 GMT
We knock on our parent's doors as we are entering (and "yoohoo"), just to let them know we are coming in and not to get up (both elderly).
One oldest daughter's house we always just let ourselves in - door always locked but we know the code. They live four hours away so never just an unexpected "drop-by" visit.
Our youngest daughter we always knock and wait for her or husband to open the door. I don't know why, we have a close relationships with both daughters and their husbands, it just seems natural not to walk in to youngest's house.
My bestie will "yoohoo" as she is opening the door. I like our neighbors but would be surprised if they walked in. I would always knock on their doors and wait to be let in too.
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Post by snyder on Aug 31, 2024 16:27:08 GMT
Are these houses just unlocked that anybody can walk in? A foreign concept to me. It's Hollywood. lol
I knock at everyone's home.
My mom is very elderly, and I knock to altert her and then go in, but she always knows I'm coming as I call before I go.
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Post by katlady on Aug 31, 2024 16:56:15 GMT
I am surprised how many people leave their doors unlocked. Of course, I grew up in LA where everything is locked, even back when I was growing up. When I go upstairs for an extended period of time, and SO is not home, I close, and lock, the patio sliders. If I ever moved to a small town, I'd be the person people would gossip about being strange because I lock all my doors, even my car door.
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Post by gar on Aug 31, 2024 17:15:11 GMT
Are these houses just unlocked that anybody can walk in? A foreign concept to me. We don’t always have our door locked during the day. I live in a small village, semi rural and although we’re not immune to crime it’s low and I feel safe.
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Post by melanell on Aug 31, 2024 17:17:46 GMT
Are these houses just unlocked that anybody can walk in? A foreign concept to me. Not all of them, but a good many are unlocked during the day, yes. I mean, growing up, we went in and out of all 3 doors of our house all day long and we went in and out of all of the neighbor's houses all day long, as well. But even today I know plenty of people who keep just one or two doors unlocked based on where they spend the most time during the day. As I said we primarily kept our front door locked at our last house, but the back door was always unlocked. Of course, if any of us were outside, then we had all of the doors unlocked so we could go in and out wherever we wished. In my neighbor's house, for instance, the side yard is fenced for the dogs, so their side door is always unlocked, and that's where people like their adult kids enter when they go over, and they have a holler "Hello!" as they enter policy over there.
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 31, 2024 17:27:29 GMT
Nope not usually.
The only exception is game night at friends and we are all expected but I still do a knock knock and then open door. There’s typically five or so already there.
Sometimes my daughter’s house for football games… but we are expected. Otherwise we always knock.
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Post by padresfan619 on Aug 31, 2024 17:28:42 GMT
No. But I also would never turn up to someone’s house unannounced either.
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Post by walkerdill on Aug 31, 2024 17:39:30 GMT
I only walk in without knocking at my dad's and my boyfriend's house. When my mom was alive I would just walk in her house too.
My kids just walk in without knocking. My son lives here but my daughter lives hours away and has a key. She just surprises me sometimes. My boyfriend has a key & just walks in.
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Post by Lexica on Aug 31, 2024 18:01:56 GMT
The only house that I let myself into was my parent’s home. Mom had given me a key and we would knock and then immediately unlock the door, giving them just about half a minute to compose themselves before we popped around the corner. I didn’t want them to have to get up and come to the front door to let me in. And I would say probably 95% of the time they were in their matching recliners watching the news.
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Post by Lexica on Aug 31, 2024 18:10:07 GMT
I am surprised how many people leave their doors unlocked. Of course, I grew up in LA where everything is locked, even back when I was growing up. When I go upstairs for an extended period of time, and SO is not home, I close, and lock, the patio sliders. If I ever moved to a small town, I'd be the person people would gossip about being strange because I lock all my doors, even my car door. This is me too. I even lock my doors when I am outside doing yard work because I may end up going around to the backyard for an hour, and leaving that front door unlocked could allow anyone to enter. I will only exit and leave the door unlocked if I will be remaining out front and able to see it the whole time. I have a glass door in front of the main solid door and my pup likes to sit and watch me through the glass door as I work out front.
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Post by compeateropeator on Aug 31, 2024 18:34:39 GMT
Yes, A few places. My best friends, my parents, my brother’s, and a few other family members.
Then there are some where I just knock and walk in
Then there are others that i knock and wait for them to answer.
We never knocked at either sets of the my grandparents. One lived next door so I was in and out of there all the time.
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Post by chaosisapony on Aug 31, 2024 19:04:18 GMT
Growing up I had a best friend next door and a best friend 4 doors down. My house was the hang out spot after school and they would just walk in. Now as an adult the only house I just walk into is my mom's, everyone else I knock. To be honest I wish I had some close friendships with nearby people who would feel comfortable just walking in. I miss that.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 31, 2024 19:23:50 GMT
It is common in our family to enter each other's homes without waiting for someone to answer the door. Often there's a quick knock and a yelling out "It's me/us" on the way in. I have keys or codes to all four of my children's homes - their wishes that I have it. They have the same to our home and are welcome to come and go freely.
We also have a number of friends that we do the knock-yell-and go right on in thing with. I like that sort of familiarity with close friends.
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 31, 2024 19:24:08 GMT
I did walk into my parents' house when they were still alive. But they were expecting me since I was driving from out of town. If we lived in the same town I don't think I would have just walked in because I probably would have given them a heart attack. I think I would have knocked and called out as I was opening the door. Both of my kids live out of town so the same goes for them. Except even if they were expecting me (which they would be since I can't imagine just showing up to either place, lol) I wouldn't just knock and try to open the door, I'd text to say I'd arrived.
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Post by disneypal on Sept 1, 2024 3:03:37 GMT
The only house I do, is my mother's. It's because her hearing isn't all that good and she doesn't hear me pull up or knocking. I will call her ahead of time and let her know I am coming. She unlocks the door for me and is expecting me.
Everyone else, even my sister, who I am very close to, I knock. She does the same, but then again, we always keep our doors locked. Even though we have keys to each other's houses, we don't use them when the other person is home, we just knock.
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Post by artbabe on Sept 1, 2024 15:27:04 GMT
I'll walk in at my dad's or my sister's if the door is unlocked. I yell hello when I come in. It has always been that way- we are all like that. If the door is locked I knock or text them. We are pretty loose about that. It has been that way my entire life.
I'd never do it at someone else's house.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Sept 1, 2024 16:24:56 GMT
When my parents moved here, they were so excited to wake up in the morning and unlike their front door so family could just walk in. I do a cursory knock while I'm entering. Their grandkids also just walk in. They have our garage code, so they just come in to our house, but my mom always texts first.
When my daughter was still home, her friends used to walk right in. She'd regularly invite a half a dozen kids over to hang in the basement, and she couldn't hear the doorbell downstairs. I got sick of letting them in, so just started leaving the door unlocked and they'd walk in and give us a wave as they headed downstairs. I miss those days, now our front door is always locked.
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Post by justkat on Sept 1, 2024 16:54:04 GMT
My parent's house; always. When they were alive they made it very clear that no matter our ages or our position in life (married,single,where we lived etc) that we are and always would be their children and their home would always be our home,come and go as you please.
My sister's house;sometimes. When expecting family she'll unlock her door ahead of arrival time. I'll knock but enter as I knock and call out "it's me sis". I never show up unexpected. If I need to be at her house for some un-prearranged reason I'll text first and then do the knock and call out thing. lol
For anyone else,no. The exception being if they've told me in advance to just come in when I arrive. Most people I know, myself included,lock their doors so this isn't a thing anyway.
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Post by compeateropeator on Sept 1, 2024 23:29:07 GMT
The only house I do, is my mother's. It's because her hearing isn't all that good and she doesn't hear me pull up or knocking. I will call her ahead of time and let her know I am coming. She unlocks the door for me and is expecting me. Everyone else, even my sister, who I am very close to, I knock. She does the same, but then again, we always keep our doors locked. Even though we have keys to each other's houses, we don't use them when the other person is home, we just knock. Now if the door was locked and the person was there would never use my key to let myself in unless those were the instructions that I had been given…other than my parents. That was my childhood home, I can’t even imagine having to knock on the door before going in. The only time I knock is if for some reason the door that I am trying to enter is locked and they are right there. Otherwise I will go to a different door or go get my key which is in my car.
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Post by iowgirl on Sept 2, 2024 3:27:08 GMT
Are these houses just unlocked that anybody can walk in? A foreign concept to me. I only lock my door at night. Well, I don't but my DH does. My friends know the bathroom is close to the front door, so when their kids were little and they needed a quick stop in the area - they just popped in. Usually a knock and a holler. UPS does the knock and holler and sets my packages inside.
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Post by frankiegirl on Sept 2, 2024 10:55:48 GMT
Interesting about the locked doors (during the day). We usually don't lock them if we are home during the day (always lock them at night). If I'm home alone during the day I sometimes lock the front door. But we also have the ring doorbell that announces "someone is at the front door" and the dog alarm (meaning our dog goes into full "the zombies are here to kill us" mode if someone even walks down our street).
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Post by 950nancy on Sept 2, 2024 16:50:34 GMT
I only did that a my parents' house. I knock at my kids' houses and they walk in mine. The way life was intended. Both of my kids will knock and then walk in with a high pitched, "Housekeeping!"
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Post by 950nancy on Sept 2, 2024 16:54:33 GMT
I am surprised how many people leave their doors unlocked. Of course, I grew up in LA where everything is locked, even back when I was growing up. When I go upstairs for an extended period of time, and SO is not home, I close, and lock, the patio sliders. If I ever moved to a small town, I'd be the person people would gossip about being strange because I lock all my doors, even my car door. We leave our garage door to the house unlocked. If you know the code to get into the garage door, you can get in. All other doors are locked other than sometimes our door from the kitchen to the deck. It is 12 feet off the ground and no stairs. I thought it was safe. Then this summer we had a big ol' black bear shimmy up 12 feet of stucco (pole) and three feet of railing to get onto our deck (bird feeders). I explained to him that the deck was off limits and he left. I know bears can easily open sliding doors, so now that remains locked as well.
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Sept 2, 2024 17:31:50 GMT
No. I do not.
However, each of my adult sons has a key to my home and they come in without knocking. They also help themselves to whatever they want. I am 100% fine with this as I still live in the family home and want them to feel like they are always welcome.
They are usually good about letting me know when they're coming over, and it's not been a problem. That said, my youngest has sometimes not been good about letting me know when to expect him and he's seen more of me than he'd like. LOL!
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