moodyblue
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,277 
Location: Western Illinois
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Jun 26, 2014 21:07:23 GMT
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Post by moodyblue on Sept 3, 2024 23:36:48 GMT
Yes. I miss my husband. It has been 5 1/2 years and I think I’ll always miss him.
I actually like time to myself and I was single until I was 42. When I met Vince I realized how nice it was to have someone there. I always said I had a good life before I met him, but he made everything better. When I’m lonely now it’s because I’m lonely for HIM.
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Post by fkawitchypea on Sept 3, 2024 23:45:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
I have been alone for a long time. Abusive relationship with ds's father that I ended when he was young. I focused on him and bettering myself. Now he is grown and while I don't often feel lonely there are so many things that make me feel less than. Paying for a vacation rental with family and sleeping on the couch or an air mattress because all of the couples need to sleep together and I'm single (stopped vacationing with them bc apparently I dont deserve comfortable accommodations bc I'm not sleeping with someone), the assumption that I am always available for when my friends have time, ugh the invitations along with my mother because I am the old maid that must be invited to all social events with the elders (nice, but I'm 45)...
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Judy26
Pearl Clutcher
MOTFY Bitchy Nursemaid
Posts: 2,974
Location: NW PA
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Post by Judy26 on Sept 3, 2024 23:46:13 GMT
moodyblue I liked your post in a sympathetic way. I’m wishing you lots of happy memories and spots of joy in each day. While I am married, we spend very little time together due to issues I won’t get into here. I am never lonely. I enjoy being alone but I feel wishful sometimes for the kind of relationship many of you have with your significant other. Whenever that feeling strikes I eat ice cream directly from the container and watch guilty pleasure shows or listen to bad eighties music (loudly) to remind myself how truly blessed I am.
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Post by peasapie on Sept 4, 2024 11:11:57 GMT
moodyblue I liked your post in a sympathetic way. I’m wishing you lots of happy memories and spots of joy in each day. While I am married, we spend very little time together due to issues I won’t get into here. I am never lonely. I enjoy being alone but I feel wishful sometimes for the kind of relationship many of you have with your significant other. Whenever that feeling strikes I eat ice cream directly from the container and watch guilty pleasure shows or listen to bad eighties music (loudly) to remind myself how truly blessed I am. I understand what you are saying. I was in a similar place for a long time. I hope the sun will come out for you one day soon. |
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