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Post by freecharlie on Sept 13, 2024 12:15:36 GMT
Hopefully Final Update:
Xh texted me yesterday to see if I knew how to get into the court stream. I sent it to him after a couple of hours. Then he texted that he just paid it and would email me the receipt
So we log into court today and the judge is clearly annoyed. She mentioned him paying it (the taxes) at the last possible moment multiple times
If for some reason it bounces or something, I have 30 days to alert the court.
Idiot had to pay an extra $50 in interest by waiting to pay it, but I'm FREE of him!!!
Update:
Judge ruled in my favor. He is on contempt. She nicely told him that she didn't believe him and that he had ample time to pay it.
He has 60 days
ETA: they pulled behind me as we were leaving. So he got to see my tesla. They purposely turned behind me (away from where they were gping) so he could flip me off...today was awesome
Today is in person court with xh fir his contempt if our orders. I'm sure ow will be there and they will try to rattle me.
If you are the type to send positive thoughts out, I could use some. First, to do a hood job representing myself in court and second, to keep my strength and composure. I haven't seen xh in over a year and only been in the company of the ow when I had her escorted off by the police back in Feb of 23.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Sept 13, 2024 12:18:47 GMT
you are strong. set your RBF and do not even act like you care they are there. The only time I would show emotion is a smirk when the judge tells him what a POS he is. Good thoughts coming your way!
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River
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Post by River on Sept 13, 2024 12:20:45 GMT
Lots of good positive thoughts for you! Really hope it goes well, good luck!
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Post by mom on Sept 13, 2024 12:28:42 GMT
You got this! Go slow and be confident. You are prepared and ready. Your ex will show that he is an idiot and an asshole.
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Post by compeateropeator on Sept 13, 2024 12:32:39 GMT
Sending good thoughts. Stay strong and stay true to yourself. You know what he is going to try and do so you can go in knowing this and ready to meet his crap head on. Good luck, I hope it ends up better than you expect.
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Post by stormsts on Sept 13, 2024 12:58:48 GMT
You can do this!
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Sept 13, 2024 13:00:17 GMT
Sending positive energy your way! You can do it!
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Post by workingclassdog on Sept 13, 2024 13:02:08 GMT
Good thoughts, prayers, hugs... I don't think you are in my county (I think I'm in the one next to you) but if you were I could be there in less than 3 minutes and support!!  |
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Post by mikklynn on Sept 13, 2024 13:33:41 GMT
I'll add all my good thoughts and maybe a little voodoo bad luck vibe to your ex and his idiot partner.
You will be great. He's so dumb, he'll sabotage himself. Part of me thinks he won't show up.
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Post by anniebeth24 on Sept 13, 2024 13:53:24 GMT
Sending prayers for strength, confidence, and peace when it's done.
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Sept 13, 2024 14:00:55 GMT
Sending you lots of good juju. I am looking forward to your post later when you come to tell us what an ass he made of himself. |
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Post by librarylady on Sept 13, 2024 14:02:35 GMT
Done!
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Post by jemali on Sept 13, 2024 14:02:50 GMT
Sending alll the good thoughts for you and all the bad thoughts for him!
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Post by SallyPA on Sept 13, 2024 14:06:26 GMT
You’ve got this! We believe in you and are all behind you.
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Post by cakediva on Sept 13, 2024 14:07:55 GMT
Sending all the positive thoughts - you’ve got this!!
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Post by malibou on Sept 13, 2024 14:11:32 GMT
Wish wishing you an awesome day of taking care of business and not caring in the least what exdh and his side piece are doing.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Sept 13, 2024 14:14:02 GMT
You are the smart one there today. It will show.
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3boysnme
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Post by 3boysnme on Sept 13, 2024 14:35:10 GMT
Good luck today! You have legions of Peas behind you!
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Post by ntsf on Sept 13, 2024 14:54:54 GMT
best of luck.. you are in charge of you!!!
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Post by KelleeM on Sept 13, 2024 15:23:46 GMT
Sending good thoughts. You’re amazing!!
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Sept 13, 2024 15:28:08 GMT
The peas got your back! You know you're head and shoulders above the idiot and his ow. You'll be fine.
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Post by scrapmaven on Sept 13, 2024 15:53:48 GMT
You can do this. Your ex-hole is the one in contempt, not you. Don't get emotional. Keep it all business and if he says something and he will to upset you, just put on a straight face. He does a great job getting himself in trouble. Let him. My thoughts are on your side.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 13, 2024 16:12:00 GMT
You can do this. Your ex-hole is the one in contempt, not you. Don't get emotional. Keep it all business and if he says something and he will to upset you, just put on a straight face. He does a great job getting himself in trouble. Let him. My thoughts are on your side. So well said!! Just T |
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Post by dmopal on Sept 13, 2024 16:31:32 GMT
Sending lots of positive thoughts. And like everyone has said so well, You've got this!
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Post by Scrapper100 on Sept 13, 2024 16:32:28 GMT
You can do this. Your ex-hole is the one in contempt, not you. Don't get emotional. Keep it all business and if he says something and he will to upset you, just put on a straight face. He does a great job getting himself in trouble. Let him. My thoughts are on your side. So well said!! Just T
I agree. Well said
Lots of good thoughts coming your way.
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Post by lurker on Sept 13, 2024 17:57:33 GMT
Oh, man, I thought you were done with his crap - you got this!
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Post by teepea on Sept 13, 2024 18:04:39 GMT
Fingers and toes crossed that it’s all going well for you. Hang tough!
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Sept 13, 2024 18:07:11 GMT
Wishing you strength and hope all goes in your favor.
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Post by Anita on Sept 13, 2024 18:45:45 GMT
Sending good thoughts!
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Post by tmarschall on Sept 13, 2024 18:48:53 GMT
Sending love and support. Just remember he's the asshole. You've got this.
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