sweetpeasmom
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Post by sweetpeasmom on Sept 14, 2024 18:25:59 GMT
We started with 1 dog. 5 years ago we got another dog. 3 years ago we inherited my fil's dog when he passed away. Last August we lost our first dog. 3 weeks ago, we lost my fil's dog. The 2nd dog we got is the only one left. She has never been an only dog, as long as we have had her. She seems a little depressed over this. Just not as peppy as before.
We don't want to rush out and get a dog just to get a dog and fill that void , for any of us. This is the first time we've dealt with a dog that is potentially sad over the loss of another. Any suggestions on a) helping her not be sad and b) if we were to get another one, time to wait so it's not too soon?
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kate
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Post by kate on Sept 14, 2024 19:17:20 GMT
That's a lot of loss for the humans in the house, let alone the poor pup to whom you can't explain things. I have no experience with multiple dogs, so I can't speak with any authority. I'll just toss out that our rescue wanted potential adopting families to bring their other dog(s) to the meet-and-greet so that you could see if there were obvious red flags. Would that give you a little peace of mind?
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sweetpeasmom
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Post by sweetpeasmom on Sept 14, 2024 20:21:46 GMT
That's a lot of loss for the humans in the house, let alone the poor pup to whom you can't explain things. I have no experience with multiple dogs, so I can't speak with any authority. I'll just toss out that our rescue wanted potential adopting families to bring their other dog(s) to the meet-and-greet so that you could see if there were obvious red flags. Would that give you a little peace of mind? For sure. If we decide to get another, we'd definitely taker her to meet the new pup. We did that with our first dog when we got her.
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Post by FuzzyMutt on Sept 14, 2024 20:52:00 GMT
Without going too far into my rescue history lol
Might I suggest checking with a good rescue in your area and signing up to do respite care? It’s a serious need that foster families really really rely on.
Fostering is a big commitment- and you sound like you’ll foster fail quickly (it’s a compliment- I promise!) Respite care would allow you to have some canine visitors and friends for your pup without the commitment of choosing right now to add to the family. There’s the added benefit that their personalities are usually pretty well known (dog friendly..)
I’m so sorry you’ve lost so much sweetness! My family has been losing a whole generation of pets over the last year. It’s soooo hard!
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Sept 14, 2024 22:35:05 GMT
A couple of months ago my older dog died suddenly of cancer. My younger dog stopped eating. After 4 days of her not eating and barely moving, I knew I'd have to get her a buddy. I found one through a rescue and she has been the absolute most perfect addition of Hope and even the cats and me. I hope things work out for your dog and family.
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kimi
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Post by kimi on Sept 15, 2024 4:28:45 GMT
That's a lot of loss for the humans in the house, let alone the poor pup to whom you can't explain things. I have no experience with multiple dogs, so I can't speak with any authority. I'll just toss out that our rescue wanted potential adopting families to bring their other dog(s) to the meet-and-greet so that you could see if there were obvious red flags. Would that give you a little peace of mind? For sure. If we decide to get another, we'd definitely taker her to meet the new pup. We did that with our first dog when we got her. Keep in mind that your dog may not like the new pup right off the bat. Years ago we fostered-to-adopt dog #2 (1 year old). Dog #1 (8 yrs old) was pretty mellow, but disliked #2 for the first few days and would bully her (not to the point of harming) and #2 would be submissive. Then #2 started to stand her ground. They became best friends.
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Post by cjinmo on Sept 18, 2024 1:05:47 GMT
My vet recommended CBD oil for my dog in this situation. She is now happy and eating again.
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