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Post by jeremysgirl on Sept 26, 2024 21:49:44 GMT
pantsonfire my hives have gone away. And the swelling on my upper lip is better.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Sept 26, 2024 22:03:23 GMT
scrappintoee, I am often guilty of *liking* a post to show that I've read it and forget to comment. But please know that I read every word of everyone of your posts.
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Post by bc2ca on Sept 26, 2024 22:21:40 GMT
bc2ca i find it so cute that you said the kids stopped being interested. Because the year that Esther died I did not want to decorate for Christmas. I just could not bring myself to do it. Jeremy made a halfhearted attempt to bring a fake tree out of the basement and put lights on it. But that's all we had that Christmas. We didn't host or anything but Chloe had been over during that time. Well last year I got a wild hair that I wanted a real tree and I wanted to do something completely different. I went all out with my little Charlie Brown tree. And Chloe came over and she was so happy to see that tree. She said the year before seeing the house empty and dark at Christmas time just really bummed her out. And here I thought nobody but me cared. I am a big kid when it comes to Halloween. Esther's birthday was the 30th. So we always went all out for her birthday. I had always liked Halloween but her birthday being so close was big incentive to go all out. I do it for me now. It brings me joy. But i still in a little pocket of my heart do it for Esther. I love that Halloween brings you joy, especially because it does connect to Esther and her birthday for you. My kids used to start begging for Halloween when a neighbor started building the haunted house in his front yard in late August. I always said not until the end of summer. We had so many graveyard pieces they made with DH years ago. A favorite memory is coming home to the sign "beware of physico" which was misspelled by one of them. All of it was passed onto friends with much younger kids so we can visit it every year. I'm okay with them outgrowing Halloween, but they also stopped helping with the Christmas stuff. Again, I asked if they were done and just not interested and they were horrified that I might not decorate for the holidays. Since that year, if the tree sits bare for more than a couple days they will ask what night we are doing it. They have also taken over bugging DH about when the outdoor lights go up and help him with them. I'm sorry you are hurt, scrappintoee. I know it is not intentional at all. I know I try to like all the posts, but miss a few going in and out of the thread and I definitely forget to comment all the time. Just coming back to this thread today I realize I meant to wish tmarschall good luck with her procedure and hoping for minimal hurricane impact for Linda. For me, it is a mix of time of day and number of distractions and interruptions while I'm here. In fact, I'm pausing right now, just remembering I need to phone my onc because my PCP wants her thoughts on when I should have Covid & flu vaccines.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Sept 26, 2024 22:26:13 GMT
That's so awesome you still decorate the Christmas tree together bc2ca. ❤️
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Post by leannec on Sept 26, 2024 22:33:30 GMT
That's so awesome you still decorate the Christmas tree together bc2ca . ❤️ My dd's are Christmas Freaks! Especially Molly who is 21! We take a number of hours on the first Sunday in December for them to come over and help me to decorate my tree and entire condo (used to be house) ... if the place was not decorated they would mutiny!
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Post by AussieMeg on Sept 26, 2024 23:01:10 GMT
sueg that sounds really quite concerning. Are you feeling better now? Are you able to follow up with your doctor? scrappintoee I'm sorry that you're feeling hurt and overlooked. I get it, I've felt that way a few times myself. And I know others have as well. I am really happy that you have started posting here again, you really are like a ray of sunshine around here. I wish there was a little place under them like on Facebook where we could comment and "like"! Yes! I've often thought that. In fact I was reading a thread just a few minutes ago, and was wishing that I could add a "react" like on Facebook. I mainly Pea on my MacBook, so it is easy to see photos, and quote people. But when I have to go into the office for work, and I am Peaing on the train or at lunchtime, I tend to not comment or quote or tag, because it's so much harder on my phone.
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Post by tmarschall on Sept 27, 2024 1:06:12 GMT
sueg that sounds really quite concerning. Are you feeling better now? Are you able to follow up with your doctor? scrappintoee I'm sorry that you're feeling hurt and overlooked. I get it, I've felt that way a few times myself. And I know others have as well. I am really happy that you have started posting here again, you really are like a ray of sunshine around here. I wish there was a little place under them like on Facebook where we could comment and "like"! Yes! I've often thought that. In fact I was reading a thread just a few minutes ago, and was wishing that I could add a "react" like on Facebook. I mainly Pea on my MacBook, so it is easy to see photos, and quote people. But when I have to go into the office for work, and I am Peaing on the train or at lunchtime, I tend to not comment or quote or tag, because it's so much harder on my phone. I agree! The like doesn't say enough for me...even on FB I use the ❤️ for so many responses. I am guilty of missing yesterday, so I will go back to see your dear pictures. Please know how important you are and I'm thrilled you are back posting again. I'm also grateful we can all have the opportunity to be vulnerable and say hey...I'd really like some attention and compassion here, because we all do get busy sometimes and when it is asked for, it's pretty rare if ever for anyone in here to get "suck it up, buttercup" or some other heartless internet retort. This is a safe place for me, not NC it is a little corner of the internet, but rather bc of who all of you are. ❤️ My procedures went fine...steroid injections in my hips. What the...?! Aging is catching up this year or so! Hoping the next couple of weeks show some good outcomes. I've had ultrasound-led ones before which were no big deal. This was different...still pretty simple, but more than I expected. Nick took me to lunch and I had a burger. It was okay. We hit a couple of thrift stores and came home to curl up on the couch and watch TV. Love to everyone!
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Post by tmarschall on Sept 27, 2024 1:13:10 GMT
I forgot to post these yesterday...my baby girls are 5yrs old...how can this be?? Attachments:
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Post by teddyw on Sept 27, 2024 1:40:19 GMT
Don’t leave scrappintoee you just came back. I missed why you sil & sister were in town. I’ve been hit or miss here lately. Not sure why just life I suppose. I’m in trip prep mode. By that I mean cleaning the whole house and doing all the laundry. We might get rain from Helene so I replaced some sad plants in my front landscaping. Coincidentally the lsndscapers were here working in the back putting down river rock and a border around it under our deck. I’ll only be gone 5 days but I feel like I have to overpack as usual. I did stop in and got a flu shot. I didn’t feel like being ill so I’m delaying the covid one til I get back. Hopefully I don’t get it in the meantime. I do have a headache from it. The other day I had lunch with DD’s boyfriend’s mom. I was expecting there to be a reason but there wasn’t. She was just being nice. Had oatmeal for dinner because I didn’t want to cook & clean up.
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Post by leannec on Sept 27, 2024 1:48:22 GMT
The other day I had lunch with DD’s boyfriend’s mom. I was expecting there to be a reason but there wasn’t. She was just being nice. That must have been a relief! That she was just being nice! My oldest dd has been with her boyfriend for almost 10 years and I have only met his mum twice. She was very nice but we just never hung out with his parents ... I think my ex and his new wife spend Christmas at their place now but I'm not sure ... I guess I will meet her next when we eventually have a wedding! (They are not even engaged yet ... they are 25 so it's probably time!)
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Post by AussieMeg on Sept 27, 2024 3:24:10 GMT
tmarschall your babies are so cute! I love how you and Nick both get dressed up for their birthday.
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Post by christine58 on Sept 27, 2024 3:48:53 GMT
scrappintoee I think we all feel or have felt what you and Leanne had mentioned a couple weeks ago. I am just so happy that you’re back here. I wasn’t on much yesterday because I was with a friend of mine who was going through some serious mental health issues. Don’t go anywhere. You stay right here.
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Post by scrapmaven on Sept 27, 2024 4:33:32 GMT
scrappintoee, I love your doggie photos. I have the nurses on my fridge. Please stay w/us. I do listen and I do care and I worry about you. I'll type more to you tmw. I'm very tired from a long flight day, but I want to ensure that you know how much people care about you and want you to be here. I had a great time w/ **GypsyGirl**. I love, "What happens in Houston stays in Houston". I told a big lie and she fell for it. I'm so proud, cause I'm the world's worst liar. I'll tell you my tales tmw. Thank you so much for starting the thread, cadoodlebug. I hope that you, your neighbors and your homes are safe, Linda. Hoping that your shots work wonders tmarschall. I'm glad that you're back, too. sueg, please call your doctor. Though you likely just had a post surgical something you should really let your doctor know. Feeling that bad isn't OK. I hope you feel much better tmw. I'll fill ya in on my trip tmw.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Sept 27, 2024 5:28:52 GMT
Hi I had my service club meeting tonight and we go out for dinner first. I had rack of lamb, beets (that was nice) asparagus and mini carrots. I was still hungry so I had a tiny Caesar salad. I am still hungry and don’t really want to eat this late.
I don’t post much either because I have nothing exciting going on. I met a new friend and that was nice.
Please no one leave. I would be so lonely. 😭
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Post by sueg on Sept 27, 2024 7:26:48 GMT
Good morning scrappintoee - I am sorry you feel hurt. I rarely comment on things here unless I am tagged in a post. I am in a different timezone - 6 hours ahead of US eastern time, so I am usually in bed by the time most people are posting and don't always come back in the morning. A couple of people have mentioned concerns about my dizzy spell. Thank you and I will follow up with my doctor if it continues. I have had these spells in the past, sometimes so severe I've been unable to get out of bed for hours, years before my surgery. I am feeling better today. I slept like a log last night - in bed before 9pm and woke at 3am for the bathroom, then crashed out again. I do have an appointment at my GP's office next week for a blood draw, so if anything seems off I'll mention it then.
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