Would you convert for a relationship?

No. I'm an atheist and I have no desire to be with anyone devout enough to require me to join their religion.

This is pretty much me. If I was younger though, in my twenties, I could see myself doing it for “love”. But now, no way. I am too set in my views about religion. I was raised in a non-religious household, although I was exposed to different religions.

My SO went to the Buddhist church as a kid. He kept going only so he could play in the basketball league. So there was no trying to convert me when we got married. I have a friend who converted to Judaism when she got married. She was not very religious before that. And I have another friend who converted to Catholicism.

Absolutely. to me religion is culture. I don't believe in any god, so yes. And I loved that show!!

I didn't convert although I agreed to christen our kids in DH's religion and we did attend his church for a number of years. FWIW, the congregation was much more of a social club until a new father came in with a very fundamentalist POV and started quoting things he'd read on the internet from the pulpit and we were out of there.

Funny thing is DH considered his nonOrthodox wife to have more responsibility to teach our kids the ins-n-outs of his religion. I was always very respectful of his religion (and still am) but pushed back hard on who was responsible for teaching the kids. 

I can believe that someone not 100% connected to the religion they were raised in could be drawn to another religion as an adult. Fundamentally they all  have a similar starting point and basic build community/family and treat others as you want to be treated base. Every religion has fundamentalist branches, a patriarchal hierarchy and secretive/insider elements. 

My BFF here did and they think they need to live in poverty because her loser husband has 4 million relatives back home who all need money. I wish she would leave him because BFF looks like hell because of their faith involvement. He has her believing she cannot have friends not in the faith. You cannot believe the bull shit he makes her believe.

I would never convert to anything knowing what I know now.

Absolutely not. No way. No how. 

And by conversion I'm referring to a pretty substantial change in doctrines of belief. There are minor differences between many denominations that don't rise to the level of needing conversion.

I share many beliefs with Jews and I would enjoy deep discussions with a rabbi.

My belief is absolute that the promises of the coming Messiah found in the Torah have been fulfilled and the rabbi would need to be at least willing to honestly discuss it for me to consider having any kind of relationship other than acquaintance. 

Jewish rabbis have realized that the coming Messiah is one and the same as the risen Savior. If that were to happen with some hypothetical rabbi, there would at least be a possibility of some kind of future together with me.

I would not convert to Judaism because I believe the Son of God has already come, so it would be a lie and unfair to both faiths. (And if the man were a devout Catholic, I would not convert to Catholicism because I believe in talking to God directly and not through intercessors such as a  priest.)

I'm past child-bearing so any question of how to raise future children is moot.

IRL, I married someone with beliefs close enough to my own that there was no issue raising our children.  That was by my considered choice and it was one of the best decisions of my entire life. 

I think not everyone has deeply-held religious beliefs that they are invested in from birth, and that a lot of people, even aside from relationships, explore religions other than the one they were raised to believe. We have plenty of people at my temple who converted, although you’re not supposed to be singling people out for having converted so it’s not like you necessarily know who converted.

Reform Judaism isn’t really like this now, but a lot of women convert or used to convert so that if their kids were going to be raised in Judaism the kids wouldn’t have to convert. I had a friend who was raised by a Jewish father and a non-Jewish mother and married someone who was conservative rather than reform and had to spend her engagement doing an Orthodox conversion.

Nope. I have many close friends who are agnostic or atheist but I couldn't be married to one. My husband is much much less "religious" (I hate that word but it will suffice) than I am but we have the same basic beliefs and he's willing to support me in the faith-filled ways I raise our children.

That's funny... reminds me of the thread who had better stuff catholic or mormon.. lol

I was raised by a Jewish father and a Protestant mother, and married a Catholic over 27 years ago. Even though it is my dad who is Jewish and not my mom, I was raised Jewish, as was my brother. Brother converted when his firstborn was baptized and is now a full-time UCC Minister. Sooo my family has a “colorful“ religious background 🤣

I did not convert when I got married. Obviously, neither one of us is super religious. Having different religions has honestly been a non-issue. Being a kind human is way more important to me.

Nope (to the part I've bolded). Jews who believe in traditional Jewish doctrine believe the Messiah has not yet come. Nowhere is it said by true Jews that the Messiah is Jesus. Traditional Jews repudiate Jesus as the Messiah. If you are drawing your statement from Jews for Jesus, they are not true Jews, they are Christians. 

I would never convert for a relationship because my beliefs are personal and for me, not for false display to others. I would not even convert to a more stringent form of Judaism.

Me either.