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Post by quinmm14 on Nov 22, 2024 0:53:07 GMT
I'm actually pretty good this year. Dh's family isn't traveling due to the pending bad weather, so it's the two of us at home. Alone. Food + football all weekend long.
Alone. š
I'm cooking a bigger meal so we'll have leftovers for the weekend.
How's your holiday planning coming? Pesky family coming?
People you're really looking forward to spending time with? Are you traveling this year?
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Post by mom on Nov 22, 2024 0:58:20 GMT
We are traveling to deep east Texas to meet all of my family. I am dreading it, to be honest. But the host of Thanksgiving is my (deceased) mom's life long best friend, and I cannot wait to see her. Its some of my blood relatives that I am actually dreading.
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Post by bethany102399 on Nov 22, 2024 1:02:40 GMT
There are only 4 of us (myself, dh and the kids) so it's usually low key anyways, but this year DD is coming home from college and we've been negotiating how long she'll stay for awhile now. She got a call from her summer job that they need help Thanksgiving week with a winter project and would she have availability so now she's headed home earlier than planned (yay for outside influences in this case) so I'm excited.
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Post by breetheflea on Nov 22, 2024 1:04:45 GMT
We donāt have Thanksgiving with extended family. Itās better that way.
My complaint is DH wants oyster mushrooms, and only oyster mushrooms, for his stuffing recipe and they are not at any of the four stores I went to. Iām not sure where else to look.
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 22, 2024 1:17:18 GMT
I am cooking this year!! Yes I am excited about that lol
We will be with my parents and sibling and their family.
I and the kids have been estranged from dh's side for 18 years. Dh has been for about 2 years. Let me just say the holidays are WAY less stressful for us both.
I hope everyone has a good day. My thoughts are with those with family stress. ā¤ļø
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Post by monklady123 on Nov 22, 2024 1:24:13 GMT
Just me, dh, and my sister this year. My dd lives the closest to us (about 3-4 hours away) but it's such a short amount of time for driving in holiday traffic. And she'll be here for Christmas. Plus, I'm not a fan of Thanksgiving. lol. Also, I do not like turkey. And around here there are never small turkeys, and it's silly to cook a huge turkey with tons of leftovers when I don't even like it! lol. So this year I bought Cornish game hens from Costco. I'll cook three of them, one for each of us, plus stuffing, mashed potatoes, gravy, roasted carrots (to put some color on the plates), cranberry sauce, and pie. The stuffing is boxed (from Costco), the mashed potatoes are the dehydrated kind that I mix with water, the gravy is Kevin's (from Costco), and the pie will be that huge pumpkin pie from Costco. I will actually roast the hens myself, and also roast the carrots. That is the extent of my actual cooking. Have I ever mentioned that I hate to cook?
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Post by rymeswithpurple on Nov 22, 2024 1:28:33 GMT
This is the first year in two we're headed to see my FIL and parents. Poor DH got Covid for the first time right before Thanksgiving last year, so we stayed home. I made him wedding soup and he watched The Waltons all day.
We drive up day of the holiday because there's so little traffic, and head home on Friday. We stay longer when we go up for Christmas.
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Post by quinmm14 on Nov 22, 2024 1:28:42 GMT
I think I'm going to try a baked sweet potato recipe that I saw. You halve them and put melted butter, marshallows, pecans and cinnamon on them. I'm sure there was more directions for it but I'll probably wing it a bit. š
I never get to cook big meals so I'm weirdly excited about cooking. And I don't even like to cook.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 22, 2024 1:56:20 GMT
Will be just DH and I this year. We ordered our meal from a local restaurant so we will have a good meal without lots of work. Dh will make a pie. I am a little sad that I won't be traveling, but I no longer feel comfortable making the long drive (5 hours) alone.
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Post by KikiPea on Nov 22, 2024 2:03:05 GMT
Wellā¦I have covid at the moment, but weāre supposed to have what could be our last Thanksgiving meal at my parentās house before my dad needs to go to a memory care facility. Weāre not sure if/when that might happen, but I donāt want to miss anything. We are also supposed to have my DHās annual whiskey tasting party on Black Friday. We just have to cross our fingers that he doesnāt come down with it, and that my symptoms disappear by this Saturday.
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Post by kluski on Nov 22, 2024 2:09:26 GMT
My mom died in September. I have zero interest in gathering. But gathering none the less for the sake of my dad and dd. My brother is hosting. We all live within an hour of each other. I am thankful that the loss of my mom didnāt cause a rift between siblings as death often does.
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Post by Linda on Nov 22, 2024 2:17:13 GMT
Thankful that my older kids are both here this year for Thanksgiving - it'll be the five of us.
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Post by mich5481 on Nov 22, 2024 2:18:56 GMT
I have to work on Thanksgiving- all day. So thankful for being laid off earlier this year and taking a bridge job waiting tables while I continue to look for remote work. </s>
My mom will most likely be alone all day, as I think I'll have to be at work by about 10 a.m. and was told I might be stuck there until 8 or later. I offered to drive her to my brother's the day before, but she doesn't want to be there a super long time with all of his wife's family (my mom gets super concerned about getting sick from other people).
People who go to a restaurant for Thanksgiving are selfish - especially when they have to make reservations more than a week in advance.
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Post by lucyg on Nov 22, 2024 2:36:12 GMT
I always want to host Thanksgiving dinner but rarely get the chance. Usually I go to my sonās house, or my brotherās or sisterās, depending on who all is in town and hosting. Wherever I go, Iām in charge of making the gravy, because I inherited that skill from my mom and apparently no one else did. BUT THIS YEAR ā¦ my sonās family will be on a cruise. My daughter lives 5 hours away and doesnāt come home for Thanksgiving. Everyone in my family is going to my brotherās house. Except me. I was invited to my gentleman friendās home for Thanksgiving with his kids and his brother, and I am being a rebel and just doing it. Will bring the mashed potatoes (REAL ONES, monklady123 ā¦ shame on you) and will also make the gravy if they want me to. I made it last month when he roasted a practice turkey (came out of my freezer and I was grateful to see it gone). I will see the rest of them at Christmas. Unless itās someone elseās turn to rebel.
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Post by Zee on Nov 22, 2024 2:46:44 GMT
I have to work the night before, but I don't mind this holiday at all. I will come home and go to bed while DH, who has been carefully trained for the past 26 years for this, will make everything and he'll wake me up in time to eat.
I enjoy not having to do a got-damned thing. I work Thanksgiving/Eve whenever possible. Especially if the in laws are visiting...
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Post by malibou on Nov 22, 2024 2:47:07 GMT
We typically travel during Thanksgiving because ds always had the whole week off. Now he has a job, so he won't have much time off, but he is coming home! We will go to mil after a couple of days in San Francisco. I'm liking the idea that librarylady posted about getting dinner from a restaurant. I think I will call around. If that plan fails, I will cook something that isn't turkey, because I don't like it and others are indifferent, but I will make all of the usual sides.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 22, 2024 4:00:35 GMT
monklady123 said: I throw in some plain cream cheese.. .into the boiling water.
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Post by cmpeter on Nov 22, 2024 4:19:09 GMT
We are hosting dhās sister, her husband and 3 kids. 9 of us this year and our first in our new house. I canāt wait.
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Post by padresfan619 on Nov 22, 2024 4:55:39 GMT
I have a Friendsgiving tomorrow and I volunteered to bring the mashed potatoes. I made them tonight because I wonāt have time tomorrow with work and getting ready. I made a small portion of dairy free mashed potatoes because a friend who comes is dairy and gluten free. I way overdid it with the white pepper because Iām not used to not using butter and cream cheese in my Thanksgiving mashed potatoes. Iām just mad at myself for not tasting as I went and trying to decide if Iāll have time to make a small portion again tomorrow.
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Post by kimi on Nov 22, 2024 5:19:45 GMT
We're hosting Thanksgiving dinner for my extended family. We are expecting 30 - 35 people. We've been hosting for the last 20 years, except for the three 'covid years' (2020-2022). My DH cooks the turkey, and I do the sides and appetizers. A couple of people being dishes.
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Post by compeateropeator on Nov 22, 2024 5:26:49 GMT
No big vent. My parents are having it this year and my brother and family and myself will be going over. I have to work so I need to be home (an hour away ) by 3pm. If I donāt get a chance to eat I will at least get food to bring home and still get to see my familyā¦so it is all good. And now that we are mostly working from home, holidays (I have to work at least half of them) donāt seem quite as bad.
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