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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 14, 2025 15:05:29 GMT
Good Morning.
I'm waking up and hoping that there is new baby news from sueg. Wishing you and your lovely family a happy, healthy baby.
How is everyone doing today?
I have to run to the UPS store and make a return. I ordered dresses from Amazon and we have a winner. The other dress was a loser, so back it goes. I have 2 more dresses arriving today and I'll keep one of them if they both work.
This afternoon I have my first voice lesson in a month. I haven't been able to sing a note, so this will be a good chance to start healing my vocal chords, despite this stupid virus thing.
Dinner will be rechauffe fajitas.
tmarschall, how are you doing today? I'm thinking of you. If you feel up to it don't be hesitant to reach out for therapy. I wish you peace.
BTW-the dress is for an upcoming luxury cruise.
Enjoy the week. May it be fulfilling, happy and serene. Good news would be nice, as well.
What are you up to today?
What's on your menu?
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 14, 2025 15:16:32 GMT
Good morning! I am in the office today. And my boss brought me a birthday cake. She knew I had dietary restrictions so she made gluten free. LOL! I told her it was a very nice thing to do because it totally was. I need to make her a great cake for her birthday. I'm debating trying the cake anyway.
I'm making ramen again for dinner tonight. I am trying to make things a second night more often because I'm trying to minimize food waste. With that said, I hate reheating, so I'm making from scratch the second night as much as possible.
I just want to go home. I hate being in the office.
I am going to see if I can make another quilt block tonight. I needed to think about the two fabrics I'm choosing. I accomplished exactly 1 yesterday. Hahahahaha
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Post by Tearisci on Jul 14, 2025 15:17:02 GMT
Happy Monday!
I'm just plugging along today after the weekend with my DS. I miss him but was glad he could come out for the weekend and spend time with mom. She just perked up so much when he was here and her aide said she was in good spirits this morning.
He had her laughing at Snapchat filters and it reminded me that we need to be a bit more lighthearted with her. She always has had a good sense of humor but I think we get caught up in the day to day care and forget to help her have a good time.
I've got dad duty over the next few days so he's coming over for dinner tonight. I think we're going to have hamburger steak and gravy. It's one of his go-tos and easy enough to make.
Hope you all have a great day!
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Post by Linda on Jul 14, 2025 15:17:28 GMT
Happy Monday everyone! Waiting for baby news from Sueg - I hope your DIL's induction goes smoothly tmarschall -wishing you peace and seconding the idea of therapy to help you work through the complicated emotions. dinner tonight is chicken (I'll bread with breadcrumbs and Parmesan cheese and then fry), herb-Parmesan acorn squash, and watermelon
Tearisci - I'm glad your DS had a good visit. (((Hugs)))
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Post by naby64 on Jul 14, 2025 15:19:59 GMT
It's a Monday at the office. I am trying to remember to keep my financial secretary hat on and doing nothing more than that requires. I amwatching stuff on the monitors in the front office and know that someone is going to bring me a bill soon. I also know that a lot of the problem is the guys who cut our lawn. They have been running over sprinkler heads for years. But hey, nobody asked me and it's not my circus nor my monkeys. I am discovering my mental state is more fragile than I thought. I need to take care of me more. And if anyone thinks that I am being selfish, well then so be it. Not you all. I am talking members of the church. When I am not available at every beck and call. I have also decided I am craving a really good pasta salad. So I am making a grocery list pick up order. I should have most except for the fresh veggies. I was also looking through a new cookbook last night and she made a pot of "Basic Beans" and used those for a couple of dishes. I am thinking I might start those tonight and get them ready for the week. With that, my dinners will be peat and repeat for the most part. I can say I really overdid it this weekend with the backyard and cleaning up part. Yesterday, my joints let me know I did too much. Today, my muscles are telling me that. I start taking care of some friends' dog tomorrow while they are out of town. Luckily, it doesn't involve too much. They took care of my two when I went to MD so I feel like it is only right to pay them back this way. Another reason why I want easy dinners for the week. I have to go walk Barkley after work and then go back about 9 for the final walk. Hugs to all! I ordered dresses from Amazon and we have a winner YAY!!!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 14, 2025 15:29:31 GMT
I am discovering my mental state is more fragile than I thought. I need to take care of me more. I learned nobody is going to step and do my personal care but me. It's true. We have to advocate for ourselves. Don't feel a bit of guilt.
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Post by littlemama on Jul 14, 2025 15:34:44 GMT
Good morning! I am in the office today. And my boss brought me a birthday cake. She knew I had dietary restrictions so she made gluten free. LOL! I told her it was a very nice thing to do because it totally was. I need to make her a great cake for her birthday. I'm debating trying the cake anyway. I'm making ramen again for dinner tonight. I am trying to make things a second night more often because I'm trying to minimize food waste. With that said, I hate reheating, so I'm making from scratch the second night as much as possible. I just want to go home. I hate being in the office. I am going to see if I can make another quilt block tonight. I needed to think about the two fabrics I'm choosing. I accomplished exactly 1 yesterday. Hahahahaha Aww, that was nice of her. I think I'd have a small piece so as not to hurt her feelings. We are having cheeseburgers, fries and a tiny handful of green beans from our garden.
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Post by ntsf on Jul 14, 2025 15:35:05 GMT
naby64.. our minister is part time and he told me recently he is doing much better when he is strict about taking his time off.. I know you will be too!! (not easy at all times)..
it was too hot yesterday and so didn't go to the gym. dh and I are going swimming this morning and I have an appt with trainer this afternoon.
last night, I had scallops and dh had a steak. super good.. we sat outside on a patio.. but there was a strong breeze so it wasn't too bad.
tonight, I think I will get out some salmon, make broccoli for dh, and have the leftover desserts we had last night.
we have been hammering out our schedule for the rest of the summer.. and I need to make some more ferry reservations. will do more of that this afternoon. dh is going backpacking with me. and the place I picked (was there last summer too). is a top night photography site. dh just bought himself a fancy camera as a birthday/sold his mom's house gift.
his sister bought a house, so we will be able to get rid of the storage unit this summer that is in washington state. we will have to rent a uhaul to move everything south. then more getting rid of stuff.
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Post by Tearisci on Jul 14, 2025 15:37:04 GMT
I am discovering my mental state is more fragile than I thought. I need to take care of me more. And if anyone thinks that I am being selfish, well then so be it. Not you all. I am talking members of the church. When I am not available at every beck and call. Good for you for recognizing that you need more self care. You have to put on your own oxygen mask before you can help others.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Jul 14, 2025 15:38:57 GMT
Happy Monday! Thought I'd post before I get going on my to-do list for the day. Hoping for a better week as last week was a rough one for me. We were all dealing with the flood, it was the one year anniversary of DH entering the hospital for what turned out to be 7.5 months, and the reality of him being gone is really starting to sink it. But I've got this and things will be better this week! Today is a stay home day to catch up on paperwork (never ending it seems!) and finish up the thank you notes. This evening I'll spend some time working on the quilt. Tomorrow is my monthly card game and then a one day quilt retreat on Saturday to get ready for. Should be a productive week. Yesterday DD had some free time so we went to the storage unit. Did a bit of rearranging and brought home a few things. There is a pair of custom drapes and large valance that I am going to donate this week so they came back. Also brought home the box for the 65" tv to dismantle and recycle. Slowly but surely we are getting things thinned out in there and much easier to access. Still need to sell the weaving loom and my dress form but will get to those later this year. The main reason we keep this unit is because of an antique Indonesian desk that is almost 7' long! DD loves the thing and hopes to use it some day. Her dad kept trying to get us to sell it but we never would. Yesterday she gave it a pat and said "Dad, I won! I get to keep the desk".  He never would have sold it against our wishes, but it was a fun running battle between them. Dinner tonight will be lasagna. Had some in the freezer so it will be easy to pop in the oven.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 14, 2025 15:50:18 GMT
jeremysgirl, that was a very nice thing for your boss to do for you. It must be quite a breath of fresh air for you, too. naby64, sometimes I think that you are the "mmmmooooooooommmm" of the church. Everyone runs to you when they can't find their jackets and homework. You are creating a new life for yourself and grieving a very serious loss. You can start setting appropriate work boundaries and make more time for yourself. More enjoyment and less being on call is a good and healthy thing. You matter more than a lost key or broken thingamajig. You come first! **GypsyGirl**, this will come in waves. Be very gentle and kind to yourself. As busy as you are and as sad as you might be, please book a couple things that you can look fwd to. naby64, this also applies to you.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 14, 2025 16:05:03 GMT
a one day quilt retreat on Saturday to get ready for. I need to find something like this. I'm so jealous every time you and austnscrapaddict talk about quilting with friends.
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Post by austnscrapaddict on Jul 14, 2025 16:44:28 GMT
Happy Monday dinner friends! scrapmaven how exciting for your luxury cruise. Enjoy your voice lesson. Tearisci I'm so glad your DS was able to come into town and spend time with the family. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the routine and forget to laugh and enjoy each day. tmarschall continuing to keep you in my thoughts sueg I'm also anxiously awaiting new baby news. jeremysgirl Happy Belated Birthday!!! I worked some over the weekend. I read the thread but didn't post. That was so sweet of your boss to make a cake! I also don't like going to the office, I'm much more efficient at home, thankfully, going to the office is rare for me. Big hugs for **GypsyGirl** and naby64 You are both finding a new norm. jeremysgirl it takes time to find crafty friends. I like a mix of sewing with friends and solo. I'm more productive at home in my own environment, I also don't like getting sucked into drama or asked to take sides. DH is on his way home from the ranch, dinner will be chicken breast, rice and a veg. I have a mammogram early this afternoon. Have an awesome day everyone!
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Post by Neisey on Jul 14, 2025 16:48:29 GMT
Hi all! It’s been a busy start to July with a trip to PEI for my 40th reunion on one end and then a stay with friends on the other end (small province, end to end is less than 3 hours.) I grew up there but my dad was transferred right after I graduated so I don’t get back often. I must say that now I appreciate the beauty of the island so much more than I did at 17-18. We had friends over this weekend but now we are getting back into routine. Today we picked up wood for a small set of stairs going from our deck to the water so we don’t have to climb down the riprap (angular rocks to help protect from erosion). We have a dock for direct entry into the water but often find ourselves precariously traversing the rocks so this will be helpful. I’ll go for a walk and then come home and “help” DSO build. No idea yet what we will eat tonight, probably something with chicken. Here’s a few pictures from PEI…  One of many small harbours  Sea stack in Cavendish National Park  Water was like glass  Lobster flat bread - so delish!  Typical rural scene  Cows Ice Cream - YUM!
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Post by leannec on Jul 14, 2025 16:50:56 GMT
It is a gloomy rainy day here today and it's making me sleepy! I may need to drink coffee! No big plans today at all ... started watching Bachelor In Paradise from last week but it didn't hold my interest ... maybe later ... I need to apply for a few jobs I may actually cook tonight! Butter Chicken is on the menu! Yum! ![]()
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Jul 14, 2025 16:52:35 GMT
a one day quilt retreat on Saturday to get ready for. I need to find something like this. I'm so jealous every time you and austnscrapaddict talk about quilting with friends. I found my niche through a quilting guild. I tried two others before settling on the modern quilt guild locally and it has been great. The group of people is much more varied and diverse, and they meet on Saturday mornings! That opens it up to more people who work. Every July the monthly meeting is an all day sew in and we all look forward to it. Will probably have 50 or so people. And I agree with austnscrapaddict - I am more productive when I am sewing solo. However, the inspiration and motivation I get from the guild is priceless.
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Post by Linda on Jul 14, 2025 17:27:12 GMT
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 14, 2025 17:57:44 GMT
Love the pictures Neisey ! I swam this morning and have Crazy Rummy this afternoon. Supposed to hit 100° today then slightly cooler starting tomorrow. Our power went out last night right as we were reading before bedtime. Our house is pitch black when that happens because our town has no street lights. It was off for about 2 hours so not too bad. Dinner will be Chicken Divan. Hugs to all and yay on the dress scrapmaven ! 
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Post by taylortroop on Jul 14, 2025 18:08:27 GMT
For some reason, I had a short burst of energy this morning and decided to make a potato salad and macaroni salad for supper. I love both of them but they are so prep heavy, cutting up all the ingredients, that I don’t make them very often. We will have sandwiches, salads, cottage cheese for supper.
The humidity is down today so Walker and I are relaxing outside. We won’t stay out too long because he still gets so hot but at least the temp is a bit cooler today.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 14, 2025 18:09:10 GMT
I love when someone takes a picture that is decent of both of us at the same time! 
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Post by Tearisci on Jul 14, 2025 18:49:46 GMT
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 14, 2025 19:08:41 GMT
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Post by tmarschall on Jul 14, 2025 19:48:20 GMT
I am discovering my mental state is more fragile than I thought. I need to take care of me more. And if anyone thinks that I am being selfish, well then so be it. Not you all. I am talking members of the church. When I am not available at every beck and call. Good for you for recognizing that you need more self care. You have to put on your own oxygen mask before you can help others. Wise words, both of you. Thank you to several of you who have suggested therapy for grieving this complicated relationship with my mother. Believe me, she has been on speed dial (actually text!) since it happened. Looking forward to seeing her Wednesday. I know I have a lot of work to do, mostly grieving not ever really having the mother I needed. I feel like I didn't ever really know the real person. I'm not sure my zeal in trying to find out why she was the way she was will really help. I just want to understand. I think she was a very unhappy person, some for good reason, some she couldn't help. I've focused on getting my mothering elsewhere and I've been lucky at times to find it. Great pics, @niesey and cadoodlebug! Nick broke im his Blackstone yesterday with chicken stir fry and now he's excited. We are going to do smash burgers and smashed baby potatoes with something green, to be determined.
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Post by quiltz on Jul 14, 2025 20:52:55 GMT
I have had a wonderful day and am very tired.
My friend picked me up this morning and took me to her new house in the country. I really haven't been anywhere other than hospital, re-hab hospital and home since June 19th.
She *mothered* me and it felt wonderful. Had a delicious morning coffee, great conversation, a light lunch, more relaxing on her sofa and then she took me grocery shopping for a few things. My knee is healing so well and my gait is improving, using only a cane for assistance (well, grocery cart too). I was driven home and my groceries were brought into my condo.
No urgency at all and a very relaxed day in a different environment. She is a wonderful friend.
She made me a meal for dinner of steak tips, smashed potatoes and green beans with cherry pie for dessert. She bakes the most delicious pies and uses local fruit.
To the dinner tribe who need hugs and encouragement, I've been thinking of you. Waiting for news of a new baby, as the other peas are too. Have a great week and spread kindness where-ever you can.
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Post by tmarschall on Jul 14, 2025 21:03:02 GMT
I have had a wonderful day and am very tired. My friend picked me up this morning and took me to her new house in the country. I really haven't been anywhere other than hospital, re-hab hospital and home since June 19th. She *mothered* me and it felt wonderful. Had a delicious morning coffee, great conversation, a light lunch, more relaxing on her sofa and then she took me grocery shopping for a few things. My knee is healing so well and my gait is improving, using only a cane for assistance (well, grocery cart too). I was driven home and my groceries were brought into my condo. No urgency at all and a very relaxed day in a different environment. She is a wonderful friend. She made me a meal for dinner of steak tips, smashed potatoes and green beans with cherry pie for dessert. She bakes the most delicious pies and uses local fruit. To the dinner tribe who need hugs and encouragement, I've been thinking of you. Waiting for news of a new baby, as the other peas are too. Have a great week and spread kindness where-ever you can. Your dinner sounds delicious, what a wonderful friend. May you continue to heal!
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Post by teddyw on Jul 14, 2025 21:14:45 GMT
Loving the pictures today! Forgot to mention dd3 got engaged Saturday. Her bf decided to do it this weekend because we were there. We had a little party set up when they got back. He did it Walled Lake. I thought it had special meaning. He runs there but she’s never been. He also invited her bff up too. His parents immediately texted me to have dinner. Probably to discuss things. He’s the oldest of 5 and the first to get married. I don’t think the couple are ready for “discussions”. This morning my brother texted from CT. Don’t know if I mentioned he moved back again. But now he’s moving back for sure. She’s an addict and he just can’t take anymore. I feel bad for both of them. She’s going to end up losing her kids and her job. It’s just really sad. Also this morning I went with L&B to the science museum. It was almost $40 for my ticket. They have a membership. I don’t know how families afford this stuff. Plus the discounted parking rate for members is $10. Not sure what non-members pay. Now I’m doing all the miscellaneous chores. Dinner will be something chicken. I’m undecided. Enjoy Cabo @stormst What’s the luxury cruise destination scrapmaven? I really want to do Alaska but I can’t cruise due to terrible motion sickness. @quiltz what a great friend. In nursing school they really honed in on taking care of yourself. Multiple professors would say the only person who cares about your career, license and well being is YOU.
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Post by sueg on Jul 14, 2025 22:58:18 GMT
Good morning everyone. Enzo Leonardo made a dramatic entrance to the world at 9:20 yesterday morning. They started to induce him but his vitals went pear-shaped, so they performed an emergency c section. As he wasn’t doing well at first, he has been in the special care nursery for 24 hours and will be released to rooming in soon. That means we have only been able to see him through a window so far and no chance for cuddles yet. Sophia and I are going to the hospital in about an hour and then I’ll take Lucia this afternoon when I get her from daycare. 
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Post by Neisey on Jul 14, 2025 23:13:03 GMT
Congratulations on your new grandson sueg. I’m sure you will be so excited to finally meet him. Glad he is improving from his scary arrival!
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 14, 2025 23:19:50 GMT
sueg, you have a grandson. Boys are so much fun. Enzo Leonardo is so beautiful. Is Sophia excited? What does Lucia think? It might be easier for her, since he's a boy. I'm thrilled for all of you. teddyw, congratulations on your dd's engagement. Your future sil sounds like a great guy and very romantic. Woohoo. quiltz, you have a wonderful friend. I hope that you're doing better by the day. cadoodlebug, all of the photos that I've seen of you and your dh are such sweet photos. tmarschall, after my parents died I went to work in a way that I'd never done before. I found so much closure; yet, I had even more questions, but that's OK. I was able to learn the most about myself. It's not about your mother as much as it about your mother's effect on you. I don't believe that you have to forgive anyone else to gain closure or peace. I believe that you have to understand yourself and love yourself enough to not allow the actions of others to interfere w/your happiness. As you do the work you'll learn to appreciate yourself even more.
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Post by littlemama on Jul 14, 2025 23:19:54 GMT
Enzo is a cutie! Glad he is doing better and hope everyone can snuggle him soon
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