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Post by travelsoul on Jan 10, 2015 18:36:33 GMT
Okay ladies please give me the ugly truth! I'm expecting my 1st baby this year. To make room for baby, I need to do a major purge. I'm trying to decide what I will realistically use and need once baby is here. I'm gong to donate/sell/trash a lot, but I also want to pack up and store stuff I know I still want but might not be using for a while.
My mommy girlfriends, who are not crafters, tell me to pack it all away because I won't have the time or energy for any of it for the first year or two. This can't be true. I know I won't have hours a week like I do now, but surely I'll be able to squeeze an hour or 2 in a week, right?
Tell me the truth. Will I have time (or energy) to scrapbook?
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jan 10, 2015 18:50:24 GMT
Mom of FOUR kids here - you will still have time.
Especially as a mom of only one. When baby takes a nap, but you don't feel like napping, pull out a little something to scrap instead of turning on the television.
When baby is old enough to be in a swing, feel like doing something? Scrap a little.
Most important thing, though.... Take so many photos. More than you ever thought you could or would.
You will always have time later to scrap them.
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Post by alittleintrepid on Jan 10, 2015 19:03:06 GMT
It depends on your little one. Some babies will go with the flow, others don't want to sleep.... But, do take tones of pictures and try to enjoy your time. Those days go by so fast.
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Post by gonewalkabout on Jan 10, 2015 19:04:12 GMT
What lavenderlayoutlady said... I scrapped with 2 kids, did design work etc.. Always found time. You'll discover the best times for yourself as you get into a routine with your baby.
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Post by julieinsweden on Jan 10, 2015 22:07:50 GMT
Kids are now 5 and 3. It's only been in the last year that I have had the time AND energy to scrap. But alot depends on your priorities. If you really want to, you can find the time. But not much!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2015 22:32:20 GMT
When my oldest was born I didn't scrap for the first 6 weeks or so, but after that I just used to bring him into my craft area with me if he wasn't napping. he would sit in his little bouncy seat, swing or whatever he was into at that time. He would play and I would talk to him as I scrapped. When my youngest was born, again I didn't scrap for the first few weeks and then I would basically do the same thing, but he also had ODS to keep him entertained. I also worked full time when they were both babies. I still work full time, but I work from home. ODS is now 10 and YDS is 6. If you really want to scrap, you will find the time! DH has always been great about making sure I have time to myself and for scrapping.
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Post by kelly8875 on Jan 10, 2015 22:52:09 GMT
You'll have as much time as you allow yourself to have. If you would sit down to watch tv, you can sit down to scrap. If you would sit down to read, you can sit down to scrap. If you have time to go shopping or to lunch, you have time to scrap. Just don't make it out to be a 'job', rather make it something you want to do to fill a few minutes of your day. You may have to alter your style of working/planning but don't give it up.
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Post by BSnyder on Jan 10, 2015 23:05:49 GMT
If scrapping is something you find valuable to you, you'll find a way to make time. Babies don't need constant entertainment, and as a mom you need time for yourself to re-energize. I actually find it more difficult to find the time to scrap as my kids got older. Each of their activities, social events, and needs require me to be outside the house after I've been outside the house working all day. I am hardly home anymore and scrapping isn't a craft that is easy to to do on the go.
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Post by 950nancy on Jan 10, 2015 23:14:54 GMT
I wish I would have been a scrapper back when my kids were babies. My son napped from 1-4 or 5 almost every day. I was so bored at times. The pictures might inspire you. If you don't have a great camera, you might want to invest in one. You might also consider mixing traditional pages with pocket pages so you can scrap more pictures. And yes, for the first couple of months, I was exhausted. I think most people are but you don't stay that way forever. Will you work full time? I think your friends who aren't crafters don't know what you love will motivate you. Personally, I would purge some, but don't put it all away. Perhaps finding a paper line you love and some new baby embellishments might motivate you. How long until the due date? If you have time now, start creating page kits or even layouts you can just add pictures to later. I am already working on my vacation book for spring break.
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Post by carolynhasacat on Jan 10, 2015 23:18:15 GMT
That's the time when I had the MOST time for scrapping. Once I went back to work, it was way more difficult. I think of that period as my golden period of scrapping.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Jan 11, 2015 0:30:49 GMT
Agreed. You will have the time if you make the time.
It also depends on where you scrap. My area is set up in our family room, so the boys would be playing or watching a movie and I could be there scrapping. I actually got a lot done when they were younger and we were home more.
I also agree with taking TONS of pictures. You can never have too many and like a pp said, you can always scrap them later. Just ask me. I'm working on photos from 2004, lol.
Congrats on the upcoming addition to your family!
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Post by GiantsFan on Jan 11, 2015 0:41:07 GMT
I know someone that got rid of ALL her stuff before the baby was born. (I know this because she gave all to me!) They take a lot of photos and she uses an online site and makes photo books.
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Post by amom23 on Jan 11, 2015 1:07:01 GMT
When my kids were really little is when I scrapbooked the most. I loved naptime and early bedtimes. Also, babies stay put lol so you can scrap with baby right by you.
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Post by weaser714 on Jan 11, 2015 1:18:18 GMT
You will have time but you have to make time. I scrapped with a 1, 3 and 5 year old running around. I had a kid sized table with art supplies for the kids next to my scrapping space. If they were awake they were in there working with me. I went to a monthly crop and annual retreat where I could get more uninterrupted time to scrap.
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Post by moosedogtoo on Jan 11, 2015 1:50:51 GMT
I didn't start scrapping until a few weeks after my first baby was born. I did a million pages when she was a baby. She has a beautiful baby book! My poor son's baby book is very thin compared to hers. I didn't have as much time after he was born.
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Post by Basket1lady on Jan 11, 2015 2:37:45 GMT
With #1, I had very little time to scrap. He just wasn't the kind of kid to color quietly while I did anything. If #2 had been my first, I could have scrapped from the day I brought her home.
If you have an area to work that you can close the door on or gate off, it will work much better. That way, you can work in 15 minute intervals. I got a lot done that way.
You really aren't going to know until you know the personality of the child. And what you need to relax. Is it collapsing on the couch with the TV or will it be creating something? I still go in spurts and my kids are 17 & 15 now.
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Post by travelsoul on Jan 11, 2015 5:42:52 GMT
I wish I would have been a scrapper back when my kids were babies. My son napped from 1-4 or 5 almost every day. I was so bored at times. The pictures might inspire you. If you don't have a great camera, you might want to invest in one. You might also consider mixing traditional pages with pocket pages so you can scrap more pictures. And yes, for the first couple of months, I was exhausted. I think most people are but you don't stay that way forever. Will you work full time? I think your friends who aren't crafters don't know what you love will motivate you. Personally, I would purge some, but don't put it all away. Perhaps finding a paper line you love and some new baby embellishments might motivate you. How long until the due date? If you have time now, start creating page kits or even layouts you can just add pictures to later. I am already working on my vacation book for spring break. I am considering getting a DSLR. I've been wanting one for a couple years and I wish I would have gotten one then. Now I feel I have too many other things I need to spend my money on. I will be returning to work full time. I do plan on taking 4 months off after baby but then it's back full time. I'm due end of June, beginning of July. I was thinking off creating base pages for the baby album now! Thanks for the suggestion! I've already decided not to do project life this year so I can focus solely on baby scrapbooking. Thanks again for the encouragement and suggestions!
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Post by travelsoul on Jan 11, 2015 5:54:16 GMT
Thank you everyone!!! I knew it would be possible. I feel like showing this thread to my friends to say "so there!"
I'm being realistic with myself. I know I won't have all the free time that I have now. I'm not expecting to have a ton of energy. I waited a long time for this baby. I'll be 40 when I deliver and I'm going back to work full time, so I know my energy will be a little less then young moms. This will be the first baby in my family in 16 years so I'll have lots of help. My mom, aunts, and sister in laws are already fighting over the baby.
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Post by jameynz on Jan 11, 2015 7:12:01 GMT
That's the time when I had the MOST time for scrapping. Once I went back to work, it was way more difficult. I think of that period as my golden period of scrapping. I started scrapping when DS#3 was 5yrs old, so I scrapped at night/weekends and a monthly crop as I was working. When DD came along (#4) I worked 2 days a week - the days I was home, when she slept during the day, I scrapped. If it is important to you - you will find or make the time.
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Post by ScrapsontheRocks on Jan 11, 2015 7:25:02 GMT
Have you heard of Shimelle/ Glitter Girl? Not being snarky, but I think there is a perfect example a couple of months ahead of you on this first baby thing. Some will say she still has the time to produce a new collection for CHA, others will decry the lack of new content. It will be what you can make of it. Good luck!
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Post by impearia on Jan 11, 2015 10:33:16 GMT
If it is something you want to do you will find or make the time. I scrapped loads after my first baby (now almost 11 ...) It was actually after my second that I just didn't have time, but he was a much more fussy AND I had an older child to take care of as well. Now I have a 16 month old, a 3 and a half year old and an almost 11 year old, and I scrap all the time.
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Post by myboysnme on Jan 11, 2015 22:14:39 GMT
If you scrap now, you will probably scrap after the baby is born. But some things you can do if you know you want to scrap is make up page kits now, organize your supplies and after the baby is born, organize any memorabilia that you acquire after the baby is born so you have it when you do want to scrap. Even if you just keep your photos printed and organized you will be doing something. The first year goes quickly and you may not scrap much if at all, but you will have what you need when you do get back to it.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jan 12, 2015 1:48:53 GMT
Congrats on the addition to your family! I was an older first time mom too (43 when I delivered, I am nuts!), and at first I was totally exhausted. But like others have said, that doesn't last forever. I was lucky that DD slept through the night at ten weeks which was a huge blessing.
I worked from home so I had to find time to do things since it was my job. The two things that saved me during that time was our Fisher Price Rock 'N Play Sleeper and our swing. We originally didn't want to devote the space to the swing in our tiny house, but we caved when it became clear that DD wouldn't take decent daytime naps otherwise. She loved that Rock 'N Play and we got a lot of use out of it, it was so nice because it was portable. Once she got a little bigger and could sit up on her own, she would sit in her Babee Tenda feeding table and play with her stuff next to my desk in my office while I worked and couldn't get into anything.
If you have a dedicated work space, it definitely helps because you can start a project when you have a little time and leave it there until the next time you have a few minutes when they're small like that. My problem was that my studio was in the half story attic and my office was on the main floor of the house, so I ended up swapping my main floor office storage with my upstairs work table so she could be next to me, or in her swing just outside the office door in the livingroom. Once she was more mobile, it got harder because neither my office or studio was childproof. We moved when DD was two.
The lack of a child safe work space after we moved was what has really limited how much I could work on stuff in the last couple years. I have a great studio space in the basement but because I didn't have anywhere to put anything away, I never even unpacked most of it. (It's kind of hard to scrap when you don't know where anything is!) Between 2-4 years old, she was running around and getting into everything so not having a childproof space made me not want to have her down there with me unless I could watch her like a hawk (which meant I wouldn't be getting anything done). Because of that, I only worked when our part time sitter was able to be here, and she has since gotten a full time job. I'm finally getting my built-in storage now so I can get my stuff unpacked and put away (yay!!).
DD is almost 5 and she doesn't get into things quite as much as she used to, so I'm hoping that once my storage is installed and things are organized, it will make it easier to work on stuff and be able to walk away from it without having to worry about her getting into it.
One other thing I will say I'm glad I did was I made it a priority to have professional portraits taken of DD several times during her first year, and at least 1-2 times a year since. Having those gorgeous photos of DD makes me WANT to scrap them, and if you're motivated to scrapbook, you will!
You're in for a big adventure! Enjoy it!
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Post by epeanymous on Jan 12, 2015 4:23:01 GMT
I didn't find it to be a problem. I was home on maternity leave, and was used to squeezing scrapbooking around a 12-hour-a-day job, so, while the baby obviously needed care, I was used to crafting in whatever minutes I could find.
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Post by alissa103 on Jan 12, 2015 5:49:08 GMT
Congrats!!! You can do it. I was back scrapping when DS wasn't even a week old yet. My mom was in town visiting and she and DS were napping and I was bored. Plus I had some awesome newborn pics I wanted to scrap If you aren't totally exhausted, the itty bitty stage is actually the easiest, if your baby likes a swing, bouncy or whatever. I used to nurse DS, pop him in the bouncy, chit chat to him as I started working, show him the papers and photos, etc. and he'd eventually fall asleep in the bouncy and I'd work until he was hungry again. Now that he's 2.5, I scrap during nap. I just make it a priority. I.e. I don't do ANY housework that can be done with him next to me, even if his "help" makes it take longer. Laundry to fold? We do it when he wakes up. Dishes to put away? He plays as I do it. Etc. I also cut out tv drastically. If I can't watch it on my phone or iPad in bed at night, I don't watch. DH also has a sweet tradition of taking DS out for daddy time on Sat. mornings. They go to park, library, run an errand, etc. I use that time for me. Sometimes I scrap, sometimes I don't but that is a nice chunk of time! If you can also find a regular crop to attend, that will help. Especially when baby is a little older. Having the dedicated time away to focus on scrapping is nice.
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Post by annchristine on Jan 13, 2015 19:57:46 GMT
Way more time than when baby #2 arrives!! Lol. You'll be a lot busier, but you can still squeeze time in. I have 2 kids, 4 and almost 2, and I work full time. I still manage on average one layout a week, and I scrap on the kitchen table. I've found the key is to have your stuff out and available so that when those little free moments come up, you can just jump right in. Congrats, motherhood is way awesome. And super fun to scrap!!
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Post by kitbop on Jan 13, 2015 21:15:24 GMT
Congratulations! I scrapped all through my years with "littles". But way more now this is so so true, no excuses in this digital age. My oldest was a baby when we only had a film camera (16 years old. wow. technology has really come a long way in a short time) and I don't have nearly enough documented. So, make sure you WRITE STUFF DOWN! You'll think you'll never forget, but you WILL. Big. And then you feel like somehow you missed it... It's my biggest regret, to not have details to write with the photos when I go back in time.
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Post by mama2three on Jan 15, 2015 4:06:44 GMT
Mom of FOUR kids here - you will still have time. Especially as a mom of only one. When baby takes a nap, but you don't feel like napping, pull out a little something to scrap instead of turning on the television. When baby is old enough to be in a swing, feel like doing something? Scrap a little. Most important thing, though.... Take so many photos. More than you ever thought you could or would. You will always have time later to scrap them. Same here. I started scrapping when my oldest was first born and at one point actually "ran out of photos" (that hasn't happened since).
Most importantly, take a lot of photos - and also each day jot a few notes about what is happening, anything your child did that you want to remember, funny things that happen, things people say and do, and any ideas that come to mind for scrapping the photos. It doesn't matter whether you do this in a journal, on a calendar, or in a blog. That way if you find you don't have time to scrap for a long time, if you have the photos and your notes you can always easily scrap them later on, even if it is many years later.
The people who told me I wouldn't be able to scrap when my children were born were the same ones who also told me not to take up quilting while I was writing my dissertation (but that's what helped save my sanity during that period! I needed to create and see something get done)!
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Post by camanddanismom on Jan 15, 2015 10:43:32 GMT
Surprisingly, quite a bit once we got a schedule in place. Babies can't get into your stuff I found I could easily start a project and pick at it during the day.
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Post by iammikki on Jan 16, 2015 19:11:24 GMT
At first, there will be time, newborn babies sleep quite a bit. I do think you need to be realistic. Having a newborn is easy, having a toddler was when things got tricky, particularly since my daughter didn't want to nap unless I was there with her. What helped me scrapbook? One step at a time, before my daughter was born, I would scrapbook a layout start to finish, and I had to stop scrapping that way, instead I had to scrapbook one bit at a time, there are plenty of moments, small moments often about 5 minute bursts. It will be a change to suddenly have a baby, but you definitely don't need to trash your stash.
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