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Post by marg on Jan 13, 2015 16:42:37 GMT
My drive is an hour-ish, usually in fairly heavy traffic. During March Break and the summer when the civil servants are all off it can be as short as 30 minutes, which I love.
I also have to pay $250 per month to park which I hate.
The commute is bearable thanks to podcasts, but I only do it because I'm building up experience after having been a SAHM for 14 years. No benefits, okay pay. Hoping to find something closer to home in a few years.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2015 17:00:10 GMT
My husband travels 86 miles total each day. It's an hour and a half commute. I'd like to move closer once 2 of our kids graduate from high school.
It's worth it to us for him to travel that much each week because it's a job specific to the military.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Jan 13, 2015 17:09:38 GMT
I currently drive about 45 minutes to 1 hour one way for work, but the actual time is variable-- it very much depends on the time of day and traffic conditions, accidents, weather, etc. The mileage is about 32 miles one way. The Phoenix area is so spread out, I'm used to driving for pretty much everything so my work commute doesn't bother me most of the time. It puts miles and wear and tear on my car, but I have a Honda Fit, so it's holding up well.
If I end up staying late at work for some reason, or get in to work late because of an accident on the road or something, then I do sometimes feel 'screwed out of' my evening relaxing because I don't get home till 6 pm or after and we go to bed between 8:30 - 9 pm, but that's rare, thankfully.
I do really like my job (decent pay and benefits, and I really like the company) but that's only part of it-- we chose to live in a smaller town/suburb about 20 miles outside the Phoenix suburban area 'proper' so driving is just a trade-off for us to live where we picked.
When I was out of work and looking, the mental cut-off number I had in my head was 50 miles one way, although I didn't want to do it unless I had to. I know there are some 'super-commuters' in the Phoenix area who drive 2-3 hours one way for their job so they can live outside of Phoenix, but I could never do that.
eta: I don't have a pre-set 'start time' unless there's a meeting, audit, etc. scheduled, which helps with unforseen traffic issues. the management here believes as long as you're getting your work done, you can do it however/whenever you need to.
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Post by calgal08 on Jan 13, 2015 17:14:43 GMT
We live in Silicon Valley, traffic is a nightmare. Door to door my drive non-commute time is 20-25 minutes, in reality, every morning it takes me 1 - 1.5 hours. Dh will soon have a 2+ hour commute each way.
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Post by pretzels on Jan 13, 2015 19:41:23 GMT
I drive about 15-20 minutes to work. DH drives about 35-40 minutes. Both commutes are mainly interstate, so it's not bad. The only problem comes when there's a wreck and you're stuck on I-10 for an hour.
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Post by fruitysuet on Jan 13, 2015 19:51:50 GMT
I take a circular route for my commute - 40 miles takes one hour going, 30 miles takes one and a quarter hours coming back.
It wasn't by choice - the company I work for relocated from the ofice that was 8 miles/20 mintues away. i have a good salary for what I do, something closer and similar wor k is around £3k per year less. Also I still get a contribution to the fuel cost which offsets that plus a bit extra, which I wouldn't get with a new job.
It's not a job I love but I need the money.
Also I have done the SahM bit, my kids are now 19, 15 and 13, no after school activities. I can't imagine doing these hours (I'm out 6.30-6.00) with younger children.
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Post by BoilerUp! on Jan 13, 2015 20:05:11 GMT
I drive 15 minutes to work daily. I love my job, have good pay and good benefits.
I hate the Midwest winters! Now that my kids are getting older, I wish I lived in Texas! I'd commute if I could never see below zero temps and these ugly gray Indiana skies for 5+ months.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jan 13, 2015 20:09:56 GMT
I have a 5 minute commute as I work 2 miles from my home. I really like it. My kids' schools are close, the doctor is close, the dentist is close so I don't need to take nearly as much time off work to handle these sorts of things. But I have lived as far away as 47 miles and made that commute. I did not like it but would do it for a job I love. My DH travels 45 minutes to get to work. He does not seem to mind it much, but it puts terrible wear and tear on the car and when it's snowing, I feel bad for him having to plan that much travel time.
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Post by KikiPea on Jan 13, 2015 20:11:45 GMT
Before we moved this past March, DH drove 100 miles round trip every day for 7 1/2 years.  He LOVES his job, though.
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Post by moveablefeast on Jan 13, 2015 22:17:33 GMT
I drive less than 4 miles, but it takes 20-30 minutes. I don't think I would want to go too much farther if I could help it. We have really terrible traffic.
I really need time at home and when I worked in the city my 90 minute commute just didn't allow it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2015 22:20:50 GMT
We are 4 people living at home (me, DH, DD27 and DS24), so:
*Me: 35-40 min each way. No benefits. Basically helping friends by mentoring/nannying their children in exchange for groceries. *DD: 45-50 min each way. Min. wage. No benefits. She LOVES the job, but it's so far away + the hours vary. Some days she's called in just for 3 hours. Not worth it!! It'll look good on her resume though. *DS: 15 min each way. Slightly above min wage. No benefits.
Two things to keep in mind: In this part of FL, we're all extremely lucky to get any job, even part time. We have to travel to find those jobs though, and they rarely pay (even with a degree). We are 4 people with ONE car. My kids moved down here last year and are still waiting for their dad to ship their cars here. At first we encouraged them to get jobs, but now with DH being the taxi driver, he's driving for well over 6 hours/day, putting tons of mileage on our new car and he's exhausted (he's a heart patient and shouldn't be doing this much!). It's insane. I know it's tough everywhere, but this scenario is pretty horrible. There is no public transportation that goes in the direction of any of our jobs, and I checked into taxi services. They are $26 each way for DD!!! That's practically her whole paycheck.
Is the norm everywhere to try to get young people to work part time, and avoid giving them medical benefits? That's what I'm finding here. Not sure if it's like that everywhere. It's so much harder than when we were their age!
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Post by pridemom on Jan 14, 2015 0:11:26 GMT
30-40 minutes. My current job is just ten minutes/3 mikes from home to sitting at my desk Two of my kids go to school two block from my work. It may not be as much responsibility as I once had, but it's low stress, close to home, and no travel for work.
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Post by Scrapbrat on Jan 14, 2015 14:10:01 GMT
At my current job, I drive about 15 minutes one way, and that is in highway traffic. It is awesome. Previously, we lived in a much larger city, and I drove about 30-40 minutes one way. That was fine, but I probably wouldn't want to have a commute each day that was much longer than that. However, people do commute crazy distances. A colleague here commutes over an hour one way, because they need to live in a certain city due to her DH's job.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Jan 14, 2015 15:35:53 GMT
my sister is a teacher and commutes 70 minutes one way across soutwestern Wisconsin (more rural roads / small highways) to her school, but that's because they bought a house in a certain area and she only has a couple more years till she can retire from her district. No way was she going to lose all her seniority by switching school districts. She listens to a lot of audio books during her commute.
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Post by Miss Lerins Momma on Jan 14, 2015 16:02:45 GMT
I'm a SAHM now, but at my last job, my commute was 10min. I worked there for 10 years. The place I'm looking at applying at when my youngest starts school is about 12 min away, if I hit all of the lights.
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 14, 2015 16:04:03 GMT
My last job.. which I had for 20 years.. I drove 25 miles each way.. that would take between 35 minutes on a very very very good day... typically the drive was about 45 to 50 minutes. I would do it again. I am struggling in finding a job.. last interview was even further and I debated about the drive but decided if they do call I would do it.
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Jan 14, 2015 18:05:16 GMT
I work 13 miles away from home, and on a good day I can make it in 30 minutes. Usually it's 35-45. Lots of red lights. Love my job, have great benefits, okay pay, great people to work with.
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Post by fruitysuet on Jan 14, 2015 18:05:34 GMT
Just had to come and ETA my one hour journey took two and a half hours this morning because of an emergency road closure. And I am having to make up the time despite the fact that I never take a break in the day (unlike the group of smokers who have 3x10 minutes accepted breaks and don't have to make the time up. Grrrrrr. Also been told I can't work through lunch and the office is only open for half an hour outside of my normal working hours so I've got to put in three early mornings instead.
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Post by likescarrots on Jan 14, 2015 18:19:02 GMT
Nope. It takes us 15 min to get to work and I generally feel like I wish we lived close enough to walk. No way would I commute 50 min. I would move closer if the job was that good.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2015 20:09:58 GMT
Now my commute is 3 miles, so 5 minutes and DH is 6 miles, 10 minutes. I have commuted 30 miles with 45 minutes to an hour and I HATED it. And at the time I didn't not have small children, but when I am off work, I just want to get home.
If I HAD to I would do it again, but I hope to never be more than 10 minutes from my job.
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