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Post by templatequeen on Jan 13, 2015 1:32:17 GMT
If you really loved your job? It had great pay, and benefits? And if it was really hard to find a job with your degree locally like in your neighborhood, how far would you be willing to drive everyday, if you found a job that met the 3 above qualities would a 50 minute drive each way change your mind in keeping the job?  I know they are hard to come by in my field. I am just struggling with the drive....
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eleezybeth
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Post by eleezybeth on Jan 13, 2015 1:41:05 GMT
How bad do I need *that* job based on pay and benefits?
Really need *that* job: 1 hour 15 minutes Kind of need *that* job: 45 minutes Don't need *that* job: 30 minutes.
My longest commute was 45-60 minutes. It got old in the winter and since it was a lovely drive in the summer I didn't mind so much.
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Post by Dani-Mani on Jan 13, 2015 1:42:57 GMT
It depends. In single, but starting a family in a year or so and when I do, I would not give up that time
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Post by kaylo on Jan 13, 2015 1:45:34 GMT
I really grudge time spent commuting to/from work so for me it would probably be around 30 minute drive.
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Post by ten&rose on Jan 13, 2015 1:46:35 GMT
I drive 30 minutes on the weekend to a job that I like that got my foot in the door of where I'd love to work when I graduate. During the week that same drive can take me up to an hour depending on traffic.
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Post by freecharlie on Jan 13, 2015 1:48:01 GMT
Do you have kids at home that you need to get places?
My longest commute was a little over an hour. It was a low paying job, but I got to watch hockey.
Most of my jobs have been a 20-45 minute drive. My current commute is 5 min.
Dh drives e0 min for his full to me job and an hour to an hour and a half for his per diem.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jan 13, 2015 1:48:53 GMT
I drive 30 miles one way. I have a great job, good pay, good benefits. We moved to this area because it's sort of half way for me and my dh. My dh drives anywhere from 30-75 miles 1 way. He gets paid drive time though. I hate the drive in the winter. When my kids were younger, luckily I had a good daycare that would take them a bit earlier and later. Also my girls were involved in extra curr stuff later, and stayed after school for that, and our school goes til 430, so with my drive time I could be there in plenty of time to pick them up after EC stuff.
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Post by 950nancy on Jan 13, 2015 1:49:30 GMT
I drive 17 minutes each way. I love my job. Today while driving on the ice on nearly deserted roads because the other districts were closed or on a two hour delay… I liked it less!
Whatever seems reasonable to you is the correct answer.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2015 1:57:03 GMT
I have had a lengthy commute in the past (70-120 minutes, depending on traffic) and I will never do it again. It is just too much time and money lost.
A 20 minute drive is the outer limit for me. No way would I do 50 minutes.
That said, many people have no problem with a commute that length. It all depends on individual priorities.
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Post by gonewalkabout on Jan 13, 2015 2:01:48 GMT
For a job I needed with what you described, probably at least an hour. I'm sure it would get old. I'd maybe move to a halfway point if possible. I'm in a field that's hard to find work in also.
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Post by cmpeter on Jan 13, 2015 2:03:43 GMT
I would max out at around 30 minutes. I used to commute into the city and that was 30-45 minutes. Our office there closed and everyone started telecommuting. Much, nicer. Would you have that option s few days a week? Most of my current co- workers are in NYC and work from home 1-3 days a week to offset crazy commutes.
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Post by luvnlifelady on Jan 13, 2015 2:09:14 GMT
DH drives about 50 minutes to an hour each way. He used to drive the other way, but at least it was against traffic. Now, it's with traffic.
The job pays just ok with no benefits and he often brings home work. Yah, to say we're looking at options is an understatement. Kids are teens so we may want to downsize sooner than later.
Jobs are hard to come by at his level here though (San Diego area) and he's pushing 50 which doesn't help.
ETA: I drive 40 miles each way. I am technically paid to come back (I drive a special needs boy to/from school). However, I choose to just stay down in the area for 5 hours waiting for him (I am only on the clock for part of the time so I get paid for some of it). Not the best job set-up but it works for now.
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Post by kristi on Jan 13, 2015 2:12:28 GMT
My husband drives 1.5-2 hrs each way. He loves his job.
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Post by chaosisapony on Jan 13, 2015 2:14:18 GMT
I have done 45 minutes for a job with ok pay and no benefits. I was looking within a one hour drive when I was job hunting last year for somewhere with good pay and benefits. Really, 1 hour is about my patience limit with commuting. I would only do it for the right job.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Jan 13, 2015 2:15:14 GMT
I used to take a ferry and bus as my commute. It was about 1 1/2 hours each way. I was young, a high school dropout and needed the job to get the work experience.
Now I live 2 miles away from my job and work 1 day a week from home.
Then I was single and needed the money, now I work for our extras. Then I would commute, now I wouldn't.
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Post by GiantsFan on Jan 13, 2015 2:15:56 GMT
I drive 33.2 miles. It takes about 40 minutes in the morning and 50 in the afternoon. I usually listen to audio books to pass the time.
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Post by Pahina722 on Jan 13, 2015 2:21:58 GMT
How far I would drive also would depend on how much I would make. I drive 20 to 30 minutes each way, depending on which campus I teach on for the day. Adding another half hour each way of drive time? The pay better reflect the extra time commuting, not to mention wear and tear on my car. I'd honestly consider moving closer to the job.
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Post by johnnysmom on Jan 13, 2015 2:23:16 GMT
I have driven 50 min but it was an easy country drive with no traffic, I wouldn't want to do 50min in heavy traffic. Dh used to drive an hour, now he drives almost 2hrs, but he works from home 2-3 days/wk. We've discussed moving but I want to move so he only has a 20min or less drive and he wants at least 45-60min to decompress.
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Post by Zee on Jan 13, 2015 2:26:04 GMT
My last drive was 30-50 minutes depending on what shift I was working/time of day. The drive in winter could reduce a grown woman to tears, but it was fine otherwise.
The longest commute I had for a job ever was over an hour. I had to quit the longer one, it was too much time in the car just to be miserable once I got there--the pay and benefits were great, but I couldn't stand the misery.
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Post by paget on Jan 13, 2015 2:28:06 GMT
I like my job and it has good benefits and decent pay. I drive an hour each way. It's more than I want but I don't have much choice. In about two weeks I'll be starting a 4 10 hour day schedule and I'm hoping that will help a lot. It will cut out one day of driving completely and about 15 minutes from the drive home each night so I'll be saving about 3 hours of driving time per week.
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Post by epeanymous on Jan 13, 2015 2:29:22 GMT
I'm not willing to drive far. I have small children, which means I like being within shouting distance of home, and I really don't enjoy driving. Possibly if I had a public transit option (I take a ten-minute bus to work now) I would be willing to go a half-hour away, but, driving, fifteen or twenty minutes is it. In the theoretical universe where I had a job offer for something amazing that was far from my house, I'd move.
I did once have a summer internship that was 1.5 hours (by public transit) from where dh (then boyfriend) was living. I made it all of one month living that far before I gave up my free housing with the guy I loved and rented an apartment a fifteen-minute subway ride from the job.
I have kind of the issue in reverse, which is that I do have a job I love, and I live, as I said, the world's easiest commute from work, and we really need to buy a house with one more bedroom. I am unwilling to be much farther from work, and it is limiting our house search. But I know what balance keeps me happy and running, and "long commute" isn't part of it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2015 2:36:02 GMT
I've tried to stay within 30 minutes or so in an emergency. I've done 45-60 minutes (in traffic) in the past and hated it...so I also try to flex my schedule to miss the major traffic rush. Now I work from home and traffic on those stairs can get dicey LOL.
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Post by myshelly on Jan 13, 2015 2:37:45 GMT
DH's commute is 5-10 minutes.
We wouldn't do more than 30.
It's just not worth it to take too much time away from family time.
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Post by buddysmom on Jan 13, 2015 2:37:45 GMT
I had a job that took about 45 minutes.
But my DH and I worked at the same place so we did not have to use two cars for work.
We had to use a toll road also.
This was before kids.
We had no problem with this, didn't even think about it. We bought a house and could have bought closer to work but chose one further away.
I don't know if I would do it if I had young kids.
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Post by underwatermama on Jan 13, 2015 2:51:46 GMT
Another thing to take into account besides how long a drive it is, is if it is in heavy/stop and go traffic the entire way. That makes a difference on how you will feel when you get there (in my experience, anyway).
My top length to drive was about an hour. It was awful. I would say 30 minutes would be my max these days.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2015 3:09:04 GMT
DH doesn't mind commuting - he actually enjoys the longer drive. His job is pretty stressfull and finds the drive relaxing. He commutes 45 minutes each way.
My commute is 30 minutes. That's about my max I would drive regardless of how much I liked the job. I don't like being any further than that away from my kiddo.
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Post by raindancer on Jan 13, 2015 3:11:45 GMT
I currently drive about 45 min. to school. That's about my max. I'm really tired of it after almost 5 years. My summer internship is a quick 25 mins and I am *so* looking forward to that! So my limit will probably still be an hour just due to the fact that we chose to live where we live for the schools...but if I lived in the city 30 mins would be my max.
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Post by eebud on Jan 13, 2015 3:12:01 GMT
It would depend on how badly I needed that pay and benefits. I would also keep in mind that part of that pay, in actual dollars, is being eaten with extra gas and wear and tear on my car. However, I will do what it takes to put food on the table and keep a roof over my head. I will work jobs that I don't like and I will make commutes that give me headaches and keep me on edge. While I am doing that though, I will be looking for something closer to home.
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Post by mama2three on Jan 13, 2015 3:12:45 GMT
If you really loved your job? It had great pay, and benefits? And if it was really hard to find a job with your degree locally like in your neighborhood, how far would you be willing to drive everyday, if you found a job that met the 3 above qualities would a 50 minute drive each way change your mind in keeping the job?  I know they are hard to come by in my field. I am just struggling with the drive.... Most people I know travel a long way for their job, and 50 min is about average. I commute 20 min during off hours ( would be nearly an hour at the height of the rush hour) and people say I'm lucky. My sister commutes an hour each way and says that's normal for most people she works with. DH has had commutes of 1.5 hrs by train each way. Really eats away the day. Currently it's about half that since moved. But the worst is someone at church who commutes 3 hrs by train each way every day and still comes home each night. We can't figure out why they haven't moved yet or he hasn't found another job. Another church friend commutes over 3 hrs to work, but he drives up at the crack of dawn Tuesday, stays overnight in the free housing provided, works long days and can drive home late Thursday most weeks.
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Post by mandasue on Jan 13, 2015 3:13:12 GMT
My dh has an hour drive to work & it's not that great of a job. Long hours, decent benefits .... My one wish is that's he would find something closer - he's a mechanic so it shouldn't be too hard! It really puts a strain on us that he doesn't see (or doesn't care).
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