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Post by rainangel on Feb 6, 2015 20:29:36 GMT
ok...HOLY MOTHER F**K! I hate these people for doing that! What assholes. This brings back fond memories for me. My "dad" (I use that term loosely) did something similar to me as a child. I was walking home from school & a big blue convertible car was following about a block behind me with 4 men in it yelling at me that they were going to grab me & kill me. I started running & I could hear their engine rev up then they would speed up to me then stop & laugh. I'd take off running & they did it over & over for about 6 blocks. I didn't realize that one of those men were my father. I was so scared & I was crying & running. I hate him to this day for that. The car wasn't his, it happened to be a new car of one of his friends. They were out taking it for a spin & saw me, then thought it'd be funny to scare the shit out of me. I feel for that 6 year old boy. I think I was about 10. I am so sorry that happened to you! That is beyond cruel to do to a child. I have a 10-year old, and I can't even imagine someone she is supposed to trust terrifying her like that. Just...wow.... I'm silently hoping you didn't keep a relationship with that 'dad'.....
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Post by threegirls on Feb 6, 2015 20:56:54 GMT
That family doesn't have two brain cells between them to rub together. That poor boy.
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Post by loco coco on Feb 6, 2015 21:02:02 GMT
thats crazy, were these adults on drugs?! how would they possibly think this was a good idea
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2015 21:13:57 GMT
Oh my god... that poor sweet little boy! I want to be the stranger that takes him and protects him from that hideous family. My heart hurts for this little guy!
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Post by mstubble on Feb 6, 2015 21:13:57 GMT
I could see my mom doing this. She once pretended to have a heart attack and die in front of me so I'd know what it would feel like if she wasn't around.
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Post by wellway on Feb 6, 2015 21:16:25 GMT
I am so sorry for the peas who have posted their experiences of bad parenting. Hugs to you all.
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Post by red88 on Feb 6, 2015 22:03:27 GMT
ok...HOLY MOTHER F**K! I hate these people for doing that! What assholes. This brings back fond memories for me. My "dad" (I use that term loosely) did something similar to me as a child. I was walking home from school & a big blue convertible car was following about a block behind me with 4 men in it yelling at me that they were going to grab me & kill me. I started running & I could hear their engine rev up then they would speed up to me then stop & laugh. I'd take off running & they did it over & over for about 6 blocks. I didn't realize that one of those men were my father. I was so scared & I was crying & running. I hate him to this day for that. The car wasn't his, it happened to be a new car of one of his friends. They were out taking it for a spin & saw me, then thought it'd be funny to scare the shit out of me. I feel for that 6 year old boy. I think I was about 10. I am so sorry that happened to you! That is beyond cruel to do to a child. I have a 10-year old, and I can't even imagine someone she is supposed to trust terrifying her like that. Just...wow.... I'm silently hoping you didn't keep a relationship with that 'dad'..... Ummm.....nope. It was rocky all my life, but I took control 2 years ago & said no more. Haven't seen or spoken to him since. No intentions to ever.
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Post by rainangel on Feb 6, 2015 22:05:45 GMT
I am so sorry that happened to you! That is beyond cruel to do to a child. I have a 10-year old, and I can't even imagine someone she is supposed to trust terrifying her like that. Just...wow.... I'm silently hoping you didn't keep a relationship with that 'dad'..... Ummm.....nope. It was rocky all my life, but I took control 2 years ago & said no more. Haven't seen or spoken to him since. No intentions to ever. Sounds like you have finally found a way to keep that stress out of your life, good for you!
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Post by Just T on Feb 6, 2015 22:26:39 GMT
This happened fairly local to me--a town about 20 miles away. Not that that matters... I have tried all day to reply to this, and words have failed me. In my work, I encounter families every single day who experience the death of their child, and I just cannot wrap my brain around someone who would do anything to hurt their own child. And this...UGH. That poor little boy. I can't even imagine how terrified he was for those 4 hours. And to think that even after they were caught, those adults didn't think they did anything wrong...it's truly mind boggling. I hope they are prosecuted the same as anyone would be who kidnapped and abused a child. And I hope that little boy finds a home with some loving family who will be able to help him deal with the trauma he has gone through. What a bunch of f*ed up dumba$$es.
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Post by jameynz on Feb 6, 2015 22:56:29 GMT
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Post by momof3pits on Feb 6, 2015 23:07:03 GMT
This just blows my mind.. Who would put their child through this?
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 6, 2015 23:12:13 GMT
My first thought, after wanting to punch each and every one of those stupid fuckers in the face, was Why on earth would the co-worker ever agree to do something so awful to a poor little boy? Then I thought Hang on a sec, what about the MOTHER? Why would SHE even consider doing it? Low life dumb arse pigs, the lot of them.
I am flabbergasted.
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Post by BarbaraUK on Feb 6, 2015 23:25:57 GMT
I've just finished reading about this and it's such an horrific thing to do to a child that I just cannot see why any family would even think of doing it!
There are just no words.....!!
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Post by smokey2471 on Feb 7, 2015 1:36:49 GMT
My ex DH and I used to joke that we should do that to our oldest who never met a stranger and would probably have walked off with one but lord we would never have done it. We just alway talked to him about strangers etc and always kept an extra eye on him at places like Chucke cheese and Monkey Joes.
ETA I just read the article. We would never have done it but even if we did it would not have been at gunpoint and the whole sex angle at 6? It was all just too much. WTF is wrong with people? Idiot doesn't even begin to cover it.
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Post by smokey2471 on Feb 7, 2015 1:47:25 GMT
I could see my mom doing this. She once pretended to have a heart attack and die in front of me so I'd know what it would feel like if she wasn't around. How horrible for you. That must have been so scary. How old were you? Not that doing it at any age would be ok.
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Post by lovemybabes on Feb 7, 2015 1:57:25 GMT
I cried when I read this. I also watched on the news this morning, and I think it is just horrendous. That poor child.
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Post by salem on Feb 7, 2015 2:22:20 GMT
That poor kid. He must have been absolutely terrified. Those fuckers deserve every charge they can stick them with.
Makes you wonder what other horrible "lessons" they've taught that poor kid. So sad.
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Post by Belia on Feb 7, 2015 4:10:51 GMT
I have a 6 year old boy who is the light of my life. I cannot imagine purposely hurting him in such a way.
Some people should be banned from reproducing... forever.
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Post by crittsmom on Feb 7, 2015 4:54:59 GMT
COMMON SENSE people !!!!, someone has none!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2015 6:00:31 GMT
I just want to take him home and cuddle him forever I get him first. He needs to be cuddled and hugged and loved forever more. He is a "gentle" child. I have one of them. He is one of the sweetest and kindest children I have ever met. These children I would treat differently than other rough and tumble ones. They are sensitive and sometimes need more security from their families to be assured everything is "going to be ok". I would do everything for him. He deserves the very best. (As all children do). This article broke my heart. I can't believe people out there are so stupid to "teach" their child a lesson like this. It is baffling. -------------------- ETA My son as a young child was a handful. He would scream and yell when he didn't get his food or milk right, right away. I nearly lost my mind. He was wild. My GP was sure at age 2 he had something wrong like ADD or ADHD. I was in agreement with her. He was just nuts. Oh he calmed down all right. At about age 4 he was placid. Sure we would knock all the cushions off the couch and jump on the bed, but the craziness went away. By age 8 and 9 he was growing up. Age 10 he was a saint. Teen years, the very best years of my life. If I could go back and do the last 9 years over again I would do nothing differently. I love him now more than ever. When I say I have a really wonderful son. I truly mean it. He is never rude to me. He will call me in a panic like he did yesterday, "MOM!!! My insurance at the dentist won't work! I have to pay for it upfront and how am I going do that should I wait to have surgery? Panic panic panic." In my slowest, softest voice I said, "Get in the chair, use the credit card when you leave, you will submit a claim to the university on Tuesday all will be fine". Guess what? All is fine again. Yeah, everything is totally fine. We have some problem solving growing up to do. We can't quite handle times of deep stress. What should I do when...? And we need to work on that. Not a big deal. One day at a time when problems present themselves we will delve into them. For now, all is good.
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Post by uksue on Feb 7, 2015 13:15:40 GMT
these people are mentally unstable and I hope that little boy is taken away and placed in a loving home. They should never be allowed to have him back. Another thought came to mind too. I really hope that whoever questioned this little boy as to exactly what went on in those four hours did so thoroughly and hopefully didn't accept the " to teach him a lesson not to be friendly to strangers" on face value. Most cases of child sexual abuse are carried out by family/friends known to the victim! Dotty, once again you penned my exact thoughts regarding it possibly being an excuse for abuse. When I think about how I agonise over every little (and large) discipline issue with my kids, this makes me realise that I am not such a bad mum after all. That child should NEVER return home.
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Post by knit.pea on Feb 7, 2015 15:48:30 GMT
That poor, poor boy.
So hard to imagine adult people like this exist. And that they are "parenting" the children in our schools/on our kid's sports teams.
So scary.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2015 15:59:22 GMT
Unbelievably sad. You really should have to pass some kind of test before you are allowed to have children.
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Post by mallie on Feb 7, 2015 17:08:58 GMT
these people are mentally unstable and I hope that little boy is taken away and placed in a loving home. They should never be allowed to have him back. Another thought came to mind too. I really hope that whoever questioned this little boy as to exactly what went on in those four hours did so thoroughly and hopefully didn't accept the " to teach him a lesson not to be friendly to strangers" on face value. Most cases of child sexual abuse are carried out by family/friends known to the victim! That was my first thought as well. Someone who would agree to kidnap, tie up, put a hood on, talk about rape to and draw a gun on a six year old is not someone with appropriate moral boundaries, to say the least. This person is perverted. Sadly, it would not surprise me to hear that this incident was part of a larger picture of abuse. I hope the child was fully examined by experienced medical professionals and questioned by seasoned pros at dealing with abuse victims to get a clear picture of what happened to him. I hope these animals are put away for a very long time.
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Post by joylynaroundthebnd on Feb 7, 2015 17:24:26 GMT
All of it is horrific, I just cannot fathom the parents thinking it was a good idea. Why did the co-worker go along with it?? You would think someone outside the family would think this was the wrong thing to do. Do not misunderstand, I think the family members are awful and deserve every punishment possible. I find it horrible that a coworker of the aunt thought it was ok to participate and do/say those things to any child let alone a 6 year old.
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