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Post by monklady123 on Feb 28, 2015 10:40:37 GMT
Was just wondering if you've ever been told off for correcting someone's grammar/spelling mistakes, and how often you do it. I didn't read that other thread entirely, but what I did read made me thing of this incident on the old Two Peas. I was browsing through the gallery there looking for layouts specific to Israel, and saw one with the title, in LARGE letters that said "Maseda". That should be "Masada". I did pm the creator of that layout and said something about how I loved her layouts and I was glad she'd put up some about Israel because there weren't many out there, blah blah blah... nice things. Then I said "but I just wanted to mention that "Masada" is spelled wrong. I thought you might want to know because it's in the title of the page."
Well she pm-ed back and told me off in no uncertain terms. "Mind your own business" and "Do you go around correcting people all over the internet?" etc.
Um, no I don't, in fact. I never correct anyone on anything, on message boards or other places like that. It's casual speaking and we all make mistakes when we type quickly. But -- I do mention typos if it's something public. Like on my church website when there was a typo on the Ash Wednesday worship announcement. Things like that.
Maybe I should have minded my own business, but I would have appreciated being told if I were my mistake.
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Post by scrapalotomous on Feb 28, 2015 11:47:37 GMT
Depends on the context. On Facebook or a message board. I would tell you to pull your bloody head in if I was corrected - particularly if the correction was made in a public way.
If it was something formal - like writing school reports - then I would appreciate the assistance and thank you for your help.
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Post by krazykatlady on Feb 28, 2015 11:54:47 GMT
I would have appreciated what you did and how you did it. Probably would have been a little embarrassed but glad to be able to fix the problem. The call out on the other thread was mean spirited and uncalled for. In my opinion it should have been handled differently. Public shaming is never a good idea.
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Post by mollycoddle on Feb 28, 2015 12:01:52 GMT
I don't correct unless asked to proofread. I don't correct grammar either. Some people get very upset when you correct them, and it isn't worth it.
ETA: I appreciate it when people point out my typos, though.
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Post by deep on Feb 28, 2015 12:06:52 GMT
I don't on Facebook or message boards other than occasionally joking about something if their autocorrect or spelling changes the word or meaning to something funny.
I did send an email to a college because on their website they had a link to a "Handboob" rather than Handbook and I thought that may not be the image they wanted to portray.
I also replied to a friend who put a link to their new business website in their Facebook link because they used the wrong "there, their, they're" on the first screen. I thought that was ok as it was a new site and she wanted feedback.
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Post by scrapnnana on Feb 28, 2015 12:13:47 GMT
I only correct spelling or grammar mistakes if it is one of my own kids, and I do it privately.
I notice the mistakes that I see online, but I don't say anything. Too many people get upset about being corrected.
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Post by Fidget on Feb 28, 2015 12:18:00 GMT
I don't typically correct others because I'm afraid my correction will have an error in it.
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Post by scorpeao on Feb 28, 2015 12:28:35 GMT
It depends. Like someone else said if it's for work then I'm grateful. Unless it's a pm, on a message board it makes me feel stupid and illiterate. I'd rather get a nice pm and then I can go edit my post. I appreciate being corrected, but if your sole purpose (and there's a pea who likes to do this) is to make me feel stupid, well, then I get a little pissed.
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Post by YooHoot on Feb 28, 2015 12:39:26 GMT
I had to correct a co-worker on lose/loose and abscess (she was spelling it abcess). But these are for chart notes. I hate doing it but sometimes it's necessary.
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Post by monklady123 on Feb 28, 2015 12:43:36 GMT
Yes, I feel like if at could impact someone's public image -- like the Ash Wednesday mistake, or the "handboob" one (lol) or a business website -- then someone should correct it.
But otherwise I don't care what people type/say. Now, in my mind I might be thinking "um, that's not the correct form of [insert commonly confused word here]". But I would never say it to them.
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Post by mikklynn on Feb 28, 2015 13:14:34 GMT
I think the way you PM'd about the title and said nice things about the layout was a very tactful way to handle it. I would not have told you off!
I rarely correct anyone, unless I am asked to proofread something. I do cringe a lot!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 28, 2015 13:17:51 GMT
I don't correct anyone unless it is my place to correct it (boss/employee) or I've been asked to.
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Post by oaksong on Feb 28, 2015 14:04:56 GMT
Personally, I would have been grateful to my mistake to be pointed out. The rude response was really unnecessary.
I've seen polite suggestions for someone to correct a spelling error on thread titles (Downton Abbey instead of Downtown Abbey, for example), and I don't see anything wrong with it that. However, if general grammar, punctuation and spelling errors on a message board make you crazy, it's probably best to walk away.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Feb 28, 2015 14:15:42 GMT
I do it with abandon in my family, but have learned to otherwise reserve it for the rare occasion.
Once, a colleague advertised a workshop for us based on a project for her master's degree. Her professor would attend. The workshop title incorrectly substituted "compliment" for "complement."
Deciding this was a legit reason to don my musty Super Pedant cape, I pulled her aside.
First, she didn't believe "complement" was a word. Super Pedant insisted.
Second, she countered, "But 'Word' didn't tell me it was wrong." SP argued that "Word" isn't perfect (Ha! Remember "Word Perfect"?), and "Word" doesn't always know one's intention.
Her reply: "But 'Word' didn't tell me it was wrong!" Yes, she's the dogged type.
Okaaay. Super Pendant limped away, disheartened.
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Post by ellen on Feb 28, 2015 14:16:57 GMT
Unless it is work related, I don't do it. I can think of one time I poked fun at it on Facebook. Someone said they were sitting around a bomb fire. I suggested he move his chair back.
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Post by auntkelly on Feb 28, 2015 14:30:26 GMT
I think it's rude to give constructive criticism to an adult unless you have been asked to do so or unless it's part of your job. I certainly wouldn't have sent you a nasty reply though. I probably would have just ignored your comments and secretly wondered why a complete stranger on the internet would feel the need to correct my spelling. Can you tell I am not a type A person?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 28, 2015 14:32:47 GMT
Like I said in my other post, unless you are my mom or me teacher I don't need you to correct me. It's rude.
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Post by suzastampin on Feb 28, 2015 14:45:40 GMT
I don't publicly or to anybody, but you will hear me correcting all the grammar errors on TV.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Feb 28, 2015 14:56:41 GMT
I don't publicly or to anybody, but you will hear me correcting all the grammar errors on TV. Oh, that's a spectator sport at my house. [Pet peeve: it's bad enough when news anchors use "I" instead of "me" when ad libbing, but now it's being WRITTEN IN in scripted shows all the time (or maybe the actors are changing it 'cause they think it sounds funny?)]
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Post by hennybutton on Feb 28, 2015 17:20:05 GMT
I don't publicly or to anybody, but you will hear me correcting all the grammar errors on TV. Absolutely! i consider it educational to point out errors on TV and in publications. It's not like the person who made the mistake is going to hear me and be embarrassed. On the other hand, I wouldn't point out errors in church bulletins and other printed programs because they can't be changed. Pointing out typos in those is petty.
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Post by anxiousmom on Feb 28, 2015 17:27:31 GMT
I recently applied for a position at a university. There was a GLARING typo in the auto-response to my emailed resume submission...I mean the kind of error that is stunningly obvious and beggars belief in that it could have been missed-particularly at an institution of higher learning.
There is no way in HELL that I am going to point it out though. If I get the job? Sure, but right up to that point? Not going to happen. I don't want to be that know-it-all before I even get my foot in the door.
And that's how I feel about correcting other people's errors.
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Post by GiantsFan on Feb 28, 2015 17:29:19 GMT
Was just wondering if you've ever been told off for correcting someone's grammar/spelling mistakes, and how often you do it. I didn't read that other thread entirely, but what I did read made me thing of this incident on the old Two Peas. I was browsing through the gallery there looking for layouts specific to Israel, and saw one with the title, in LARGE letters that said "Maseda". That should be "Masada". I did pm the creator of that layout and said something about how I loved her layouts and I was glad she'd put up some about Israel because there weren't many out there, blah blah blah... nice things. Then I said "but I just wanted to mention that "Masada" is spelled wrong. I thought you might want to know because it's in the title of the page."
Well she pm-ed back and told me off in no uncertain terms. "Mind your own business" and "Do you go around correcting people all over the internet?" etc.
Um, no I don't, in fact. I never correct anyone on anything, on message boards or other places like that. It's casual speaking and we all make mistakes when we type quickly. But -- I do mention typos if it's something public. Like on my church website when there was a typo on the Ash Wednesday worship announcement. Things like that.
Maybe I should have minded my own business, but I would have appreciated being told if I were my mistake.
I would have laughed when you corrected me and said thanks. But only because that all through my first Caribbean cruise album, I spelled it Carribean. And I have a hiking page that was should have said Mt Madonna, but I spelled it Mt Maddona. I'm sure there are more.... On the hiking page (digital) I fixed it in PSE and then on the actual printed page with sharpie until I remember to print a corrected version. LOL!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 28, 2015 17:40:38 GMT
It would have bothered me to be corrected in a private e-mail. Mostly because it is from a stranger and it's just a scrapbook page. If I were looking through a friends album and saw a grammar/spelling mistake and knew they wouldn't care then I *might* say something. Even then, it's their page, their album, and their mistake.
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Post by annabella on Feb 28, 2015 17:50:44 GMT
Masada/Maseda is such a minor detail, she's the only one who will see her layout, she's not going to break out her letters and fix the title. Why do you care?
When people correct other people's grammar/spelling on this board I think it makes the person look small. You knew what they were trying to say, why be an asshole about it?
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Post by gar on Feb 28, 2015 17:55:05 GMT
Masada/Maseda is such a minor detail, she's the only one who will see her layout, she's not going to break out her letters and fix the title. Why do you care? Well, apart from all the people who view it in the gallery she posted it in, obviously, and she may have been grateful to have learned of her mistake and been glad of the chance to be able to correct it - you just don't know.
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Post by annabella on Feb 28, 2015 17:58:05 GMT
Masada/Maseda is such a minor detail, she's the only one who will see her layout, she's not going to break out her letters and fix the title. Why do you care? Well, apart from all the people who view it in the gallery she posted it in, obviously, and she may have been grateful to have learned of her mistake and been glad of the chance to be able to correct it - you just don't know. I do know, she wasn't grateful as the OP posted.
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Post by scrapbookwriter on Feb 28, 2015 18:16:23 GMT
OP, If I had made the Masada/Maseda mistake and received your private email, I would have been grateful. Seriously. I am a bit OCD about correct spelling/grammar and would hate to have that error in my scrapbook or posted in a gallery online for all to see.
I remember this debate raging on the old board back when Creating Keepsakes was still around. We would spot glaring errors in published layouts. Some would wonder why the mistakes weren't corrected before publication. Others would wonder what difference it made, since we were looking at the layouts for inspiration and not for accuracy of content.
Personally, if I had an error published in Creating Keepsakes, I would have died a little inside.
But then, I talk to the TV, too.
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Post by 950nancy on Feb 28, 2015 18:25:55 GMT
I hate spelling and grammar mistakes personally. Sometimes I will go back and see one of my previous posts and see a huge mistake that I didn't type in my head. I correct ten year olds all day, and when I see an adult that writes like a ten year old I just don't understand it. I don't comment unless it is a friend and the grammar/spelling error is actually funny. People also type on their phones and I am sure it is difficult to see.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Feb 28, 2015 20:44:59 GMT
I've been an auditor for many years, so I basically tell someone they've made a mistake every day But that might be why I don't correct people online or in general when they haven't asked or I don't need too. I do get asked to proofread for co-workers often. But unless someone has asked, I don't proofread or advise just because. I'm very careful in how I communicate errors to people and because of that I've been lucky to always have a good relationship with the people I audit and work with. A lot of making the correction is about delivery but some of it is in the receivers hands. OP you were very nice and polite in your pm. You were of the, just wanted to let you know I noticed this style. The reciever was someone that didn't want to know. Which you can't always know before you try to help.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 28, 2015 20:49:26 GMT
I would have appreciated what you did and how you did it. Probably would have been a little embarrassed but glad to be able to fix the problem. The call out on the other thread was mean spirited and uncalled for. In my opinion it should have been handled differently. Public shaming is never a good idea. That's just it, my intention was not mean spirited in any way. I didn't call out a particular person at all. As I said, I see it and hear it everywhere lately. It was a very general mention.
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