Olan
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Post by Olan on Apr 12, 2015 19:29:26 GMT
Barbara Walters talking about the interview. Why are they attempting to normalize and give a pass to a rapist!?? Sickening.
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Post by KikiPea on Apr 12, 2015 19:41:12 GMT
I agree. It's disgusting how much publicity they have given this CRIME, making it seem like an every day occurrence.
"What the MEDIA did to our "story". It's not a LOVE story, lady!
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Post by littlemama on Apr 12, 2015 19:47:09 GMT
What she did was disgusting and wrong, but she has served her time, and they, both as adults have chosen to be together. I'm not sure I really have a problem with their current lives.
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Post by brina on Apr 12, 2015 19:51:04 GMT
What she did was disgusting and wrong, but she has served her time, and they, both as adults have chosen to be together. I'm not sure I really have a problem with their current lives. Would you feel the same way if it was a 30-year-old man and a young teen girl when it started?
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Post by littlemama on Apr 12, 2015 19:52:40 GMT
What she did was disgusting and wrong, but she has served her time, and they, both as adults have chosen to be together. I'm not sure I really have a problem with their current lives. Would you feel the same way if it was a 30-year-old man and a young teen girl when it started? Yes, i would.
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 12, 2015 19:57:08 GMT
It is so. So gross. I have a twelve-year-old. That is a child. I can't stop them from being together now, even though she groomed him, but I wish the media would stop giving her a microphone.
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Post by Olan on Apr 12, 2015 19:57:46 GMT
Apr 12, 2015 15:47:09 GMT -4 littlemama said: What she did was disgusting and wrong, but she has served her time, and they, both as adults have chosen to be together. I'm not sure I really have a problem with their current lives.
I think the question is did he really have a choice? By the time he was 13-14 years old he already had two children by his rapist. Its glorifying pedophilia and showing people who choose to have sexual relationships with children that there would potentially be this "happily ever after".
He has substance abuse issues and suffers from depression which probably stem from his continued victimization. No clue why ABC decided to give her the platform.
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Post by Ryann on Apr 12, 2015 20:01:05 GMT
What she did was disgusting and wrong, but she has served her time, and they, both as adults have chosen to be together. I'm not sure I really have a problem with their current lives. I read the article and I agree with this. She committed a crime and served her time. While I don't necessarily care or want to hear about her life now, as long as she isn't breaking the law again I don't have a problem with who she chooses to spend her life with. All that said, I do not condone her actions that put her into prison and believe she should remain on the sex offender list as that is part of the consequences of her previous actions.
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Post by momstime on Apr 12, 2015 20:31:28 GMT
All I kept thinking as i watched that was, had that been my son she would not be breathing today. Anyone remember the thread with the teacher who had a middle school student ask her if she wanted to hold his balls? There was outrage over that "joke". This boy asked his teacher (AT 12) if she would consider having an affair with him...and she said she thought about it and tried to keep her distance, but ultimately could not hold back from him. OMG She is sick!
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Post by tuva42 on Apr 12, 2015 20:36:31 GMT
She may have served her time, but HE never got the therapy he needed to deal with the crime that was committed against him. That's why he has depression and substance abuse problems. So yeah, I think its wrong that she pursued him after he was let out. If you listen to her talk its so clear that she is emotionally impaired. She doesn't get why having sex with a 6th grader should be a felony. Why deserting her 4 children to be with a pre-teen was wrong.
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Post by Blind Squirrel on Apr 12, 2015 20:38:27 GMT
It is so. So gross. I have a twelve-year-old. That is a child. I can't stop them from being together now, even though she groomed him, but I wish the media would stop giving her a microphone. I still see him as a victim in many ways.
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Post by christine58 on Apr 12, 2015 20:43:49 GMT
She may have served her time, but HE never got the therapy he needed to deal with the crime that was committed against him. That's why he has depression and substance abuse problems. So yeah, I think its wrong that she pursued him after he was let out. If you listen to her talk its so clear that she is emotionally impaired. She doesn't get why having sex with a 6th grader should be a felony. Why deserting her 4 children to be with a pre-teen was wrong. I refused to watch the 20/20 show that Barbara Walters just did. If he does have all those issues, I hope he is getting help. Does she have any contact with her older children?? She's slimy and I would feel the same if the gender roles were reversed.
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Post by Just T on Apr 12, 2015 20:45:21 GMT
I watched the interview, and there is just something "off" about her demeanor. It almost seemed like she was high or something and very carefully weighing what she said. And Vili...he spent so much time looking kind of sideways at her before he answered questions, which I thought was very odd. They definitely did not give off a "couple in love with each other" vibe in my opinion. I thought he seemed very uncomfortable, he rarely smiled, they sat so far apart, I never saw them so much as hold hands or look lovingly at each other. I just got a really odd feeling from watching the two of them.
But their girls. Oh, I thought they were so cute and seem completely "normal," whatever that is.
I know she has served her time and as adults, they can do whatever they want and be with whoever they want to be with, but it just seems like a very odd relationship. I truly believe that she messed with his mind at such a tender age that he maybe feels like he has no choice but to stay with her.
That's all me playing armchair therapist.
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Post by Chips on Apr 12, 2015 20:46:54 GMT
I did not see the whole interview but when Vili spoke he really seemed uncomfortable and then Mary Kay seemed to redirect what he said so that the whole situation was ok with both of them.
I would love to see Vili interviewed by himself in an effort to get the victims perspective. She came off as controlling him which is what I am sure she did when he was a kid at 12-14 when they met.
It really pissed me off when Barbara asked how they would feel if their daughters were involved with an older person and Mary Kay said something like that would never happen since she knows what her daughters are doing. To me it implied that Vili's parents were to blame for him being involved with her (to clarify I believe he was a victim of Mary's)
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Apr 12, 2015 20:59:18 GMT
Just from the clip from the interview, I feel sorry for Villi.
It appears he did not have a strong family life, counseling - all the things that would have been necessary to help him through that dark time. The fact that he still suffers from depression makes me think he has continuing troubles today. He is married to a predator. The fact she did time, doesn't change that.
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Post by AnotherPea on Apr 12, 2015 21:02:17 GMT
I think it is disgusting and hate that their relationship is glorified by getting air time now.
However, it is my understanding that his depression had been an issue before he even met his predator.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 12, 2015 21:04:15 GMT
I think it is disgusting and hate that their relationship is glorified by getting air time now. However, it is my understanding that his depression had been an issue before he even met his predator. He met her when he was in second grade. Poor kid.
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Post by workingclassdog on Apr 12, 2015 21:07:23 GMT
It's just weird all the way around. I just guess time has been served and hope those girls have a normal grown up life.
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 12, 2015 21:27:02 GMT
I'm more shocked that they have stayed married for 10yrs now. That's a lot longer then most marriages I personally know IRL. Sadly.
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Post by chaosisapony on Apr 12, 2015 21:34:59 GMT
I haven't watched the show but I'm sure I will at some point. I would like to know what his parents have to say about his relationship with her now that they are married and have kids.
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Post by birukitty on Apr 12, 2015 21:39:46 GMT
Honestly I'm disgusted that this interview even took place. Why are they giving Letourneau (a convicted sex offender and rapist) interview time on national TV and trying to spin it as a happily ever after family life with her victim and the two children that resulted from the rape? Sick, sick, sick! Just imagine if the sexes were reversed and we were talking about a 35 year old male teacher and his 13 year old female student? Would those of you who are saying well it's all in the past, she paid her dues, whatever be saying that now?
Consider-she clearly controlled and victimized Vili and raped him just as if the roles were reversed and she (Mary Kay) were a male teacher and he (Vili) were a female student. That bullshit about "oh I thought we'd just kiss that night" is crazy! She raped him over and over again (by manipulation and control), because a child of 13 doesn't have the mental capacity to give consent.
I think poor Vili was and still is controlled by Letourneau, although I myself haven't watched the interview. I really feel for this man-he was in a vulnerable place as a 13 year old teenager and I think she saw him as being weak and easy to control. Love, my fanny! That's not love! I think deep inside he is desperately unhappy and it's all a charade.
I do remember during the trail that Letourneau's mother said she had some sort of mental illness, Bipolar disease maybe?-but that Letourneau refused to take medication for it. I do not know if that is true. Anyone else remember this?
Debbie in MD.
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Post by annabella on Apr 12, 2015 21:39:57 GMT
Do we know anything about Mary Kay Letourneau other 4 kids? Did Vili Fualaau go to college? What does he do for a living?
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Post by Rainbow on Apr 12, 2015 21:42:09 GMT
I think he's old enough to make his own choices.
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Post by chaosisapony on Apr 12, 2015 21:44:12 GMT
Does anyone know where I can watch it? I looked for it On Demand and the only 20/20 listed for this week was 4/11 and is about The Sound of Music. I tried to find it online and can't find it anywhere, just articles talking about the interview.
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Post by ellen on Apr 12, 2015 22:10:35 GMT
I saw some clips from the interview. At this point they are all adults and time has been served. I guess they are free to do what they want. Hard to understand their relationship because everything about it was just so wrong. Did they say anything about her children with her first husband? I'd have to imagine that their growing up years were very difficult.
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Post by Chips on Apr 12, 2015 23:41:43 GMT
Do we know anything about Mary Kay Letourneau other 4 kids? Did Vili Fualaau go to college? What does he do for a living?
I think Mary Kay has contact with some of her other kids. Vili from what I remember works at a garden center and DJs part time.
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Post by hop2 on Apr 12, 2015 23:46:42 GMT
I kind of think she got off easy. I've never ever heard of a male predator who has victimized 13 y o girls get out of jail any time quickly. It's a disgusting double standard. It outrages me. Like the teacher in LA who got like no jail time. That's crap. A rapist is a rapist and a predator is a predator no matter what sex they are and the sentences should always be comparable, they aren't. m.phys.org/news/2012-05-female-sex-criminal-justice.htmlI'm sick that she still exerts any form of control over him. She is a vile woman.
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Post by susans sister on Apr 12, 2015 23:49:16 GMT
When Barbara asked him to describe Mary he said something along the lines of "she is always late" That's the only thing he can think of to say about his wife of 10 years? Doesn't sound like love to me.
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Post by mlynn on Apr 13, 2015 0:56:52 GMT
If I remember correctly, he sued the school district and got some big settlement. Ten years ago they were building a house and living off of it. It sickens me that she benefited financially from her rape of this person.
If genders were reversed, there would be a big outcry about how it is just a continuation of the abuse and control inflicted on the victim. It would be seen as a continuing abuse/domestic violence scenario.
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Post by Olan on Apr 13, 2015 1:03:07 GMT
His mother sued the school district and he testified in the case. No award was given.
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