sharlag
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I like my artsy with a little bit of fartsy.
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Post by sharlag on Apr 14, 2015 19:33:23 GMT
I guess it's my BRF? (bi&chy resting face).
I've been told a few times that someone was intimidated by me at first. They told me later, after we got to know each other.
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Post by ntsf on Apr 14, 2015 19:33:54 GMT
yes.. but I am not one to just smile when all is wrong.
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~Lauren~
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Apr 14, 2015 19:35:09 GMT
Yes. According to one judge, it's because I'm very direct in my speech. I say what I mean without sugar coating or flowery words. <shrug>
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sharlag
Drama Llama
I like my artsy with a little bit of fartsy.
Posts: 6,586
Location: Kansas
Jun 26, 2014 12:57:48 GMT
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Post by sharlag on Apr 14, 2015 19:35:42 GMT
yes.. but I am not one to just smile when all is wrong. I rarely have the feeling that all is wrong. I just have the genes for looking unpleasant, I suppose. Plus, that damn bitch, gravity. |
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sharlag
Drama Llama
I like my artsy with a little bit of fartsy.
Posts: 6,586
Location: Kansas
Jun 26, 2014 12:57:48 GMT
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Post by sharlag on Apr 14, 2015 19:37:16 GMT
Yes. According to one judge, it's because I'm very direct in my speech. I say what I mean without sugar coating or flowery words. <shrug> I'd think a judge would appreciate you getting to the point. I am pretty direct in work situations. I don't want to waste people's time. |
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Apr 14, 2015 19:37:37 GMT
Yes a few times throughout the years.
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~Lauren~
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Apr 14, 2015 19:38:15 GMT
Actually, he told me I intimidate him.  |
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Post by rst on Apr 14, 2015 19:38:49 GMT
Yup. It's ok, Sometimes people deserve to be intimidated. I'm generally very kind, so over time, chances are good that they will be less intimidated.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Apr 14, 2015 19:38:54 GMT
Yes, I think it is my height and that I listen fully and comprehend before speaking. This makes it seem like the things I do say are important - which does intimidate some people.
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Post by Zee on Apr 14, 2015 19:40:18 GMT
Yes, I think it's my direct approach and chronic RBF:)
I've also heard the opposite, that I'm welcoming and friendly. I think it depends on the play of personalities.
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Post by gar on Apr 14, 2015 19:41:48 GMT
No,  miserable maybe but not intimidating |
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cycworker
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Post by cycworker on Apr 14, 2015 19:45:56 GMT
Yup.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:46:44 GMT
Good grief no, I couldn't be less intimidating if I tried. I worked with children for years so consider myself to be kind and approachable, children react better to that. Intimidation is not my style and not something I ever felt I needed to be.
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Post by padresfan619 on Apr 14, 2015 19:47:14 GMT
No. But I have had men tell me to smile, because I'm so much prettier when I smile. Sometimes I flash them a huge grin and the middle finger.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:47:46 GMT
Yes. I've been told that. Some people are weenies  |
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scorpeao
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Post by scorpeao on Apr 14, 2015 19:48:44 GMT
Yep, and it's my brf. I had a "friend" tell me to soften my features by walking around with a smirk. Pretty sure I responded with an EFF YOU!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:49:30 GMT
The funner question is, who on the board do you think is intimidating? I'm a little scared of Yubon Peatlejuice, I think grinningcat is a force to be reckoned with, I wouldn't cross Zee if you paid me, and moveablefeast is so chillingly calm, cool, and collected, I'd probably do anything she said. All said with love ladies, don't hurt me! |
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quiltz
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Post by quiltz on Apr 14, 2015 19:50:04 GMT
Yes, I have been told that a few times. Not a bad thing, in my opinion.
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Dalai Mama
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Post by Dalai Mama on Apr 14, 2015 19:50:29 GMT
The word I typically get is 'scary'. I tend to see that as an advantage.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:50:46 GMT
Yep, and it's my brf. I had a "friend" tell me to soften my features by walking around with a smirk. Pretty sure I responded with an EFF YOU! Pretty sure a permanent smirk would just look weird |
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Post by moveablefeast on Apr 14, 2015 19:51:55 GMT
I don't recall that being a term used to describe me. I am only a little assertive and I'm not at all forceful in my personal interactions.
My DH is terribly intimidating to some people. He is of tremendous intelligence and frankly rubs some folks the wrong way with his tendency to be a little knowitallish - also he is broad and tall, and when he stands up straight he has kind of a presence about him. I understand what's intimidating about him, but I also know him to be very gentle and generous so he doesn't really intimidate me at all.
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Post by mollycoddle on Apr 14, 2015 19:53:18 GMT
Yes. I think that people in my family just have a serious look-until we grin.
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Post by moveablefeast on Apr 14, 2015 19:54:02 GMT
The funner question is, who on the board do you think is intimidating? I'm a little scared of Yubon Peatlejuice, I think grinningcat is a force to be reckoned with, I wouldn't cross Zee if you paid me, and moveablefeast is so chillingly calm, cool, and collected, I'd probably do anything she said. All said with love ladies, don't hurt me! This is so funny - at work they made me the emergency response coordinator and said that I am so unflappable that everyone would just do anything I said in any situation. Too bad my kid doesn't agree. |
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likescarrots
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Post by likescarrots on Apr 14, 2015 19:54:08 GMT
Yes. All my life. Even by people who know me well, so it's not just my BRF. I never understand it because I'm a 5'2" shrimp and i look like I'm 15 years old. I don't know how that is intimidating.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:54:19 GMT
The funner question is, who on the board do you think is intimidating? I'm a little scared of Yubon Peatlejuice, I think grinningcat is a force to be reckoned with, I wouldn't cross Zee if you paid me, and moveablefeast is so chillingly calm, cool, and collected, I'd probably do anything she said. All said with love ladies, don't hurt me! I don't find anyone here intimidating, words on a computer screen (no matter how harsh) don't really have the power to hurt or scare me. Zee is one of my favourite Peas, I find her honest and hilarious but not intimidating. |
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oldcrow
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Post by oldcrow on Apr 14, 2015 19:54:19 GMT
The funner question is, who on the board do you think is intimidating? I'm a little scared of Yubon Peatlejuice, I think grinningcat is a force to be reckoned with, I wouldn't cross Zee if you paid me, and moveablefeast is so chillingly calm, cool, and collected, I'd probably do anything she said. All said with love ladies, don't hurt me! Wow, you are brave, you are my hero. I want to be just like you if I grow up. |
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Post by Zee on Apr 14, 2015 19:56:45 GMT
The funner question is, who on the board do you think is intimidating? I'm a little scared of Yubon Peatlejuice, I think grinningcat is a force to be reckoned with, I wouldn't cross Zee if you paid me, and moveablefeast is so chillingly calm, cool, and collected, I'd probably do anything she said. All said with love ladies, don't hurt me! Lolol but I love you! |
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Post by rainangel on Apr 14, 2015 19:57:35 GMT
Yeah, regularly.... I'm sure it has something to do with my chronic BRF, and also willingness to actually stand up for myself. Sometimes all I have to do is not speak and stare directly at whoever is feeding me bullshit. It seems to be intimidating to have someone stare at you when you are spouting bullshit and not getting any response to it.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2015 19:58:13 GMT
I've been told I intimidate others. I am just pretty darn productive and I tend to be able to read people/situations faster than others around. I have a very analytical brain and hate to be lied to...and if you make a claim you better be able to back it up.
I don't like to waste time on extra words, etc. But I have tried to make sure that I do try to add positives but I just don't truly believe in white lies that make others feel better but aren't truthful. I'd just rather not say anything at all. Usually I can find something positive though. And I have tried to soften my edges a bit in the last 5 yrs or so!
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peabrain
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Post by peabrain on Apr 14, 2015 20:01:58 GMT
ALL the time. One perk though is people NEVER take the open seat next to me. I don't smell.
I am very funny and generally happy person, but I guess I come off as Keep the F away. BRF.
So, no. I generally have the seat open at the theatre.
I can get through the grocery store pretty fast. Strangers don't usually speak to me. LOL.
And you know what? I have a great smile. Lots of compliments on it. I'm dazzling, lol
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My original pea date was November 1999 and my number was 1803
miserable maybe but not intimidating
