keithurbanlovinpea
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 17, 2015 15:29:01 GMT
Some of you may remember my work saga (leaving one job for another where the boss ended up being a person I could not work with and then leaving and finding another job in a week). Whew!
I am now working as a technical writer for a company that I used to work with 15 years ago, and I get to work at home. I have only been doing this for about three weeks, but this work at home stuff is the bomb! I have always wanted a job that, for the most part, allows me to have a flexible schedule and this job does. Need to take the kids to school or pick them up from an activity? No problem. Not feeling well and need to sleep in a bit? No worries. As long as I get my deliverables done by deadlines and am available for client needs, I can pretty much do my work when I want.
Any other work-at-home folks?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2015 15:41:01 GMT
I am....and most the time I love it, but I am tied to phone and computer communication such that I don't feel as flexible to too far from my tight radius. I really do have to push myself to go out for lunch every once in a while with a friend (like I would if I were in an office).
It is nice to not have to fight any traffic getting down the stairs LOL! That sleeping a little longer helps too!
But I do miss other adult interaction (except for DH who also works from home now) and the "water cooler" conversations.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2015 15:46:38 GMT
I've worked at home for several years and absolutely love it. I could never work in an office environment again. For me, the biggest plus has been the lack of office politics and gossip. I'm an overly sensitive person and that always really stressed me out. At home, it's all about the work - the way it should be. The downside for me has been, to make a decent living, having to work way too many hours. Sleep, sick day, vacation - what are those? LOL Coffee is my best friend. I have busy kids and, like you said, it's great to be flexible about when I work. That was my main goal - being around for my kids during the short time (18 years, more or less) that I get to have them at home. It's made me a MUCH better parent and for that I'm eternally grateful. Congrats on your new job, keithurbanlovinpea! Sounds like it was meant to be.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2015 16:06:44 GMT
Congrats on your new role! I work from home and I mostly love it. I work for a bank so have some very strict information security processes and procedures I need to follow which does make some things a bit of a hassle, but overall, it's good. I am in a project-based role, so I too have a lot of flexibility in my schedule as long as the deliverables are done on time, but I also have a lot of conference calls that I attend, so I do need to be at my desk for those. DS knows the rules around me working - he's at school most of the day, is respectful of my time and my office when he's home, and it works great. I don't make it a habit of doing things with him during business hours, but sometimes I do. Like yesterday was a gorgeous day and there were reports of a bird species we've never seen at a nearby wetlands, so after school, we took off and went birding. Added three new species to our life list before I'd normally be done working for the day  (But I did work on a writing project last night to make up for the lost productivity.) I will say this, the flexibility of working from home is great, but also can lead to bad habits. When I was new to working from home, I found myself doing more and more work after-hours because it was there and available. I didn't realize, at first, the pressure it was putting on partners and teammates to be receiving documents/emails (to corporate addresses, not personal, don't freak out  ) late at night or early morning. I'm on the west coast and if I'd IM someone on the east coast at 8:30 AM their time, they'd wonder if they should also be online at 5:30 AM their time. Once I realized how those kind of things were being interpreted, I changed my habits to keep any contacts in more normal business hours. I still work odd hours sometimes, but I will schedule emails to send at 8 AM instead of 11 PM, for example. Anyway, be sure you pay attention to those kind of unintended consequences of the flexibility.
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keithurbanlovinpea
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 17, 2015 16:11:58 GMT
I am such an introvert that I could go days without talking to anyone face to face and be fine. I have been running an errand here and there at lunch just to get out, and I of course have meetings and calls that keep me gabbing.
There is a downside and that is the lower pay, but not using my car much, wear and tear, clothes, tolls, etc. mean that I am spending less overall. I at least plan to stretch this out until my youngest gets through her 8th grade year (next year) because the start times between the two schools are so far apart. Once they are in the same school... home free to find something higher paying but I plan to find something really, really close to home.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 17, 2015 16:18:29 GMT
Congrats on your new role! I work from home and I mostly love it. I work for a bank so have some very strict information security processes and procedures I need to follow which does make some things a bit of a hassle, but overall, it's good. I am in a project-based role, so I too have a lot of flexibility in my schedule as long as the deliverables are done on time, but I also have a lot of conference calls that I attend, so I do need to be at my desk for those. DS knows the rules around me working - he's at school most of the day, is respectful of my time and my office when he's home, and it works great. I don't make it a habit of doing things with him during business hours, but sometimes I do. Like yesterday was a gorgeous day and there were reports of a bird species we've never seen at a nearby wetlands, so after school, we took off and went birding. Added three new species to our life list before I'd normally be done working for the day  (But I did work on a writing project last night to make up for the lost productivity.) I will say this, the flexibility of working from home is great, but also can lead to bad habits. When I was new to working from home, I found myself doing more and more work after-hours because it was there and available. I didn't realize, at first, the pressure it was putting on partners and teammates to be receiving documents/emails (to corporate addresses, not personal, don't freak out  ) late at night or early morning. I'm on the west coast and if I'd IM someone on the east coast at 8:30 AM their time, they'd wonder if they should also be online at 5:30 AM their time. Once I realized how those kind of things were being interpreted, I changed my habits to keep any contacts in more normal business hours. I still work odd hours sometimes, but I will schedule emails to send at 8 AM instead of 11 PM, for example. Anyway, be sure you pay attention to those kind of unintended consequences of the flexibility. I actually had 24 hours access and was available at my last job (management) so I could and did work from home at times. I know how it can be to get sucked in and I am trying very hard not to let that happen in this job. The good news is that no one would really be looking for me after hours so unless I choose to work on my deliverables after hours, I don't need to be "on" and there may be times that I am supposed to deliver something by a certain day, but the time of delivery would not give anyone pause. I am also trying to adhere to a schedule in that I get up, shower, get dressed and make sure I am truly ready to work before I actually start to work. That way I get in the habit of being "dressed" for work when I am working, and changing into something else when I am not working, just like I did when I was in an office. The different is really only that I move from jeans to shorts or tennis shoes to flip flops.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2015 16:22:58 GMT
I definitely recommend getting ready/dressed for work! I don't know if it's my many years working wearing a suit every day or what, but If I'm not showered, dressed and put together before sitting down at my desk, I don't feel like I'm in the right frame of mind for work.
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Post by perumbula on Apr 17, 2015 17:04:01 GMT
I have a part time work from home job. I tell my husband it's the world's most boring job because I do data entry on a website. That's it. Drop the picture, answer the question, upload, download. It's the same form over and over and over again. Got very boring. But I love that I'm at home for it. Most of my hours are late evening, so I may be working, but I can still have a conversation with my dh and be there to make sure the kids go to bed on time and take a couple of hours to go to a band concert, etc. I just have to get my work done by ten pm and it's flexible from there. I love that.
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Post by cmpeter on Apr 17, 2015 17:07:00 GMT
I have been working from home for the past 11 years. I do work a more structured schedule though as about half my team is in the office and the other half is virtual. My schedule is generally packed with calls, so I need to be home for those. But, I am the only person on my team on the west coast so I take advantage of the time difference. I start early and am done for the day by 3:00.
When my kids were little we had a nanny. There was no way I could manage my job and little kids. Once my youngest was in second grade (had a longer school day), we only needed help in the summers.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 18, 2015 2:32:59 GMT
I work from home too but at the moment I'm more or less taking a break while I get my studio put together. Before DD, it was nice to be able to set my own hours and do what I needed to do whenever. We had an awesome in-home part time sitter for two years when DD was 18 mos through 3.5 and that was great, but she got a much needed full time job so we've been on our own for almost a year now and it hasn't been so easy. I thought having DD in half day preschool would give me enough time to be somewhat productive and get stuff done, but it hasn't worked out that way at all. First it took forever for her to get on the bus coming home, and the carpool craziness was just a joke. Then almost every month since the kids have had a scheduled week off of school right when I feel like I'm about to get some traction. Every.stinking.time. And then I started the buildout on my studio/office in the fall, and everything has come to a complete standstill until I can get unpacked and organized. But next year she will be in full day kindergarten taking the bus both ways, and then I'll be able to get things back on track again. I actually do pretty well with sticking to a self imposed schedule otherwise. This summer will be kind of ugly unless I get a sitter a couple days a week because I also started helping out DH with his office work too. His business has really ramped up lately, and he's terrible at knuckling down and doing the boring office stuff that he hates. It's easy for me and pretty mindless work. But if it means we have our weekends free to do family stuff it's worth it.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2015 2:52:42 GMT
I've worked at home full time for 4 years and love it. I have to be available core hours most days but I do love not having to go into an office. I drove 25 miles each way for 25 years. I hope to never have any sort of commute again.
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Post by ceepea on Apr 18, 2015 3:50:21 GMT
I have been working from home since Oct. 2000. It was definitely wonderful when my kids were young and we could go in the pool, go to the park, etc. during the day. I will say though that while I definitely am thankful to be working from home, that it has become pretty isolating for me. It is like work never leaves, I am always thinking of something I have to do and running into my home office to take care of "just one more thing". It has become so easy to do other things around the house and I end up working after dinner some nights.
Enjoy your time at home and congratulations on the new job.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Apr 18, 2015 11:07:13 GMT
Some of you may remember my work saga (leaving one job for another where the boss ended up being a person I could not work with and then leaving and finding another job in a week). Whew! I am now working as a technical writer for a company that I used to work with 15 years ago, and I get to work at home. I have only been doing this for about three weeks, but this work at home stuff is the bomb! I have always wanted a job that, for the most part, allows me to have a flexible schedule and this job does. Need to take the kids to school or pick them up from an activity? No problem. Not feeling well and need to sleep in a bit? No worries. As long as I get my deliverables done by deadlines and am available for client needs, I can pretty much do my work when I want. Any other work-at-home folks? That is awesome! It sounds like it was meant to be. 
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Post by Nicole in TX on Apr 18, 2015 11:09:10 GMT
Some of you may remember my work saga (leaving one job for another where the boss ended up being a person I could not work with and then leaving and finding another job in a week). Whew! From an outsider's viewpoint. I think it is humorous how you decided in one week that your boss was nuts. That is a special kind of crazy! 
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 18, 2015 12:39:44 GMT
Some of you may remember my work saga (leaving one job for another where the boss ended up being a person I could not work with and then leaving and finding another job in a week). Whew! From an outsider's viewpoint. I think it is humorous how you decided in one week that your boss was nuts. That is a special kind of crazy!  It was not an easy decision for sure. I haven't walked out of a job since I was 16 (30 years!) but my gut was telling me something wasn't right. I left early one day, made a phone call to one of the people who had only worked there 2 weeks and confirmed that my gut was right. Thank goodness I did not have the opportunity to actually witness any of the behavior that my sixth sense was telling me was right on the horizon.
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Post by compwalla on Apr 18, 2015 13:08:44 GMT
Congrats on your new role! I will say this, the flexibility of working from home is great, but also can lead to bad habits. When I was new to working from home, I found myself doing more and more work after-hours because it was there and available. I didn't realize, at first, the pressure it was putting on partners and teammates to be receiving documents/emails (to corporate addresses, not personal, don't freak out  ) late at night or early morning. I'm on the west coast and if I'd IM someone on the east coast at 8:30 AM their time, they'd wonder if they should also be online at 5:30 AM their time. Once I realized how those kind of things were being interpreted, I changed my habits to keep any contacts in more normal business hours. I still work odd hours sometimes, but I will schedule emails to send at 8 AM instead of 11 PM, for example. Anyway, be sure you pay attention to those kind of unintended consequences of the flexibility. I am going to add my ditto to this. I've been WFH for over seven years and I've learned that I have to behave as if I'm really *going* to work and I have to keep regular office hours or my work/home life bleeds together until both are shitty and miserable. I do have flexibility; that is nice and I do take advantage of it but not really more than I'd take advantage if I was at the office. I don't nap or watch TV or do much housework during the day because those hours are when my clients and co-workers are at work and expect me to be available. It's easy to fall into the trap of "I'll have time to log on later" so just be careful about it because it can really screw with your head in a bad way. Have fun, stay focused. And enjoy the advantages - stretchy pants every day, flip flops, every day is bring your pet to work day, and you never have to commute or put your face on if you don't want to.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 18, 2015 14:09:32 GMT
I have been working from home since Oct. 2000. It was definitely wonderful when my kids were young and we could go in the pool, go to the park, etc. during the day. I will say though that while I definitely am thankful to be working from home, that it has become pretty isolating for me. It is like work never leaves, I am always thinking of something I have to do and running into my home office to take care of "just one more thing". It has become so easy to do other things around the house and I end up working after dinner some nights. Enjoy your time at home and congratulations on the new job. I used to have that problem too after my mom had to stop driving and I picked up the responsibility of getting her around during the day a few times a week. DH hated it that I would then end up working into the evening hours because of the time I was shorted during the day. Part of the answer was to first declare that weekends were off limits completely for work so we would have some guaranteed family time. Other times I would close the door to my office so I would be less tempted to go in there after I had "clocked out" for the day. For me, I have to work when I'm fully charged mentally and that means during the day. So I really try to prioritize important work tasks for the daytime hours and I save the household stuff like folding laundry or unloading the dishwasher for at night when I'm brain dead, LOL.
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Post by jackie on Apr 18, 2015 18:55:37 GMT
I love it too. I'm not sure how long I've been doing it, probably 8 or 9 years. My job is similar to yours--I'm an instructional designer, so lots of writing and developing.
There is an expectation that I'm available during normal work hours, like 9 to 4, but our department is very loose about it. As long as I'm making my deadlines and delivering my project, I get no interference. It has completely changed my life as a parent. I NEVER have to worry about how I'll work out transportation for my kids and their activities, appointments, lessons, etc. I flex my work schedule to fit it in. I love that I am seven minutes from all of their schools and can be there so quickly if an emergency arises.
I was very social at my old job for the same company. I was a corporate trainer and trained almost every staff member there. I knew everyone and was constantly moving about the office checking on people and helping out. I got to know so many people on both a professional and personal level, and, not to toot my own horn (was very beloved). I thought I would have a VERY hard time giving all of that up. I really loved the people I worked with. The transition was surprisingly smooth and I wouldn't go back to that unless I absolutely had to. My only issue is, as someone else mentioned, staying on task. I can get too flexible and then I'm working evenings or weekends to catch up. That's something that is a work in progress for me, but it's a very, very small downside. I guess the other downside might be that people (family especially) think that if you work from home you're basically available for whatever they need.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 19, 2015 15:15:09 GMT
Thanks for all the feedback everyone! I am still finding the "sweet spot" but so far it is working out like I had hoped. I am taking everyone's advice seriously so I can continue to improve the way I work.
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Post by M~ on Apr 20, 2015 2:22:38 GMT
Congratulations to all of you who love working from home. I hate it. Well, I tried it for a nanosecond and hated it. My job offers incredibly flexible hours; I think there are only 3 attorneys in the office who don' work a flex schedule: my sister, my co-attorney and myself.
I hated it. I LOVE having the daily contact with my boss and I love going into the office daily. I love the structure of it, quite frankly. Oftentimes, an unintended consquence for the attorneys who work from home is that they socialize the few days that they're in the office, which brings down their productivity in a significant way. I don't think certain jobs lend themselves to working from home so much--mine being one of them. My team has one of the highest productivity rates and one of the most organized caseloads in the office--and I attribute it to the fact that both attorneys are there daily. My sister's co-attorney is in the office two days per week and my sister complains that all she wants to do is "catch up and chat" with her.
I do bring work home during the weekends, but that's because I'm a bit obsessed with work.
Kudos to you all who like it and have the flexibility to do so.
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