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Post by freecharlie on Apr 19, 2015 19:24:17 GMT
when your child stays the night somewhere or has someone stay the night at your house what is your average pickup time?
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Post by gorgeouskid on Apr 19, 2015 19:25:35 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2015 19:27:04 GMT
10
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Post by brandy327 on Apr 19, 2015 19:35:50 GMT
It really depends on the child staying. Someone new to us/sleepovers at our house, probably between 9-10. Good friends - anywhere from noon to 3pm.
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Post by littlemama on Apr 19, 2015 19:38:48 GMT
I would say 10, unless otherwise specified.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 19, 2015 19:39:00 GMT
I don't think there is a standard time.
I think there is a discussion of plans for the next day in each individual circumstance.
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Post by just PEAchy on Apr 19, 2015 19:44:22 GMT
No later than 10, unless there is a discussion otherwise.
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Post by beanbuddymom on Apr 19, 2015 19:45:22 GMT
Oh wow 9 seems way to early to me - usually 10 or 11 for us as they typically are still sleeping in at 8 or 9 and I like to feed them and let them lounge before they head out.
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Post by katiejane on Apr 19, 2015 19:49:58 GMT
Usually 10.30 for our kids sleepovers.
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Post by freecharlie on Apr 19, 2015 20:06:33 GMT
I just picked ds up a little after one. I'd called at 11:30 and they wanted to play longer.
Last time they had a sleepover party, I was the first there at noon.
Older ds's best friend is here. He'll probably go home sometime before 6. We picked him up yesterday at 9 am
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Post by johnnysmom on Apr 19, 2015 20:07:55 GMT
If left to their own devices DS13's sleepovers would turn in to 2-3 day affairs  We usually say noon or so which is often met with an eyeroll and occasionally some whining, which is in turn met with a "do you want to just stay home" and we finally agree that noon will be just fine  |
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 19, 2015 20:15:25 GMT
Depends on the next day's activities. My older kids (the only ones old enough to have sleepovers or to attend them) have Sunday school at 9:45, so for Saturday night, we need pickups by 9AM Sunday. One of them has dance class at 9:00 on Saturday, so pickup is 8:15 (I know, gah), and the other has temple at 10:30 (bat mitzvah prep right now), so pickup is 9:45.
Without activities (e.g., if it is summer or a break) I ask for pickup by 10:00 - 10:30.
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Apr 19, 2015 20:48:06 GMT
Usually 10 or 10:30. The exception would be if there is an activity that someone needs to get to. It also depends on other factors such as how well the kids are playing together.
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Apr 19, 2015 21:49:04 GMT
Depends on the kid, the reason for spending the night and what is going on the next day. If she was spending the night just to spend the night and they didn't have plans for the next day then I would agree to a pick up time when the child was dropped off either my kid at their house or their kid at our house. Then there is no question to when the kid is picked up. If there is plans the next day and either child is involved with the plans then the pick up time would be after planned fun is over. either the other kids parents pick up or drop off or I pick up or drop off. I always got the details before letting my child spend the night and always had info for parents before the other child spent the night. I never just said what ever happens happens.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Apr 19, 2015 21:49:16 GMT
10 unless there is a reason.
I picked up DD yesterday at 4.30 but I was in a board meeting with the Mom until 4 so it was pre-arranged.
I often pick up earlier than most. But I know my girl she is usually tired a bit cranky the morning after a sleepover.
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Post by missfrenchjessica on Apr 19, 2015 21:51:40 GMT
For us, usually between 10 and 11 a.m.
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Post by leannec on Apr 19, 2015 21:54:29 GMT
My dd's are almost 12 and 16 ... pick up runs anywhere between 11 am and 3 pm ... they usually stay up late and I need enough time to make french toast in the morning etc.  |
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Post by AussieMeg on Apr 19, 2015 21:58:21 GMT
My son had 2 boys sleep over this weekend.
One was picked up at 2:30pm, and I dropped the other one home at 5pm. Never before lunch unless one or the other has plans. |
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Post by mom on Apr 19, 2015 22:24:57 GMT
Depends but normally around 11ish unless otherwise talked about.
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Post by gritzi on Apr 19, 2015 22:27:16 GMT
It depends on the friend, and our plans the next day. Usually the mom texts me asking if we've kidnapped their teen, with the teen responding "do I have to go home now".
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 19, 2015 22:34:25 GMT
Around 10 or so unless otherwise arranged. I had one kid staying way past that and then realized his parents weren't even home. One mom asked to have her son her overnight but I was wise to say "no" since I knew it would go way long until the next day (they were getting a hotel for an event).
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Post by snappinsami on Apr 19, 2015 22:53:00 GMT
Usually around 10, unless there are some specific plans for the next day (for either us of the girls together) that require it to be earlier or later.
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Post by gina on Apr 20, 2015 0:12:13 GMT
I am so *not* a morning person so 9 or even 10am sound really early to me. I am cranky at those hours. ha! I like 11am for pick-up if we have nothing planned. If it's my older daughter and her BFF, they tend to stay all day at one another's house following a sleepover. I don't mind as long as we have no other plans.
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We usually say noon or so which is often met with an eyeroll and occasionally some whining, which is in turn met with a "do you want to just stay home" and we finally agree that noon will be just fine 
