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Post by Really Red on Apr 28, 2015 22:26:14 GMT
I have to get 5-6 graduation gifts (for girls) for my twin daughters' great friends. I really love these girls and want to get them an actual gift. Around $50 each is about the max I can do. I really don't want to do gift cards.
I found an fabulous make-up bag at TJM. It's a larger size for college dorms, I think. It's a Baggallini. I thought I'd pack it with razors, shampoos, creams, hair stuff and maybe some make-up. Does that sound dumb? Unfortunately, I only found 2. The rest are smaller and not great for dorm life, I think.
Does anyone have any good ideas?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2015 22:30:50 GMT
I totally understand the desire to give them an actual gift, but I think you should either go with something sentimental or money. There is no time more than when getting ready for college that money is actually needed. And depending on their living arrangements at school, something like that may or may not be needed. Everyone going to college has a ton of practical needs, but they can vary so much from kid to kid.
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Post by akathy on Apr 28, 2015 22:34:38 GMT
I like to enclose a check in a nice card and call it good. I write the check for $20 plus the number of cents equal to the year. So this year the check would be for $20.15. The graduates always get a kick out of it, it's memorable and doesn't break the bank.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 28, 2015 22:55:38 GMT
Honestly, for graduation I think cash is always the most appropriate gift.
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Post by gramasue on Apr 28, 2015 23:05:42 GMT
A really wonderful, sentimental card and cash. Yep, that's what I would go with. Are you a card maker? Maybe you could find one great design and make each one a little different with the paper/embellishments. I'm sure whatever you decide will be much appreciated by these young girls. It's so nice of you!
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 28, 2015 23:05:59 GMT
Cash is the best thing.
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Post by TankTop on Apr 28, 2015 23:10:04 GMT
I usually get girls Coach wristlets, or this little zippered id pouches that can act like a wallet. They also allow the id to show through a clear window.
Vera Bradley has some nice ones too of that is "in" in your area.
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Post by desertgirl on Apr 28, 2015 23:11:27 GMT
So that you don't waste your money, I'd avoid getting personal care items. My dd has an electric razor, needs creams/lotions/shampoos that don't have certain ingredients in them, and uses a clear, waterproof bag for her stuff she uses in the dorm shower. With that many girls, you might pick the wrong things they like and need.
I do like the idea of a lovely bag, either a tote or one of those huge bags that store things without taking up much room - I've seen cute ones at TJM. Bags can be used by everyone, even if they already have others.
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Post by TankTop on Apr 28, 2015 23:11:30 GMT
I also like the idea I read about on Peas...first aid kit that includes all the day to day necessities and things for the cold and flu season.
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Post by littlemama on Apr 28, 2015 23:15:19 GMT
I would just do cash, unless you are going to tailor each gift to each particular girl's tastes.
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Post by Really Red on Apr 28, 2015 23:34:37 GMT
These girls are really special to me. They have been friends with my daughters since 1st (for one) and 3rd grade (the rest). I think of them as my own. Each gift will be tailored to the graduate. I really think of myself as their other mother. I am SO proud of their accomplishments. I have given them money in the past but honestly, none of them is poor. I know other kids graduating that I will have to get gifts for and they'll get money. These girls are just the finest girls I know. I am going to make all of them (and my girls) a super special card, but I want something permanent for them.
Or at least semi-permanent! Something that would be useful in a dorm. TankTop, what first aid kid are you talking about?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2015 0:59:59 GMT
A fluffy bath rug that can be washed. Or a yoga mat. And bathroom flip flops.
Seriously a rug to stand on when you are at the sink is a wonderful thing.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2015 1:06:12 GMT
I'm normally totally opposed to this gift, but what about a nice picture frame (nothing too large) with a photo of the girls? They can keep it in their dormroom as a nice reminder of their friends, it's small and easy to pack, and someday when they don't want it displayed it can be packed away. I love the wristlet idea! Do university kids there use lanyards for their IDs? Most first years here, do, especially since their ID is also their food card and security key. A fun lanyard or a school-specific one might be nice. When my sister graduated I gave her a "first year survival" pack. I don't remember what was in it, but I labelled everything with a note -- one of the items was a huge cereal bowl (the kind that is taller than wide) with a note that said she'd need it by the end of the year because by then she'd be broke and all she could eat is cereal. She used it for at least 10 years.
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Post by Scrappyhappy on Apr 29, 2015 1:16:44 GMT
I like to enclose a check in a nice card and call it good. I write the check for $20 plus the number of cents equal to the year. So this year the check would be for $20.15. The graduates always get a kick out of it, it's memorable and doesn't break the bank. This is what I do.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Apr 29, 2015 1:25:19 GMT
I would not do the small make up bags. How long would something like those even last? nor would I do a wristlet. Both my dd's had to have lanyards where they went, that had the college Ids, and swipe cards on them.
What I DID do for my dd's best friends, is that I did a small emergency kit. I made them out of small Rubbermaid containers. I personalized the front with Jenna's Emergency kit,printed on some patterned paper, and then laminated it on the container In the container I had-band aids, triple antibiotic lotion, Tylenol, ibro, ace wrap, cold med's, tums, pepto, safety pins, stick pins, paper clips, rubber bands, alligator clips, push pins, duct tape, packing tape, gift wrap tape, a sewing kit with thread, needle, and scissors, anti static spray, and super glue.
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Post by PEArfect on Apr 29, 2015 4:01:39 GMT
What about a gift bag full of college spirit wear? Hoodies, beanies, pj's, ect.
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Post by Flowergirl on Apr 29, 2015 4:21:30 GMT
Based on what you said, I would go with something sentimental for them. We have a similar relationship with several of our kids friends, but we gave DS's friends cash anyway. We also wrote them cards that reminisced about their antics with DS over the years which the boys appreciated.
For your girls, what about an Alex and Ani bracelet? They are still very popular around here and they have lots of different charms including many colleges. They start at $28 I think.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 29, 2015 4:27:09 GMT
I'm giving my nephew a handmade graduation card with a pocket inside so a folded $20, $1, $5 is showing on the inside (2015, get it?). I'll probably stack two $20's together though so it's a more substantial gift. This is one of the rare years when it will work, and he'll think it's pretty cool.
Or how about a pocket photo album with various photos of the girls from different stages of their lives together with $1's, $5's, $10's etc. slipped behind the photos in the pockets? College kids heading off to school can honestly never have too much money.
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Post by Legacy Girl on Apr 29, 2015 6:10:40 GMT
I'm doing monogrammed towels: a bath sheet, a standard bath towel, two washcloths and two hand towels. We're giving them to a set of twins and I asked for their favorite colors to know which color towels to purchase. We were just invited to a cousin's graduation, and I purchased towels in his university's school colors.
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Post by mlynn on Apr 29, 2015 8:35:37 GMT
One of my best friends got me a locket for a graduation present. It was a treasured possession until I lost it in a fire. I wore it all the time.
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Post by Belle on Apr 29, 2015 14:58:47 GMT
I'm giving my nephew a handmade graduation card with a pocket inside so a folded $20, $1, $5 is showing on the inside (2015, get it?). I'll probably stack two $20's together though so it's a more substantial gift. This is one of the rare years when it will work, and he'll think it's pretty cool. Or how about a pocket photo album with various photos of the girls from different stages of their lives together with $1's, $5's, $10's etc. slipped behind the photos in the pockets? College kids heading off to school can honestly never have too much money. Love the idea of the cash showing 2015!
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Post by ilikepink on Apr 29, 2015 15:03:36 GMT
My go-to graduation gift is "Oh The Places You'll Go". Tuck money inside that.
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Post by khaleesi on Apr 29, 2015 15:25:39 GMT
If I feel the need to do more than a card with cash I will get a Tervis tumbler that is their college logo and put cash in the cup.
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Post by scrappersue on Apr 29, 2015 16:00:31 GMT
I did the Rubbermaid container idea with my nephews - cut vinyl for the top that said "Josh's Junk Drawer" and put in hammer, screwdriver, stamps, envelopes, white out, stapler, tide stick, roll of quarter, can opener, lighter, etc. It was fun to think of things to put in it.
With some of my kid's friends I have bought personalized ornaments that say "good luck at University of XX" and then some cash
This year I have a girl who I've known since she was born and my daughter's boyfriend - both will be getting cash because that is what both their situations need.
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Post by Really Red on Apr 29, 2015 16:01:27 GMT
I LOVE LOVE LOVE these ideas! I love a lanyard, a first aid kid, college PJs and I love even including a $20, $1 and $5 bill. That way there's a present AND money  But the monogrammed towels? LegacyGirl - thank you!! I think this is an excellent present. I'm thinking towels, frame and the $26. But I also love the cereal bowl idea, Ashley! I have a Cricut someone gave me (completely unused  ) and I wonder if I could put a monogram on there and monogram the cereal bowl. Thank you!!!!
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Post by ReneeH20 on Apr 29, 2015 16:29:19 GMT
I love the idea of a nice framed photo of the girls. My DDs had photos of their friends on their dorm desks.
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Post by PLurker on Apr 29, 2015 17:23:02 GMT
I'm usually an "I hate giving cash as a gift" person but for graduation I cave. It just seems right . And then a little token gift like ilikepink idea. Or make the $ memorable. My nephew who I love to mess with- all coins with one of those cheap jar banks that counts it as you put it in. Other times I gave cash- little $1 wooden treasure chest (Michaels) I decorated with golden dollar coins inside. If I "have" to give cash, I try to make it a bit more memorable. I may do this for niece>>>
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