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Post by tara595 on May 28, 2015 11:43:09 GMT
Good morning Peas!
My parents are from Italy and are planning to visit this summer for a couple of weeks. They would like my DH, DS and I to come along. My DS would be about 10 months old at the time. As much as I'd like to go, I don't know if it would be a good idea with a 10 month old! Although kids under 2 fly free, we'd still probably buy him a seat because there's no way we could hold him for 8 hours, he'd just scream the whole time!
Since we'll be staying with family I don't need to bring AS much stuff (they'll have a high chair, crib, etc.) but there's still a ton I'd have to prepare for.
Has anyone flown to Europe with a baby? How did it go? What about jet lag? I can't even imagine a baby with jet lag - that sounds hellish!
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Post by rainangel on May 28, 2015 12:48:35 GMT
I travelled from Australia to Europe with an 8 month old once. And it wasn't as bad as I'd expected. Check with the airline about two things; if they have seats with baby bassinets available (little beds that fold down from the wall in front of your seat) and also; do they allow a foldable babystroller as carry-on luggage. If you have a little foldable stroller it makes it a ton easier to get around the airport without having to carry the baby all the time. But if you check it in it is no use, so you want it as carry on. In my experience, the baby slept when the baby felt like sleeping. Whether that was in the middle of the flight, or in the middle of the security control. But my DD was a good sleeper, if you have a baby that can be difficult to get to sleep I'm sure it will be harder. If you manage to get a seat with a baby bassinet, the baby can stretch out like normal when laying in there, and would be more comfortable. If you breastfeed; feed during take off and landing. If you don't breastfeed, try to give the baby a bottle during take off and landing. Ear problems come very quickly, and you need for the baby to be swallowing to help even out the pressure. I can't say I saw any jetlag in my DD as she slept a lot during the flight, and seemed to be well rested when we arrived. She did however, throw up a couple of times for the first day after the flight. And also she got a hard stomach, and found it difficult to poop. She was in pain or discomfort for a while, crying her little heart out, but once she got that rock-hard thing out and into her diaper, she slept like a baby for 8 hours straight. It was like turning off a switch Those are the things I experienced with my child at least. I wouldn't be too worried about travelling with a small child, just plan ahead and be prepared for anything. Oh, and be prepared for sighs and eyerolling when people next to you on the flight realize they are sitting next to a baby.... I saw a lot of that, but luckily my DD was (and still is) a good sound sleeper and barely made a sound during the multiple 9-12 hour flights.
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Post by modiemay on May 28, 2015 13:03:36 GMT
I've flown internationally lots with various ages from,6mths. 8hrs isn't that long and when booking see if you can book the bassinet seat. Also depending on the airline, make sure you are on,time,or early to check in to make sure you DO have the bassinet seat. Once they have our baby seat away and I had to do 14hrs in the middle of the middle with a 6mth old on my lap.
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Post by tara595 on May 28, 2015 14:16:15 GMT
The bassinet seat sounds great! But I just looked it up and I think he will too big for it - the max weight is 20 lbs and height is 26 inches (he's just about that size already). Would I be able to bring his car seat on the flight? I'd probably need it anyway when we get there.
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Post by monklady123 on May 28, 2015 14:24:12 GMT
I have no experience in this so don't have any advice. But, I remember reading something once about traveling with young children and I remember that Italy got high marks because of how people there seem to love young children.
That's all I've got, sorry. But I'd do it if I had the chance, especially to visit family and not be staying in a hotel.
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Post by alittleintrepid on May 28, 2015 14:27:20 GMT
The bassinet seat sounds great! But I just looked it up and I think he will too big for it - the max weight is 20 lbs and height is 26 inches (he's just about that size already). Would I be able to bring his car seat on the flight? I'd probably need it anyway when we get there. I think you'd have to buy another seat if you wanted his car seat on the flight with you. Most airlines will let you check it with the luggage for free though....obviously check with your airline. eTA....just saw in your OP that you were thinking of buying him a seat so that you didn't have to hold him. You can bring his car seat in this case but make sure it is approved for aircraft use/ FAA approved.
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Post by alissa103 on May 28, 2015 15:22:39 GMT
The bassinet seat sounds great! But I just looked it up and I think he will too big for it - the max weight is 20 lbs and height is 26 inches (he's just about that size already). Would I be able to bring his car seat on the flight? I'd probably need it anyway when we get there. Yes, you can bring his seat on board if you buy him one. If not, you'll need to check it as luggage (which I don't recommend...) even though the expense stinks, I'd buy him a seat so he has his car seat to sleep in and a place to sit if he's tired of being held. Also, he's much safer in his car seat than being held on your lap. So there's that, too. i think traveling with a 10 mo old would be easier than my three year old. 10 mo olds are a bit more easy going about where and how they nap and sleep. I'd take the trip now vs. waiting for when he's a bit older bc I honestly think it would be harder!
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on May 28, 2015 16:08:32 GMT
The bassinet seat sounds great! But I just looked it up and I think he will too big for it - the max weight is 20 lbs and height is 26 inches (he's just about that size already). Would I be able to bring his car seat on the flight? I'd probably need it anyway when we get there. Yes I have done this many times!! it is very helpful. I lived in London until my daughter was 2 and flew back and forth many times. Be prepared... have lots of snacks... eating helps with the pressure. (kind of like chewing gum) At 10 months my daughter wanted to watch the people.. I stood on a flight from London to Dallas.. in the front of the plane holding her so she could look at all the people...if I sat down she screamed!! The flight attendants were really helpful and held her when I need to eat or go to the bathroom. She fell asleep for take off and screamed for landing! It wasn't fun.. but everyone commented on how good she was, really her screaming only bothered me... You'll be fine... its easier before they are walking
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on May 28, 2015 16:14:04 GMT
I've travelled all over with babies, including long flights.
They travel better than adults most of the time.
There is no way I'd pass up that trip. He'll still be small enough to wear in a carrier if you are still inclined. Still young enough that he'll get tired and fall asleep in a stroller while you are sight seeing. Still young enough not to ask for things (toys, sweets) while you are out shopping.
Bring an assortment of medicines with you to make sure you have every thing you might need should he not feel well, but really, go & have fun!
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Post by katiejane on May 28, 2015 16:23:09 GMT
I flew transatlantic several times with my son. Just the two of us flew and he was 3, 6 and 13 months at the time. It was fine. He slept for most of the journey. The only difficultly I had was finding a member of the cabin crew to watch him when I needed to use the bathroom. Check with the airlines about seats. We always paid for an extra seat and took the car seat, but on two out the three journeys the cabin crew refused to let me use it.
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Post by Anita on May 28, 2015 17:19:54 GMT
My youngest was 8 months old when we flew home from living in Italy (she was born there). She did GREAT. Of course, the flight attendants wanted to carry her around everywhere, which I'm sure helped. By the way, your baby will be a rock star in Italy when you go out. We were practically mobbed anytime we took our daughter out. Even groups you would not expect, like teen boys, would flock to us to see the bambino and fawn over her. It's no wonder my daughter is such a people person. But yeah, make sure you bring a car seat. When they do zonk out, you want to have time to relax yourself.
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Post by tara595 on May 28, 2015 17:42:14 GMT
Thanks for all the advice everyone! I think we're going to go for it! I just wish I could find a direct flight from JFK to Naples. If we land in Rome, we still have drive about 3 hours to my family's home. Not something I'd want to do after a long flight!
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Post by annabella on May 28, 2015 18:18:12 GMT
My co-worker flew somewhere else in Europe then had a connecting flight to Naples. The day before her trip the airline cancelled her connecting flight to Naples so she had to buy a whole new ticket at the last minute to the tune of $1000.
Do you have a babysitter you could leave your baby home with? It would cost the same as you buying your baby the plane ticket. I just think if she gets sick while in Italy it'll ruin your whole trip.
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Post by tara595 on May 29, 2015 14:26:33 GMT
thanks everyone, I think we're going for it!!
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