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Post by roundtwo on Jun 4, 2015 19:08:15 GMT
if you tell me that the guy you are dating is the man of your dreams and he is cheating on his wife.  Just wanted to share a little bit of my day with you all  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2015 19:14:17 GMT
I would too. And I'll add, I'm gonna judge if I overhear you complaining about not being able to find a job and then go on to talk about the most recent parole violation you had. Um, gee, why do you think you can't find a job?  |
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Post by DEX on Jun 4, 2015 19:21:55 GMT
If they do it with you, they will do it to you... Just sayin'. |
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Post by roundtwo on Jun 4, 2015 19:25:23 GMT
If they do it with you, they will do it to you... Just sayin'. No no silly DEX, he would never do it to her because she understands him and their love is so very special.  |
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Post by freecharlie on Jun 4, 2015 19:27:40 GMT
I'd judge and I'd do it vocally.
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Post by DEX on Jun 4, 2015 19:30:37 GMT
If they do it with you, they will do it to you... Just sayin'. No no silly DEX, he would never do it to her because she understands him and their love is so very special. Well, bless her heart..... |
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 4, 2015 19:48:57 GMT
If the man of your dreams is cheating now it's a safe bet that he'll be the man of many women's dreams for the next several years. You just started a trend.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2015 19:55:38 GMT
I wonder if Prince Charming knows his bit on the side is telling people they're a 'thing'?
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Post by rainangel on Jun 4, 2015 20:01:12 GMT
The men I have known who have cheated on their partners ALL did it to multiple partners! They never found 'the love of their life' and quit fooling around behind their girlfriends back. She must be a special kind of naive to belive he will change for her. Now you just sit back and watch this situation go from blissfully naive to the uglycry while she is tossing his stuff out the window....
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Post by mandolyn9909 on Jun 4, 2015 20:01:36 GMT
It would be very hard to take that conversation seriously. Bet you had to try very hard not to roll your eyes during that chat. Ha.
I judged this weekend when not one but two little girls showed up at 6 am for a day trip to the zoo with a can of pringles and a bag of chips for her breakfast. UGH.
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Post by Dictionary on Jun 4, 2015 20:04:07 GMT
And he's going to leave his wife any day now because we were meant to be together for all eternity.
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Post by LeaP on Jun 4, 2015 20:10:03 GMT
You could try to redirect her to rickmer's find the dude from craigslist  My DH read the classified and reports that hydration-wise he qualifies. |
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Post by lancermom on Jun 4, 2015 20:16:32 GMT
You could try to redirect her to rickmer's find the dude from craigslist My DH read the classified and reports that hydration-wise he qualifies. I tried to reopen the post to have a good laugh with friends, it has been taken down. Bummer!!! I am sure he will leave his wife, once they are done raising their children etc... My aunt did date a married man. He had moved out but kept married due to the kid issue. As soon as last was out of house he divorced her. Luckily it was only a year or so. But she was very cautious. |
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Post by Miss Lerins Momma on Jun 4, 2015 20:37:30 GMT
if you tell me that the guy you are dating is the man of your dreams and he is cheating on his wife. Just wanted to share a little bit of my day with you all
Oh wow, that's always fun!
I'll add... my Uncle is now dating and getting married (this will be his 5th marriage I believe) to the "love of his life" (she says he's the "love of her life" too, ever since the 2nd grade).
But she's also the girl who my other uncle, let's call him Uncle #2 (Uncle #1's brother), slept with/cheated on his wife with/left his family for 15 years ago. So the love of Uncle#1's life, slept with his brother and caused his family to split up 15 years ago... maybe she couldn't get the brother's straight? Who knows.
Very awkward when she's around at family functions. Uncle#2 is also getting married to the 2nd girl (that we know of), who is on her 4th or 5th marriage herself... who he cheated on his wife with (they divorced finally after this last cheating situation). Fun times all around with my family!! Needless to say, we don't have anything to do with either Uncles.
I hate to judge, but sometimes I just cannot help myself!
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Post by calgal08 on Jun 4, 2015 20:41:05 GMT
I bet he never has sex with his wife either  |
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Post by scrapaddie on Jun 4, 2015 20:46:47 GMT
I am going to judge if you're all over Facebook with celebrations because your husband is returning home after 26 years. 26 years spent in prison for murder conviction!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2015 21:12:20 GMT
To me, that means you have jacked up, unhealthy dreams.
That news would end our relationship. Have some self-respect.
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Post by roundtwo on Jun 4, 2015 21:21:47 GMT
So I see a lot of us here have some knowledge of the cheaters handbook, lol!  I wish I knew more details because I would definitely tell the wife. In my case, the ex didn't leave me, I found out and left him before he had a chance - he is still pissed that I wouldn't let him have his wife and a girlfriend on the side. Idiot. I just don't understand the lack of respect for yourself that would allow you to be the piece on the side.  |
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Post by Peal on Jun 4, 2015 21:24:18 GMT
Are her dreams nightmares?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2015 21:44:40 GMT
If they do it with you, they will do it to you... Just sayin'. No no silly DEX, he would never do it to her because she understands him and their love is so very special. It's obviously their time for rainbows and happiness! And being the star crossed lovers that they are..I mean it's just like Romeo and Juliet. and yes, I've heard that exact statement before in this situation. ETA - I forgot to add my judgment...I'll judge you quick if you are in the grocery store, sams club etc and you are swiping your food stamps card and your hair is perfectly done up and so are your nails and you are tapping away on a smartphone |
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Post by smginaz Suzy on Jun 4, 2015 22:30:02 GMT
What if they are getting groceries for someone else? I have done that where I have run errands and picked up stuff for someone who was not able to get around easily. I don't have my hair and nails all done, but I do have a phone, and I did wonder if people were judging me.
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Post by peasapie on Jun 4, 2015 22:39:21 GMT
She just doesn't understand him. And he can't talk to her.
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Post by DEX on Jun 4, 2015 23:21:36 GMT
Well, no loss. I am sure, "their marriage was over for a long time" anyway. LOL. BTDT.  . Not the cheating part. |
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Jun 4, 2015 23:29:17 GMT
People never cease to amaze me.
Well, I'm going to judge you if you tell me you're uprooting your kid by making him go to another school in another town just so you can move in with the guy who dumped you a year ago and you just got back together with. Slow down, missy!
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Jun 5, 2015 0:28:33 GMT
ETA - I forgot to add my judgment...I'll judge you quick if you are in the grocery store, sams club etc and you are swiping your food stamps card and your hair is perfectly done up and so are your nails and you are tapping away on a smartphone I know this has been debated here before, but what makes you so sure she is swiping a food stamps card for herself? Women who collect child/spousal support through an agency (when ex-spouse has had wages garnished) get those benefits on a card. My brother and his wife received state benefits for their two boys during their "foster to adopt" process, and those were paid on a state card. My mother is legal guardian for my adult brother who receives SSI disability, and based on his income, he is eligible for food stamps if Mom wanted to apply for them. She would be the one doing his shopping, so I guess she should be dressed to look "needy" in that case? |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 5, 2015 0:42:10 GMT
What if they are getting groceries for someone else? I have done that where I have run errands and picked up stuff for someone who was not able to get around easily. I don't have my hair and nails all done, but I do have a phone, and I did wonder if people were judging me. Come live in my neck of the woods and see what you see and then you can come back and say that and I'll take it more seriously. While I do respect your opinion and I see where you are coming from..if it walks like a duck and sounds like a duck..it's usually a duck. |
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Post by alittleintrepid on Jun 5, 2015 0:49:35 GMT
I'd judge and then say "you know the old adage...when a man marries his mistress, he creates a vacancy."
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Post by gramasue on Jun 5, 2015 1:00:02 GMT
Can she say ADULTERY? or spell it? You go ahead and judge, honey. It's wrong, in anyone's book. Man of her dreams, my A$$.
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Post by cherrie on Jun 5, 2015 1:03:30 GMT
And he's going to leave his wife any day now because we were meant to be together for all eternity. And they don't sleep together either |
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Post by gramma on Jun 5, 2015 1:50:43 GMT
And they have only stayed together for the kids.
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My DH read the classified and reports that hydration-wise he qualifies.
I wish I knew more details because I would definitely tell the wife. 
. Not the cheating part.
