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Post by dulcemama on Jul 13, 2014 16:02:59 GMT
when they outgrew them? I am getting ready for a rummage sale in a few weeks and am going through things that we no longer use. I want to save a few of DD's most favorite toys so she can have them when she's older but I am having a hard time deciding what to keep and what to sell. Everything seems special. Was it hard for you to let go of your child's toys? How did you decide what to save and what to get rid of? For what i's worth, I also have a hard time getting rid of her old clothes too but I'm much more practical in that area.
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Post by sues on Jul 13, 2014 16:10:30 GMT
Some of it was - like her Rolie Polie Olie stuffed doll. It was the first TV show she ever got into and she was so excited to get the doll. It's sort of a warm fuzzy. Ditto on the reversible Fiona stuffed doll ( from Shrek). The bikes were hard- but we Freecycled them and it helped to think of some little kid getting it that might not otherwise get a bike.
But most of it was not bad. The big plastic stuff- easel/sand and water table/Cozy Coupe- I was happy to see out of here. It helped me reclaim my house.
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Post by scrapqueen01 on Jul 13, 2014 16:28:21 GMT
Yes, Yes, Yes! I have had so much trouble getting rid of dd's toys and clothes. She's my only child and will sadly be my only child. Getting rid of her stuff feels like I'm giving away a piece of her childhood. When it's time to get rid of stuff I get my dh to help me. He's more ruthless than I am about this type of thing which is strange because he would keep every computer part/computer magazine he has. Also having him to talk to is a big help. When I get a bag of stuff to donate I have him put it in the back of my car immediately. Out of sight out of mind works well for me.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jul 13, 2014 16:37:09 GMT
I kept whatever lovey or special toy each boy had as babies/toddlers in the keepsake box I have for each of them. Beyond that there's just a handful of other toys that we kept. The youngest is only 12 so if I get rid of those I have to admit he's growing up. Ha. Therefore, the huge bins of Legos will remain. Oh, and the plastic container of toy soldiers. And the... Okay. So I did keep some. Shoot me.
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Post by lilacgal on Jul 13, 2014 16:46:57 GMT
My daughter is five and will be six in just a few weeks. My husband has been putting off "The Great Toy Purge" for a few years now but it's time. We are overrun. I know it will be hard to part with some things. I've been talking to her about it though. We need to get rid of her baby toys so she has room for the new toys she will get for her birthday. For the time being, we are just putting them in storage. I hope to have another child to be able to play with them.
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Post by amandad74 on Jul 13, 2014 16:49:19 GMT
Yes. I'm doing better though. The space limitations help! I kept favorite books and toys. Will hold onto the Thomas stuff (not all but some) and a few Lego pieces. They are 10 & 13 so we are just starting to go through some stuff. Last weekend I donated old trucks they did not want (Tonka). They still wanted the matchbox cars (some) so that will be a small box instead of the larger box it was.
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Post by freecharlie on Jul 13, 2014 16:51:24 GMT
Yes. They also have a story about why they should keep everything. Boys are going to camp soon. I am cleaning then. I am looking for storage solutions for what we do keep and will be/already have started a thread on it.
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Post by gar on Jul 13, 2014 16:53:46 GMT
No, not really. It seemed quite obvious which were their favourites. I kept a cuddly toy each as well as a 'toy' and the rest went quite easily actually. Does that make me heartless?
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jul 13, 2014 16:57:20 GMT
Evidently, yes. Tub after tub of toys stored in the garage and in closets in the house. He will be 29 next month!
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Post by lorieann13 on Jul 13, 2014 17:01:36 GMT
Not really. I guess because I have held onto the really important toys for my kids. Like the Loving Family Doll House with every room and added accessory. I am looking forward to handing it off to my soon to be born neice. I saved all of ds's wooden thomas trains amd sets. Dd's first baby stuffy. I also kept a few key clothing items. We have 1 rubber maid contain in the garage with their items. I liked giving the toys away because it ment they were growing up and I was getting space back in my house
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Post by valleyview on Jul 13, 2014 17:03:03 GMT
I thought that I did pretty well, but one look in the attic seems to contradict my story.
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Post by scraphollie27 on Jul 13, 2014 17:04:26 GMT
No, but I am not sentimental that way and I abhor clutter. My DDs are 13 & 15 and I kept Lego, the Playmobil dollhouse, dress-up clothes and all the Build a Bear stuff. The dress-up clothes are probably next to be purged as not much fits anymore but I figured the other toys are timeless and any grand kids might like to play with them.
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Post by andy on Jul 13, 2014 17:12:50 GMT
My kids are only 2&3 right now, but I've been purging as we go...we already seem to be overrun with toys! What I do is rotate toys. We keep some on the expedit in the playroom, and have 3-4 large bins of extras in the basement. Every few months, I rotate some from the bins onto the toy shelf. If something doesn't make it into the rotation after 6 months or so, it goes into the 'sell' box. I have 1 bin for each kid of 'keep forever' - clothes, baby toys, etc. Those get weeded out periodically too. I kept a lot of baby outfits at first, but if it didn't evoke any special memory when I took it out again, off it goes to the sell box I took lots of pics of them in different outfits, so we always have that to help our memories!
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Post by psoccer on Jul 13, 2014 17:13:01 GMT
I just went through their closets this month. The boys were easy, they pretty much had Lego and Brio, both of which I would like to keep. My daughter had so much stuff. I am getting rid of all of her Bratz, yea! I am sadly getting rid of her Fischer Price Sweet Treats houses. She had so much fun playing with them, but we need the room. The Polly Pocket will go, and some of the Barbie. I am keeping her American Girl, but it is hard to let go of some of it because of the memories.
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Post by moonglowe21 on Jul 13, 2014 17:25:42 GMT
Yes! Dd just turned 9 last week and she and I are in the process of cleaning out her toys for the first time. It is really hard because she is our only child. Some of the toys are hard to part with because of fond memories, but even the ones I don't really care about are hard because it's like giving away another piece of that hope for a second child. Dh decided he didn't want another child after dd was born and I've always had hope in my heart that he would change his mind, but every time another toy goes into the donate pile, I realize it's just not going to happen. Also, I'll be 35 next month and that was always the deadline in my mind, so that looming in front of me along with the cleaning out just makes it extra tough. Dd has been very sweet though, offering to keep certain toys just because she sees me linger on them for a moment. I know it needs to be done, but it's definitely tough! Hang in there and don't feel bad about keeping a few things. (I don't know how to add smilies from my phone so insert smiley face here!)
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Post by dulcemama on Jul 13, 2014 17:34:21 GMT
I think some of you hit it on the head, saying that your child is an only child. DD is as well. I actually did pretty well with purging her baby toys. She developed so fast at that stage that she only played with that stuff for a year or less for the most part. Now we are to the point of purging toys that were played with for 3 or 4 years and have a lot more memories attached to them. DD is 10 now and there are somethings that she still plays with but a lot of it she is done with.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2014 17:42:59 GMT
Every time I want to purge my kids' toys, I cannot bring myself to get rid of the Legos. We have several BIG totes of them. Other stuff, I run by them. Some ended up getting "re-discovered," others tossed.
I kept many of my Barbies, thinking I'll pass them onto a niece or daughter. No nieces, no daughters so I ended up selling most of them off in a yard sale. The last two I came across I'm giving to DH's cousin's little girl as she is the closest thing I have to a niece.
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Post by akathy on Jul 13, 2014 17:43:09 GMT
No, it didn't bother me at all. I hate "stuff" and that's all it was. My kids had moved on from the toys so I did too. It's probably a good thing too as I raised daughters and all my grandchildren are boys I would've been hanging on to crap that was never going to be looked at again and seriously, when my grandchildren started coming I wanted to buy them their own new things.
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Post by janeliz on Jul 13, 2014 17:47:45 GMT
This is timely, as I recently did a big donate/keep/trash purge in my girls' rooms. I've struggled with getting rid of things in the past, but it's gotten easier every year. I've gotten to the point where I can look at it practically and remind myself that we can't possibly keep everything we've ever owned. Then I think of "Hoarders" episodes I've watched, and I get to work. I involved both daughters in the recent purge, and they made great decisions about what to get rid of and what to keep. That was a huge help, as I didn't sit there worrying they would miss something I was tossing, etc. It really is a tough process, though. My husband even got a little teary eyed when I gave away the Dutalier glider to a family acquaintance. He remembered all the times he rocked them to sleep in that thing, and had the hardest time watching it get driven away!
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Post by BuckeyeSandy on Jul 13, 2014 17:51:56 GMT
Evidently, yes. Tub after tub of toys stored in the garage and in closets in the house. He will be 29 next month! I have them all at a storage facility at the moment. I want to clean out the garage and basement. DD is 27 and DS is 25, neither lives with us.
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Post by sues on Jul 13, 2014 17:59:43 GMT
The don't-leave-the-batteries-in post made me remember this - in case anyone needs it. My dd stopped playing with her Leap Pad and it ended up going unused for years before we grabbed it to give it away. Of course- we hadn't thought to take out the batteries because it wasn't a conscious decision to stop playing with it, kwim? I did some research and found out there's a way to save toys that have been damaged by leaking batteries. Take a Q-tip and straight lemon juice and swab the area with battery gunk- particularly the connection points. It's amazing how quickly and completely the gunk disintegrates. Let it sit for about 10 minutes, then swab it again with water to take away the stickiness of the juice. Let it dry completely, put new batteries in and give it a try. It saved the Leap Pad - and we were able to give it away looking and working like new, with all it's cartridges/books and carrying case.
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Post by lindywholoveskids on Jul 13, 2014 18:07:36 GMT
I was only able to save very little of our (only)daughters toys and clothes. it's a long, sad story. But, now, our grandson has tons of toys here at our house. OY! he doesn't like it when we purge, and still asks about one of his toys we recycled (oops!)...next time, he helps make the decisions.
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Post by hennybutton on Jul 13, 2014 18:19:12 GMT
I'm really glad I saved my son's Thomas the Tank Engine tracks and trains. (There was some Playmobil in there too.) My daughter has a 2-1/2 year old who always, always, always asks to play with the trains when she comes over. I kind of wish we had kept a few other things. The key for saving playthings for grandchildren is to make sure they're quality items (our Thomas stuff is all wood) and simple. I kind of wish we had kept the Lincoln logs.
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Post by queenofshoes on Jul 13, 2014 18:27:35 GMT
Some of it was - like her Rolie Polie Olie stuffed doll. It was the first TV show she ever got into and she was so excited to get the doll. It's sort of a warm fuzzy. Ditto on the reversible Fiona stuffed doll ( from Shrek). The bikes were hard- but we Freecycled them and it helped to think of some little kid getting it that might not otherwise get a bike. But most of it was not bad. The big plastic stuff- easel/sand and water table/Cozy Coupe- I was happy to see out of here. It helped me reclaim my house. That was my dd's first show she watched. She doesn't even remember it. Lesa
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2014 18:33:02 GMT
when they outgrew them? I am getting ready for a rummage sale in a few weeks and am going through things that we no longer use. I want to save a few of DD's most favorite toys so she can have them when she's older but I am having a hard time deciding what to keep and what to sell. Everything seems special. Was it hard for you to let go of your child's toys? How did you decide what to save and what to get rid of? For what i's worth, I also have a hard time getting rid of her old clothes too but I'm much more practical in that area. Yes as we were hoping another child would come along. This never happened. We donated all or most of DS' stuff to our Montessori school. They were more than happy to take the stuff off our hands. We had some wonderful puzzles and DS loved doing them for years and years. The school asked if we would consider donating them when he was done with them and I said yes. Eventually the year came to donate them. I went to the teacher who asked for them (she did it nicely) and I said you probably don't remember our conversation about this all those years ago but here are the puzzles. She thanked me profusely and gave me a big hug. She was one of the awesomesauce teachers we had. Jean you are wonderful!!!
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Post by eats_crayons on Jul 13, 2014 18:46:51 GMT
It used to be hard, and we would struggle with which things (clothes and toys) to save for the next kid.....once e decided that DS will be our only, it's like 1000 pounds off my shoulders. I gladly get rid of everything!
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Post by J u l e e on Jul 13, 2014 18:49:12 GMT
I saved my daughter's favorite 'bunny head on a blanket" thing. And I have all of her legos, and all of her Thomas the Tank Engine stuff. Lord, she loved all the trains and track and accessorites. She spent countless hours over countless years with those things. We probably have over a thousand dollars of it (she played with very little other toys), and it is all sturdy wood that will last through several more generations of girls or boys that may come along.
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Post by jenkate77 on Jul 13, 2014 19:04:36 GMT
Not so much toys (they still have their favorites stashed away) but books. They're 14 and 12 now and I just did a huge purge of board books and toddler books about 3 years ago. And now I'm re-buying them all for the surprise baby we had in May.
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Post by darkangel090260 on Jul 13, 2014 19:12:46 GMT
nope as soon as they out grow a toy or clothing it's gone. We do not have a lot of spaces to keep stuff. Each kid has two tubs one for Toy and other small one for clothing.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Jul 13, 2014 19:24:29 GMT
My son is 7 and we having purged yet. I know the baby toys that I want to save and I will save his Handy Manny and Little Einstein toys. We'll save Thomas collection, Cars items and Legos. The toys that I have the most attachment to are from when he was 2.
I didn't sort clothes because I just shoved them in tubs for the basement. I have an idea on which outfits I must keep, but then I want to save a few for a quilt or something.
We need to have a sale soon. I'd like my basement back.
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