MorningPerson
Pearl Clutcher
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Post by MorningPerson on Jul 21, 2015 18:00:26 GMT
@carblover443 - hope motherhood is treating you well so far. I know you posted a couple of times right after your sweet Luke was born, but we're gonna need more pictures! These early days can be SO busy, tiring (emotionally and physically) and overwhelming, mixed in with a whole lot of wonder at your new miracle.  Just want you to know that the peas are thinking of you. |
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valincal
Drama Llama
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Post by valincal on Jul 21, 2015 18:05:38 GMT
Hope it's going well mama!  |
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Jul 21, 2015 18:05:57 GMT
Hope mom and baby are doing well. and daddy too
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akathy
What's For Dinner?
Still peaing from Podunk!
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Jun 25, 2014 22:56:55 GMT
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Post by akathy on Jul 21, 2015 18:51:54 GMT
I hope someone brought you cake for a job well done! (or at least watermelon) I agree we want more pictures of that little sweetie!
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 21, 2015 23:27:40 GMT
I hope you were able to eat an entire meal uninterrupted. Thinking of you and baby Luke. |
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azredhead
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Post by azredhead on Jul 21, 2015 23:38:53 GMT
I know would love to see how he is growing! |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2015 17:15:54 GMT
Hi!!! This is the first time I've had to even log in since I've had Luke. We are home from the hospital and his first doctors appt went well! We have another one tomorrow to see if my milk is enough or if we will have to supplement. So please pray he's gained weight! He's certainly putting off enough dirty diapers! And Daddy is well versed already in diaper changes!! I've got a bad case of first mommy jitters. I've spent 8 months reading, learning, and asking questions about baby care and everyone tells you something different. Feed on demand, feed every two hours, wake them up to do it, don't wake them, etc. I was so freaked out about what I was doing that I was literally in tears all day the first few days. What books DONT tell you, is that every baby is different and you have to take your cues from what your baby needs. So after two days, I called my mom and begged her to come stay with me and just reassure me that what I'm doing is ok. So she's been here since last night. I know she has to go soon but I'm scared. So please pray for me. I love my little guy so much I don't want to do anything to mess him up. With that said, he's the most perfect thing I've ever done. I'm so in love with him and he's just wonderful. DH has been wonderful with the house stuff and keeping laundry going. I don't know what I'd do without him. Thanks for thinking of me guys and for all the thoughts and prayers. I love you all!    |
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Post by christine58 on Jul 22, 2015 17:20:00 GMT
Go with your gut about stuff...toss the books away.. He will let you know what he needs. He's beautiful!!
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quiltz
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Jun 29, 2014 16:13:28 GMT
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Post by quiltz on Jul 22, 2015 17:21:59 GMT
Sweet baby with mom. Follow your gut. After a few weeks, you will learn what cries mean what, the little nuances that Luke will have will mean and you will get comfortable with each other. Remember that Luke hasn't been a baby before and this world is scary for him as well.
For the first while, you cannot snuggle enough or love enough. |
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Post by Legacy Girl on Jul 22, 2015 17:27:29 GMT
Your son is just PERFECT! So beautiful! Your photos reminded me of a Dickens quote that says, "It is no small thing when they, who are so fresh from God, love us." Enjoy this time ~ you'll do just fine, and so will he.
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Post by Basket1lady on Jul 22, 2015 17:29:08 GMT
He's so adorable!
Lots of wet/dirty diapers are a good sign. And I agree with those above--go with your gut. Some babies do great with a schedule, some are more loosy goosey and just go with the flow. I had one kid who was on a really strict schedule within 3 weeks. He seemed to want it and need it. And DD just went with the flow. She was just happy to be watching the rest of us. And they are still like that at 18 & 16. There isn't much you can do to mess them up at Luke's age. Feed him, keep him clean and dry and love on him. Take lots of pics and get some sleep yourself. Really, that's all you need to do.
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Post by Basket1lady on Jul 22, 2015 17:29:22 GMT
Your son is just PERFECT! So beautiful! Your photos reminded me of a Dickens quote that says, "It is no small thing when they, who are so fresh from God, love us." Enjoy this time ~ you'll do just fine, and so will he. One of my favorite quotes! |
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casii
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Post by casii on Jul 22, 2015 17:29:42 GMT
He's an angel who is very lucky to have such great parents. Follow his lead and follow your gut & heart. It'll all work out.
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scrappert
Prolific Pea
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Location: Milwaukee, WI area
Jul 11, 2014 21:20:09 GMT
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Post by scrappert on Jul 22, 2015 17:30:34 GMT
Oh so cute and small! Like others say, follow your gut. He will let you know what he wants, when he wants it. You have to relax otherwise he will sense your stress and he will get stressed and it just becomes very un-restful. Deep breaths, you will be fine. Blessings to you! |
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Post by bc2ca on Jul 22, 2015 17:32:17 GMT
I've got a bad case of first mommy jitters. I've spent 8 months reading, learning, and asking questions about baby care and everyone tells you something different. Feed on demand, feed every two hours, wake them up to do it, don't wake them, etc. I was so freaked out about what I was doing that I was literally in tears all day the first few days. What books DONT tell you, is that every baby is different and you have to take your cues from what your baby needs. I just wanted to reach out & hug you when I read this. Being overwhelmed right now is completely normal (hormones + being responsible for a living, breathing helpless baby!). I don't know how much time you are taking off for maternity leave, but if there is any way to connect with a new mom group seriously check it out. My mom, BFF and sisters were great advisors but the group of moms that I met that had babies born at the same time as me were living through exactly what I was living through with only slight variations. We really leaned on each other for the first couple of years. Fortunately I had my babies in a city with a really strong public health nursing program and great community center resources so there were multiple groups to choose from. |
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johnnysmom
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Post by johnnysmom on Jul 22, 2015 17:36:48 GMT
He's beautiful, congrats!!
Babies are pretty resilient, just make sure to feed him and know it's ok to put him down and walk away. Otherwise there's no real danger of screwing him up. Who cares if you hold him too much, or let him sleep in your bed or don't have him on a schedule......none of it really matters. Even if you didn't change him in time and he gets a little diaper rash, it will heal. Trust your gut, the rest will come.
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Post by elaine on Jul 22, 2015 17:37:52 GMT
He's so adorable! Lots of wet/dirty diapers are a good sign. And I agree with those above--go with your gut. Some babies do great with a schedule, some are more loosy goosey and just go with the flow. I had one kid who was on a really strict schedule within 3 weeks. He seemed to want it and need it. And DD just went with the flow. She was just happy to be watching the rest of us. And they are still like that at 18 & 16. There isn't much you can do to mess them up Luke's age. Feed him, keep him clean and dry and love on him. Take lots of pics and get some sleep yourself. Really, that's all you need to do.This! Toss the books - you, your dh and Luke will figure out what works for you as a family. He is beautiful! |
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Post by alissa103 on Jul 22, 2015 17:51:56 GMT
Awwwwww!!! So glad to see some more pics and to hear from you! I was thinking of you this morning for some reason! Also, I went through the wringer nursing my DS and MADE IT. Please please please feel free to PM me if you have any questions! I am even willing to give you my number if you want to text or call. It's so much easier when you have a mama support who has been there/done that. We thought we'd have to supplement too, but he was putting out plenty of wets and dirties... And even though he'd lost a little weight, he did end up gaining it back fairly quickly. It sometimes takes a few extra days for your milk to really start pouring, especially with a c-section, so be sure your Dr. isnt too quick to give up on your boobs  |
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Post by Sassy Sabrina SWZ on Jul 22, 2015 18:31:58 GMT
As you already know, all babies are different, and you're already learning *who he is*. Pretty soon, you'll start noticing, "he prefers things this way," or "he doesn't like that," and you'll see patterns in his behavior. You'll adapt to his preferences, and he'll adapt to yours.
Carblover, you really can't "mess him up"! You won't drop him, and you won't damage him psychologically or physically. We all make mistakes, but very few result in disasters. It will be OK. The fact that you're worrying about this shows that you're committed to his welfare. You will be a great Mom! I'm glad your own mom is there now, and I hope she can reassure you and support you while you regain your confidence in yourself.
As for breastfeeding, I received wonderful information and support from La Leche League and formed great friendships there as well. It wasn't just about nursing but about raising children, too. But that was 40 years ago. I know that there are now many other support groups. I hope you'll find a congenial group of "colleagues" to help you will any problems that may develop.
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Post by JoP on Jul 22, 2015 18:32:54 GMT
Awww thanks for posting such lovely pictures, @carblover443 I was also thinking about you all today |
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Just want you to know that the peas are thinking of you. 
