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Post by Darcy Collins on Jul 21, 2015 20:56:30 GMT
Absolutely not, the liability is too high. I've worked in some companies where we had to direct all follow up communication with HR period. We couldn't even send a generic response to a thank you for interviewing me email.
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Post by marysue63 on Jul 21, 2015 21:06:20 GMT
I've had just a few people ask and I've been honest. I think it takes a lot of guts to ask why you weren't hired and I believe they deserve an honest answer. That said I've always had very firm reasons why I didn't hire someone so I didn't have to squirm to not sound mean. It's almost always because the other person had more experience.
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Post by shannoots on Jul 21, 2015 21:06:48 GMT
I know it can be so frustrating if you think you did well in an interview. I had one about a month ago and I thought I did a great job. It was a 2nd interview and it was between me and one other candidate. The principal even told me that he would give me as much feedback as he could if he did not hire me. Well, I didn't get the job and I did email and ask what advice he might have for future interviews (I only did this because he said he would give feedback). I never heard from him and that was ok. You may have done everything right but they just liked the other candidate better for some other reason. Maybe they had more experience. Good luck! Trust me, I feel your pain!
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Post by christine58 on Jul 21, 2015 21:07:50 GMT
requested it? I had an interview that seemed to go very well. Out of 10 questions, at least 8 of them the reply or comment was "that is exactly what we do here".. or "yes, that is exactly what I was thinking". I hadn't done PALS testing before and admitted that. I was very courteous, genuine smile, firm handshake, eye contact, thank you's, and follow up. Could be someone had more experience or that experience, etc. I had high hopes because the other teacher said things like "we think alike" or "you're speaking my language, etc". My references are solid. I am looking for specific tips that will be productive. I go in confident, honest, positive, head held high and enthusiastic. Not phony, and no chip on shoulder. And if you would, could you please refrain from the "you're horrible, I wouldn't hire you" personal jabs... I want constructive, useful advice and already feel a bit let down. Thanks. You mean after the interview if you're not hired?? Or during?? My niece had an interview with similar comments (she's a picu nurse) and was led to believe she was getting hired...she did not. Are you let down because you didn't get hired???
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Post by Deleted on Jul 21, 2015 21:07:57 GMT
I spent months reading every job-seeking advice blog, column in major publications, etc, and every time this question comes up the suggestion from real hiring managers is that they won't provide constructive feedback, and if they do, it's a very generic "we found a better fit but we'll keep you on file" type answer.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Jul 21, 2015 21:09:20 GMT
I always offer that as an option to internal candidates, but I would be hesitant to do a post-interview review with an external candidate. Frankly, from what you have said, it probably wasn't anything you did or didn't say or how you interviewed. There could have simply been a more qualified candidate or an internal candidate or they could have decided not to fill the position right now.
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Post by Merge on Jul 21, 2015 21:14:38 GMT
I don't think most people will give feedback like that, for the exact reason Darcy said - liability.
Try not to get too down about it. Sometimes (frequently) they already have a candidate in mind and are just scheduling other interviews for due diligence or in case the first person falls through. It has nothing to do with you in a case like that. And even you were a great candidate, sometimes someone else is just a tiny bit better, or they liked them more for some subjective reason.
Hang in there!
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Post by mallie on Jul 21, 2015 21:32:22 GMT
No. Never. Too much potential for trouble if I answer honestly.
During an interview, I also, however, never ever make statements that anyone might infer that they were going to get the job. Here's why: 1. There are so many things that might go wrong after the interview. I might interview someone more qualified. Another interviewee might have taken a deep dislike to the person. Many potential issues. 2. In my lifetime, I have been told twice during interviews that I got the job and I did not get the job. One even had me fill out paperwork and gave me a start date. Then I never heard from them again. In the case where I filled out the paperwork, I had given notice at my current job. Then radio silence, unreturned phone calls, etc. To this day, I have never discovered what happened except that the person who made the offer and gave me the paperwork and start date did not have the authority to do so. No apology, nothing. But I've also never forgotten what a horrible position that idiot put me in when he should have never made an offer when he apparently didn't have the authority to do so. Because of those experiences, I am very careful about implying anything about hiring or being a great fit, let alone making statements about the interviewee getting the job, being "perfect" for the job, etc.
Also -- my dh and I are in the process of applying for jobs and in every case where we'd seem to be a perfect fit, we do not get the job because there is an internal candidate and the hiring process is a sham.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Jul 21, 2015 21:32:44 GMT
I know in many districts they already know who they want to hire, they just have to go through the motions of pretending they are looking at other candidates.
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 21, 2015 21:34:35 GMT
I don't think most people will give feedback like that, for the exact reason Darcy said - liability. Try not to get too down about it. Sometimes (frequently) they already have a candidate in mind and are just scheduling other interviews for due diligence or in case the first person falls through. It has nothing to do with you in a case like that. And even you were a great candidate, sometimes someone else is just a tiny bit better, or they liked them more for some subjective reason. Hang in there! I agree with this. So many times, they have to follow procedures and make sure the whole process is implemented, even though they may already have a strong candidate they plan to hire. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong or have any glaring weak areas to improve upon. That said, you never know what will happen. We had two finalists for an opening in one grade level. The unknown got it rather than the one who had student-taught in that grade in our building. Fast forward a couple months - a teacher at another grade level had to resign because her husband got transferred and they will be moving out of the area. We teachers go back August 3 and the kids come August 5; not much time for more interviews. The teacher who didn't get the other opening was called about this new one.
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Post by Really Red on Jul 21, 2015 21:42:06 GMT
I wish!! Once we had a guy with a truly perfect resume write in. He spelled the name of the town where he lived incorrectly. Twice. The job was for a technical editor, so we didn't hire him, but seriously, an impeccable resume. I wish he had asked.
I get that liability is so bad. I interviewed a candidate who looked incredible on paper, but all he did was talk and talk and talk. I knew how much everything cost in his life and pretty much everything about him. I was really sad because we needed someone of his caliber (I saw his work), but no one would be able to stand the talk.
I wish there was a standard rejection note we could check off things.
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Post by Blind Squirrel on Jul 21, 2015 21:44:18 GMT
We've been interviewing at my school this summer and when it comes down to selecting from the "final" candidates, we have been considering the dynamics of the team(s) on which the person will work. If your skills match the others in the team, maybe that's not good in their eyes, because they need someone with a different approach. If you have said your strength is in language arts, maybe they really need someone who lives and breathes math.
We've seen some fine candidates that we feel (based on the hour we spend with them in the interview) that they won't fit in with the team or they will not be "xyz" enough for that group of kids that's coming up. It doesn't mean we don't think they'd do fine if we had a different position available, it just wouldn't be a good fit for that position.
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Post by Merge on Jul 21, 2015 22:26:17 GMT
I don't think most people will give feedback like that, for the exact reason Darcy said - liability. Try not to get too down about it. Sometimes (frequently) they already have a candidate in mind and are just scheduling other interviews for due diligence or in case the first person falls through. It has nothing to do with you in a case like that. And even you were a great candidate, sometimes someone else is just a tiny bit better, or they liked them more for some subjective reason. Hang in there! I agree with this. So many times, they have to follow procedures and make sure the whole process is implemented, even though they may already have a strong candidate they plan to hire. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong or have any glaring weak areas to improve upon. That said, you never know what will happen. We had two finalists for an opening in one grade level. The unknown got it rather than the one who had student-taught in that grade in our building. Fast forward a couple months - a teacher at another grade level had to resign because her husband got transferred and they will be moving out of the area. We teachers go back August 3 and the kids come August 5; not much time for more interviews. The teacher who didn't get the other opening was called about this new one. Happens all the time. If someone calls next week and resigns, they're going to start with the pool of strong candidates they've already interviewed before they go looking for someone else. Happened to me in somewhat delayed fashion - I interviewed for the new job I'm starting next month LAST YEAR. They already had a candidate in mind at that time and I was a "due diligence" interview. Well, she turned out to be a bad fit for the job so in May they called me and asked me to come in to re-interview as a formality - the job was mine.
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Post by coaliesquirrel on Jul 21, 2015 22:43:19 GMT
DH had success once going to ask "What can I do to make myself a better candidate for the NEXT TIME you're hiring?" - he ended up having an hour-long sit-down with the chief of a large metro fire department talking about what sort of qualifications they were looking for when they hire for entry-level jobs. Go at it that way, rather than "Why didn't you hire me this time?" and you're more likely to get answers because they probably won't be as scared of being sued. You just look like someone who wants to improve themselves (a good thing!) - not a pouter or crazy person. Plus, you show that you do want to work there even if you can't right now, so you make that impression to make them want to call you if things don't work out with whoever got it or something else comes open.
If at all possible, I would go in person or call on the phone rather than asking by email, because of the liability others mentioned. I'd think you're more likely to get an honest answer if they're not being asked to put it in writing. And, if you're actually speaking to them, you can add follow-up questions to get more/better information based on their initial answers.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Jul 21, 2015 22:58:00 GMT
When I first went back into the work force after being off with my daughter I asked the question at the end of the interview
Something along the lines of can you tell me how my experience matches up with what you are looking for? and As its been xxx years out of the work force what could I do to bolster my cv or interviewing skills.
I got a great response. I got the job! My boss later told me that it was because of my enthusiasm for the job, and the questions I asked. They did not expect that I was as ready to take on the roles of the job as it turned out I was. Most importantly they left the interview thinking... I can't think of one thing that really makes her unsuitable for the job.
For my current job, my boss has this very complicated, sort of ridiculous process he takes people through, the main reason is he wants people who REALLY want the job. So anyone who is not willing to jump through some hoops usually drop out of the process. There were 12 people he considered for my job. only 6 showed up to the group interview, 1 of those 6 was 30 minutes late!
He asked 4 people to reply to an email with a series of questions. 3 did, one missed the deadline by about 6 hours. Of the 2 that he interviewed one to one he was torn, and he strung it out.
I followed up, and un promoted I wrote a 30-60-90 day plan for what I envisioned my role to be. That is why I got hired! Be proactive. If you don't get a full time teaching job, consider subbing, or being a TA or Title 1 get yourself in the door. Also take at least one college level course in education to show that you are interested in keeping up in your field.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 21, 2015 23:08:01 GMT
I know in many districts they already know who they want to hire, they just have to go through the motions of pretending they are looking at other candidates. Which pisses me off as someone who gives up their days during the summer to help interview.
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Post by mallie on Jul 21, 2015 23:40:30 GMT
It's not much fun spending hours on essays and preparing for interviews for positions that are filled, for all intents and purposes. No. It sucks. Especially when it's a private organization and it's only their own internal policies -- not any public law or policy -- that require due diligence interviews and the person with the hiring authority knew s/he was never going to hire anyone other than the internal candidate. My dh took three vacation days off of work (necessitating rescheduling a lot of work and then working like a dog putting in lots of extra hours on on his return playing catch-up ) to do an interview and they basically told him at the interview that he didn't have a chance because of an internal candidate. they told him to just "sit back and enjoy the time off visiting our organization. Oh and by the way, since you're here..." They wanted to pick his brain about a technical topic on which he's a national expert -- basically they wanted free consultancy for the cost of his plane ticket and hotel room instead of paying his consultancy fee. He said if we could have afforded to buy a one way ticket out the next day, he would have been gone. Instead, he had to play nice for hours with people who had no interest in him except to try and screw him out of a consultancy fee and used a job interview as a bait and switch.
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Post by molove on Jul 21, 2015 23:53:51 GMT
My career is in social services, specifically domestic violence and homelessness. Not being corporate or for profit, the vibe is different. Yes, I give feedback but only if it is asked. I'm not brutal or nasty, I am very nice about the feedback. There are many times I wished an applicant would have asked. Such specific tweaks could be made to interview better.
Also, during the interview, I never used phrases like "your job would be...." It was always "the job is....." You can really lead a person on during an interview and that's not good. Sounds like that interview team was not coached correctly.
I'm sorry you are disappointed, it's rough trying to find a job. Hang in there, you WILL work again. Remember--take it in steps. Your only goal is to get an interview. Then the goal is an offer. THEN you can weigh the pros and cons and decide if the job is a good fit for YOU. You are interviewing them as much as they are you.
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Post by bc2ca on Jul 21, 2015 23:56:07 GMT
IME, most of the time there is no constructive feedback to give. You (universal you) were a solid candidate, presented well and would be a great fit. But we met with five others that were equal and then you have to start sifting the very fine differences. Slightly more experience, someone has a personal connection with one of the other references, etc.
The biggest mistake is getting too excited about the job before you actually get the offer. You did get positive feedback in the interview (you're speaking my language, we think alike) and I don't think there is too much more an interviewer can give you.
The last time I was laid off I applied for tons of jobs, got a few interviews but no offers. I contacted a few places I'd applied to just to see if the job was filled so I could cross if off my list. With one job, the hiring manager had done all the interviews, shortlisted and was down to two finalists. They were very different candidates and this manager and I ended up talking for a half hour about the pros and cons of each. By the end of that conversation I had a formal interview with him set up and ended up getting the job. I wasn't even in the first cut of interviews. Weird things happen in the hiring process.
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Post by Merge on Jul 21, 2015 23:56:56 GMT
It's too bad you don't live in Texas. In my area at least, special ed teachers and aides are in high demand.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2015 0:12:06 GMT
requested it? I had an interview that seemed to go very well. Out of 10 questions, at least 8 of them the reply or comment was "that is exactly what we do here".. or "yes, that is exactly what I was thinking". I hadn't done PALS testing before and admitted that. I was very courteous, genuine smile, firm handshake, eye contact, thank you's, and follow up. Could be someone had more experience or that experience, etc. I had high hopes because the other teacher said things like "we think alike" or "you're speaking my language, etc". My references are solid.
I am looking for specific tips that will be productive. I go in confident, honest, positive, head held high and enthusiastic. Not phony, and no chip on shoulder.
And if you would, could you please refrain from the "you're horrible, I wouldn't hire you" personal jabs... I want constructive, useful advice and already feel a bit let down. Thanks. The things I've bolded are minimum qualifications.. if you are applying for an entry level "no skills required" or "no experience necessary" these bolded points will put you ahead. But you are interviewing in competition with professionals. At the professional level these are a basic expectation; everyone will be exhibiting the same characteristics. At this level they are looking for what makes you stand out... what skills, knowledge or traits to you bring to the job that exceeds what anyone else can do in a tangible way. It's great you were on the same page, thinking what I was thinking; but realistically anyone that has spent time in a philosophy of education class can probably get the same responses from them. What can you do to take them into the next chapter? And, no, all the prep work, essay writing and getting ready for each interview is not fun. Yes, a lot of them have a pre-determined outcome but not all of them do.. and it is possible to give an interview that will knock a predetermined internal hire off the pedestal. So don't give up. Keep applying and keep up the courtesy, genuine smile, eye contact and all that other jazz.
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Post by molove on Jul 22, 2015 0:19:24 GMT
And sometimes it really comes down to there were great candidates and they had to make a hard decision and pick one. I always call that an embarrassment of riches. It's hard! But a good problem to have as an employer.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2015 0:25:32 GMT
Having interviewed a lot and read a lot of cover letters and resumes, I wish sometimes I could follow up and let people know how they could do better. But honestly I can't. Liability, etc. And honestly I don't have time to follow up with a phone call or in person meeting with those we don't offer a job to. I have more to focus on internally with the new hire and others. That may sound terrible, but I don't have time or energy to deal with someone we didn't hire.
But we don't do interviews for positions that aren't really open or ones where we already have someone in mind. I don't have time for that nor do we want to play those games. However, there are times when we have a position open and end up not hiring anyone at all due to not finding the right person/fit even though someone might look good on paper.
and eta: honestly you may not have enough "differences" if you are seeming to be such a good fit and the person is agreeing with every answer. Maybe you just need to be different. (This just occurred to me after you posted about never having conflict with others....maybe you need to..... they may not want someone who is a follower/copier/agreer)
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Post by christine58 on Jul 22, 2015 0:45:56 GMT
It's not much fun spending hours on essays and preparing for interviews for positions that are filled, for all intents and purposes. I completely agree.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2015 0:47:57 GMT
I'll give you an example of going the extra mile. The school asked what I was able to do beyond teaching that grade. I told them : religious ed, forensics, track, scouts. All of which I have done. I have that experience. I interviewed for a K5 job. In the middle of the interview they asked if I'd teach Algebra because I did teach it...20 years ago. I said yes. What more can I do? Just accept every job isn't meant for you. It's horrible, but what else can you do? Your answer to what you can do beyond teaching that grade sounds too personal to me (but I'm not a teacher). Excepting for coaching track, those aren't related to your teaching position. It's nice you are well-rounded, but perhaps they might have wanted more professional/teaching-related answers. For example, "I have taught algebra in the past and really enjoy mathematics, and I'd happily teach in that subject area again".
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Post by christine58 on Jul 22, 2015 0:48:23 GMT
I'll give you an example of going the extra mile. The school asked what I was able to do beyond teaching that grade. I told them : religious ed, forensics, track, scouts. All of which I have done. I have that experience. I interviewed for a K5 job. In the middle of the interview they asked if I'd teach Algebra because I did teach it...20 years ago. I said yes. What more can I do? Algebra??? I wonder if that was a set up?? As in let's see if she just agrees to teach whatever we ask??? To me that question is a red flag..
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2015 1:00:26 GMT
I'll give you an example of going the extra mile. The school asked what I was able to do beyond teaching that grade. I told them : religious ed, forensics, track, scouts. All of which I have done. I have that experience. I interviewed for a K5 job. In the middle of the interview they asked if I'd teach Algebra because I did teach it...20 years ago. I said yes. What more can I do? Honestly it sounds like you are too much of a pleaser and saying yes to everything.....that is NOT what they want. They want you to know your own boundaries and not say yes to EVERYTHING.
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Post by CarolT on Jul 22, 2015 1:31:16 GMT
In our interviews, we follow a script, are very passive (no feedback, no elaborations, no follow up questions), and do not imply there is an offer or extend an offer until we have interviewed all of the candidates and reviewed our notes and make a decision as a panel. This is all to ensure that all candidates have the same opportunities and that we do not create variables in the interview setting. We explain this to interviewees when they come in.
If we interviewed you (as an outside candidate) and you did not get the job, we really wouldn't be able to give you any feedback and would refer you to our HR department if you asked. Sometimes, with internal candidates that we already have a relationship with - someone applying for a promotion within our department - we may be able to provide some feedback or coaching if you asked for it.
Do you have any friends who are school administrators who would be willing to do a mock interview with you? If so, why not ask? BUT, keep in mind that it can be hard to hear someone give you a frank assessment of what you are doing right/wrong without being defensive, so if you do get someone to do a mock interview with you, be open to their coaching - don't make excuses or try to explain yourself. It won't benefit you if they can't give you genuine feedback that you take to heart.
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Post by lesleyanne on Jul 22, 2015 2:44:00 GMT
I'll give you an example of going the extra mile. The school asked what I was able to do beyond teaching that grade. I told them : religious ed, forensics, track, scouts. All of which I have done. I have that experience. I interviewed for a K5 job. In the middle of the interview they asked if I'd teach Algebra because I did teach it...20 years ago. I said yes. What more can I do? That was not the correct answer. I'm sorry. I am a department head and sit on the hiring panel with other school administrators. I kind of see where you appear to be. Don't be defensive, you've asked: you're trying to be everything to everyone. It's poor practice in teacher. Be good at what you're good at and OWN it. If you're a SpEd person, show how you inclusive practices are valuable to them in the K5 group. I also don't know this, so this may not apply. The best interviews and most hirable candidates in teaching are those who answer the question directly, succinctly and with an on-point example. Not rambly and diffuse. If we've asked about how you plan, talk about that and ONLY that until asked something else. If I was asked that question (and I teach 4th grade), I would reply: "My skill set is directed at late elementary students and I have very strong emergent and developing language literacy pedagogy. My greatest asset to the school is in that direction."
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Post by worrywart on Jul 22, 2015 4:14:01 GMT
I had a principal call me once and let me know that the job went to someone else. He said it was my inexperience against the other candidate. I was disappointed at the time, but have never forgotten his kindness in being honest and upfront, not to mention calling me back!!
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