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Post by redshoes on Aug 12, 2015 0:08:01 GMT
I am so sorry, what a heartbreaking loss of your son and little Abigail. I hope the next weeks and months are filled with peace and comfort for your family. (((Hugs)))
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Post by malibou on Aug 12, 2015 0:10:29 GMT
My thoughts are with you and your family as you navigate these difficult days.
J
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Post by TankTop on Aug 12, 2015 0:14:17 GMT
Sebastian and your family will be in my thoughts.
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 12, 2015 0:21:27 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Thinking of you and your husband, and Sebastian and your other boys too. xx
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Post by dewryce on Aug 12, 2015 0:22:17 GMT
Oh sweetie I am so very sorry for your loss. Many gentle hugs and thoughts for you and your family.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2015 0:23:41 GMT
I am so very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts. ((hugs))
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Post by psiluvu on Aug 12, 2015 0:31:27 GMT
I am so sorry to hear your update. May your family find comfort with each other during this difficult time.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2015 0:37:39 GMT
I am so very sorry for Sebastian. My heart breaks for you and your family. Prayers and hugs and strength sent your way.
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Post by Lexica on Aug 12, 2015 0:41:44 GMT
I'm so very sorry. Your family will be in my prayers.
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Post by Gravity on Aug 12, 2015 0:41:40 GMT
I am so, so very sorry. ((HUGS))
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Post by AllieC on Aug 12, 2015 0:42:01 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss of baby Sebastian. Sending you many prayers and comforting thoughts.
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Post by stumpedagainof3 on Aug 12, 2015 0:48:50 GMT
So sorry for the outcome.
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Post by melissa on Aug 12, 2015 0:59:29 GMT
I am so sorry to see this update. My heart dropped with the first update and, well, it just goes out to you and your family with the final update. Please, please, please, insist on seeing a geneticist, if you have not already. Two cases of renal agenesis or renal dysplasia in one family is too many to be coincidental as this is already so rare. You may gain very important information for your extended family as it can also be associated with being born with one functional kidney. There could be family members who are not aware that they only have a single functional kidney and it would be important for your children to know someday.
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Post by leftturnonly on Aug 12, 2015 1:04:42 GMT
I just read your heartbreaking news. I am so very, very sorry you have to live through this twice, and so close together.
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Post by mimima on Aug 12, 2015 1:06:54 GMT
I'm so sorry. May his sweet Memory be Eternal. Love to you
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Post by cakediva on Aug 12, 2015 1:13:09 GMT
Oh I'm so sorry - hugs to your family!
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Post by bearmom on Aug 12, 2015 1:16:42 GMT
So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers,
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Post by straggler on Aug 12, 2015 1:18:08 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know there are "cyber-friends" who care!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2015 1:21:24 GMT
Oh, I'm am so very sorry. I can't imagine how heartbreaking this must be for you.
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Aug 12, 2015 1:22:16 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear this latest update. Prayers and hugs coming your way.
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Post by fiddlesticks on Aug 12, 2015 1:25:27 GMT
I am so sorry for the outcome. You and your family will be in my thoughts in the days ahead.
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Post by scrappysurfer on Aug 12, 2015 1:26:22 GMT
I'm so sorry to read your latest update. May God give you the peace and strength you need to get through this difficult time.
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Post by linda~lou on Aug 12, 2015 1:26:54 GMT
May all the support you have here from people who you only know through a on line forum give you the strength to carry you through these sad times. It's powerful the comfort this group of amazing women can give to those in need.
I know you can feel the love, may it help in some small way.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2015 1:30:05 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family.
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Post by Butterfly Momma on Aug 12, 2015 1:32:32 GMT
I am so sorry to see this update. My heart dropped with the first update and, well, it just goes out to you and your family with the final update. Please, please, please, insist on seeing a geneticist, if you have not already. Two cases of renal agenesis or renal dysplasia in one family is too many to be coincidental as this is already so rare. You may gain very important information for your extended family as it can also be associated with being born with one functional kidney. There could be family members who are not aware that they only have a single functional kidney and it would be important for your children to know someday. Thank you for your comment, and yes, we are working with a geneticist and have been since finding out about Abigail. My MIL has a genetic disorder, along with my youngest brother-in-law, that with Abigail was considered to potentially be a weird stroke of coincidence (hence their determination that she was a lightening strike), although Sebastian has changed that for exactly the reason you stated - 2 cases in one family are too many to be "lightening strikes". My MIL/BIL are both supposed to undergo genetic testing. At this point we are trying to wait for that testing as obviously they are likely to give us the most concrete picture. However, if that does not happen then our geneticist will be testing my DH to try to narrow down what has caused this so that our living boys will be able to have that information should they choose to have children down the road.
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Post by Butterfly Momma on Aug 12, 2015 1:35:54 GMT
And thank you so much to everyone for your kind replies. We have a long road in front of us, which we are sadly well acquainted with. However, both my DH and I are working very hard to remain focused on what time we do have with sweet Sebastian and to love and nurture our three sweet boys. Today has been a long day ... in the middle of all of this my youngest two boys had their pet fish die, so there were two adorable, teary-eyed little boys in my house tonight. As I tucked them all into bed and kissed their foreheads, I was reminded again how truly lucky I am to have them. Three very healthy precious boys.
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Post by pierkiss on Aug 12, 2015 1:49:27 GMT
I'm so sorry. Gentle hugs.
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Post by grate on Aug 12, 2015 1:49:19 GMT
so very sorry
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 12, 2015 1:51:10 GMT
Not the outcome for which we all were hoping and I am so sorry for such heartbreak for your family. You seem to be a very strong person. I wish you all the best as you negotiate this sad road.
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Post by hdoublej on Aug 12, 2015 2:04:56 GMT
I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
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