scrappinmama
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Jun 26, 2014 12:54:09 GMT
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Post by scrappinmama on Aug 12, 2015 20:30:44 GMT
I'm so sorry to read your update. I will be praying for your family.
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Post by disneyjunkie on Aug 12, 2015 20:56:53 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.
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peabay
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Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Aug 12, 2015 20:59:41 GMT
Well, that just sucks. I wish there was a more flowery and dignified way of putting it but sucks is just what is is.
I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your family. I hope you can find some peace but certainly allow yourself time to grieve and rage against the world.
Please know I'm thinking of you and wishing you the best.
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Post by Sassy Sabrina SWZ on Aug 12, 2015 22:18:28 GMT
So sorry to read this heartbreaking update. Wishing you peace and comfort.
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The Birdhouse Lady
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Moose. It's what's for dinner.
Posts: 7,346
Location: Alaska -The Last Frontier
Jun 30, 2014 17:15:19 GMT
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Aug 12, 2015 22:25:13 GMT
I am so sorry to hear this. I wish you and your family nothing but the best for the next chapter.
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Post by anniefb on Aug 12, 2015 23:04:09 GMT
So sorry to read your latest update. Sending prayers to you and your family - hugs.
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Post by beachhappy22 on Aug 12, 2015 23:14:46 GMT
I am so sorry to read your update and hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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caro
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Jun 26, 2014 14:10:36 GMT
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Post by caro on Aug 12, 2015 23:21:01 GMT
I am so sorry for this update. I, along with everyone else, was hoping and praying for a different outcome. Big hugs.
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GiantsFan
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Jun 27, 2014 14:44:56 GMT
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Post by GiantsFan on Aug 13, 2015 0:34:46 GMT
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huskergal
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Jun 25, 2014 20:22:13 GMT
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Post by huskergal on Aug 13, 2015 0:44:53 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss especially with your dh away.
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Post by reedina on Aug 13, 2015 0:56:52 GMT
So, so sorry. Sending love.
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Post by Butterfly Momma on Aug 13, 2015 1:14:05 GMT
Thank you again everyone for your kind words and prayers. Some posters asked about my husband - he will be home this weekend and hopefully has the next week off before he's on the road again. His internet connection in Costa Rica is sketchy on a lot of his trips, but gratefully this time we have been able to Skype a couple of times. We don't have any family nearby (my parents do normally live with us, but spend the summers back East) but I have incredible friends. A friend dropped by tonight to ask if she could bring a meal to my boys and me tomorrow ... another friend kept my boys all day yesterday and is coming back on Friday morning so I can get out to my book club for a break ... another friend went with me yesterday to sit with me in between appointments and sat in Tim's for an hour letting me vent ... and it continues. When Abigail passed away my friends banded together and prepared meals for my entire family (I am the "cook" for my family, as well as my parents) for over three weeks, I was whisked away for a mani/pedi, my boys and I were taken out for supper and a movie, and again the list goes on and on. I also have an excellent medical team that I am able to turn to for mental health concerns, as well as the physical concerns. I am, by nature, a very optimistic person with a very real grasp on the world. I have dealt with major losses before (my father was killed when I was a child, my maternal grandfather/father figure died due to suicide the year before my father, I was divorced in my early 20's from an abusive marriage) but losing our Abigail was a soul wrenching loss that none of that could prepare me for. In some ways, she did help prepare me for my experience with our Sebastian, but I also know that every loss is completely different. All that to say this - you all have been a large part of helping me feel loved and cared for. I know we have never met in person and I honestly wasn't aware of how much a stranger's concern could mean until the last couple of weeks. I have read and re-read (many times!!) the messages that you have written and they mean so much to me. Thank you for taking the time to invest in a stranger - that is a wonderful gift! And my sweet boys now have a new betta fish. He is a very handsome boy named Buster II.
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Post by littlefish on Aug 13, 2015 3:33:13 GMT
Oh, I am so sorry for the loss of your Abigail and for Sebastian. Prayers for comfort and peace.
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Post by k8smom on Aug 13, 2015 4:32:20 GMT
Unfortunately the news I was given today was that Baby Sebastian doesn't have any kidneys or arterial support. So he will become an angel with our Abigail. My DH is in Costa Rica and it was hard to give him the news over email. We told our boys last night so that we could tell them together. At this point it feels like the worst case of deja-vu possible but I am also acutely aware of the beautiful life that I have. Life doesn't always turn out the way that we hope and dream. But it still has much beauty in it. I so appreciate your concern and support ... it means so much. I showed this thread to my DH and he was very touched by all of your concern for us. Thank you. Heartbroken. Absolutely heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry.
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TheOtherMeg
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Jun 25, 2014 20:58:14 GMT
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Post by TheOtherMeg on Aug 13, 2015 4:50:18 GMT
I'm so very, very sorry. Sending loving thoughts your way.
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Post by mamastone on Aug 13, 2015 13:20:00 GMT
I'm so sorry to read this. You will, and your entire family with be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by penguin on Aug 13, 2015 13:42:43 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Post by tomocus on Aug 13, 2015 17:13:37 GMT
Keeping you and your family in my prayers. So, so sorry your family is having to go through this.
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purplebee
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Jun 27, 2014 20:37:34 GMT
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Post by purplebee on Aug 13, 2015 18:08:45 GMT
So glad to hear that you have such a wonderful group supporting you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope your boys enjoy the Bettas, I have two of them, they are pretty.
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Post by twinks on Aug 13, 2015 19:29:37 GMT
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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saltymom
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Jun 25, 2014 21:44:44 GMT
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Post by saltymom on Aug 14, 2015 5:18:36 GMT
I cannot imagine the pain you have felt at the loss of your two sweet babies. I love their names... Abigail and Sebastian. Those are good angel names. Hugs and blessings to you.
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