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Post by scrappinmom3 on Aug 6, 2015 3:10:41 GMT
My dd and I went to a 4 year olds birthday party on Sunday. They cooked only hotdogs. We are doing whole30 and we can't eat hotdogs. I brought a veggie tray and we ate that and some fruit. Not a big deal.
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Post by akathy on Aug 6, 2015 3:12:20 GMT
I wouldn't expect anything in particular and would be thrilled just to be invited for dinner.
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 6, 2015 3:12:23 GMT
To be totally honest, if I was invited to a BBQ at someone's house I would be quite disappointed if they served hamburgers and sausages - especially disappointed if I was served hot dogs!! Of course I would NEVER EVER show that I was disappointed.
When we have people over for a BBQ we would usually cook a mixture of steak, chops**, sausages (mainly for the kids but gourmet sausages for adults), chicken wings, chicken kebabs and maybe hamburgers / vegie burgers. Plus a couple of salads of course.
** Is "chops" a word that you use, or is that just an Australian thing???
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Post by Country Ham on Aug 6, 2015 4:13:10 GMT
I would go home hungry but I wouldn't say anything. Personally it's one of the very few (as in count on one hand)foods I dislike. What are your sides?
ETA: It's not a matter of being a picky eater but more the fact I have never been to a cookout for adults where a hotdog was the main course and the only protein served.
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Post by jumperhop on Aug 6, 2015 4:29:31 GMT
Honestly I would expect something other than hotdogs. I have been to a few hot dog only bbq's this summer and been disappointed. Jen
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Post by tanya2 on Aug 6, 2015 4:32:23 GMT
another one here who can't eat hot dogs or brats - a really really really bad reaction while pregnant has scarred me for life!!!
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Post by Linda on Aug 6, 2015 4:45:28 GMT
I'm in the 'thanks for cooking for me' camp and would make a meal from the options you provide and not complain or judge. Just don't judge me if I skip the roll I usually let people know what I'm planning to cook (broad strokes not every detail - I'm having a dinner party in a couple of weeks and we're having roast pork with roast potatoes and several vegetables) and inquire then if there's anything that I should avoid when I invite them - that's their opportunity to say thanks but we don't eat pork for religious reasons or thanks, I'm allergic to tomatoes or thanks, I'm avoiding green leafy vegetables due to a medication or what have you. At that point I can suggest a menu change (would roast beef work better) or reassure them I didn't have tomatoes on the menu or mention that I am serving brussel sprouts but there'll be turnip and carrots as well or say, ok, hopefully you can make it another time. So in your case, I would say I'm planning to bbq some hotdogs and brats and then they all know what to expect
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Post by SabrinaP on Aug 6, 2015 5:06:06 GMT
I would be fine with that, but if it were my bbq I would offer at least one more choice.
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Aug 6, 2015 5:26:21 GMT
I'd be fine with whatever you wanted to serve. There are very few things that I won't eat. If you want to invite me over and cook for me, I'm in! If I were hosting, what I serve would depend on who is invited. Veggie burgers for vegetarians, gluten free options for those that can't/don't eat gluten, etc... I think it's a 'know your audience' kind of thing.
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Post by me0605 on Aug 6, 2015 5:40:08 GMT
I'm with many of the others- I just don't care for hot dogs at all, and I haven't had a brat since I was pregnant with my youngest (and he is 22!). We've done grilled chicken and grilled pork chops - and had buns to make them chicken and pork chop sandwiches.
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Post by AllieC on Aug 6, 2015 6:08:49 GMT
We generally don't do hotdogs at a barbecue in Australia. I don't think I have ever have a hotdog at one! We would more likely do sausages and usually with lamb chops and steak or chicken as well. If just sausages were being served with sides, we would call it a "sausage sizzle" - that way people know to expect simple
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Post by katiejane on Aug 6, 2015 7:04:34 GMT
I don't do hotdogs or burgers when doing a barbie. We usually have chicken, veg and fish. But that being said I would be happy to have a night off and eat them. As sides I would serve salad, maybe a pasta salad, homemade coleslaw, veg kebabs for any non meat eaters.
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Post by gar on Aug 6, 2015 9:05:49 GMT
AussieMeg, chops is a common word here....not sure about the US but I think I've seen it used in crockpot threads etc. As far as bbq expectations, we usually do a mix of sausages, burgers, chicken legs, steak etc as far as the meat is concerned. I wouldn't choose to eat a hot dog but I wouldn't be a rude guest either
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Post by camanddanismom on Aug 6, 2015 9:22:29 GMT
Just dogs and brats would be a problem imho. I know many, many people who don't eat them. You have 2 offerings, but they are too much the same.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 6, 2015 10:43:35 GMT
Eh. I would expect more choices then just hotdogs. How about chicken? Why don't you "feel" like doing hamburgers??
They are messy to grill, take up too much room on the grill and too many condiments. Also, my dh is a horrible griller, so I would be standing at the grill.
That being said, I think I'm going to do burgers. It's only 8 people so I should be fine. I'll do the burgers and good all beef hotdogs and skip the brats. Not sure if I want to serve chili - we do need to spend the rest of the evening with them.
Let us know how the Omaha hot dogs taste...are they all beef??
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Aug 6, 2015 10:56:49 GMT
Let us know what you decide...I'm a picky eater so I'm used to eating just sides if the hostess is serving meat I'm not sure about. Your BBQ, your choice.
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Post by purplebee on Aug 6, 2015 11:43:20 GMT
If you are only having 8 over, you likely already know if they eat hot dogs and/or brats. While I do agree that there is a trend lately not to eat processed meats, and I try not eat them, I do love a good grilled hot dog. I would be happy for an invite just based on the cheesy tater factor! Serve what you want and enjoy the gathering.
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Post by Meri-Lyn on Aug 6, 2015 11:44:18 GMT
A "bbq" here would have any combination of hamburgers, hot dogs, grilled chicken or tri tip. I would not like going to a bbq that only had hot dogs but that's because I hate hot dogs and won't eat them. ETA: I see you mentioned also doing brats. I don't eat sausage either. I have weird issues with some processed meats and I just can't bring myself to eat much of them even if they do taste good. Maybe I'm not the best person to answer this thread LOL. This is my DH. Knowing him, he'd probably offer to bring some burger patties and cook them up himself. hehe!
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Post by joylynaroundthebnd on Aug 6, 2015 11:58:22 GMT
When my sister and brother-in-law have us over, they tell us what they are grilling and tell us we are free to bring our own meat to cook and take home. Might as well use the grill while it is warm. I realize it is family and that option depends on how well you know the guests.
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Post by Country Ham on Aug 6, 2015 12:08:27 GMT
Our neighborhood seems to do a lot of "bring your own steaks" type of family BBQs. Host provides the sides and folks (usually family and close friend) bring their meat choices. A small steak can cost around 8 to 10 dollars so it can be hard to grill decent steak for a mass of folks. I was picturing you cooking for about 20 folks.
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Post by abr79 on Aug 6, 2015 12:12:56 GMT
Personally, I'd LOVE seeing just hot dogs and brats! They're my favorite! I'm really picky about how my burgers are cooked, so when I go to a BBQ, I never eat the hamburger (they're either too rare or too well done).
However, I do agree that having another meat option is a good idea and it looks like you're going to go,ahead and do some burgers. I second the pre-formed and frozen patties. If you're doing Omaha Steaks dogs, their hamburger patties are amazing, too. Makes it so much easier.
Also, since it's a small gathering with what I'm assuming is family, you could also ask ahead what they'd like for their meat. That's what we do when we have family BBQ's. It helps cut down on leftovers and everyone gets what they like.
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Post by kelly8875 on Aug 6, 2015 12:12:53 GMT
I wouldn't think you're lazy. Often times we have "things that go in a hot dog bun". People just know that to be hot dogs and brats around here. Super common!
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Post by moveablefeast on Aug 6, 2015 12:20:10 GMT
I assume that at a BBQ/cookout, what will be served is things that got cooked on a grill along with some stuff to eat alongside it. Outside food.
I was at a friend's pool party and BBQ and she served only sausages and sides. Different kinds but still only things in casing. I didn't think anything of it. It was just fun to go hang out.
But we are "hang out by the pool and order pizza" kind of people so we are pretty easy about get- together food.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Aug 6, 2015 12:21:58 GMT
If there were no kids there, I would prefer you didn't do hotdogs and hamburgers and serve something a bit more interesting.
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Post by giatocj on Aug 6, 2015 12:22:34 GMT
My brother invited us to a BBQ on Mother's Day and served calzone. The grill never saw a bit of work that day . For a more "normal" BBQ I would think any combo of meats/side dishes/cold salads. I think people either love or hate hot dogs, so I would definitely suggest having an alternative offering.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 6, 2015 12:32:04 GMT
I personally love hot dogs and will choose them over a hamburger or sausage. And yes to sauerkraut! Some nice side dishes and I'm happy.
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Post by anxiousmom on Aug 6, 2015 12:42:32 GMT
For me, bbq=the sauce on the meat. If invited to a cook out, I would assume chicken/ribs with bbq sauce kind of thing. I don't think I have ever been to one with brats? (regional differences?) But like everyone else, I am not about to dictate to the hostess what to serve. If I am not cooking I am as happy as can be and am willing to roll with what ever is laid out. If I don't care to eat a particular item, I won't.
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Post by corinne11 on Aug 6, 2015 12:53:11 GMT
To be totally honest, if I was invited to a BBQ at someone's house I would be quite disappointed if they served hamburgers and sausages - especially disappointed if I was served hot dogs!! Of course I would NEVER EVER show that I was disappointed. When we have people over for a BBQ we would usually cook a mixture of steak, chops**, sausages (mainly for the kids but gourmet sausages for adults), chicken wings, chicken kebabs and maybe hamburgers / vegie burgers. Plus a couple of salads of course. ** Is "chops" a word that you use, or is that just an Australian thing??? Your BBQ's sound just like ours! Marinated chicken wings, lamb chops, steak, pork spareribs and patties and as my Filipino son in law makes the best ever spring rolls, we usually have them as well. My daughter makes amazing potato salad and we usually serve a tossed salad along with beetroot and corn and some 3 bean mix. Sausages in bread are mainly for the kids although we do sometimes cook chipolatas.
I could not eat a hotdog or bratwurst sausage (or kransky as we have here), just my personal taste. I don't think I would ever serve just one type of thing in case guests didn't like it. But as a guest I would eat the salads and focus on enjoying the company. Corinne
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Post by melodyesch on Aug 6, 2015 12:54:46 GMT
For me, bbq=the sauce on the meat. If invited to a cook out, I would assume chicken/ribs with bbq sauce kind of thing. I don't think I have ever been to one with brats? (regional differences?) Yes, I think it's a regional thing. Growing up in the south, going to a BBQ meant something with sauce on it and usually was chicken and ribs. If someone said they were having a "cookout", then I'd expect both hamburgers and hot dogs. And I had never even eaten a brat until I moved to St. Louis. Although my DH would prefer a hamburger at a cookout, we both like hot dogs and brats so that wouldn't even be a blip. And the sides sound good. But personally, I would have some sort of non-processed meat as well. Unless it was people I know well. Then I would say, "hey, I'm cooking hotdogs and brats. If you want some other meat, bring it to throw on the grill."
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Post by ajsweetpea on Aug 6, 2015 13:16:03 GMT
I wouldn't think you are lazy but I'd be a little disappointed because I don't eat hot dogs (other than turkey dogs) or brats. Could you do another dish like grilled chicken if you don't feel like doing hamburgers? Also, if you want to cut down on prep time, you could buy those frozen Bubba hamburgers at the supermarket. I usually like to make my own burgers but my husband once invited friends over at the last minute for a barbecue so I just grabbed a few boxes of Bubba burgers. They were really good and I didn't have to spend a lot of time forming hamburger patties and putting in add-ons which was nice. Everyone raved about them too!
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