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Post by stampinbetsy on Oct 4, 2015 3:58:07 GMT
Granted, I am spending way, way too much time at the movies lately - thanks to the Disney Screen program - but it seems like people do things at the movies that I don't remember seeing in the past. Seems like people think nothing of showing up late. I don't show up super early to the Disney movies because I know I'm not going to have a problem finding a seat, but I have seen a lot of people who walk in 5-15 minutes after the movie starts. Today, a group of 4 or 5 came in about an hour and 20 minutes into the movie! A lady in the same movie (I think she was a grandma - she came in with 2 youngish kids - and was then joined by a younger guy with 2 more young kids) got up several times, then twice when she came back in, she was using her cell phone to try to get back to her seat. I think she was trying to use the flashlight on her phone, but it seemed more like she took a picture with the flash, which was facing sideways towards the rest of the audience and not down towards the floor. Has taking small kids to the movies always been a production and I've just forgotten because my kids are teenagers? I have seen several moms who seem to sit their kids down, spread a blanket or towel over them, and then give them popcorn or whatever. Then there was the couple who came in and sat down, then both of them got up (separately). The guy came back in and sat in his original seat, the wife came back in and sat at the opposite end of the row, then the guy moved down. Not sure what was up with that. Maybe I need to start sitting in the front row so I don't notice all this stuff so much! 
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Post by freecharlie on Oct 4, 2015 4:02:14 GMT
The people who came in over an hour late were probably movie jumping. Their movie was over, so they popped into yours.
What is wrong with giving your kids popcorn?
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Post by RiverIsis on Oct 4, 2015 4:10:14 GMT
yeah. We had a loud movie jumper that looked like he just came off the set of Duck Dynasty - the movie wasn't great but he didn't help.
Also people talk all the way through the movies like they are sat at home. Had the pleasure of sitting next to little Mr Chatterbox for a film and it wasn't a "children's" film.
Oh and you haven't had a movie experience until you have gone to a Denzel Washington film on opening weekend. There were a lot of "mmmmm" "girl" type comments from the audience. My youngest and I were laughing because it just was too stereotypical and funny and we were watching "The Equalizer"!
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Post by stampinbetsy on Oct 4, 2015 4:11:15 GMT
Nothing's wrong with giving your kids popcorn - I just don't recall ever making quite such a production of it as I've seen lately.
I have a hard time going to the movies without popcorn. lol
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Post by freecharlie on Oct 4, 2015 4:13:58 GMT
yeah. We had a loud movie jumper that looked like he just came off the set of Duck Dynasty - the movie wasn't great but he didn't help. Also people talk all the way through the movies like they are sat at home. Had the pleasure of sitting next to little Mr Chatterbox for a film and it wasn't a "children's" film. Oh and you haven't had a movie experience until you have gone to a Denzel Washington film on opening weekend. There were a lot of "mmmmm" "girl" type comments from the audience. My youngest and I were laughing because it just was too stereotypical and funny and we were watching "The Equalizer"! I forgot my translator, what does this line mean?
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Post by elaine on Oct 4, 2015 4:13:36 GMT
75% of the theaters around here have reserved seating with recliners. Other people coming in doesn't impact your viewing pleasure at all because the aisles are so wide. And the theater chain we go to most often -we saw The Martian there today - called The Alamo, not only has reserved seating, but they won't seat anyone once the movie starts.
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Post by stampinbetsy on Oct 4, 2015 4:19:11 GMT
And the theater chain we go to most often -we saw The Martian there today - called The Alamo, not only has reserved seating, but they won't seat anyone once the movie starts. THAT is exactly what I was thinking today - maybe movies should be like the opera and they won't let you in after it starts! The Disney Screen movies only have 2 previews (which, BTW, have been the same since the beginning of August - so tired of them), so the actual movie probably starts within 5 minutes of the listed start time. We did go to a "regular" movie (The Intern) last night, and I didn't notice some of these things as much, but the theater was pretty full. And I don't notice these things as much for the Cinemark Classic Series we also go to.
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Oct 4, 2015 4:44:48 GMT
75% of the theaters around here have reserved seating with recliners. Other people coming in doesn't impact your viewing pleasure at all because the aisles are so wide. And the theater chain we go to most often -we saw The Martian there today - called The Alamo, not only has reserved seating, but they won't seat anyone once the movie starts. Man I wish we had something like this around my way. All of our theaters are horrible!
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Post by kraft4fun on Oct 4, 2015 4:52:16 GMT
Couldn't say the last movie we went to, I think the premiere for Hairspray what 2007 or 2008?
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Post by marykate on Oct 4, 2015 4:52:01 GMT
I do think people treat "going to the movies" a bit differently nowadays. When I was a kid and a young adult (which was way back in the mists of time  ), going to the movies was a night out and a real treat: it was something a bit special. You wouldn't dream of showing up an hour late (what?! you've just missed half the show). But now, with Netflix and Amazon Video and various other modes of streaming movies onto a screen in the privacy of one's own home, movie-going has perhaps lost some of its glamour and allure, has lost that aura of 'special treat.' I guess it's not surprising that some people now treat the movie theatre as their own living room, since most of our movie-watching is now done in our own living rooms? One reason why I still like going out to the movies, though, is the popcorn: you just can't quite reproduce that greasy, salty (and ridiculously over-priced) movie theatre popcorn experience in your own kitchen!
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Post by freecharlie on Oct 4, 2015 4:55:16 GMT
I do think people treat "going to the movies" a bit differently nowadays. When I was a kid and a young adult (which was way back in the mists of time  ), going to the movies was a night out and a real treat: it was something a bit special. You wouldn't dream of showing up an hour late (what?! you've just missed half the show). But now, with Netflix and Amazon Video and various other modes of streaming movies onto a screen in the privacy of one's own home, movie-going has perhaps lost some of its glamour and allure, has lost that aura of 'special treat.' I guess it's not surprising that some people now treat the movie theatre as their own living room, since most of our movie-watching is now done in our own living rooms? One reason why I still like going out to the movies, though, is the popcorn: you just can't quite reproduce that greasy, salty (and ridiculously over-priced) movie theatre popcorn experience in your own kitchen! mmmm...popcorn....
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 4, 2015 5:12:39 GMT
75% of the theaters around here have reserved seating with recliners. Other people coming in doesn't impact your viewing pleasure at all because the aisles are so wide. And the theater chain we go to most often -we saw The Martian there today - called The Alamo, not only has reserved seating, but they won't seat anyone once the movie starts. Oh my gosh, isn't that the BEST? I will never go to any other type of movie theater again. I love it. My funniest story - it was me, my sister, and our two daughters in the theater. I am not kidding, no one else. Two women came in, walked into our row and one asked us if we would move down! My sister looked at me like WTF, and I told the woman "NO!" The entire theater is empty, sit somewhere else. I kept looking around for Candid Camera or something.
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Post by nitad on Oct 4, 2015 6:10:22 GMT
I'm just jealous that you have a Disney Screen Program! I want one too. I had to google to see exactly what it was and now I want one up her for us Canadian Disney-lovers!
and yes, there are annoying people at the movies but more often than not I can ignore them. I love going to the movies and it has to include popcorn...maybe even some M&M's too!
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Post by papersilly on Oct 4, 2015 6:38:34 GMT
75% of the theaters around here have reserved seating with recliners. Other people coming in doesn't impact your viewing pleasure at all because the aisles are so wide. And the theater chain we go to most often -we saw The Martian there today - called The Alamo, not only has reserved seating, but they won't seat anyone once the movie starts. We just got back from watching The Martian at our new local theater with reserved seating. It also has in seat dining. Worth every penny of the higher prices not to deal with theater jumpers and late comers when the theater is full and seats are reserved. No more waiting in lines to get in, dealing with people holding seats for friends who come late, being told to scoot down..... Reserved seating is the best!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2015 10:28:13 GMT
Hi, I don't think it's become more of a production, I think common sense and manners have disappeared. We took the 4 girls to the movies all the time. We made a point to be there 20-25 minutes before the movie, did bathroom before we hit the seats & would shoot for close to the isle. We always believed we were not going to ruin everyone's enjoyment.
Now that it is usally just hubby, youngest and I we have an amazing deal $5.75 matinee movies from 4-5:30. We hit that time and usally it is a quiet & more respectful crowd.
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Post by lindywholoveskids on Oct 4, 2015 12:27:01 GMT
Last time we went to our local multimate theater venue., there was a huge group of young kids ( maybe 16-20) who had been kicked out. There were 2 armed security guards around the scene, apparently they deliberately movie hop and cause a big scene, I would hope they would have been banned if indeed they keep coming back
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Post by marimoose on Oct 4, 2015 13:46:48 GMT
I go the movies all the time. I do not get up once the movie starts for potty breaks or anything else for that matter. I do see that many people do but I don't know why, maybe they have medical conditions, maybe they don't care about the movie, I just don't think about it much. I will admit that I enter the theatre after the previews start generally because I don't want to sit through 20+ minutes of stuff that doesn't interest me. I can usually time it pretty right because I ask my son, the theater worker, how many previews are in certain movies. I don't think this is as much of an intrusion on other people because I am not interupting their movie, just a temporary distraction possibly during previews. I definitely would not want to offend the people around me but I pay for my ticket just like everyone else so if I want to get their 5 minutes before showtime then that is my choice. I will add, if this makes a difference, I nearly always go to matinees, which are never busy and I don't go to opening weekend movies usually, because I do like to avoid the crowds.
If you do have talkers around then you can report it to the theater and they will deal with them - the downside is that you need to miss some of the movie to alert the management. My kids have stepped out to report underage kids and obnoxious viewers.
We all go the movies for enjoyment so you need to do what makes you enjoy your show.
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Post by oaksong on Oct 4, 2015 13:56:57 GMT
We saw The Martian yesterday at a theater with reserved recliner seating too! Looks like that was the thing to do on Saturday. Even still, someone came in about 20 minutes into the movie, and there was a kerfuffle about seating at the end of our row.
The man next to me had a strobe light message alert on his phone, which showed through his pocket. I could see it but he couldn't. Honestly, I've found that men and their phones are worse than teenagers.
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Post by stampinbetsy on Oct 4, 2015 14:20:24 GMT
I'm just jealous that you have a Disney Screen Program! I want one too. I had to google to see exactly what it was and now I want one up her for us Canadian Disney-lovers! The down side is that I am spending way too much time with my butt in a theater seat! And we've seen the same 2 previews for the last 2 months - if The Good Dinosaur doesn't hurry up and come out, I think I'm going to lose it.  But we bought quarterly passes ($40 each), so we've definitely gotten our money's worth out of it, even if we only see 2 out of the 4 movies each week. My sister is way jealous that we get to see all these movies!
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Post by anonrefugee on Oct 4, 2015 14:23:43 GMT
I expect a lot of movement at Disney movies, unless it's an evening show. It's hard for younger kids to judge the restroom timing- it doesn't mean their parents aren't trying to teach them. I haven't seen the beach towel but maybe it helps them settle down, whatever.
I prefer regular theatres over specialty style. I find the waiters annoying during the movie, and swiveling or reclining chairs distracting.
Isn't that funny how people can have different viewpoints?
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Oct 4, 2015 14:24:46 GMT
One reason why I still like going out to the movies, though, is the popcorn: you just can't quite reproduce that greasy, salty (and ridiculously over-priced) movie theatre popcorn experience in your own kitchen! It's true - you can't. But this Orville's comes pretty close!
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Post by jemmls4 on Oct 4, 2015 14:28:31 GMT
I'll first say I am the type to notice things yet not say anything or just suck it up and deal with it. However, in the last two years I have talked to the manager at two different theatres about people being loud and obnoxious in the movie theatre. Another time at a packed HP movie this girl, who obviously had no clue about HP, was asking her friend questions constantly. I tried the "mom look" first. I finally had to turn around and politely, yet firmly, ask her to stop talking.
I paid an awful lot of money to see the movie and I didn't appreciate the group of teenagers hanging over seats, using their phones, and talking all the time. The grown ups with the seat thing sounds weird. I do have to say, for the most part, people are pretty decent at movies in my area.
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Post by leannec on Oct 4, 2015 14:38:41 GMT
I went to see The Martian last night with a few ladies from my meetup.com group that I run ... one of them was texting near the end which was definitely not the time I needed to be distracted by a lit up phone  I don't understand dh's that can't just let their wives go out for more than two hours without checking on them 
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 4, 2015 14:56:03 GMT
I've been to exactly two movies in probably the last 15 years or so. We went as a family to Big Hero 6 when we were at Disneyworld last winter and it was fine, but it was a weeknight and the theater wasn't crowded. Then I took DD to see the newer Cinderella last fall when her dad was off hunting and it was just the two of us. It was my first experience with a theater with reserved seating and I had a mixed reaction to it. On the one hand, it was a little annoying to the uninformed (me) because I wanted to surprise DD and didn't know to go online to buy the tickets and choose the seats beforehand. By the time we got to the theater there were not two seats together anywhere in the entire theater.  There was no way I could put my four year old in a seat somewhere by herself and sit somewhere else myself. That meant I had to get seats for the next show where we could sit together which ruined the surprise element of it. I rolled with that because it was on me to know what the deal was and I didn't. On the other hand, the seats were very plush, the view was unobstructed and the aisles were wide, so that was nice. It also was crazy expensive considering it was one adult and one kid under five at a matinee showing, so that's only something I would do as a special treat. My top moviegoing pet peeve is when there is some obnoxious kid right behind me kick-kick-kicking my freaking seat throughout the whole movie. Drives.Me.NUTS! I will turn around and give said kid the stink eye at first, and if that doesn't work I WILL say something polite to attempt to stop it. If it still didn't stop, I would absolutely complain to management because that is completely unacceptable. I wouldn't fault a parent for attempting to settle their kid in at a theater before a show in an effort to keep them still and quiet, but I would hope that their doing so wouldn't be just as much of a distraction as the restless kid would be. We intentionally didn't bring our kid to a movie until we knew she would be old enough to sit through one and pay attention. Movies are too expensive to drag along little kids who really don't want to be there and make it a miserable experience for everyone else paying to enjoy the show. That's what DVDs are for! And don't even get me started on the annoying people who don't put their phones on silent in a movie theater before the show starts. There is absolutely NO excuse for that kind of rude behavior.
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Post by femalebusiness on Oct 4, 2015 15:39:01 GMT
As much as I used to enjoy the theater I just don't go any more. Between cell phones, screaming kids running around or kicking the back of your seat in movies that they shouldn't be seeing, rude adults, loud groups of teens and people who change seats every five minutes, it's not enjoyable. And you pay through the nose for the privilege, it is just not worth it.
I'd rather pay for a good steak dinner then watch the movie at home where I can put on my PJs, have a glass of wine, cuddle with the Hubs and be able to reverse and watch parts again.
I do wish they delivered the Movie Popcorn though. That is one thing that can't be reproduced and it is yummy.
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Post by anonrefugee on Oct 4, 2015 16:07:39 GMT
femalebusiness I'd never leave the house for a movie if they delivered the popcorn! Dream... During no - kid friendly movies the staff at local chain is vigilant about tapping on phone users. If it gets that far. Something's wrong with our town- peer pressure and seat-neighbors will nail you using a phone in a theater. But the poor teachers and school district can't stop kids in class. Ughh backwards!
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Post by gmcwife1 on Oct 4, 2015 16:35:56 GMT
As much as I used to enjoy the theater I just don't go any more. Between cell phones, screaming kids running around or kicking the back of your seat in movies that they shouldn't be seeing, rude adults, loud groups of teens and people who change seats every five minutes, it's not enjoyable. And you pay through the nose for the privilege, it is just not worth it. I'd rather pay for a good steak dinner then watch the movie at home where I can put on my PJs, have a glass of wine, cuddle with the Hubs and be able to reverse and watch parts again. I do wish they delivered the Movie Popcorn though. That is one thing that can't be reproduced and it is yummy. I agree. And it sucks that we would have to miss part of a movie because someone else was being rude.
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Oct 4, 2015 17:07:02 GMT
Whether is be the movies, a restaurant or Church more often than not there is a family who likes to let the rest of us know THEY HAVE ARRIVED!
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Post by bethquiroz on Oct 4, 2015 17:38:43 GMT
My biggest beef is parents bringing kids into movies that are WAY too mature for them. Even superhero movies! When we went to see the last Avengers movie, there were toddlers and preschoolers in there, whining, crying, and talking up a storm. Or when parents bring babies into the theater. When my kids were babies, we either got a sitter or just waited until the movie came out on video (usually the latter).
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Post by blarneygirl on Oct 4, 2015 17:49:05 GMT
My boys and I went to see Jurrasic World and there was a family with little kids. Boy and girl maybe 7-8 years old and a 1 year old. My kids and I arrived first, theater filled, they squeezed between us and other movie goers. The mom and baby were next to me.
The baby was very typical and squeaking, happy screaming, slamming the arm of his mother's chair up and down. Finally, he flung his bottle into the row in front of us. It was horribly distracting.
I did give the mother multiple shots of my best stink eye, and then when the noises began to escalate and occur in rapid succession I looked at her and said "please!" She YELLED at me that she had every right to be there, he's only a baby and I should have a heart!
The grandmother came storming down from a few rows above chastising me and telling me she would take the baby out. They left. The mother waited a few minutes and then said something else to me (that I didn't follow, I was back to trying to watch the movie) and got up and left (all of this back and forth was in front of us).
After that, the scenes got more intense and scary and the the little girl became very frightened, so the father took her out of the theater (crossing in front of us again) leaving the little boy in his seat. He finally retuned (crossing in front of us again).
Sometimes going to the movies isn't what it once was.
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