Post by luvnlifelady on Oct 9, 2015 13:06:20 GMT
Nothing too interesting to report.
I did start seeing a counselor for myself. I also straight up asked DH about it the other night. I said "are you in a relationship with your friend?" He said no. I was very calm and nobody got heated or anything. I'm still not convinced but at least now I will know he had a chance to come clean.
Things are fine with us on the surface but a couple of things had happened recently to make me still wonder about it. The good news is that DH has agreed to switch up the day based on my request. However, he went on a Thursday recently and took off work early to go. I asked him about that and he said "well I can't stay as late during the week." WTH?? He rarely takes off work early.
The other thing was I saw a text between them and DH said "I'm out for Friday, but Thursday works." The guy texted back "Thursday is better than nothing." Really? For someone you see every week?? Weird.
Today is his birthday. I was supposed to go to the Zac Brown Band concert tonight but don't feel up to it (DH had said I could go but didn't want to go himself). I figured DH would still go his friend's since that was the plan. However, he has now changed the plans to stay home so we can go out with DS. I didn't really expect him to change his plans since mine just changed yesterday but I'm glad he chose to do that one his own.
I did start seeing a counselor for myself. I also straight up asked DH about it the other night. I said "are you in a relationship with your friend?" He said no. I was very calm and nobody got heated or anything. I'm still not convinced but at least now I will know he had a chance to come clean.
Things are fine with us on the surface but a couple of things had happened recently to make me still wonder about it. The good news is that DH has agreed to switch up the day based on my request. However, he went on a Thursday recently and took off work early to go. I asked him about that and he said "well I can't stay as late during the week." WTH?? He rarely takes off work early.
The other thing was I saw a text between them and DH said "I'm out for Friday, but Thursday works." The guy texted back "Thursday is better than nothing." Really? For someone you see every week?? Weird.
Today is his birthday. I was supposed to go to the Zac Brown Band concert tonight but don't feel up to it (DH had said I could go but didn't want to go himself). I figured DH would still go his friend's since that was the plan. However, he has now changed the plans to stay home so we can go out with DS. I didn't really expect him to change his plans since mine just changed yesterday but I'm glad he chose to do that one his own.
NO!" 
