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Post by Deleted on Nov 19, 2015 14:12:23 GMT
Mine does as well...although it makes me chuckle....I color my hair, get manicures and pedicures...take care of my skin...dress nicely...and he looks like he climbed out of a laundry basket and away he goes....when I ask why his answer "I'm married" LOL...
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 19, 2015 14:14:08 GMT
My DH has never once commented on my haircuts and we've been married 36 years. I think that is weird, but it's better than saying something rude.
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Post by Merge on Nov 19, 2015 14:32:39 GMT
Mine doesn't care. I had a pixie cut when he met and married me in 1996, so I'm guessing he doesn't mind short hair. He did, however, make some objection when I talked about having a breast reduction. I want to do it anyway - he doesn't have to lug these things around all the time!
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Nov 19, 2015 14:39:36 GMT
my BF likes longer hair on me, and has said so... but it was more from a 'YOU look nicer with longer hair than when you had shorter hair' and when I look at the photos of me with the super-short hair I used to have, I do agree with him. And since my hair is now curly (it didn't used to be) then short hair would be pretty awful-looking on me.
Plus, I don't like the upkeep a shorter hairstyle requires; I can barely manage to get to the hairstylist 4-6 times a year, let alone the every 4-6 weeks a short could would take!
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on Nov 19, 2015 15:19:51 GMT
I am sure he does hate it because it isn't long but I really don't give a shit. Someone who cuts his own hair doesn't get an opinion on how my hair looks.
His looks like our granddaughter cuts it and he wears a ball cap all day even at work( apparently they have no dress code he works in an office ugh) so yeah he has no opinion or voice in how my hair looks.
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Post by sweetpeasmom on Nov 19, 2015 15:39:50 GMT
Mine prefers mine long. I have had it long most of our relationship. I have cut it short a few times. But long for the most part. Last time in protest of my haircut, he refused to cut his. Really dude? I'm ready to cut it off again. Just haven't pulled the trigger.
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Post by melissa on Nov 19, 2015 15:43:20 GMT
He'll get used to it!
My dh always preferred my hair long. It's a guy thing. One year, before we were ever married, I cut it pretty short. He saved some photos of me with that haircut to show me whenever I talked about cutting my hair short. I admit it was not the right style for me! Fast forward many years and many stylists, I now wear my hair shorter. It's somewhere between my ears and shoulders so not too short but not long either.
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Post by perumbula on Nov 19, 2015 16:41:19 GMT
Mine likes my hair long, but he says it's my hair and I should wear it the way I like. Right now I like it long. It looks good and I get a lot of compliments on it, but I can see getting to the point where I can't keep up with it. I may go short again and it's nice to know dh won't fuss about it and will still think I'm beautiful no matter how long my hair is.
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Post by compwalla on Nov 19, 2015 16:51:41 GMT
No, my husband has always said it's my hair, do with it what I want. It was shoulder length when we met and married, but for the past several years, it's been very short. I wash, blow dry and go. He definitely prefers that to all the time it took me to style my longer hair. I reciprocate by not caring if he shaves. I think he looks handsome with or without a beard or scruff. And since I'm not the one who has to lather up my face and shave, whatever makes him happy is fine with me. This is how we are as well. He has always said, "It's your hair, dear." I've had my share of hair problems this year. I lost about 80% of the hair in the front and on top and now that it's growing back it looks completely ridiculous. It's distinctly mullet-like since the sides and back didn't thin near as much. I wear a lot of stretchy head wraps and hats for now. I'm probably going to go drastically short in a few months to even it all out. If I did it now, my hair would be about 1.5 inches long all over. I'd like to let the regrowth get a little bit longer before I whack it all off to the same length. Anyway. I don't tell him what to do with his facial hair but I do love his goatee. Like a lot. But sometimes he gets sick of it and shaves it all off and I would never tell him I hated it or anything. It's just hair. Do you love the haircut or do you love the person? I'd be pretty pissed if said he didn't want me to do this or that with my hair. |
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Post by ~Susan~ on Nov 19, 2015 17:02:48 GMT
My DH could care less what I do with my hair. He does like it short though.
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Post by katiejane on Nov 19, 2015 17:07:50 GMT
My husband couldn't really care. My hair, my choice. Its been short and long. Its been red, brown, purple and pink. It's been streaked and dyed underneath. He has always taken his lead from me. If I like it he does. If I hate it, he reminds me it will grow back.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 19, 2015 17:25:43 GMT
My husband told me when we were dating that he likes longer hair on women. I have worn it shoulder length to long since I met him. I like it longer and can do a lot with it that way. He's grown facial hair and I hated it, so he didn't keep it. I think it is okay to have an opinion about what you like. I think it is important to be kind though. Now his mother hates long hair on women so that is a bonus. I think a person's face dictates what looks better on them and it really shouldn't matter.
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Post by mellyw on Nov 19, 2015 17:27:05 GMT
My DH doesn't care. In our 27 years together, it's been just about every color, chin length to nearly mid-back.
I've kept it pretty long the past couple of years, but it's still thick as hell & healthy. When I go shorter, it has to be thinned out alot to keep it under control.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 19, 2015 18:50:55 GMT
My husband has said he liked it best when it was shoulder length, like when he met me. I think that that's just how he thinks of me because that's what I looked like when we met. I have had it long and short and he always tells me I'm beautiful. He never says he doesn't like my hair, no matter how I wear it. The thing that gets me is that he said once he liked my hair best when it was shoulder length, but I will tell you, he complains constantly about it being in his face when we are intimate. He always wanted me to wear a ponytail when he got near me because he couldn't stand my hair in his face. Now that it's shorter again, he doesn't have to worry about that.
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Post by polz on Nov 19, 2015 19:31:18 GMT
Now that I've lost weight, I don't feel the need to hide behind my hair anymore. I want to go shorter but I don't want the upkeep. I asked DH what he thinks and because he doesn't want to make me mad, he says I would suit anything. Before he has said I'm not to ever get a 'lesbian's haircut'.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Nov 19, 2015 19:37:30 GMT
Hmm...I'm sure people would consider my short hair a lesbian haircut. I'm as hetero as it gets.
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 19, 2015 22:56:36 GMT
I remember coming home after getting my hair cut short for the first time ever and my ex (who wasn't my ex at the time) said "What the fuck have you done?!" I guess he didn't like me with short hair. I have an ex who said something similar. Huh, notice the pattern...... they're both EX !!!  |
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Post by ametallichick on Nov 19, 2015 22:59:41 GMT
I absolutely love short hair but if I cut it short (think Pink or Kelly Osbourne) he'd probably never talk to me again.
Plus with the weight I need to lose, it's not a good look at the moment. I don't have the face for it.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Nov 19, 2015 23:50:58 GMT
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Post by caangel on Nov 20, 2015 0:10:51 GMT
My DH prefers short hair (pixie). I have had several hair styles over the years and they are ever changing. I have grown my hair out (2-3yrs) and then cut it down to a pixie about 3 or 4 times, donating it each time. I always find it interesting that some people keep the same hair style for a decade or even several decades! My hair stylist said she loves when I come in cuz she gets to really cut hair not just give a trim. I told her I just like to make her work harder.  I don't mind my dh expressing his preference because he does it respectfully while honestly. I always know I can get an honest opinion from him. If I need a certain answer I just tell him what I need to hear from him (or what I don't need to hear from him). He gets that sometimes honesty is not what is needed. |
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