theshyone
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Post by theshyone on Dec 3, 2015 3:23:16 GMT
Talking middle school here.
Do teachers expect students to do it 100% on their own?
do teachers expect parents to help students through homework? What if parents can't help? Either time wise or knowledge base wise?
Specifically math.
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Post by nlwilkins on Dec 3, 2015 3:52:54 GMT
I wasn't a Math teacher, but taught various vocational courses throughout my career. In the geographical area I taught in, I was thrilled to just get any homework turned in. So any homework I assigned was to get the student more time with the subject matter. Any way the family chose to do it was fine with me. My last few years, I taught home and family courses so it was great to think that perhaps parents or other family members helped with the assignment.
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Post by perumbula on Dec 3, 2015 3:55:48 GMT
Are you going to be there for the test? I think that parents should be available to help with small things like if a child is struggling with one concept, but sit there and coach through the whole thing? Crap no. The kid needs to be able to do the assignment. Like I tell the kids when I sub, I already passed middle school, it's their job to do the work.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2015 4:00:03 GMT
I am a former middle school math teacher. I expected students to try all the homework on their own. If they needed help, I had no problem with them asking their parents. If they couldn't figure out the problem at home, I told them to bring it to school the next day and ask. If they asked, I would do the problem in class and I would tell them to copy it over. If there were a ton of questions, it was usually a sign that we needed to spend more time on a topic. This was at a private school so I had a lot more flexibility in my teaching. I have gone back to the public school and there is a lot less teacher choice on how things are taught. I won't get into that.
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Post by kels99 on Dec 3, 2015 4:01:35 GMT
I was a Jr High math teacher and I assumed the kids were doing homework on their own with some help from parents if needed. I figured it was my job to make sure they knew the material so I stayed after school almost everyday for study sessions.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2015 4:02:46 GMT
For kids without special needs, including learning disabilities, I think kids should definitely be doing their homework 100% on their own by middle school.
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Post by SabrinaP on Dec 3, 2015 4:14:37 GMT
I teach 6th grade math and I expect the kids to be able to do the work. I teach in an elementary, so I have a lot more class time than he teachers in our middle school. The middle school teachers have tutorial times every morning before school and every afternoon after school. They expect any student struggling to show up to tutorials for extra help.
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 3, 2015 4:15:08 GMT
Parents should be cheerleaders and help kids in a limited capacity like find the info they need to complete something. When I taught, homework was always something we had practiced in class for enough time for them to have mostly mastered the concept. Now every kid will need things done a bit differently too. What works for one doesn't always work for the other. If you can't help, try Khanacademy.org. It has thousands of concepts. Good luck.
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Post by worrywart on Dec 3, 2015 4:15:21 GMT
Yes, I expect kids to try and do their homework on their own but have no problem with them asking parents/siblings etc for help if needed. They are also encouraged to get online and look for help if they are stuck and have no one to help them. At the same time, I do not want them spinning their wheels spending hours trying to do something that they have no clue about.
Also, they should come in for help before school if they don't understand something.
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Post by freecharlie on Dec 3, 2015 5:31:16 GMT
I teach hs, but have a middle schooler and a 9th grader. When they need gelp, I help them. Sometimes we have to look it up together. Parents that are available to help with homework and understand it typically will help.
Students ask me questions in class. I'd prefer they get help when they need it so that they can learn what they need to learn.
MO parents won't be there on the test, but that doesn't mean they cant help their child prepare.
Hell there were assignments in college that I got help on.
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Post by theshyone on Dec 3, 2015 6:00:52 GMT
I had two different teachers from two other countries than me, help puzzle it out. I'm still not sure of the why it works either. But the answer fulfills the requirements.
A grade 10 honour student, myself and kid in question who generally is a math WHIZ extradainairre couldn't get it.
So frustrating.
It's due Monday, it's a long weekend, no time to ask questions before it is due.
DS doesn't miss much for math concepts, but oh my, when he does, it's an EPIC mess.
Thx for input. I've never had a teacher offer before or after school help for him. Work to take home, work to review, but no offer on help.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Dec 3, 2015 6:04:18 GMT
Hell there were assignments in college that I got help on. Yup - me, too. And I remember asking my dad for help with algebra in high school. As a teacher, I don't expect parent help, but I disagree there's anything wrong with middle school students seeking help from others. Before the Internet, we only had human resources (older siblings, parents, friends). I don't think we should discount that option.
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Post by Basket1lady on Dec 3, 2015 6:10:09 GMT
I teach hs, but have a middle schooler and a 9th grader. When they need gelp, I help them. Sometimes we have to look it up together. Parents that are available to help with homework and understand it typically will help. Students ask me questions in class. I'd prefer they get help when they need it so that they can learn what they need to learn. MO parents won't be there on the test, but that doesn't mean they cant help their child prepare. Hell there were assignments in college that I got help on. This is my philosophy about homework as well. Sometimes it helps to have someone go over a concept in a different way than the teacher teaches it. DS had an entire math class (Algebra 2) where the kids would solve a problem, then the teacher would ask who solved it a different way. He loved that and now tutors students with the same ideas. He's a college freshman and an engineering major, taking a sophomore level Calc class. Even he goes to the math lab for sticky problems. I don't think asking a parent for help is any different than paying someone for help. The key is that the parent shouldn't DO the work, but explain the process. Then there are things like writing. DS went to a HS where the teachers had 160-180 students per day, with an odd/even schedule. So that meant that at any given time, they had 350 ish students to teach, papers to correct, tests to grade. It just isn't possible to give that many students advanced help. DS was a horrible writer until his senior year. He had the grammar down, but just couldn't compose an essay to explained his point of view well. We worked on well over 20 essays last year and his writing has improved 10 fold. It went from me marking every error on the first essay to telling him he had 2 words misspelled and paragraph 3 needs a sentence connecting 2 ideas by the end. He reported today that he got a 94 on his theology paper, so he got it somewhere along the way. He just needed help getting there.
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Post by trixiecat on Dec 3, 2015 11:48:19 GMT
I am going through this now with my 8th grade daughter. She is is advanced math and for the first time math is not coming easy to her. Almost every night she has a few problems she is struggling with. Luckily the teacher allowed them to keep their math book at home for reference and homework. The school also has what is called resource each day. It is a 30 minute period to get homework done or to go to a teacher for help. She refused to go because it makes her feel "stupid" in front of the other kids. Ugh! But luckily the resources are there for her to get help.
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Post by anxiousmom on Dec 3, 2015 11:57:17 GMT
I expect the boy to do 100% of the work himself. Right up until he can't, then he is welcome to ask for help from whatever source is available. Me? I stopped being able to help with math around 7th grade, but in the proofreading I am THE go to person in the house.
But I think there is a huge difference between asking for help and having some one else do the homework for you.
For us, it is more like a socratic method of learning rather than me telling them what's what. If one of the boys asks for help, there is discussion, sometimes consultations with other people or the internet, but at no point do I 'help' to the point of doing the work for them. Last semester the older boy and I had a discussion by text with him asking for clarification about a period of Chinese history that I am familiar with (my degree is in Asian History.)
By middle school, I did expect the kid to be driving the bus not me. Beyond reminding the boys to do their homework, I wasn't involved at all unless asked (and didn't think I should have been.)
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Post by Dalai Mama on Dec 3, 2015 12:04:45 GMT
I don't help with homework so much as fill in the knowledge gaps, helping them understand concepts that will allow them to do the work on their own.
My kids won't ask for help unless they are really stuck because they know that I will pile on the questions until I know they understand what they are doing. In many cases, asking mom doesn't lighten the workload, it makes it heavier.
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Post by AnotherPea on Dec 3, 2015 12:29:21 GMT
My dd struggles with math. She can get something in class and be clueless two hours later. It is her job to do the homework. It is my job as a parent to prepare her for adulthood. If that means learning statistics do I can teach it to her in the evening, so she can earn her diploma, I will
As a teacher I expect kids to do their own work. If they don't understand something and need to talk it out with someone else, why do I care? The goal is for them to learn.
I do think math homework is very different than homework in other subjects. Kids need the practice.
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Post by melanell on Dec 3, 2015 13:26:12 GMT
I do help when asked. I won't do the actual work, though. I will create extra problems for math to explain the process so that he can try out his homework problem on his own. I will help him study. I will give him my interpretation of what n assignment is looking for, etc.
I think kids need to learn to do as much as possible on their own, but I also realize that in real life, we sometimes need help, so I also want to encourage him to look or ask for help when needed.
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Post by grinningcat on Dec 3, 2015 13:32:16 GMT
Yes, middle school teachers expect the kids to do it on their own. My friends who are teachers despise the clingy parents who can't let their kids go and do things on their own. My friends are trying to teach their students to survive school and succeed... but mommy and daddy (though mostly mommy) can't let go and won't let their kids do it on their own.
In the circles I travel, kids are expected to be self-sufficient and self-advocating by high school (grade 9) and parents don't intervene at all past grade 11. That my friends are seeing this shift to over-parent involvement concerns them greatly.
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 3, 2015 14:16:13 GMT
I had two different teachers from two other countries than me, help puzzle it out. I'm still not sure of the why it works either. But the answer fulfills the requirements. A grade 10 honour student, myself and kid in question who generally is a math WHIZ extradainairre couldn't get it. So frustrating. It's due Monday, it's a long weekend, no time to ask questions before it is due. DS doesn't miss much for math concepts, but oh my, when he does, it's an EPIC mess. Thx for input. I've never had a teacher offer before or after school help for him. Work to take home, work to review, but no offer on help. In my kids' schools teachers always offered before/after school help and most teachers gave up lunches to help students. I would find out from the teacher if extra help is available. Kids often need a few minutes of reteaching to understand. Like I said before, Khanacademy is amazing for math. It has short videos simply presented on a chalkboard with a narrator.
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Post by underwatermama on Dec 3, 2015 14:52:59 GMT
Generally, yes, I expect homework to be a solo project at a certain age. That said, last year was the year from hell for my then 8th grader's math (algebra). The teacher was awful and would assign work that she hadn't taught yet. Every night. So, DS would ask DH for help, DH would do a math lesson, DS would do his homework and then he would help the other kids in his class via skype. He got a A in the class and the teacher was fired due to numerous parent complaints.
Thankfully dh could help ds. If not, I probably would have taken him to the library for free tutoring or something.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Dec 3, 2015 16:49:44 GMT
Alison's teacher definitely expects her to do it alone. She assigns almost all computer-based homework now, so it isn't like she has a worksheet for me to check over. Alison knows that my expectation is that she do the computer based modules until she makes a 100 - no excuse for less when you can take it over and over - and that she let me know if she has questions. Sometimes in math, a different perspective really helps - I remember one time when she had been struggling with a concept for a few days, I showed her how I would do the problem. She looked startled and said, "Oh, its just ratios." Sometimes, it just needs to click.
Her school also has before school options for getting help. They have a math, English, and science teacher on duty every morning to help.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2015 17:04:31 GMT
If my kids ask for help, I reteach the concept and give them more problems to go through the problem-solving process. LOL That makes them think twice before asking. I don't think there was anything DH or I couldn't help with. DD was asking her dad for help through college. He's good at putting something into context.
OP Are you talking about walking your kid through their homework every day? I have a friend who did that with her daughter (edited/wrote all her papers and answers, checked over all her math problems) all the way through high school. Daughter is having a rough time in college, and still sends her papers to mom for "editing."
We've had both kids' friends come over for chemistry and calculus tutoring for a long time. Sunday afternoon open tutoring session with cookies. Honestly, they seem to learn best when they are teaching each other. Nothing like having to teach it to your partner to learn a lesson.
The MS/HS teachers all stay after for about 45 minutes every day after school with open doors. Kids can drop in to do homework, ask for extra help, get a review for a test, or take a makeup quiz. Pretty much all the students take advantage of it some time or another. I have to give kudos to the teachers and administration for having that in the contract.
It's part of growing up to learn how to find the resources you need to solve problems. By the time they finish high school, they should be capable independent work.
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Post by 1girlygirl on Dec 3, 2015 18:58:30 GMT
I would think the expectation is that the student is doing the homework without help - meaning try to work through the problems, do the work. I asked for clarification and examples from my parents growing up, and I'll help my kids if they need it. My middle schooler searches on the internet if she's at home and can't figure out a problem; there are so many great resources available!
My youngest's school has completely done away with homework, except nightly reading because they felt the parents were doing too much. My only complaint is that we aren't getting much info at home about what they are working on, since graded papers are few and far between as well. Asking a 2nd grader what they are doing at school is like speaking to a wall - I get no answers : )
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Post by theshyone on Dec 3, 2015 19:33:36 GMT
OP Are you talking about walking your kid through their homework every day? Sometimes he just doesn't get a concept. Those days devolve into chaos. He is unable to see some things for different directions. Word problems that give the if/or fulfillment requirements just baffle him. Then full shutdown occurs. The problem last night, 1 problem, a hour, unsolved. As the numbers he got to a certain part were technically correct, but the next numbers couldn't be solved because of those numbers and the last requirement. This morning another 3/4 of an hour and I'm throw in the towel, no more. It scares me because if simple word problems are ending in this result, what will advanced algebra do. Some math he is a WHIZ in, some it's like a kindergartener, and I'm left wondering what to do.
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Post by seaexplore on Dec 4, 2015 1:56:56 GMT
I am a former middle school math teacher. I expected students to try all the homework on their own. If they needed help, I had no problem with them asking their parents. If they couldn't figure out the problem at home, I told them to bring it to school the next day and ask. If they asked, I would do the problem in class and I would tell them to copy it over. If there were a ton of questions, it was usually a sign that we needed to spend more time on a topic. As I middle school math teacher.... Yes! All of the above! (I removed the last line)
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2015 11:22:31 GMT
I agree about them trying on their own. We have our youngest DD finish the homework. We then go over it, we mark the ones wrong and we walk through it together and find the mistakes. She then corrects and viola, she understands the material a bit better. Anything she can't figure out we find something online or look over her notes and figure it out. By we, I mean I sit and ask questions or will draw up examples. Never do it for them, even if they are wrong, ask and have them try to work it out. You can guide but should never do.
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