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Post by twoboyzmom on Dec 14, 2015 13:25:12 GMT
Where u are in a horrible mood, mad at everyone, don't care what goes on...and have NO idea why!?
This has been me all weekend...my dh and boys want to bury me I think..lol
And this morning, I'm at a light going to work, spacing out, then all of a sudden just turned left....on a red light!!!!! No idea why!! I pulled over and cried...
Stressed? Sure...been a rough few weeks. But OMG!!!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2015 13:28:58 GMT
That was me on Saturday. Pissed off at the world...and everyone in it. I definitely know I'm stressed: 2 girls who are extremely busy plus a SO who travels a lot for work and can't always help with the driving.
Ugh! Hang in there. We'll get through it. Hugs!
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Post by gailoh on Dec 14, 2015 13:31:45 GMT
Oh yes and still get that way at my age...old...
Talking here is helping me to handle some of it but there are times I could spit nails...
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Post by twoboyzmom on Dec 14, 2015 13:36:40 GMT
Thanks ladies. ..I just hate feeling this way...and hate being snippy with family but one of those things  |
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Post by Merge on Dec 14, 2015 13:58:05 GMT
I finally saw my doctor about that kind of thing, and have been diagnosed with moderate depression and anxiety.
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Post by anonrefugee on Dec 14, 2015 14:16:17 GMT
Yes.
And I'll be slammed for this but...
Depending on your age hormone supplements might help.
I had to start them for a different reason and they are amazing for all the testy mood stress concerns. The benefit outweighs risk with my history.
If I'd known, I would have done them sooner.
(Your "spaced out" comment caught my attention. I'm normally laser focused, good memory , but was starting to look like my ADD family.)
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Dec 14, 2015 14:18:14 GMT
When I am like that, it is hormonal. Either PMS or my thyroid condition is not optimally treated.
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Post by lindas on Dec 14, 2015 14:24:18 GMT
Oh that was definitely me yesterday. Everything DH did or said just rubbed on that one last raw nerve.
It started Saturday night when he came back from the store and proudly announced he had bought my favorite cookie. Not only did he buy a package of cookies I've never in 45yrs of marriage brought in this house but I had just remarked earlier that I needed to lay off the sweets, 3 extra lbs was making me feel like a bloated cow. It it just went downhill from there.
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Post by twoboyzmom on Dec 14, 2015 14:24:20 GMT
I'm 41. Don't think It's pms...
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Post by genny on Dec 14, 2015 14:25:50 GMT
Yes, and I'm there with you right now! We'll get through it and get right again. But for today I'm feeling very 'bah humbug'!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2015 14:28:37 GMT
Yes and it's becoming more and more frequent, my moods are horrible. At 46 I'm thinking it's perimenopause related and it's not fun, my Mum actually asked me last week why I'm so mean all the time. I'm working on recognising when I'm in that mood and trying to conciously change how I feel. I'm stressed pretty much all the time but that's no excuse for behaving like a giant bitch  |
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Post by ro on Dec 14, 2015 14:42:26 GMT
Hugs to you twoboyzmom. Yes I've been in that space and it's terrible. |
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Post by melissa on Dec 14, 2015 14:49:55 GMT
I am confused by the statement "I am 41, I do not think it is PMS." PMS can actually worsen in the perimenopausal years. It is common.
That said, after my ovaries were removed and I became menopausal, I no longer had days like that unless there was an identifiable cause (hunger, lack of sleep, etc). Those sorts of days completely disappeared once my hormones stopped changing.
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Post by twoboyzmom on Dec 14, 2015 14:52:05 GMT
I didn't mean I don't think it's pms because I'm 41...I was answering 2 questions in that statement..lol
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Post by joylynaroundthebnd on Dec 14, 2015 15:01:29 GMT
I am that way at work, does that count?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2015 15:39:58 GMT
At least once a month I have unexplainable anger or bad mood. I have an app that tracks my period and it also tracks symptoms if you remember to put those in. I tried that for a few months and found that these bad moods pop up a few days or so before my period starts. I pointed it out to dh and he said I already figured that out.
Stupid hormones.
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Post by sharlag on Dec 14, 2015 15:46:57 GMT
I had a little fit of rage yesterday, because I was tired of hurting (canker sores).
It makes me really feel for people with chronic pain.
OP, That's scary about the left on red! Take care!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Dec 14, 2015 15:56:49 GMT
I have moments like this. I had a really bad day on Saturday. Then my period showed up early yesterday and it was like I had aha moment. That explained part of it.
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Post by MaryMary on Dec 14, 2015 16:07:18 GMT
When I am storming around angry at everyone, I will stop and count and yeah... PMS every time.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Dec 14, 2015 16:07:42 GMT
I have days like that, too-- Saturday was one of them... after thinking about it later, it was (mostly) fueled by not being able to find something I wanted while I was out shopping, driving way out of my way for nothing, and having a lot of stuff going wrong all at once.
I've been getting double-irritated with things, too, because I'm taking a new medication that *can* cause increased irritability, so whenever I'm annoyed about something my BF will jump right to "you seem more irritated than normal; are you sure that medication is safe?" which makes me even MORE annoyed!! He doesn't seem to remember that I would get annoyed about things PRIOR to taking the medication...
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Post by farmdpea on Dec 14, 2015 23:02:40 GMT
I think we all have days like that. One coworker will sometimes say "I'm getting on my *own* nerves!" I thi k that explains it pretty well.
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