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Post by shevy on Feb 18, 2016 19:04:57 GMT
better? My husband and I are thinking about doing just that. We live in MN where it is grey, cold and depressing from November to March (sometimes longer). My family had a condo in Arizona and I used to go down for a visit each winter. I haven't been there in about 8 years, until this month. Ahhh. Bliss. Sun, blue sky, no snow (other than the snow we drove to). So we seriously talked about moving, what we'd need to do and how long it would take us to get it done.
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Feb 18, 2016 19:14:02 GMT
We moved from Portland Oregon to Medford Oregon To get my daughter out of the grayness from October to April. She has SAD. IT is better known as winter syndrome
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Post by hollymolly on Feb 18, 2016 19:20:15 GMT
I haven't because I already live in the south, but I would. I know that I can't live where the snow stays on the ground all winter. It's bad enough here when the days get short or we have too many gloomy overcast or rainy days. To have endless cold and snow would be very mentally unhealthy for me.
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Post by bluepoprocks on Feb 18, 2016 19:24:05 GMT
I've never done this but if I had the opportunity to do that I would.
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Post by maryland on Feb 18, 2016 19:42:46 GMT
When my husband retires, we will move to Florida. We love hot weather and sunshine. We live in southwest PA and average 59 sunny days a year. It's very depressing, and all my friends that moved here for work plan to leave as soon as they can. The lack of sunshine and so much gloomy weather really bothers many people. I wouldn't be surprised if many of my "neighbors" are still neighbors in Florida!
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Post by bc2ca on Feb 18, 2016 19:58:05 GMT
It wasn't because of depression/anxiety that we moved from the PNW to CA, but when anyone asks why we stay, DH & I always answer "the weather". We have had a few gloomy days this winter, including today, and every time it reinforces what a difference sunny skies make to your outlook.
My parents were never true snowbirds, but always headed to the sun for 3 weeks in Nov & Feb/March. Talking to my dad yesterday, the gloomy weather is really getting him down but he doesn't want to fly anymore so I haven't been able to persuade him to visit.
It seems like half our Canadian friends have been buying second homes in Palm Springs or Phoenix in the last couple of years. Right now they are using them for a few weeks at a time in the winter with the plan to spend up to 6 months when they retire.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2016 20:03:05 GMT
We have a great climate here, people move here eastern wa BUT The wind. Can drive you insane.
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Post by AN on Feb 18, 2016 20:21:10 GMT
It wasn't the reason we moved, but winter is so much more emotionally bearable in Dallas vs Chicago. End in sight, no pressure to go places when it ices/snows for the majority of professions, beautiful days sprinkled throughout the winter to keep your hopes up.
I think there is a big risk of disappointment if that is the only reason you move, but if you end up closer to family, can find good jobs, enjoy the scenery and shopping/cultural options, and otherwise are happy about the move, it is great. There is a flip side, you may want to visit in summer before making any decisions, especially AZ. Dallas isn't much worse than Chicago was on average in the summwr and when factoring humidity.
Moves aren't permanent decisions. They are expensive and disruptive, so you should be 90% sure, but you can undo it in most cases if you really regret your decision.
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Feb 18, 2016 20:29:59 GMT
I have a friend who has committed to a 5 year plan to move from Kansas to a warm location with a beach. She feels that it's the environment that she thrives in.
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Post by happymomma on Feb 18, 2016 20:48:09 GMT
We have a loose three year plan to move from Michigan to California, depending on several factors. We are just in the very beginning stages of considering this, gathering information, etc. The weather is the #1 reason, though mostly for physical reasons that lead to some pretty depressing days. Moving snow around is just getting to be too much, and being 'locked in' all winter long, tied to a wood boiler system for heating the home, etc. leads to a bleak attitude.
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Post by Freefallfast on Feb 18, 2016 20:49:43 GMT
This is the first year I've been cold. I am a northern girl and enjoy the change of seasons. I wonder as I age if that will change. I get anxiety when it's hot and humid. I feel like I can't breathe. Plus my friends are more available to scrap with me in the winter. I just basically have anxiety and hopefully the weather won't be a factor. I can deal with summer cuz it doesn't last long.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Feb 18, 2016 20:55:59 GMT
Funny, I did the exact opposite. Grew up in Los Angeles and spent most of my adult life living in the south. We moved to Nebraska 10 years ago and I love the seasons. We don't get a ton of snow in Omaha, but it gets cold and we have the brutal winds. It also gets HOT here in the summer. I never appreciated the change of seasons like I do here.
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Post by ilikepink on Feb 18, 2016 20:57:34 GMT
When I moved out of NJ 5 years ago, one of my "must haves" was warmer weather and close beach access. I couldn't see myself staying in NJ where I got cold in October and didn't get warm until March. Drove me nuts. Here, I'm a little cold for a few weeks, and while I'm a little crazy about it, I know there is an end in sight.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Feb 18, 2016 21:00:18 GMT
I admit I get a little cagey by the end of March when winter drags on. But I can't ever imagine leaving Michigan and the seasons.
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Post by 3jaysanc on Feb 18, 2016 21:03:21 GMT
I haven't because I already live in the south, but I would. I know that I can't live where the snow stays on the ground all winter. It's bad enough here when the days get short or we have too many gloomy overcast or rainy days. To have endless cold and snow would be very mentally unhealthy for me. I am trying to move away from the South. I have never been so unhappy somewhere as I am here. Hate everything about it. I grew up in the North and lived in California for awhile. I think Cali is where I need to stay. If I had the opportunity/means to move TODAY, I would.
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Post by catck on Feb 18, 2016 21:06:48 GMT
I would love to move to California. For the past 3 years we have gone to Palm Springs in late August just so I can store up the glorious heat and sunshine before the grey days of Seattle drag me down. I hope that one day I will be a California Old Lady
Christine
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Post by mallie on Feb 18, 2016 21:06:54 GMT
That is our game plan, the sooner the better. My dh has SAD and Raynaud's Syndrome and I now have a severe Vitamin D deficiency that barely is improved with supplements. Plus my allergies that seem to worsen by the week. Our doctors told us both to move asap. (The problem is finding jobs. No luck yet in 18 months of searching.) I am not exaggerating when I say that every day from November through April is a slogfest of endurance and nothing else.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Feb 18, 2016 21:09:15 GMT
I have a sister that is bi-polar. She moved from Washington to Arizona and she is doing so much better. It's a combination of the weather, activities, moving away from a not understanding family and her medical care. Mostly it's the lifestyle change that is helping her - the weather/activities and being away from the family.
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Post by stittsygirl on Feb 18, 2016 21:29:35 GMT
Funny, I did the exact opposite. Grew up in Los Angeles and spent most of my adult life living in the south. We moved to Nebraska 10 years ago and I love the seasons. We don't get a ton of snow in Omaha, but it gets cold and we have the brutal winds. It also gets HOT here in the summer. I never appreciated the change of seasons like I do here. This is how I feel. We spent the last 13 years in Arizona and Texas. Now we're in western Washington and they're going to have a hard time prying me out of here, even with all the rain. I'm just done with the heat of the south, and especially the humidity in Texas. It might be a different story if we got a lot of snow here, but we don't. I have also been diagnosed with SAD, but I have two sun lamps I use in my room at night, and that helps quite a bit when it's gray. I haven't had much of an issue with it this winter. Arizona would be my first pick if we were headed south again, especially the Tucson area where it's not quite as hot as Phoenix in the summer. It's a dry heat too, and the monsoon season in the summer can be nice if you like a good thunderstorm that dumps a bunch of rain, then leaves. That was my favorite time of year there .
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Post by SunnySmile on Feb 18, 2016 21:55:22 GMT
There is a place called Find Your Spot that gives you a questionaire to find the best place for you. My spot is Edenton, NC. 1" of snow per year! They will email you a list of your top 24 spots. I don't know how accurate it is, but it's fun to see what they come up with.
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Post by milocat on Feb 18, 2016 23:02:09 GMT
My aunt spends the winter in Arizona. 180 days to be exact! That's what Canadians are allowed before it gets all complicated tax wise. It makes a HUGE difference in her depression and SAD. We live pretty far north and typically have a lot of blue sky and sunshine days. Even though there is tons of snow and it lasts from as early as October to April there can be lots of blue sky. But the super short days are rough. This year has been El Nino warm but so gloomy. I find the spring extra depressing when the internet starts to bring me trees and flowers budding in February and March. We can't put plants out until after May long weekend. Ugg, I'm going to stop typing now I can feel it choking me, haha!
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Post by brookeq on Feb 19, 2016 1:20:29 GMT
When my husband retires, we will move to Florida. We love hot weather and sunshine. We live in southwest PA and average 59 sunny days a year. It's very depressing, and all my friends that moved here for work plan to leave as soon as they can. The lack of sunshine and so much gloomy weather really bothers many people. I wouldn't be surprised if many of my "neighbors" are still neighbors in Florida! We are also in SW Pa. I have been here for my entire life and so has my husband. The last few years the winters really depress him. He really wants to move. This past year or so it has gotten to me a bit. My whole family is here though and I struggle meeting people. he would leave in a heartbeat. (his family all moved a long time ago).
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Post by maryland on Feb 19, 2016 1:34:59 GMT
When my husband retires, we will move to Florida. We love hot weather and sunshine. We live in southwest PA and average 59 sunny days a year. It's very depressing, and all my friends that moved here for work plan to leave as soon as they can. The lack of sunshine and so much gloomy weather really bothers many people. I wouldn't be surprised if many of my "neighbors" are still neighbors in Florida! We are also in SW Pa. I have been here for my entire life and so has my husband. The last few years the winters really depress him. He really wants to move. This past year or so it has gotten to me a bit. My whole family is here though and I struggle meeting people. he would leave in a heartbeat. (his family all moved a long time ago). We had the opportunity to move to Atlanta a couple of years ago. But my kids were in 5th, 9th and 11th grades, and I really love our school and community. That was the only thing keeping me here, and it was a hard decision. If I could move my school district to the south, I would. I just want to keep my friends and our school. Our families are 4 and 5 hrs. away, so that didn't really affect our decision. It was sunny today, so it really helped. I can get so much done at home when it's sunny. And my husband too gets very depressed in the winter.
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Post by eleezybeth on Feb 19, 2016 2:02:38 GMT
My MIL/S-FIL visited some friends who were in Phoenix one November. They bought a house that weekend. Which is very weird for them, but they both noted they felt better just being there.
I grew up in a very sunny place. Blue skies 333 days a year! And I moved to 55 days a year. Did you hear my soul being sucked just reading that?? It was a very difficult transition. We did no sun for 11 years. I needed a break every winter. Had to go get some sun!!!
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Post by mochi on Feb 19, 2016 2:25:01 GMT
We moved from Michigan to Phoenix for work reasons. I love the always sunny days, it makes me feel 1000% better. I used to struggle with SAD and depression due to the endless gray winter days.
Yes, summers are hot, but we love them. I can honestly say there is nowhere else I'd rather live. Moving here was one of the best decisions we have ever made.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Feb 19, 2016 2:40:28 GMT
We moved from south Texas to northern PA and I have to mentally fight my way through the winter.
I have my sunlight night and vitamin D supplements!
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Post by peatlejuice on Feb 19, 2016 3:51:40 GMT
There is a place called Find Your Spot that gives you a questionaire to find the best place for you. My spot is Edenton, NC. 1" of snow per year! They will email you a list of your top 24 spots. I don't know how accurate it is, but it's fun to see what they come up with. So I took this quiz and my top results is the town I grew up in. I've lived here for 90+% of my life, so I'm either in the right spot or totally bought into Stockholm Syndrome!
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Post by seaexplore on Feb 19, 2016 4:03:22 GMT
For people wanting to move to CA. You need to know it's REALLY expensive to live here. Like over the top expensive! If you want to buy a home, plan to spend no less than $400k and get a fixer upper in the middle of nowhere. Seriously.
Granted the weather is awesome almost all year if you live in the Bay Area. You also pay dearly for that place. Most are over $900k and are still fixer uppers. I moved form the Bay Area when my DH and I met and will never be able to afford to go back. I'm in the Sierra foothills and it's hotter than hell in the summer (110 is not uncommon for several days at a stretch) and chilly but no snow in the winter. The only place I would ever consider leaving CA for is costal Oregon, I think the weather there is similar to Monterey where I went to college for 4 years.
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Post by lancermom on Feb 19, 2016 4:22:00 GMT
I live in MN and understand what you say. I only stay because f family. If I could I would move to southern IL. I lived there for four years and loved it. Winter came, but later not harsh and left early! If I could pack my bags now and go I would!
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Post by lesserknownpea on Feb 19, 2016 10:49:51 GMT
My dad has offered for me to stay with him in SoCal. I love being there, and totally would, but I have more grandchildren here in the pnw . AndDS and DIL I live with are expecting a baby girl in a couple months.
I was raised in LA and always feel great when I'm there. The winter here is so dreary and grey. Ugh.
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