The Bachelorette (spoilers below)

Wow I cannot believe he said that - I also can't believe she'd make love to him knowing she wasn't keeping him. 

There's the answer to the question many of us wonder. 

Wonder how Josh will take that. (I'm a bit behind watching)

I was shocked that he said it on live tv! Crazy!

I've never cared much for Nick but what he just said on live TV I dislike him that much more. And how awkward was he trying to talk to her. 

I hadn't deleted it yet so I just watched it. Wow. Andi seems ticked at him for saying it. I have no sympathy for her. If you don't want somebody to tell all, don't give them anything to talk about.

If they did I missed it as did a lot of others

 Wish I had a nickel for every time Nick said, ya' know? Suppose he was nervous but man, it was making me crazy. Not sure what exactly he wanted to know from her and apparently he didn't either. Awkward!
  I don't think they announced the new Bachelor, but I heard Chris say they would announce it at a later date, as he patted Chris on the shoulder and smiled.  But then again maybe it was just to throw us off. They like to manipulate us that way. 

I didn't feel sorry for Nick either. You know going in that you could go home the "loser". It was crappy of him to say that (i even sucked in my breath when he said it.) it proved to me he didn't really love her. If he truly loved her he wouldn't want to hurt her. It was below the belt as Andi said on the show. I am no Andi fan at all, but thought that was horrible of him. I honestly believe he did it to stir up trouble between her and Josh. Hopefully Josh already knew. If he didn't, and watched it live with the rest of us, it must mot have affected him like Nick was hoping, because he really seems to love Andi. I wish them the best.

I think that he needed an answer to that question and that's why he asked it. He tried to talk with her 3 times off camera (that we know of) and she refused to talk to him. This woman gave him the impression that she was in love with him and wanted a forever. If I were him, I would have wanted an answer to the question he asked too.

Was it inappropriate to ask in front of a live audience and a national viewing audience? Yes, it was. But he felt like he needed and deserved an answer to that question (and honestly, I do too) and this was his only opportunity to ask it.

On a funny note, I told DH about the drama of that happening on the show and how she said, "That was below the belt." and my dh said, "Actually, it sounds like she had HIM below the belt." He doesn't watch the show but I just thought that was so funny. +1 for DH.

Personally, I think if you don't want to admit to doing it, then don't do it.  He tried to talk to her several times before last night and she refused.  I think if he had had that opportunity, it would not have come out.  You could tell he was upset.  I don't think he was trying to be manipulative or vengeful at all.  He was just hurt and confused.  And honestly, if someone slept with me, I'd be confused too.  That just wasn't the right thing to do.

Seriously, what did she expect? She did NOT give him the chance to talk to her off-camera, even though he tried several times...she just refused. He had the right to an answer about her implied intentions and her behavior in the Fantasy Suite. SHE didn't want to answer off-camera and it was the ONLY chance he was ever going to get to find out an answer. I am NOT a Nick fan, (not a Jittery Josh fan either), but he did seem sincerely in love with her and she knew that when she slept with him. AND, she admits that she knew she was totally in love with Josh early on, so why sleep with Nick?

I don't think he is actually a stalker...he just wanted an answer. She didn't really give him one because she HAS NO ANSWER for her inappropriate behavior. You could actually tell he was struggling with asking her that, but he really wanted an answer.

Also, did time run out or are they still deciding on the next Bachelor?

I guess I will be the only one to say this but in today's world where 14 year olds are having sex on a school bus, is anyone really THAT shocked that they have sex in the fantasy suite? Really? I know some people still save themselves for marriage but the vast majority of people do not and have sex before hand. Some with MANY partners. Didn't sweet Marcus admit to over 20 sexual encounters? Not saying it's right or wrong, just saying it doesn't surprise me that they had sex. Heck, maybe she and Chris had sex too.

They were playing coy about the next Bachelor and Chris Harrison said we would find out later in the program last night. He lied.

I am not one of those no sex before marriage types.  I lived with my boyfriend for 3 years before we got married.  But I am teaching my kids that sex should be reserved for a loving, committed relationship.  I guess I'm not shocked that sex goes on in the fantasy suite, but I am a bit disgusted that sex with two guys in two nights was happening in the fantasy suite.  One guy at a time, IMO.  So, no, I'm not shocked, but neither should she be that he would bring it up.  Clearly for him, sex is something that is special and not to be shared with two guys two nights in a row.

I thought that comment was completely inappropriate.  Maybe it is the Southern girl in me, but there are things you don't talk about in public. 

He said at a later date.

I don't believe for ONE SECOND that it just "came out" or that he wasn't meaning anything malicious. I absolutely think that not only he meant to say it last night, but also that he planned that all along. If you recall he has been calculating all the while and has watched every bachelor season. He knows it was live and there was nothing they could do to stop him saying anything he wanted. And he wanted to put a rift between her and Josh. 

Oh I think he knew EXACTLY what he was doing.